......you found out that your significant other was cheating on you, but not with the opposite sex, but rather his/her own sex??
I was just reading someone's dilemma and this girl who is so in love with her boyfriend, just recently found out that he was cheating on her with his best male friend!
To answer my own question.... i would be so crushed, hurt and upset at the same time. First of all, i would be crushed that the man i love doesn't love me anymore, but instead loves another man. But i would be so upset because instead of cheating on me with a woman, he did it with a man. I guess i will never really know my true feelings about this unless i were to experience it. (i hope that never happens)
Obviously, I would be sad, destroyed, disappointed etc. However, I would be released to kick out from my life someone who doesn’t have the guts to face his real sexual orientation
......you found out that your significant other was cheating on you, but not with the opposite sex, but rather his/her own sex??
I WOULD DEFINITELY FEEL HURT KNOWING THAT I DIDN'T SATISFY HIM ENOUGH ... BUT AT THE SAME TIME I WOULD FEEL GLAD THAT AT LEAST HE CHEATED ON ME WITH A MAN AND NOT A WOMAN I CAN'T GIVE HIM WHAT A MAN CAN ...
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......you found out that your significant other was cheating on you, but not with the opposite sex, but rather his/her own sex??
I was just reading someone's dilemma and this girl who is so in love with her boyfriend, just recently found out that he was cheating on her with his best male friend!
To answer my own question.... i would be so crushed, hurt and upset at the same time. First of all, i would be crushed that the man i love doesn't love me anymore, but instead loves another man. But i would be so upset because instead of cheating on me with a woman, he did it with a man. I guess i will never really know my true feelings about this unless i were to experience it. (i hope that never happens)
TV Buff wrote: But wouldn't the woman's gaydar go off if you're in this situation? I truly believe in a woman's instinct, and deep down inside a woman would know or at least suspect, no?
i agree. there is nothing stronger than a woman's intuition. it's just a matter of listening to it so you don't get burned.
Men would never figure something like this out and if and when they do, they simple ask to join. Such simpletons...
devastated 'cause he cheated but even more devastated 'cause I'd think I turned him gay
MiMi only has 3 more posts.... USE THEM WELL MY FRIEND!
But wouldn't the woman's gaydar go off if you're in this situation? I truly believe in a woman's instinct, and deep down inside a woman would know or at least suspect, no?
Would you be more crushed if it were a woman instead of a man? or is it equal?
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......you found out that your significant other was cheating on you, but not with the opposite sex, but rather his/her own sex??
I was just reading someone's dilemma and this girl who is so in love with her boyfriend, just recently found out that he was cheating on her with his best male friend!
To answer my own question.... i would be so crushed, hurt and upset at the same time. First of all, i would be crushed that the man i love doesn't love me anymore, but instead loves another man. But i would be so upset because instead of cheating on me with a woman, he did it with a man. I guess i will never really know my true feelings about this unless i were to experience it. (i hope that never happens)
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If love is the answer, could you rephrase the question?
I'M GREEDY LIKE THAT!! 
I CAN'T GIVE HIM WHAT A MAN CAN ... 
cus he's going to get hurt. 
