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Ok so let me ask you guys this.  If you knew that one of your boyfriend/girlfriend's friend did this type of thing, and somehow you felt that this person had the intention of going after your other half, how would you handle it?  What would you do?


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Ok so let me ask you guys this.  If you knew that one of your boyfriend/girlfriend's friend did this type of thing, and somehow you felt that this person had the intention of going after your other half, how would you handle it?  What would you do?

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I think that in any type of relationship you need TWO ppl,. so if you as man/woman know that X person is taken why would you go after them and if you do,. the other person should respect the realtionshiop that he/she is in ,. and not going after the first man/woman who cross their path ,..in this type of situation you are not taking another persons' man/woman,. if you show interest you are waiting for a respond,. if you don't get any it ends up there,. but if you do,. both persons are equaly guilty,.




Sooooo true.

Its takes two. If either is willing to be 'stolen away' then the relationship wasnt that solid to begin with. But also remember, karma's a big time biatch... so what goes around comes around. Dont be surprised if somene steals that same person from you.

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I think that in any type of relationship you need TWO ppl,. so if you as man/woman know that X person is taken why would you go after them and if you do,. the other person should respect the realtionshiop that he/she is in ,. and not going after the first man/woman who cross their path ,..in this type of situation you are not taking another persons' man/woman,. if you show interest you are waiting for a respond,. if you don't get any it ends up there,. but if you do,. both persons are equaly guilty,.


Very true and well said. 

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what happens when one person finds out the the other is still in a relationship???  Then the guilty party denies it?  Do you believe them?  If you do and still stick around are you as guilty of it as they are???




If you actually FIND OUT, for a fact, that they are in a relationship.... why would you believe them if THEY say they aren't?




Girls are blind when it comes to these things... the smarter they are the harder the fall..  Some guys just know how to sweet talk themselves out of a situation.  I agree with you.  Just like people who break up just to go out again and again..

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what happens when one person finds out the the other is still in a relationship???  Then the guilty party denies it?  Do you believe them?  If you do and still stick around are you as guilty of it as they are???



If you actually FIND OUT, for a fact, that they are in a relationship.... why would you believe them if THEY say they aren't?



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what happens when one person finds out the the other is still in a relationship???  Then the guilty party denies it?  Do you believe them?  If you do and still stick around are you as guilty of it as they are???

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I think that in any type of relationship you need TWO ppl,. so if you as man/woman know that X person is taken why would you go after them and if you do,. the other person should respect the realtionshiop that he/she is in ,. and not going after the first man/woman who cross their path ,..in this type of situation you are not taking another persons' man/woman,. if you show interest you are waiting for a respond,. if you don't get any it ends up there,. but if you do,. both persons are equaly guilty,.

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Have any of you taken away another person's man/woman?  If so tell us what happend.  Why did you do it?  Would you ever do it again?  If you have never done this, Would you ever do this?  What do you think of people who do this and enjoy taking another person's man or woman?


Well to answer my own questions....yes I have taken another girl's man before, but not knowingly.  Well the thing is I didn't do it on purpose.  I was talking to her man for the longest time (as friends), and he told me that he had broken up with her, when he really hadn't. One day he asked me to be his girl, and I said yes.  That very same day that he got with me he went and broke it off with her.  I found this out later, and when I did I dumped his a$$, plus I felt bad because the girl thought that I had done it on purpose and that I had planned to do this all along, but I really had not.  The f*cked up part is that he had planned on leaving her if I said yes to him, but had I said no he would probably still be with her.  I would never do this on purpose...well unless some b*tch pissed me off, and I wanted to get back at her...lol j/ks


So now tell us your story or stories...come on people fess up.





If you've done it unknowingly, I would feel morally exonerated


Whomever does this purposely is without a doubt, unscrupulous



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Karma nunca duerme.  Si la zorra decide pornerle los cachos al novio/marido/esposo  no vale la pena invertir tiempo ni sentimientos en ella. Si te puso los cachos fue talvez porke se le salio lo p*ta o porke se canso de estar contigo. me paso a mi, i dont stress it anymore. no vale la pena la offensa.


 


already been up on it...  already over it.



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I have never taken anyone's man, altough i had the chance to, but i would never do that to anyone. It's just wrong! I have had it done to me once, but i just ended up giving him away becuase it was not worth it my time to fight for. In the end Karma bit both their asses.


