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soloyo wrote:


I don't know you but this is just what i have learned through the years.


Don't change because you think that's what people want or are more attracted to.  Be true to yourself.  If you are a "tomboy" than let men love you for that and not for the anything else.  Love is about you and not the clothes that you wear or how short your skirt is.  You are essentially presenting another person if you do a 180.  If you change there will be a time when you are going to realize that you are not happy pretending to be "girlie" and you will come to have doubts about the person you are with.  You will begin to wonder if the person would still like the "real" you.   You may even resent them for liking the "new" you.  From what i understand from reading the above notes you have a child.  What message do you want him to get?  Change yourself to be loved or be true to yourself?  There is nothing wrong with being a "tomboy" or a "girlie" girl.  With any luck there will be someone out there for you to grow old with and if it doesn't happen right now, who cares at least you are happy and not worrying about what am i going to wear? or do blondes really have more fun?  And if it so happens that you are destined to be alone?  You have your child to love you and an entire lifetime to do things independently. 


I am sure there are times when it gets difficult to be alone especially if you have friends who are always dotting about the other halves but let me tell you one thing...



Mejor sola que mal acompañada... i truely believe that...



Do both (speed date and go on a blind) because what's the worst that can happen... you have a really good story to tell people if they are disasters and you will laugh it off after.


Best of luck!


 



Great Reply . . .


- Best Of Luck Confu -


Let Things Happen Naturally . . . You Don't Have To Change Yourself




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TODAY IS SHOE-LEE BDAY!!! HAPPY BDAY TO YOU..... I ADMIRE YOU AS A PERSON AND THE WAY YOU VIEW LIFE....THKS FOR THE LENDING HAND THAT U HAVE PROVIDED FROM THE BEGINNING OF OUR FRIENDSHIP BUT MOST OF ALL FOR MY CHOCOLATE FIX!!!


AIGHT THIS IS GOING TO BE MY BLOG.....


MY PREVIOUS POST WAS NOT THE FACT THAT I WANNA BE IN LOVE OR THE FACT THAT I NEED SOMEONE THAT COMES ALL IN DO TIME AND I AWARE OF IT FROM THE EXPERIENCES THAT I HAVE GONE THREW, AND THE PEOPLE THAT SURROUND ME AND TAKING THERE OWN EXPERIENCES INTO ACCOUNT.... LAST NIGHT WHILE I WAS SPEAKING TO SOMEONE ON MSN SHE HIT IT ON THE NOSE "YOU WANT TO BALANCE YOUR PERSONAL AND PROFFESIONAL LIFE" AND I THANK YOU FOR IT (YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE) AND THAT IT RIGHT NOW MY PROFESIONAL LIFE HAS TAKEN OVER MY PERSONAL LIFE..... I HAVE MADE SACRIFICES AND MADE CERTAIN ADJUSTMENTS IN MY LIFE FOR ME TO HAVE A FULFULLING LIFE....  MY PHYSICAL ASPECT I HAVE CHANGED FOR ME NOBODY ELSE.... YOU CAN SAY THAT YOU SHOULD TRY EVERYTHING IN LIFE ONCE AND TRYING TO BECOME A GIRLIE GIRL HAS GIVING ME MORE SELF CONFIDENCE....I DONT PLAN TO LEAVE MY TOMBOY BEHIND BUT TRY TO INCOPORATE THE GIRL IN ME MORE OFTEN.... BECOMING A GIRLIE GIRL HAS MADE ME BECOME MORE IN TUNE WITH MYSELF PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONAL AND I GUESS THAT WHERE ALL MY CONFUSION COMES IN BUT LIKE I SAY ILL TAKE IT DAY BY DAY AND WHEN THAT DAY COMES ILL MAKE A DECISION AND FACE HEAD ON.... THE MOST UNEXCEPTED CHANGE THAT I HAVE COME TO LATELY IS THE FACT THAT I DONT WANNA GET MARRIED.... I DONT WANNA FALL IN LOVE.... MY THEORY IS THAT MARRIAGE IS ONLY A PIECE OF PAPER IT DOES NOT MAKE A RELATIONSHIP AND ALL YOU HAVE TO SHOW FOR IT IS A STATUS AND A RING....EVERYTHING ELSE IS COMMUNICATION, TRUST AND BELIEVE THAT YOULL MAKE IT THREW THE GOOD AND BAD...AS FOR LOVE I CANT COMMENT ON IT I CAN ONLY SEE AND HEAR WHAT THE PEOPLE AROUND ME SAY AND I THANK YOU FOR SHOWING ME WHAT IT IS.....ONE THING IS CERTAIN LOVE IS NOT PERFECT IT HAS IT UPS AND DOWNS I SEE IT MORE LIKE A RIVER IT HAS IT HIGH POINTS AND IT LOW POINTS BUT YOU NEED THE BASIS OF A RELATION TO GET THREW EVERYTHING.....


