Wedding Anniversary... The Countdown

TV Buff · TOP Guru

RE: Wedding Anniversary... The Countdown

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

Phale.. dale Chale.. good times...

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY BUFFERS!!!!

Mr. Buffer's just needed some time to find the right words... he needed some time to let it proces through his mind and find how to express his emotions...

DEAR JEBUS! The man forgot! My hubby is the same way... MEH, but we still love them!

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

TV Buff wrote:

Hey, speaking of, whatever happened to Chanta and Phale? Did they ever hook up? Is he forgetting anniversaries also?

hey, hey... lets not lose sight of the topic at hand my dear.... no changing of topics.

Btw, Phale sounds like a dirty word

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Chale Tanga wrote:

Phantasma wrote:

The romance lies not in the motivation but in the delivery...

poor Mrs. Phantasma

Hey, speaking of, whatever happened to Chanta and Phale? Did they ever hook up? Is he forgetting anniversaries also?

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

Phantasma wrote:

The romance lies not in the motivation but in the delivery...

poor Mrs. Phantasma

Phantasma · TOP Guru

TV Buff wrote:

Phantasma wrote:

Oh, you're such a romantic, Phanta! Lucky the girl who ends up with you...

The romance lies not in the motivation but in the delivery...

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

TV Buff wrote:

Phantasma wrote:

Every cellphone made in the last 5 years has had a calendar in it, all you gotta do is program the date in there and set an alarm a day before to remind yourself to go pick up some crappy gift... errr I mean a beautiful token of your love...

Oh, you're such a romantic, Phanta! Lucky the girl who ends up with you...

@ God: I'm such a girl, it's sickening. I hate myself for it, but I can't help it.

BTW, all is well in Buffyland... I just came back from the second best thing to alcohol for drowning sorrows: Shopping!!! And hubby'd sent an e-mail (a very sweet e-mail). And I'm not needy in the sense that I need gifts, I just wanted to know he remembered. So I'm now...

I know, it's annoying and obnoxious to be a woman and care about these things, but we do (or at least I do). So for all of you married, recently-married (JC, Duro), about-to-be-married guys out there, a simple warning: DO NOT FORGET ANNIVERSARIES!!!

Yes ma'am

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Phantasma wrote:

Every cellphone made in the last 5 years has had a calendar in it, all you gotta do is program the date in there and set an alarm a day before to remind yourself to go pick up some crappy gift... errr I mean a beautiful token of your love...

Oh, you're such a romantic, Phanta! Lucky the girl who ends up with you...

@ God: I'm such a girl, it's sickening. I hate myself for it, but I can't help it.

BTW, all is well in Buffyland... I just came back from the second best thing to alcohol for drowning sorrows: Shopping!!! And hubby'd sent an e-mail (a very sweet e-mail). And I'm not needy in the sense that I need gifts, I just wanted to know he remembered. So I'm now...

I know, it's annoying and obnoxious to be a woman and care about these things, but we do (or at least I do). So for all of you married, recently-married (JC, Duro), about-to-be-married guys out there, a simple warning: DO NOT FORGET ANNIVERSARIES!!!

Phantasma · TOP Guru

o yeah... btw

Happy Aniversary buffer!

Phantasma · TOP Guru

Every cellphone made in the last 5 years has had a calendar in it, all you gotta do is program the date in there and set an alarm a day before to remind yourself to go pick up some crappy gift... errr I mean a beautiful token of your love...

God · Foro Master

I hate needy women !

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Quixote wrote:

There is no prerequisite that says he has to wish you a happy anniversary first thing in the morning. Perhaps he is planning something special later on?

I just talked to him right now...

He went on and on and on and on about some work-related crap and COMPLETELY FORGOT ABOUT OUR ANNIVERSARY!!! I'm no longer but

I need to go have me some rum for lunch to drown my sorrows...

Now I'm not doing anything special for our anniversary...

Quixote · Guru

There is no prerequisite that says he has to wish you a happy anniversary first thing in the morning. Perhaps he is planning something special later on?

By the way, what special thing are you doing for him or giving him to celebrate your anniversary?

TV Buff · TOP Guru

GENIE wrote:

OH BUFFY MAYBE HES PERTENDING TO FORGET AND HAS A BIG SURPRISE FOR YOU AT HOME!!! WITH THE RUGRATS! SO LOOK AT IT AS A CRAZY MASTERMIND PLAN!!

LOL AS FOR ANNIVERSARIES IT SHOULD BE CELEBRATED BUT IT SUCKS WHEN U FORGET! I FORGET ALWAYS ACTUALLY MORE LIKE I GOT THE DATES CONFUSED! TILL THIS DAY I HAVENT LIVED IT DOWN! ORALE HAS SUCH A GOOD MEMEORY

T-R-U-S-T ME when I tell you that's just not the case... That's not hubby AT A-L-L!!!

