Las personas no nacemos celosas,.. lo aprendemos ,. va creciendo en nosotros,..por el materialismo del que nos rodea,. y tambien es inculcado por nuestros padres/familia,..
I don't know about girls being more jealous than us men because I've seen so many cowards hating on a brotha due to one of us having a better ride, gear and bling or simply a better looking girl. I've actually had problems with fools like this not because of what I just mentioned cause I ain't no rich man but because of what they hear about me. You see there have been some clowns in the past who have heard about me and how I love boxing then they wanna test me and get beat down. I believe this is jealousy but the wrose part is they alwayz lose. El que busca encuentra eso es lo que un pana told me once and it's so true. Bit h azz ni az wanna step to me but tend to crumble come fight time. I guess they wanna see what I got if indeed I do know how to box or am I just talk'in sh t. Like I alwayz say keep'in it real so nawh I ain't just talk'in like dem Italians or Pork Chops remember we latinos be true warriors! In boxing Laitnos pretty much rule but of course we can't forget our brothas from African decent or even our black cubanos, Dominicanos and Puerto Ricans of course. Girls are big time jealous though another thing to talk about which I ain't even gonna get into but I've seen it many times, many times let me tell y'all!
Ok, I wanted to post that we learn it ... but then I got thinking and decided we are born with it ... just that it needs to be umm like activated by someone or something in our lives ...
We all have potential to feel jealousy, some do and others don't and others just EXAGERATE it and use it as an excuse
No I don't think I'm jealous of any member in my family or friends what for ... to me jealousy is a waste of time ... you just stress yourself out and start feeling less of yourself and insecure...
Envy on the other hand yes I have felt that with my brother when we were growing up but not because he had the cooler toys and I was to play with dolls but because he could do lo que se le pegaba la gana and I couldn't ... but that ended in highschool ... and never felt it again ..
Hope not to feel either one ever again ...
To answer LB's question: I feel that jealousy in a love relationship is healthy siempre y cuando la pareja lo pueda discutir y escucharse el uno al otro ... it's probably some misunderstanding or miscommunication that could be talked out ... but when jealousy becomes like possesive or obsessive then I say get out 'cause nothing good would come out of the relationship ... you shouldn't turn love into fear for noone ...
@Polluter---She's blind right?! that's it, she's blind...that or you have her completely drunk!!!
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Jealousy in a relationship means no confidence in the person’s feelings for you. If you are confident and trust the other person completely you shouldn't be jealous of anything because you know they will be with you at the end of it. Mind over matter.
While girls are born with a percentage, guys that are Jealous are the worst... they are mad crazy.. and would pretty much do anything.. so Run Run when you encounter one of them. trust me.
Now not in a bad way cause I have nothing to be jeaously of, since I've always been fine.
What Im very jeaulosy is with my B/F, ohhhh ya very. I'm defenitly NOT very easy going & I tend to be very old fashion & not very opened minded. This obviously can cause me problems but I'm a jealously person with moderation. Right Babe???
Ok fine Fea: I'm a jeaously person with moderation??
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you better run dogo, you better run, and just hope you're faster.
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@ Confus quesiton - I think were all raised to feel some jealousy not on purpose but we hear it with our parents from comments and we take it all in! In some instancences if your mother is an envious person then you grow up the same!
@Jealousy in a relationship like celando a tu pareja con otra(o) i think to some extent is normal not to the crazy omg im gonna kill them both for talking thats insecurity! again a fine line that ppl say dios mio fulana de tal is so jealous pero in reality es insecure of what she has.
@Jealousy and envy - jealousy is to me when you look at some one weather it be physical or materialistic and think why cant i have that or why cant that be me kinda thing!
Envy is when u want and desire what that person has and go to the extent to try to get what they have and sometimes even wish bad on them!
@ Confus quesiton - I think were all raised to feel some jealousy not on purpose but we hear it with our parents from comments and we take it all in! In some instancences if your mother is an envious person then you grow up the same!
@Jealousy in a relationship like celando a tu pareja con otra(o) i think to some extent is normal not to the crazy omg im gonna kill them both for talking thats insecurity! again a fine line that ppl say dios mio fulana de tal is so jealous pero in reality es insecure of what she has.
@Jealousy and envy - jealousy is to me when you look at some one weather it be physical or materialistic and think why cant i have that or why cant that be me kinda thing!
Envy is when u want and desire what that person has and go to the extent to try to get what they have and sometimes even wish bad on them!
Chale: "I agree in regards to the jelousy b/c as a female, sometimes we become possesive of our 'territory' or our 'man'... but not to the point where Im dissing next girl b/c of how she looks or what shes wearing."
Jelousy is something natural that I guess you can say you are born with. Everyone has been jelous at some point, and it does not necessarily have to be with friends or family. You could sometimes be jelous about what some people have and what you don't.....although that kinda crosses the line of envy.
I think at times we all may see someone doing better than us and we would want the same for ourselves. I think it`s human nature. But I dont agree with letting it get to the point of jealousy. Trust me, there are some family members that I no longer associate with because of that. Their jealousy of my mom and I started getting out of hand.
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I am not a jealous person, that's for sure. Not with my family and friends and nor with my partner........wait, I don't have one
No but seriously, why to be jealous ? You will get in more trouble, specially in a realtionship if you're being jealous for no reason. In friendship, you will lost your friend along the way and about you family, well they will stay at some distance from you because sometimes your behaviours are just unacceptables.
Los celos te podraran la vida ,la verdad no vale la pena y si no puedes evitarlo, pfff, busca ayuda. Oh y de por si, las telenovelas no ayadan.........sorry women ! That's another reason why I think those think should be banned :butthisisanothersubject:
I don't know, I trust and have faith in pple so obviously, jealousy doesn't quite go with it.
Envy, of course I say "I envy you". Like to Bonita, that just left for Australia but it is not in a bad meaning. I really wish her the best and some day, I'll (try) to go too and see those Koalas and Kangourous :frenchspelligsobackof:
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I don't think its that healthy, it can put a serious strain on a relationship. Some people do take it to the extreme, which can be really bad. But you don't want to make your partner think that you don't care about them either. If there is trust, then jealousy should not be an issue.
Being jealous of friends or family, not my thing. Why should I be jealous of a friend or famliy member?? If anything I am happy to see that they are doing well for themselves, and who knows possibly down the road they could help you out for your own success.
As to a partner, I don't think there should be a reason for jealousy in a relationship. If you trust each other, and are confident in what you have, then there should be no reason for it.
I think envy & jelaousy come from the rage of not being able to have what you want and seeing someone else with it....especially someone who YOU think is better than you....it's a natural instinct....triggered by the "lack of confidence & insecurity"
There's no reason why you can't have what you want....and you can battle jealousy & envy by trying to get IT (make an effort)....not sitting back and feeling sorry for yourself.....
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@ Dannyboy: I dont HATE on other women ... not at all. If anything, I hate on girls that hate on other girls.... I hate girls that are catty and stupid like that.
I agree in regards to the jelousy b/c as a female, sometimes we become possesive of our 'territory' or our 'man'... but not to the point where Im dissing next girl b/c of how she looks or what shes wearing.
hmmmmmmmmmmmm... I say we learn it! danm right we do!
God know i'm not a jealous person.... lol.... hmmm better say---> when it comes to family and friend i'm not jelaous at all in any aspect!
When it comes to love....I'm not either but just give me a reason to be lol.... jajajajaja... and u better hide
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WHen I was much younger I used to feel jelous or envy some people, but one day I realized that such behaviour only made me feel more "miserable"m and I said to myself...F7ck that, I am who I am and do what I can.