AS FOR THE SPEED DATING AND BLIND DATE I JUST WANT TO TRY IT HEY YOU MIGHT AS WEEL TRY EVERYTHING OUT ONCE AND MOST OF YOU THAT KNOW ME KNOW THAT IM UP TO ANYTHING EVEN JUMPING WITH YOU OFF THE CLIFF......I DONT WANNA DO IT TO SEE IF MR.RIGHT IS SITTING THERE I WAS WANT TO DO IT FOR THE HELL OF IT SO I HAVE A CERTAIN STORY TO TELL....


LAST NIGHT I WAS WATING ZED TV (IM OBSESSED WITH THIS SHOW) AND THEY WERE SHOWING ABOUT THE UK..DID YOU KNOW THAT UK SPENDS MORE THAN 6 MILLION DOLLARS IN SURVAILLANCE CAMERA THEY HAVE THEM EVERYWHERE.  YOU CAN REQUEST TO THE CCTV A VIDEO OF YOU WALKING ALL OVER THE UK AND THEY CAN EVEN SEND YOU A VIDEO OF PLACES THAT YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO FILM OR TAKE PICS... BUT THEY FUNNY PART WAS THAT THE CRIME RATE IN UK IS RISING NOW THAT F*KED UP!!! SO NOW THAT MAKES ME THINK IS THAT VIOLATING YOUR RIGHT TO PRIVACY OR IS IT IN SOMEWAY MAKING THE CITY SAFE EVENTHOUGH THE CRIME RATE IS RISING.....I'LL RESEARCH IT AND GET BACK TO YOU....


GUYS DONT MIND ME IM IN MY WRITING MOOD LATELY, IS THERAPY IT MAKES ME WRITE ABOUT ANYTHING WITHOUT DISTURBANCE....


LO UNICO QUE SOY ORGULLOSA DE DECIR ES GRACIAS A LA GENTE QUE ME RODEA DIA TRAS DIA QUE ME HACE APRENDER DE TODO, AUNQUE TENGO UNA PARTE DE MI QUE SE SIENTE VACIA (DONT WORRY I KNOW WHY) ILL GET OVER IT AS SOON AS THE LONG WEEKEND IN OCT IS DONE.... GRAICAS POR SUS CARINOS, SUS CONSEJOS LA MANERA QUE ME HACEN APRENDER COSAS AUNQUE NO QUIERA Y LLENAR MY MENTE DE COSAS QUE NUNCA PENSE QUE PODRIA ALCANZAR. GRAICAS POR ENSENARMER SER MUJER,AMIGA, Y MADRE...


AIGHT IM GOING FOR A SMOKE I COULD REALLY USE IT......TTYL......



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AIGHT IM GOING TO WRITE A BLOG....YEA I KNOW YOU GUYS HATE READING BUT THERE CERTAIN THINGS RIGHT NOW THAT I RATHER HAVE AN OPINION FROM ANYONE ......


 


THIS LAST YEAR I HAVE MADE MANY CHANGES NOT ONLY PHYSICALLY BUT ALSO EMOTIONALLY.... I HAVE DECIDED TO BECOME A WOMAN AND LEAVE THE TOMBOY BEHIND.  MAN BECOMING A WOMAN IS HARD ALL THE CRAP THAT YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH UR HAIR, WAXING, EYEBROWS, LOOKING YOUR BEST ALL TIMES EVEN THOUGHT U MIGHT BE A WRECKED INSIDE BUT THAT I CAN DEAL WITH.  THE HARDEST PART THAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH RIGHT NOW IS THE EMOTIONAL SIDE.... IM NOT THE AVERAGE GIRL I'VE BEEN TOLD ONCE TOO MANY TIMES.... I TOO STRAIGHT UP, I THINK LIKE A GUY AND TELL YOU OFF IN A HEART BEAT IF I HAVE TO.... BUT THIS IS THE DIFFICULT PART HOW TO I GET IN TOUCH WITH THAT EMOTIONAL PART OF BECOMING A WOMAN?? LIKE I SEE GIRLS AND I ENVY THEM TO THE FACT THAT THEY GET ALL FLUSTERS TO THE FACT THAT THE GUY THAT THERE WITH SENT THEM A TXT OR SURPRISED THEM WITH A GIFT....MAN SOMETIMES I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE THAT FEELING...MAYBE ITS BECAUSE I FORGOT TO WHAT IT IS TO CARED OR MAYBE I HAVE GONE ENOUGH THREW HEARTACHE THAT I DONT WANNA GO THREW IT AGAIN...