I'm like Orale... I always remember EVERYONE'S bithdays. My sister even asks me all the time, 'cause she never remembers her own kids' birthdays or how old they are...

OH, and BTW, it's 5 hours and counting... Somebody's gonna get a hurt...

-- Edited by TV Buff at 10:53, 2006-08-31

GENIE · Foro Master

OH BUFFY MAYBE HES PERTENDING TO FORGET AND HAS A BIG SURPRISE FOR YOU AT HOME!!! WITH THE RUGRATS! SO LOOK AT IT AS A CRAZY MASTERMIND PLAN!!

LOL AS FOR ANNIVERSARIES IT SHOULD BE CELEBRATED BUT IT SUCKS WHEN U FORGET! I FORGET ALWAYS ACTUALLY MORE LIKE I GOT THE DATES CONFUSED! TILL THIS DAY I HAVENT LIVED IT DOWN! ORALE HAS SUCH A GOOD MEMEORY

Dogo · Comandante

LaDyBuG wrote:

Julie wrote:

Dogo wrote:

Dogo wrote:

@ Boofy: ummmmmm... maybe 'cause he's on 3 hours sleep?

PS.... besides, with only 3 hours sleep it looks like you guys already did plenty "celebrating".... haaa? ehhhh?!! you devil, you

Can someone translate in Argentinian for our Dogo please ??? Not that slept for 3 hours, they've been "awake and functioning for 3 (count them, THREE) hours" !

Ok ...I'll do it...

La shoe-lee dice que vos sos un tarado.....que no te fijaste que la buffy dijo que estaban despiertos por 3 horas no que durmieron por solo 3.....

oh...I get it now. So they've been celebrating for 3 hours?

-- Edited by Dogo at 09:53, 2006-08-31

LaDyBuG · Comandante

TV Buff wrote:

LaDyBuG wrote:

@ Buffy

What are you trying to register?

www.husbandswhoforgetanniversaries.com

Yeah, that one would get hits in the thousands (or even millions)!!!

Yep...but just until a husband decides to register:

www.wiveswhonaghusbandsaboutanniversaries.net

That one would get even more hits....

TV Buff · TOP Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

@ Buffy

What are you trying to register?

www.husbandswhoforgetanniversaries.com

Yeah, that one would get hits in the thousands (or even millions)!!!

Julie · Comandante

@ Buffy...........Cookies b-day is next

@ LB... grashia , lol, no sabia that you knew this one !

-- Edited by Julie at 09:25, 2006-08-31

LaDyBuG · Comandante

@ Buffy

What are you trying to register?

www.husbandswhoforgetanniversaries.com

TV Buff · TOP Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

What you're saying, realistically makes a lot of sense.....I guess I didn't see it that way.

I know it might be inevitable.....but that's the problem with married couple somtimes.....they don't "date"......at least if it's once a month, they need a couple's night out.....make the time for yourselves....

Admit it Buffy...............you just want a gift!!! ke chocolates ni ke nada....lol

Actually I'm not even the chocolate/roses/jewelry type of gal (I'd prefer to get, I don't know, a domain name registration... ) but in this case it's the thought that counts. And we DO do date... we do things as a couple, but like I said, I'm a real sucker when it comes to important dates. They're really, really meaningful to me, and I'm the type of person who will go out of my way to make it meaningful to them. But it's just the type of people some people are, it's not that important to them, I guess.

3 and half hours and counting...

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Julie wrote:

Dogo wrote:

Dogo wrote:

@ Boofy: ummmmmm... maybe 'cause he's on 3 hours sleep?

PS.... besides, with only 3 hours sleep it looks like you guys already did plenty "celebrating".... haaa? ehhhh?!! you devil, you

Can someone translate in Argentinian for our Dogo please ??? Not that slept for 3 hours, they've been "awake and functioning for 3 (count them, THREE) hours" !

Ok ...I'll do it...

La shoe-lee dice que vos sos un tarado.....que no te fijaste que la buffy dijo que estaban despiertos por 3 horas no que durmieron por solo 3.....

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Julie wrote:

Dogo wrote:

Dogo wrote:

@ Boofy: ummmmmm... maybe 'cause he's on 3 hours sleep?

PS.... besides, with only 3 hours sleep it looks like you guys already did plenty "celebrating".... haaa? ehhhh?!! you devil, you

Can someone translate in Argentinian for our Dogo please ??? Not that slept for 3 hours, they've been "awake and functioning for 3 (count them, THREE) hours" !

Thanks, Julieta. I was about to tomatear al Dogo. It's that Danny influence, I tells ya...

Julie · Comandante

Dogo wrote:

Dogo wrote:

@ Boofy: ummmmmm... maybe 'cause he's on 3 hours sleep?