I think dating a friends/relative's EX is as bad. I would never date one of my friends Ex's. I just don't see it ok.




I agree, but I think for some people it can be ok if, for example, the couple didnt date for too long.  But if people were married or dated for years, I can see where that would be more of a no no




 I agree with you as well. If the person dated like way back in the day and for not too long. Hmmm, i guess it can be alright. But if the people were married or dated for a long time, then YES, i find that totally wrong and akward!!


 



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If I did, I didn't know it at the time and I never lasted long enough with anybody to find out if that was the case.


 


I plead ignorance.


 


Same with it being done to me-- didn't last long enough to find out if that was the case.



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Personally i would never do it.. it's morally incorrect.  HOWEVER, i was taken from the previous person i was with(i didn't know it.. long story) , and i am soooo much happier so i am definately for it when it's for real.  Not when it's just lust and sex, that's just mean.  Usually that doesn't last.

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LOL, at first I thought 'what a random thing to say'. Funny what importance syllable emphasis is.

Then it clicked in. I like that quote!



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I have never taken anyone's man, altough i had the chance to, but i would never do that to anyone. It's just wrong! I have had it done to me once, but i just ended up giving him away becuase it was not worth it my time to fight for. In the end Karma bit both their asses.


I think dating a friends/relative's EX is as bad. I would never date one of my friends Ex's. I just don't see it ok.




I agree, but I think for some people it can be ok if, for example, the couple didnt date for too long.  But if people were married or dated for years, I can see where that would be more of a no no

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I have never taken anyone's man, altough i had the chance to, but i would never do that to anyone. It's just wrong! I have had it done to me once, but i just ended up giving him away becuase it was not worth it my time to fight for. In the end Karma bit both their asses.


I think dating a friends/relative's EX is as bad. I would never date one of my friends Ex's. I just don't see it ok.



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 What goes around come around...I think

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All I've heard is women taking over someone elses guy / is it seen different if your a guy and your interested in another woman but it is for all the right reasons and not that he is looking for a one night thing ????


Ok, you mean another guy's woman?? I confuse



yes another mans woman?



It can be one thing if that couple is not together anymore, but while they are still together para que meterse?  That's my opinion.




Unfortunately, I think it can barely black and white. And I would like to be in that person shoes if he/she have true/genuine feelings/intention, towards the person that is still in a realtionship.


 



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I have taken another womans woman



I'm working on that right now... but is kindda tough to break that force.... I'm gonna have use my latin charms from now on....




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Colombiana4Life wrote:



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All I've heard is women taking over someone elses guy / is it seen different if your a guy and your interested in another woman but it is for all the right reasons and not that he is looking for a one night thing ????


Ok, you mean another guy's woman?? I confuse



yes another mans woman?




It can be one thing if that couple is not together anymore, but while they are still together para que meterse?  That's my opinion.



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I have taken another womans woman



I'm working on that right now... but is kindda tough to break that force.... I'm gonna have use my latin charms from now on....



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morally wrong....

someone done it to me... twice....
and ppl that have done it should be panished!!! they should be banned out of this world prevented from ever been loved again!!!!

i believe in karma.... and i have proven to myself that lo que siembras hoy lo cosecharas mañana!

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Colombiana4Life wrote:

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All I've heard is women taking over someone elses guy / is it seen different if your a guy and your interested in another woman but it is for all the right reasons and not that he is looking for a one night thing ????


Ok, you mean another guy's woman?? I confuse


yes another mans woman?

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All I've heard is women taking over someone elses guy / is it seen different if your a guy and your interested in another woman but it is for all the right reasons and not that he is looking for a one night thing ????


Ok, you mean another guy's woman?? I confuse

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All I've heard is women taking over someone elses guy / is it seen different if your a guy and your interested in another woman but it is for all the right reasons and not that he is looking for a one night thing ????

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I have taken another womans woman

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Have any of you taken away another person's man/woman?  If so tell us what happend.  Why did you do it?  Would you ever do it again?  If you have never done this, Would you ever do this?  What do you think of people who do this and enjoy taking another person's man or woman?


I HAVE NEVER TAKEN AWAY ANYONES MAN.... THE WAY I SEE IT, IF HE'S TAKEN WHY BOTHER?