I HAVE NEVER FELL IN LOVE ACCORDING TO MY MOM (SHE KNOWS ME BEST) BUT I WONDER WILL THERE BE A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL???


RECENTLY I HAVE RECIEVED A LETTER TELLING ME ABOUT THERE UNDYING LOVE FOR ME THEY WROTE ME THIS WHOLE VOW (I WILL POST IT IF U GUYS WANT) AND AT THE END IT SAID WOULD YOU MARRY ME?? THOSE 4 LETTERS HAVE STARTLED ME FROM HEAD TO TOE....LIKE WHY NOW? WHAT FOR?? HOW ABOUT MY DREAMS, EVERYTHING I HAVE ACCOMPLISHED AND EVERYTHING THAT I STILL WANNA DO... I KNOW THAT IM NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER BUT I THINK FOR NOW I'VE GOT ISSUES AND I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THEM....


SORRY TO POST THESE......




I don't know you but this is just what i have learned through the years.


Don't change because you think that's what people want or are more attracted to.  Be true to yourself.  If you are a "tomboy" than let men love you for that and not for the anything else.  Love is about you and not the clothes that you wear or how short your skirt is.  You are essentially presenting another person if you do a 180.  If you change there will be a time when you are going to realize that you are not happy pretending to be "girlie" and you will come to have doubts about the person you are with.  You will begin to wonder if the person would still like the "real" you.   You may even resent them for liking the "new" you.  From what i understand from reading the above notes you have a child.  What message do you want him to get?  Change yourself to be loved or be true to yourself?  There is nothing wrong with being a "tomboy" or a "girlie" girl.  With any luck there will be someone out there for you to grow old with and if it doesn't happen right now, who cares at least you are happy and not worrying about what am i going to wear? or do blondes really have more fun?  And if it so happens that you are destined to be alone?  You have your child to love you and an entire lifetime to do things independently. 


I am sure there are times when it gets difficult to be alone especially if you have friends who are always dotting about the other halves but let me tell you one thing...



Mejor sola que mal acompañada... i truely believe that...


Do both (speed date and go on a blind) because what's the worst that can happen... you have a really good story to tell people if they are disasters and you will laugh it off after.


Best of luck!


 



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Colombiana4Life wrote:

Girl, those letters were pretty powerful.  And I can understand your conflicting emotions.  But what is the rush for the relationship?  I know that you have not been in a "relationship relationship" for a while, but you shouldnt feel like you have to be in one.  Whether it be cause of age, financial situation, providing for your son, etc.  The day you decide to commit do it because it is coming from a good place, true love. Of course companionship and the other things I mentioned play a factor but without you being totally sure of your feelings, it may be another let down.  Take it from me girl.


Exactly! And the age issue should be the last of your worries. Look at Dogo, practically the Mathusalen of the foro, and he found love. You have plenty of time.



Excuse me!!!..but I'm the Mathusalem of the foro.  So old that I don't care about love any more..(except saturday nigths).  Anyways, Confu, we'll pray to San Antonio for a nice guy for you. One thing....Don't go to the caribbean for one ,cause chances are he'll live as soon as he comes here.

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confundida if your already experiencing or finding it tough to get hooked up with a guy then sure try it out while its there right.  who cares probalo si te gusta well ya veras no?  sino te sali and u get hooked up with a friend of McO y ya estuvo

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Colombiana4Life wrote:

Girl, those letters were pretty powerful.  And I can understand your conflicting emotions.  But what is the rush for the relationship?  I know that you have not been in a "relationship relationship" for a while, but you shouldnt feel like you have to be in one.  Whether it be cause of age, financial situation, providing for your son, etc.  The day you decide to commit do it because it is coming from a good place, true love. Of course companionship and the other things I mentioned play a factor but without you being totally sure of your feelings, it may be another let down.  Take it from me girl.