PS.... besides, with only 3 hours sleep it looks like you guys already did plenty "celebrating".... haaa? ehhhh?!! you devil, you

Can someone translate in Argentinian for our Dogo please ??? Not that slept for 3 hours, they've been "awake and functioning for 3 (count them, THREE) hours" !

Dogo · Comandante

Dogo wrote:

@ Boofy: ummmmmm... maybe 'cause he's on 3 hours sleep?

PS.... besides, with only 3 hours sleep it looks like you guys already did plenty "celebrating".... haaa? ehhhh?!! you devil, you

Julie · Comandante

TV Buff wrote:

LaDyBuG wrote:

Ok....so I might be alone on this....but I really don't think that anniversaries are important.....then again, I've never been married......but even if I was....I don't think I would care so much about it......

I want the all year romance, thoughtfulness and love.....not the "forced" (literally) once a year gesture......because I'm sure that's how men feel.....IF they did remember, it would not be a "forced" situation......it would be sweet, sincere, romantic.....etc....

I think women make a big deal out of this particular ocassion.

Birthdays should be the only "big deal" events......everything else is religious or federal! Birthday rocks

:gaspinginhorror: Forget anniversaries! How can you say that, LB? Vaya a lavarse la boca con jabón!!! The sacrilege!!! The horror!!!

When will you get taken out for dinner, then? When will you get chocolates? Flowers? Listen, after you've been married for a long time, any celebration you get is a plus. You look forward to them. There's very little "couple" quality time for romance, so these dates are the most important and memorable, or they become that, eventually. Plus I'm a sucker for celebrations. Maybe it's just me.

I agree with LB, the celebration should be all year long. I remember tell mi ex that I rather have a nice surprise out of the blue :norosesplease: that the ovious on a "special occasion"

But I know that Buffy do have a point, specially when you have kids. I don't think it's because the couple is not trying to get that romantic time apart from the rest, but they are so many obligations that it is not always possible.

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Oooops.....

Earlier I meant to say.,...

Chocolates, schmocolates....lol

Dogo · Comandante

Yesi wrote:

Hi Buffy,

Not all men are like this, My fiance and I have been together for more than 10 years and he still remembers every time. SOmetimes I forget and he reminds me this is embaracing to admit but it is the truth.

Anyway just wait your hubby will remember or maybe he has a surprise for you

Yesi

After 10 anniversaries, I'd remember TOO!

@ Boofy: ummmmmm... maybe 'cause he's on 3 hours sleep?

LaDyBuG · Comandante

TV Buff wrote:

:gaspinginhorror: Forget anniversaries! How can you say that, LB? Vaya a lavarse la boca con jabón!!! The sacrilege!!! The horror!!!

When will you get taken out for dinner, then? When will you get chocolates? Flowers? Listen, after you've been married for a long time, any celebration you get is a plus. You look forward to them. There's very little "couple" quality time for romance, so these dates are the most important and memorable, or they become that, eventually. Plus I'm a sucker for celebrations. Maybe it's just me.

What you're saying, realistically makes a lot of sense.....I guess I didn't see it that way.

I know it might be inevitable.....but that's the problem with married couple somtimes.....they don't "date"......at least if it's once a month, they need a couple's night out.....make the time for yourselves....

Admit it Buffy...............you just want a gift!!! ke chocolates ni ke nada....lol

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Yesi wrote:

Hi Buffy,

Not all men are like this, My fiance and I have been together for more than 10 years and he still remembers every time. SOmetimes I forget and he reminds me this is embaracing to admit but it is the truth.

Anyway just wait your hubby will remember or maybe he has a surprise for you

Yesi

He usually does... he doesn't really go all out (he's not that kind of guy) but he remembers, that's why I'm kinda surprised he hasn't said anything.

Julie · Comandante

LaDyBuG wrote:

There are men out there who ACTUALLY remember and go out of their way to be extra romantic.....each and every year for every ocassion......those men are either really in love or really care for their S/O......That's for sure ! Do you know one of them ? I mean a single one, of course ? Please share it, don't be so selfish

Not to say that the ones who don't remember don't care.....but it's sure coming across that way no? Well, I think that in a certain way they don't. Like....ohhh, now that she's here , there is no reason to make an effort, or something like that.

:stopthinkinglikeme,wasIbornintherightcountry:

Dogo · Comandante

Bah! anniversaries shmanniversaries

TV Buff · TOP Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

Ok....so I might be alone on this....but I really don't think that anniversaries are important.....then again, I've never been married......but even if I was....I don't think I would care so much about it......

I want the all year romance, thoughtfulness and love.....not the "forced" (literally) once a year gesture......because I'm sure that's how men feel.....IF they did remember, it would not be a "forced" situation......it would be sweet, sincere, romantic.....etc....

