confundida wrote: WHY SHOULD WE INCLUDE THEM??? FOR WAT.......IF WERE TRYING TO SHOW THE CHILD THAT WE CAN GET ALONG SO THAT WAY HE DOESNT GROW UP THAT MOM AND DAD HATE EACHOTHER WHY SHOULD WE INCLUDE OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS???
ohhhhhhhhhhh girl..................do you really want the answer to that one ! Because you can show him that Mom and dad can get along together with your +1 by your side specially if this +1 is meant to stay for good
Stop laughing and cursing me ! You know exactly what I am talking about here
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confundida wrote: WHY SHOULD WE INCLUDE THEM??? FOR WAT.......IF WERE TRYING TO SHOW THE CHILD THAT WE CAN GET ALONG SO THAT WAY HE DOESNT GROW UP THAT MOM AND DAD HATE EACHOTHER WHY SHOULD WE INCLUDE OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS???
I think you can show that to your child by the way you speak about his father... if lil man sees you together "getting along" he will question "why can't you just live together"???
I'm sure I would ask myself those questions, but then again, I had the fortune of growing up with my parents together...so I've never been in a situation like this....
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I don't see a point in doing that but if you did, you should include your significant other and/or your ex's significant other.
WHY SHOULD WE INCLUDE THEM??? FOR WAT.......IF WERE TRYING TO SHOW THE CHILD THAT WE CAN GET ALONG SO THAT WAY HE DOESNT GROW UP THAT MOM AND DAD HATE EACHOTHER WHY SHOULD WE INCLUDE OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS???
-- Edited by confundida at 13:16, 2006-11-10
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confundida wrote: McOSIRIS wrote: I think that lil man is too young to understand why his parents are not together anymore and a situation like this would confuse him even more... BUT WHY???
OK, the cutie leaves with you Confu and every other week or so spend few days / half a week over there, he KNOWS, maybe do not understand but knows that Mom and dad are not together !
you're lucky i don't really have the time here and that not all can be say in here if not you'll have the rest of us (yeah you know who I am talking about) already on you back !
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I think that lil man is too young to understand why his parents are not together anymore and a situation like this would confuse him even more...
BUT WHY???
OYE!!!! tomate un café y vuelve a leer el foro!!!!!
lil man is too young to understand why his parents are not together and if they're not together, why they're acting like they're together???? etc etc etc....
I ALREADY HAD MATE THK U VERY MUCH!!!
OK HERE IS A BIT MORE INFO FOR U LIL MAN KNOWS THAT HIS FATHER HAS A GFRIEND IN WHICH SHE IS VERY PRESENT IN HIS LIFE AND HE KNOWS THAT SHE IS DADDY GFRIEND.....
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I think that lil man is too young to understand why his parents are not together anymore and a situation like this would confuse him even more...
BUT WHY???
OYE!!!! tomate un café y vuelve a leer el foro!!!!!
lil man is too young to understand why his parents are not together and if they're not together, why they're acting like they're together???? etc etc etc....
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No no no, you're not serious ! I smell an INTERVENTION, perfect, i'll see you tonight !
I agree with God, I think that LIL MAN won't be confused, he well knows that you too are not together and that there is a +1 in daddy's life which is not you, so !!!!!!!!!!!
I understand what you're trying to say but honestly I don't see the bad in there and why he would be confused unless you too are showing otherwise !
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I think that lil man is too young to understand why his parents are not together anymore and a situation like this would confuse him even more...
No man...is better to tell them the truth than suggar coat it..you need to approach it very very very nicely, I would say that was one of the hardest things I ever done; to tell my guys why daddy is leaving.....and reassure them that They will be fine and you always will be there...NOT EASY !
You're not hubby and wifey any more but you still a parent and Parenting takes 2...
AIGHT GUYS HERE IS THE SITUATION (mostly goes to parents)
WHAT DO U THINK OF A FAMILY DATE MEANING ME LIL MAN AND HIS DAD GO OUT TOGETHER ONCE A MONTH TO DINNER OR A MOVIE OR WHATEVER.....
DO YOU THINK THIS WILL CONFUSE HIM?? OR WILL THIS SHOW HIM THAT NO MATTER WHAT MOM AND DAD ARE A TEAM AND REGARDLESS OF THERE DIFFERENCE THEY CAN BE CIVILIZED ENOUGH TO SPEND TIME TOGETHER FOR ME???
Regardless you differences between you and him..the lil ones Need both of us. Sometimes is good to put aside pride and issued and show them support, they need to feel secure and despite mom and dad are not together they always will be there for him.
AIGHT GUYS HERE IS THE SITUATION (mostly goes to parents)
WHAT DO U THINK OF A FAMILY DATE MEANING ME LIL MAN AND HIS DAD GO OUT TOGETHER ONCE A MONTH TO DINNER OR A MOVIE OR WHATEVER.....
DO YOU THINK THIS WILL CONFUSE HIM?? OR WILL THIS SHOW HIM THAT NO MATTER WHAT MOM AND DAD ARE A TEAM AND REGARDLESS OF THERE DIFFERENCE THEY CAN BE CIVILIZED ENOUGH TO SPEND TIME TOGETHER FOR ME???
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