Exactly! And the age issue should be the last of your worries. Look at Dogo, practically the Mathusalen of the foro, and he found love. You have plenty of time.



LMAO.  Girl, I just spit my water all over my monitor.

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Colombiana4Life wrote:

Girl, those letters were pretty powerful.  And I can understand your conflicting emotions.  But what is the rush for the relationship?  I know that you have not been in a "relationship relationship" for a while, but you shouldnt feel like you have to be in one.  Whether it be cause of age, financial situation, providing for your son, etc.  The day you decide to commit do it because it is coming from a good place, true love. Of course companionship and the other things I mentioned play a factor but without you being totally sure of your feelings, it may be another let down.  Take it from me girl.


Exactly! And the age issue should be the last of your worries. Look at Dogo, practically the Mathusalen of the foro, and he found love. You have plenty of time.



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confundida wrote:


AIGHT IM GOING TO WRITE A BLOG....YEA I KNOW YOU GUYS HATE READING BUT THERE CERTAIN THINGS RIGHT NOW THAT I RATHER HAVE AN OPINION FROM ANYONE ......


 


THIS LAST YEAR I HAVE MADE MANY CHANGES NOT ONLY PHYSICALLY BUT ALSO EMOTIONALLY.... I HAVE DECIDED TO BECOME A WOMAN AND LEAVE THE TOMBOY BEHIND.  MAN BECOMING A WOMAN IS HARD ALL THE CRAP THAT YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH UR HAIR, WAXING, EYEBROWS, LOOKING YOUR BEST ALL TIMES EVEN THOUGHT U MIGHT BE A WRECKED INSIDE BUT THAT I CAN DEAL WITH.  THE HARDEST PART THAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH RIGHT NOW IS THE EMOTIONAL SIDE.... IM NOT THE AVERAGE GIRL I'VE BEEN TOLD ONCE TOO MANY TIMES.... I TOO STRAIGHT UP, I THINK LIKE A GUY AND TELL YOU OFF IN A HEART BEAT IF I HAVE TO.... BUT THIS IS THE DIFFICULT PART HOW TO I GET IN TOUCH WITH THAT EMOTIONAL PART OF BECOMING A WOMAN?? LIKE I SEE GIRLS AND I ENVY THEM TO THE FACT THAT THEY GET ALL FLUSTERS TO THE FACT THAT THE GUY THAT THERE WITH SENT THEM A TXT OR SURPRISED THEM WITH A GIFT....MAN SOMETIMES I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE THAT FEELING...MAYBE ITS BECAUSE I FORGOT TO WHAT IT IS TO CARED OR MAYBE I HAVE GONE ENOUGH THREW HEARTACHE THAT I DONT WANNA GO THREW IT AGAIN...


I HAVE NEVER FELL IN LOVE ACCORDING TO MY MOM (SHE KNOWS ME BEST) BUT I WONDER WILL THERE BE A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL???


RECENTLY I HAVE RECIEVED A LETTER TELLING ME ABOUT THERE UNDYING LOVE FOR ME THEY WROTE ME THIS WHOLE VOW (I WILL POST IT IF U GUYS WANT) AND AT THE END IT SAID WOULD YOU MARRY ME?? THOSE 4 LETTERS HAVE STARTLED ME FROM HEAD TO TOE....LIKE WHY NOW? WHAT FOR?? HOW ABOUT MY DREAMS, EVERYTHING I HAVE ACCOMPLISHED AND EVERYTHING THAT I STILL WANNA DO... I KNOW THAT IM NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER BUT I THINK FOR NOW I'VE GOT ISSUES AND I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THEM....


SORRY TO POST THESE......




 


Girl, those letters were pretty powerful.  And I can understand your conflicting emotions.  But what is the rush for the relationship?  I know that you have not been in a "relationship relationship" for a while, but you shouldnt feel like you have to be in one.  Whether it be cause of age, financial situation, providing for your son, etc.  The day you decide to commit do it because it is coming from a good place, true love. Of course companionship and the other things I mentioned play a factor but without you being totally sure of your feelings, it may be another let down.  Take it from me girl.



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Motown Junkie wrote:


SPEED DATING!!!! 


NEVER DO THE BLIND DATE THING!!!!  NNNNNNNNNEEEEVVVVVEEEERRRRR!!!!!!! 