WHAT DO I THINK OF PEOPLE WHO DO THIS.... I'LL KEEP MY COMMENTS TO MYSELF.... IT WAS DONE TO ME SO I KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE



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Have any of you taken away another person's man/woman?  If so tell us what happend.  Why did you do it?  Would you ever do it again?  If you have never done this, Would you ever do this?  What do you think of people who do this and enjoy taking another person's man or woman?


Well to answer my own questions....yes I have taken another girl's man before, but not knowingly.  Well the thing is I didn't do it on purpose.  I was talking to her man for the longest time (as friends), and he told me that he had broken up with her, when he really hadn't. One day he asked me to be his girl, and I said yes.  That very same day that he got with me he went and broke it off with her.  I found this out later, and when I did I dumped his a$$, plus I felt bad because the girl thought that I had done it on purpose and that I had planned to do this all along, but I really had not.  The f*cked up part is that he had planned on leaving her if I said yes to him, but had I said no he would probably still be with her.  I would never do this on purpose...well unless some b*tch pissed me off, and I wanted to get back at her...lol j/ks


So now tell us your story or stories...come on people fess up.





Taking or stealing is so wrong


It's better to just share. Everybody wins and nobody get's hurt


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Have any of you taken away another person's man/woman?  If so tell us what happend.  Why did you do it?  Would you ever do it again?  If you have never done this, Would you ever do this?  What do you think of people who do this and enjoy taking another person's man or woman?


Well to answer my own questions....yes I have taken another girl's man before, but not knowingly.  Well the thing is I didn't do it on purpose.  I was talking to her man for the longest time (as friends), and he told me that he had broken up with her, when he really hadn't. One day he asked me to be his girl, and I said yes.  That very same day that he got with me he went and broke it off with her.  I found this out later, and when I did I dumped his a$$, plus I felt bad because the girl thought that I had done it on purpose and that I had planned to do this all along, but I really had not.  The f*cked up part is that he had planned on leaving her if I said yes to him, but had I said no he would probably still be with her.  I would never do this on purpose...well unless some b*tch pissed me off, and I wanted to get back at her...lol j/ks


So now tell us your story or stories...come on people fess up.




Same thing as you, it happened once or twice, but as soon as I found out that they had girlfriends I sent them on their way.  I dont care if the girl is the biggest biatch in the world or whatever.  I had that done to me many times so I know how it feels and I would not do it.

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YES!


Men are players, so why shouldn't I be one for a change.


I liked this hottie for the eternity and in my opinion his exwoman wasn't all that, one day she caught me looking at the hottie playing basketball and she told me to back off in a really slutty way, It turns out that the hottie once was caight looking at me........................


So since then that girl make my life a little difficult talking trash about me and telling as many people as possible in our building that I wanted to take his man, so to make a long story short I took her man and still my man, I couldn't leave all her talk go to waste.


oh! and we still live in the same building but my apartment and she still alone but now for some reason she doesn't talk as much as she used to


 






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YES!


Men are players, so why shouldn't I be one for a change.


I liked this hottie for the eternity and in my opinion his exwoman wasn't all that, one day she caught me looking at the hottie playing basketball and she told me to back off in a really slutty way, It turns out that the hottie once was caight looking at me........................


So since then that girl make my life a little difficult talking trash about me and telling as many people as possible in our building that I wanted to take his man, so to make a long story short I took her man and still my man, I couldn't leave all her talk go to waste.


oh! and we still live in the same building but my apartment and she still alone but now for some reason she doesn't talk as much as she used to


 



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Have any of you taken away another person's man/woman?  If so tell us what happend.  Why did you do it?  Would you ever do it again?  If you have never done this, Would you ever do this?  What do you think of people who do this and enjoy taking another person's man or woman?


Well to answer my own questions....yes I have taken another girl's man before, but not knowingly.  Well the thing is I didn't do it on purpose.  I was talking to her man for the longest time (as friends), and he told me that he had broken up with her, when he really hadn't. One day he asked me to be his girl, and I said yes.  That very same day that he got with me he went and broke it off with her.  I found this out later, and when I did I dumped his a$$, plus I felt bad because the girl thought that I had done it on purpose and that I had planned to do this all along, but I really had not.  The f*cked up part is that he had planned on leaving her if I said yes to him, but had I said no he would probably still be with her.  I would never do this on purpose...well unless some b*tch pissed me off, and I wanted to get back at her...lol j/ks


So now tell us your story or stories...come on people fess up.



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