I think women make a big deal out of this particular ocassion.

Birthdays should be the only "big deal" events......everything else is religious or federal!

:gaspinginhorror: Forget anniversaries! How can you say that, LB? Vaya a lavarse la boca con jabón!!! The sacrilege!!! The horror!!!

When will you get taken out for dinner, then? When will you get chocolates? Flowers? Listen, after you've been married for a long time, any celebration you get is a plus. You look forward to them. There's very little "couple" quality time for romance, so these dates are the most important and memorable, or they become that, eventually. Plus I'm a sucker for celebrations. Maybe it's just me.

Yesi · Guru

Hi Buffy,

Not all men are like this, My fiance and I have been together for more than 10 years and he still remembers every time. SOmetimes I forget and he reminds me this is embaracing to admit but it is the truth.

Anyway just wait your hubby will remember or maybe he has a surprise for you

Yesi

Julie · Comandante

TV Buff wrote:

This is for your man...
This is for all men who forget...

I'll hold hubby's tomatoes for just a little longer...

I am sure that if you go to the wholesalers, they'll givbe you a great price for the buy of few pallets of tomatoes

.....................can I help, please please

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Julie wrote:

Because they are MEN ! I know it is not an excuse but they will never change.

Listen, I've been with the same person for the lognest time and he could never remember my b-day and i know for a fact that it was my best g/f that had to remind him out wedding anniversairy.............I think it was a sign !

There are men out there who ACTUALLY remember and go out of their way to be extra romantic.....each and every year for every ocassion......those men are either really in love or really care for their S/O......

Not to say that the ones who don't remember don't care.....but it's sure coming across that way no?

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Julie wrote:

Because they are MEN ! I know it is not an excuse but they will never change.

Listen, I've been with the same person for the lognest time and he could never remember my b-day and i know for a fact that it was my best g/f that had to remind him out wedding anniversairy.............I think it was a sign !

This is for your man...

This is for all men who forget...

I'll hold hubby's tomatoes for just a little longer...

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Ok....so I might be alone on this....but I really don't think that anniversaries are important.....then again, I've never been married......but even if I was....I don't think I would care so much about it......

I want the all year romance, thoughtfulness and love.....not the "forced" (literally) once a year gesture......because I'm sure that's how men feel.....IF they did remember, it would not be a "forced" situation......it would be sweet, sincere, romantic.....etc....

I think women make a big deal out of this particular ocassion.

Birthdays should be the only "big deal" events......everything else is religious or federal!

Yesi · Guru

TV Buff wrote:

True Story: So today is our wedding anniversary (hubby and mine, that is) and technically, both of us have been awake and functioning for 3 (count them, THREE) hours. He was barely awake by the time I left the house, so we only had time to say "bye", which I don't even think he heard, so I can't hold him responsible for that one.

He still hasn't called, so I'm sure he's forgotten. I'll keep counting the hours until he remembers.

Why is it that men forget these things??? Why aren't birthdays, anniversaries and the like as memorable and significant for them as they are for us???

Happy Anniversary girl.

I know what you mean, I don't understand why men are like this. Men please aswer this question.

Yesi

Julie · Comandante

Because they are MEN ! I know it is not an excuse but they will never change.

Listen, I've been with the same person for the lognest time and he could never remember my b-day and i know for a fact that it was my best g/f that had to remind him out wedding anniversairy.............I think it was a sign !

TV Buff · TOP Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

Are you posting this so he reads it? LOL
BTW: HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MR. & MRS BUFFY

No, that would be helping him... He can't read this at work. I'm just ranting.

Thanks, LB.

LaDyBuG · Comandante

TV Buff wrote:

True Story: So today is our wedding anniversary (hubby and mine, that is) and technically, both of us have been awake and functioning for 3 (count them, THREE) hours. He was barely awake by the time I left the house, so we only had time to say "bye", which I don't even think he heard, so I can't hold him responsible for that one.

He still hasn't called, so I'm sure he's forgotten. I'll keep counting the hours until he remembers.

Why is it that men forget these things??? Why aren't birthdays, anniversaries and the like as memorable and significant for them as they are for us???

Are you posting this so he reads it? LOL

BTW: HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MR. & MRS BUFFY

TV Buff · TOP Guru

True Story: So today is our wedding anniversary (hubby and mine, that is) and technically, both of us have been awake and functioning for 3 (count them, THREE) hours. He was barely awake by the time I left the house, so we only had time to say "bye", which I don't even think he heard, so I can't hold him responsible for that one.

He still hasn't called, so I'm sure he's forgotten. I'll keep counting the hours until he remembers.

Why is it that men forget these things??? Why aren't birthdays, anniversaries and the like as memorable and significant for them as they are for us???