CONFU, I CARE FOR YOU!!!!  STAY AWAY FROM BLIND DATES!!!!!!!!!!!! 




 I agree strongly.  I missed that foro karaoke reunion just to go on a blind date, and basically wasted my time.  I don't drink more than 2-3 beers,and she had like 8 plus another drink, and also around 10 smokes, and I don't smoke, and I only had latin rock in my car and she didn't like it at all. She wanted to hear the same old music. 


Anyways, I'll probably go for one of those speed dating things one of these days. ( I was a sucker and didn't hook up a girl while in college) When we are younger we tend to take love for granted I guess.


Oh! ,what the heck, I just wanna do what I gotto do,jijiji



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Confundida - I am curious about the situation you mentioned.  Someone wrote and proposed to you?  I am assuming you said no?   Was he not your boyfriend?  Was he not husband material?  Are you saying you don't want something serious and you just want to date people for now?






I'd reeeeeeally suggest you don't bring this up with confu, unless you have three days to spnd on the matter


(inside joke)





EVERYTIME I HAVE THIS CONVO WITH DOGO HE ENDS UP SMOKING A WHOLE PAKC OF SMOKES.....ITS A STRESSFUL SITUATION....


YES AT ONE POINT IN MY LIFE HE WAS A BFRIEND....


HUSBAND MATERIAL MAYBE I HAVENT SEEN HIM IN TWO YRS SO I COULDNT TELL YOU IF HE IS OR NOT....


NO I FINALLY ADMITTED TO MYSELF THAT I DESERVE TO BE SOMEONE CENTER OF ATTETION OR HAVE SOMEONE UNDIVIDED ATTENTION....


IM TIRED OF THIS OPEN DATING CRAP!!! ITS TIME FOR I TO START DATING ONE PERSON AND SEE WHERE IT GOES....I OWE THAT TO MYSELF.....


AND YOU GUYS TALK TO COLO TELL HER U CANT FIND ME!!!



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yes yes... midgets, we know.

you know me so well

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Quixote wrote:


Confundida - I am curious about the situation you mentioned.  Someone wrote and proposed to you?  I am assuming you said no?   Was he not your boyfriend?  Was he not husband material?  Are you saying you don't want something serious and you just want to date people for now?





I'd reeeeeeally suggest you don't bring this up with confu, unless you have three days to spnd on the matter


(inside joke)



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Confundida - I am curious about the situation you mentioned.  Someone wrote and proposed to you?  I am assuming you said no?   Was he not your boyfriend?  Was he not husband material?  Are you saying you don't want something serious and you just want to date people for now?


As for the speed dating vs. blind dates, I say try either or both.  Approach them as an opportunity to meet new people and keep your expectations know, don't think of it as possibly meeting Mr. Right.  If something romantic comes out of it then you will be all that more pleased.


 





Quixote makes total sense, I totally agree.  But I will talk to you later.



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confundida wrote:


SHOULD I TRY SPEED DATING????


 


OR LET MY FRIENDS SET ME UP ON A BLIND DATE????





I don't like blind dates
What's the point, if they can't SEE you?



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confundida wrote:


SHOULD I TRY SPEED DATING????


 


OR LET MY FRIENDS SET ME UP ON A BLIND DATE????



your friends know you and know the type of person you are and the type of man that you would be attracted to.... so it would make more sense for them to set you up with someone they think you would be compatible with. 

Speed dating seems like a cool experience, but I would rather be set up by my friends... they know me better.





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Confundida - I am curious about the situation you mentioned.  Someone wrote and proposed to you?  I am assuming you said no?   Was he not your boyfriend?  Was he not husband material?  Are you saying you don't want something serious and you just want to date people for now?


As for the speed dating vs. blind dates, I say try either or both.  Approach them as an opportunity to meet new people and keep your expectations low, don't think of it as possibly meeting Mr. Right.  If something romantic comes out of it then you will be all that more pleased.


 



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Have a friend introduce you to their brother in law

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God wrote:

hey confu...wanna go on a date with me...


ME AND U ON A DATE THAT WOULD BE CHAOS...


BUT I WOULD PROBLALY WOULD SO U CAN SHOW ME A COUPLE OF TRICKS......


 


I WAS CHKING A COUPLE OF SITE FOR SPEED DATING....ITS LIKE 50 BUCKS..... ANY SPONSORS??



