in my personal point of view...i think its ok that u let urselves go...ur married for crying out loud..and have all these responsabilities going on....well if u have time to hit the gym..then props for u....
but peeps who not married and r tooo young....and letting themselves go....then thats something else...
Colombiana4Life wrote: I dont really think it has to do with reaching a certain "point" but more with your mentality and how you feel about yourself. It's true what Xavier said, a lot of people after they are married figure that they dont need to impress anyone anymore so why bother. Its not necessarily about looking good for others but for yourself. Also, when people are at bad points in their lives (e.g. depression, going thru bad relationships, etc), appearance seems to be the last thing you worry about. I think we should all feel comfortable in our own skin, and I know there are days where we just wanna "dress down" but obviously at the work place and social settings, one should always look presentable.
I agree with you, I don't think it has to do reaching a certain point, or getting older, because my abuelita, se sigue pintando la lady, so es la mentalidad nad how the person feels about themselves
well when ur married and older......its understandable ...cuz ur too busy with soo much stuff going on
but even people as young as me or even younger ........i look at them and im like faccccck how can they dress or not give a **** about how they look....???lol........
funny thing is that they may be over weight......dressing like ****......etc.....but they somehow tend to get girls or guys after them lol!!!!
NEVER! i like looking decent anytime, except for bed time...that's the only time i let myself go. Torroploca.
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I dont really think it has to do with reaching a certain "point" but more with your mentality and how you feel about yourself. It's true what Xavier said, a lot of people after they are married figure that they dont need to impress anyone anymore so why bother. Its not necessarily about looking good for others but for yourself. Also, when people are at bad points in their lives (e.g. depression, going thru bad relationships, etc), appearance seems to be the last thing you worry about. I think we should all feel comfortable in our own skin, and I know there are days where we just wanna "dress down" but obviously at the work place and social settings, one should always look presentable.
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from what i've seen, is when people get married......like u said they start thinking that they don't need to impress any1 anymore so, whatever......i agree with u 100%, people should dress more presentable to work, even if they don't have any1 to impress.
Hopefully none of you are at this point cause if so I'll just myself, but just looking at some people in my office it looks like they stopped. There are a few women here in the office who are only in their 30's and just seem to have let themselves go. I could be wrong because they may say "I have no one to impress at work", but I think some of these ladies should dress more presentable. We work at a call centre and the dress code is pretty casual, but I don't think it's appropriate to come to work in joggers and a t-shirt
I noticed most of the ones that let themselves go are married I hope I don't get to that stage anytime soon
myself, but just looking at some people in my office it looks like they stopped.
