The one thing I hate the most is when the chick is beside her new man and looks at me with those tender eyes (ojos de venado tierno). I wish she looked at me with angry eyes instead or indifference, that would feel a lot better.
Salsagal wrote: I saw my ex-fiance, and needless to say i look like $hit. Anyway, my sis was with me and when we left i told her to not mention this ever again. Should i tell my hubbie? Ive been haing crazy dreams that i end up marrying my ex and the man doesn't know. Talk about a guilty conscience.
I would tell him.. there's no need to hide things from him.. U're with him and he knows u love and care him...
The past is that...PAST.. focus on the present... but if you have doubts about your feelings .. then that's a different story...
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Salsagal wrote: I saw my ex-fiance, and needless to say i look like $hit. Anyway, my sis was with me and when we left i told her to not mention this ever again. Should i tell my hubbie? Ive been haing crazy dreams that i end up marrying my ex and the man doesn't know. Talk about a guilty conscience.
If you guy hasn't asked you then you don't have to tell him. HE probably knows already, and he's happy to have you now ( the present is more important than the past since it's gone and nothing can be done to fix whatever happened or didn't happen).
Salsagal wrote: I saw my ex-fiance, and needless to say i look like $hit. Anyway, my sis was with me and when we left i told her to not mention this ever again. Should i tell my hubbie? Ive been haing crazy dreams that i end up marrying my ex and the man doesn't know. Talk about a guilty conscience.
Why you would tell your hubby ? wanna create a drama ?
why would you have to tell your husband??... you run into people everyday by coincidence, is not liked you planed it, right??? no reason to tell him, he might end up making a big deal out of it. Para que ocasionar una tormenta en un vaso de agua..
I say you tell your hubby the partial truth. Tell him you saw your ex, but do not tell him your having dreams...especially crazy dreams Like LB said earlier some things should just be kept to yourself.
-- Edited by Jaime Cruz at 10:54, 2006-07-31
agreed.
hubby doenst need to know everything. You dont even have to tell him that you saw ex-man. I'd keep it secret if I were you.
I say you tell your hubby the partial truth. Tell him you saw your ex, but do not tell him your having dreams...especially crazy dreams Like LB said earlier some things should just be kept to yourself.
He was obviously a HUGE part of you life if you were engaged. I don't think there is anything wrong telling your hubby if you feel the need to.
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r u serious!!!!!!!!!????? which guy out there would want to hear that his current girl ..dreams about her ex fiance
lol!!
Nooo, not the dream, the fact that she saw him. Because the dream probably happened because she is keeping that for herself and it obviously torture her.
I won't tell the dream either. But pple remember that the faces we see in our dreams are not necesaraly the one the representation of our feeling or the one we want to see there. It's a dream !
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He was obviously a HUGE part of you life if you were engaged. I don't think there is anything wrong telling your hubby if you feel the need to.
It's not like you called him and said, hey, I want to see you. You just ran into him, and this might happened again. But as long as youare happy in your marriage, no problem at all right ?
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Salsagal wrote: I saw my ex-fiance, and needless to say i look like $hit. Anyway, my sis was with me and when we left i told her to not mention this ever again. Should i tell my hubbie? Ive been haing crazy dreams that i end up marrying my ex and the man doesn't know. Talk about a guilty conscience.
wow dreams with him?? thats not good are there still feelings there??
When i see an ex i say hi! why not and then i introduce my bf and were off our marry way!
Danny i think your right, he'll probably say something to try to "top me off". Plus he'll think that iv'e got more skeletons in my closet. One day i will tell him...............when i am choking...............on my last breath................on my death bed
Salsagal wrote: I saw my ex-fiance, and needless to say i look like $hit. Anyway, my sis was with me and when we left i told her to not mention this ever again. Should i tell my hubbie? Ive been haing crazy dreams that i end up marrying my ex and the man doesn't know. Talk about a guilty conscience.
tell your hubbie
im pretty sure he has his own 'fair share" which he chooses not to confess.. altho after you tell him..who knows maybe he will say somthing
Salsagal wrote: I saw my ex-fiance, and needless to say i look like $hit. Anyway, my sis was with me and when we left i told her to not mention this ever again. Should i tell my hubbie? Ive been haing crazy dreams that i end up marrying my ex and the man doesn't know. Talk about a guilty conscience.
My crystal "balls" tell me that you WILL marry your ex, since you still have hidden feeling for him....
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Salsagal wrote: I saw my ex-fiance, and needless to say i look like $hit. Anyway, my sis was with me and when we left i told her to not mention this ever again. Should i tell my hubbie? Ive been haing crazy dreams that i end up marrying my ex and the man doesn't know. Talk about a guilty conscience.
there's no point at all in telling your current hubby.....you will just make him feel insecure for nothing.....somethings are better left unsaid, especially when nothing will come out of it.....like what do you expect him to say to you really?
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Salsagal wrote: I saw my ex-fiance, and needless to say i look like $hit. Anyway, my sis was with me and when we left i told her to not mention this ever again. Should i tell my hubbie? Ive been haing crazy dreams that i end up marrying my ex and the man doesn't know. Talk about a guilty conscience.
I saw my ex-fiance, and needless to say i look like $hit. Anyway, my sis was with me and when we left i told her to not mention this ever again. Should i tell my hubbie? Ive been haing crazy dreams that i end up marrying my ex and the man doesn't know. Talk about a guilty conscience.
Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