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confundida wrote:


SHOULD I TRY SPEED DATING????


 


OR LET MY FRIENDS SET ME UP ON A BLIND DATE????



your friends know you and know the type of person you are and the type of man that you would be attracted to.... so it would make more sense for them to set you up with someone they think you would be compatible with. 

Speed dating seems like a cool experience, but I would rather be set up by my friends... they know me better.



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hey confu...wanna go on a date with me...

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hey confu.. i say you give speed dating a try but don't go with the "I'm have to find someone here" mentality... Think of it as a girl's night out and have a good time.  There are tons of single's events throughout the city.  Go to a bunch of them with some gfs and have a great time.  If you hook up with someone, that's awesome... if not, then at least you had a wicked night!



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Girl.....don't give up your dreams ! That doesn't mean that you can't realize them with somebody walking along the same path, joining you during this journee.


I don't know if you've been in love or no before..........I think you were, you said it yourself. But as someone told me ...hummm.... 2 days ago,lol, it will just show up around the corner once you less expect it. Rings a bell to you ? Good !


As for becoming a woman ? what do you think you are, it's part of the process anyway. You have been through things that none of us have experienced yet and of course, te construiste tu caparazon.....breaking it is the hard part. But if you want to give you and others a chance, you have too.


Get hurt, desappointed, etc.. ? Yes, you will and so waht, you'll do like the rest of us........stand up and go on.


So lets start this process :w00:


 


Psssst, guys, guys...........it means more dresses, skirts, heels, make up and all those things. You might not even recognize her when she'll be walking by you in the street


 



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OMG!! DO NOT GO ON BLIND DATES!!!!!!!!! IT COULD TURN OUT BAD IN THE END!


Not too long ago i went on a lunch date and OMG he was so not my type. But then again, i only went cause for some stupid reason i said yes!(I actually want to be single for a very long time)  Long funny story on how we got set up! Heehee. Anyhoo, i was so bored out of my mind that i needed to get out. So i ate fast, went to the washroom to think of ideas. Came back, he paid and i still couldn't think of an excuse. So we started walking around Yorkdale mall and THANK THE LORD my phone rang. Out of all days, my phone rang only once and it happened to ring like 2 hrs into the date Anyhoo, i said i got a call from home and i had to leave. Ya i know, what a lame excuse...but it was the only thing i could think of!


That was the first and last blind date and it went all wrong! He did have a NICE car though! But not enough to convince me



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confundida wrote:


SHOULD I TRY SPEED DATING????


 


OR LET MY FRIENDS SET ME UP ON A BLIND DATE????



LoL u should try speed dating

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confundida wrote:

THKS FOR THE CONFIDNECE!!!!

lower ur cleavage a little more and I would be able to help you....

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SWEET?? YUCKY!! UUUGHH.......FIND ME?? SORRY IM WILLING TO CHANGE CERTAIN THINGS NOT EVERYTHING AND KE TE IS TO STAY!!!!

u r a lost case...

THKS FOR THE CONFIDNECE!!!!

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SWEET?? YUCKY!! UUUGHH.......FIND ME?? SORRY IM WILLING TO CHANGE CERTAIN THINGS NOT EVERYTHING AND KE TE IS TO STAY!!!!

u r a lost case...

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confundida wrote:

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Confu ur so sweet!!!


I'm gonna try to find you a good man, but you have to promise me that you are gonna treat him right....nada de KETES o weás asi ok???



SWEET?? YUCKY!! UUUGHH.......FIND ME?? SORRY IM WILLING TO CHANGE CERTAIN THINGS NOT EVERYTHING AND KE TE IS TO STAY!!!!



If he does try to find you a man, remember to fwd him the list of requirements....

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Confu ur so sweet!!!


I'm gonna try to find you a good man, but you have to promise me that you are gonna treat him right....nada de KETES o weás asi ok???



SWEET?? YUCKY!! UUUGHH.......FIND ME?? SORRY IM WILLING TO CHANGE CERTAIN THINGS NOT EVERYTHING AND KE TE IS TO STAY!!!!

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AIGHT IM GOING TO WRITE A BLOG....YEA I KNOW YOU GUYS HATE READING BUT THERE CERTAIN THINGS RIGHT NOW THAT I RATHER HAVE AN OPINION FROM ANYONE ......


