I wear two diamond gold rings on my "wedding" finger as a deterrent. If the guy, doesn't see it then I have no problem smiling and saying I have a boyfriend. Sometimes, I get the persistent guy who'll ask, "Well, can't we be friends?" and I'll say, "How would you like it if your girlfriend was meeting random people and just making "friends"?! Sorry, I have enough friends and a lot of respect for my boyfriend!" Eventually they get the point.
No need to be a b*tch unless they get touchy touchy!!!!!
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I never go up to guys to ask them anything period (other then excuse me, move over ur covering my view. ), hello if they like me or wanna talk to me then they better do it on their own, I'm not helping them.
Now I don't think I'm a biachita, but I barely ever dance with any strangers & when I do they better not be sweaty, look decent wether it clothes or looks (just in case I get caught in a ramdoom pic.). Now if a guys talks to me, i'll talk back untill I get bored.
Overall I don't think I'm a Biachita, but just not very socialble.
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LB said : I agree with Julie....there's no need at all to be rude...it just shows your lack of class..But many times if a girl turns down a guy it's because he's straight up UGLY "Charm" works better than pick up lines.....
It's more about "carisma" than anything else, you're right LB. Pick up lines are funny, some more than others, they always make me laugh and I never take them seriously, how ca you anyway.
And since the first thing you see from someone in a club/bar/lounge etc.... es el fisico, I bet that girls and boys will turn down someone that approach them if he/she straight ugly.
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hmmmm I'm ussually very friendly lol.... actually i think all guys i know I met them at clubs lol.... i usually get a drink for being so smily and cute jajajaja..... when a guy approaches me I listen, there is no ugly friends (cuz.... to me the base of everything is frienship u know..... yeah i know i'm totally weird lol...)
Anyways the quest. was if i ever being turn down... yeah once I was gonna ask a guy for the time at plaza flamingo and the first guy that i saw with a watch was "I'm all that", and when i say excuse me, he turned to me and told me he had a girl friend w/out looking at me and walk away.... i didn't even got a chance to say hi lol.....I was heart broken jajajaja
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I think its happened to every guy out there. Some say, the nice approach works, but not always. I know some of my friends are really nice guys, and just want to have a fun night out, so when they approach someone, while being polite, and still get the attitude, then I think its safe to say that "The nice guy" approach doesn't always work.
At clubs honestly im not a snob or rude if u ask me to dance chances are i will dance if u come all agressive and machista and demand to dance entonces te va madre!! im sorry but u have to be polite and atleast my hieght unless ur a friend of mine and ur short its all coolio!
Snobish? It may seem that way. I prefer people thinking I'm a SNOB. Some people now a days think that because you are trying to mingle with people or smile at someone here and there that you are taking them home and into your bed!
if your one ..(and ill say this in nice words) below average looking guy..but u r a pro to salsa merengue bachata..then ur chances of meeting girls at latin clubs r much much more then the other guy..who is a pro at getting down with the perreo such as myselflol ....i seriously doubt that alot of girls out there enjoy getting humped on by any random guy when some reggaeton or reggae track comes on.....instead they get all pissed and even tell u off...
I don't understand why girls have to be that rude when a guy approach them. I mean, pick up lines and all are funny but there is no need to be rude, that's for sure.
I totally agree with you. Girl's don't need to be rude, but some guys just don't understand the meaning of "no thank you", and that's when some girls might get mean. Sometimes girl's have to be rude to get their point across, because some guys just don't get it. Some guys insist way too much, which makes them look desperate in my opinion. That is just a big turn off, and I don't blame girl's for turning guys like that away.
@Julie - Esoooooooooooooooo muuuujeeer! Unfortunately your part of the minor crowd at least I think
Don't give me the then. I do turn down pple but never the way you guys describe. I find absolutly no reason or need to be that rude and impolite.
Well, just one but the guy was SO drunk and I really tried for 5 mn to turn him down the nice way, after those 5 of no no no gracias pero no no no, etc....., I couldn't take it anymore BUT I have to say that I did not use bad words, just thoughen my voice and speach a little, ofreciendole arreglar este ligero problema afuera
-- Edited by Julie at 10:09, 2006-08-02
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For some women turning down a guy boosts her confidence and lifts her self esteem... Psychologically they're insecure of themselves and they need reassurance...
Same thing happen to those guys that call themselves "players"...
BTW: I have this new foro....
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I don't understand why girls have to be that rude when a guy approach them. I mean, pick up lines and all are funny but there is no need to be rude, that's for sure.
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Ways that I would approach girls were typically on the dance floor. I'd test them out and see how they would dance. If I saw a girl dance wicked I'd approach and dance around here but not too close. When she would catch my eye I'd come closer but never talked to her. If she thought she was the **** I'd break right up to her and dance away and move on to the next lady...girls enjoy a guy that can dance, not necessarily use there skills to pick them up they just wanna have a good time with there friends...Things you gotta know...loco when you on the dance floor you already know 99% of women enjoy dancing, like 40% of guys may dance but only like 15% can actually dance...that's where I come in and kill the show (as for salsa, merengue and all that latin stuff that I gotta work on ). Not cocky..confident haha
Reasons like that make me one of the biggest stuck up, snob ,**** at the clubs
**** the whole picking up chics and bull****....if it happens it happens..its just wack to use all these buttercup lines on females..that think they r god's gift lol pfffffffffffffff
Have you ever been turned down by a girl/guy at a club/bar??
Im normally a very nice guy, a gentleman if I may say, but at times when im out
with friends to a club/bar i go up to girls to see whats up gurls be acting all Diva & Biatch.
ME: Excuse me Ms., Hello, I just wanted to come over and Introduce myself to you. I've noticed you from across the room and I wanted to let you know your smile caught my attention.
HER: [ looking at me from head to toe] Back off chump.
ME: Did it hurt mami?
HER: what, when I fell from heaven?
ME: No, when you got hit by the ugly stick. [ then walk away with your balls stll intact ]
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Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