 


THIS LAST YEAR I HAVE MADE MANY CHANGES PHYSICALLY I HAVE DECIDED TO BECOME A WOMAN




I knew you were a shemale ! I knew it !

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Confu ur so sweet!!!


I'm gonna try to find you a good man, but you have to promise me that you are gonna treat him right....nada de KETES o weás asi ok???



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Hello,


has anyone actually tried speed dating? I wonder if it works? Well if you do it Confu...come back with details..that would be interesting.....what does it entail though you talk to each other for a period of what 30 seconds and then the bell rings and the next guy/girl comes???? thats crazy...



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confundida wrote:



SHOULD I TRY SPEED DATING????



 



OR LET MY FRIENDS SET ME UP ON A BLIND DATE????







Try here



 


LOL......U WNAT TO SEND ME TO INDIA??



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AIGHT IM GOING TO WRITE A BLOG....YEA I KNOW YOU GUYS HATE READING BUT THERE CERTAIN THINGS RIGHT NOW THAT I RATHER HAVE AN OPINION FROM ANYONE ......


 


THIS LAST YEAR I HAVE MADE MANY CHANGES NOT ONLY PHYSICALLY BUT ALSO EMOTIONALLY.... I HAVE DECIDED TO BECOME A WOMAN AND LEAVE THE TOMBOY BEHIND.  MAN BECOMING A WOMAN IS HARD ALL THE CRAP THAT YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH UR HAIR, WAXING, EYEBROWS, LOOKING YOUR BEST ALL TIMES EVEN THOUGHT U MIGHT BE A WRECKED INSIDE BUT THAT I CAN DEAL WITH.  THE HARDEST PART THAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH RIGHT NOW IS THE EMOTIONAL SIDE.... IM NOT THE AVERAGE GIRL I'VE BEEN TOLD ONCE TOO MANY TIMES.... I TOO STRAIGHT UP, I THINK LIKE A GUY AND TELL YOU OFF IN A HEART BEAT IF I HAVE TO.... BUT THIS IS THE DIFFICULT PART HOW TO I GET IN TOUCH WITH THAT EMOTIONAL PART OF BECOMING A WOMAN?? LIKE I SEE GIRLS AND I ENVY THEM TO THE FACT THAT THEY GET ALL FLUSTERS TO THE FACT THAT THE GUY THAT THERE WITH SENT THEM A TXT OR SURPRISED THEM WITH A GIFT....MAN SOMETIMES I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE THAT FEELING...MAYBE ITS BECAUSE I FORGOT TO WHAT IT IS TO CARED OR MAYBE I HAVE GONE ENOUGH THREW HEARTACHE THAT I DONT WANNA GO THREW IT AGAIN...


I HAVE NEVER FELL IN LOVE ACCORDING TO MY MOM (SHE KNOWS ME BEST) BUT I WONDER WILL THERE BE A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL???


RECENTLY I HAVE RECIEVED A LETTER TELLING ME ABOUT THERE UNDYING LOVE FOR ME THEY WROTE ME THIS WHOLE VOW (I WILL POST IT IF U GUYS WANT) AND AT THE END IT SAID WOULD YOU MARRY ME?? THOSE 4 LETTERS HAVE STARTLED ME FROM HEAD TO TOE....LIKE WHY NOW? WHAT FOR?? HOW ABOUT MY DREAMS, EVERYTHING I HAVE ACCOMPLISHED AND EVERYTHING THAT I STILL WANNA DO... I KNOW THAT IM NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER BUT I THINK FOR NOW I'VE GOT ISSUES AND I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THEM....


SORRY TO POST THESE......



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SPEED DATING!!!! 


NEVER DO THE BLIND DATE THING!!!!  NNNNNNNNNEEEEVVVVVEEEERRRRR!!!!!!! 


CONFU, I CARE FOR YOU!!!!  STAY AWAY FROM BLIND DATES!!!!!!!!!!!! 



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Try speed dating and if u want I can go with u,. i m to chicken to go by myself,. and if it doesn't work,. let ur friend to set u up in a blind date,..

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confundida wrote:

SHOULD I TRY SPEED DATING????


 


OR LET MY FRIENDS SET ME UP ON A BLIND DATE????




Try here

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OMG, so it's official ?


Oups....maybe i should check my pm's before getting Ke Ted ......... will be back



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SHOULD I TRY SPEED DATING????


 


OR LET MY FRIENDS SET ME UP ON A BLIND DATE????



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