WHAT'S THE POINT??????

DulceGalletita · Foro Master

RE: WHAT'S THE POINT??????

Miel · Guru

LadyBug,. do you know a male version of you,. If you do, can you hook me up with him??,. Thank u,.

MJ and EP: I m apologize if I offended you with my comment,.. I won't said anything else,. because LB already said it all,...

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

LaDyBuG, LaDyBuG, LaDyBug...........you've known me for years and yet you still don't "know" me. What couple has not had an argument?? If El Pibe and I or any other couple for that matter were beating the $hit out of each other and screaming at each other, then YEAH, I'd say that's f@cked up but he and I argue, give each other some venting time, and THEN we discuss things. I think THAT'S healthy. ....like I said, everyone deals with things differently.....some people actually go directly towards the "discuss things" first.....

As for me venting about my relationship on this forum as being unhealthy, so be it. I guess by me expressing my frustrations that was too much detail. I'm looking at my original post and yeah, WOW, I really did spill out the beans there!!! By simply making the thread you are welcoming people to give their own opinions....(and I also said that it was my personal opinion on it for being private in that aspect)

EP and I aren't new. Yes you are.....you are NEW to FORO.....that's what I was saying.....not new as a couple......If you knew Miel from her other posts you would understand more where she's coming from and her ways of approaching relationships.

Hate to break it to ya and yeah, we do have a clue. If we didn't, there's no way in heck we'd be together now. And yes, you're right, if Miel had said "what MJ and EP do is stupid" as opposed to saying "the stupid is the people involved", that would've made a huge difference. Of course!

And from the "horse' mouth", did anyone see MM's post?? A married man's post??? "But that idealistic way of thinking is quite naive. Misunderstandings happen and then s*hit happens."

I agree with Mark's comment too....this happens in every type of a relationship.....it's how you handle that matters because problems will happen to anyone at anytime.

What I find odd is, why is it that I'm getting slack from two people who aren't even in a relationship?? That's like me teaching someone how to cook! And I don't even know how to cook!!!

Ummmm....yeah....I'm gonna let this one slide MJ.....as I'm also speaking from experience....stuff you have no clue about because of my private nature.....but just FYI: I have helped many couples with their problems, with my advise and I helped them look at and handle things differently....(a few foro people can vouch for it).....so girl I can teach you how to cook and serve the food with my eyes closed.

Princessa and Chica W make SENSE!!! Did you read their posts??? "Ya in times you have your ups & downs but overall it's good or at least it should be good." "The fight and the headaches will only make your relationship stronger once you make up and talk about the problem." Man.....Princessa, Chica W, and I are doomed!!!! -- Edited by Motown Junkie at 12:26, 2006-07-03

Putting all your sarcasm aside, I agree with pretty much everything......all I'm saying and keep saying is that people handle things differently....this doesn't make any way better than the other.....that's all....some people don't need to yell and vent at their bf/gf.....there are couples who actually TALK from the get go...they communicate......BUT like I said (and I repeat)....this is ODD now in days....but I myself actually do know 2 couples like this....so I know that it exists.....

The real problem would exist if the couple didn't resolve their arguments.....which is really not your case......

Re-read my posts....I am not giving you slack but my opinion on things....if that upset you then there's nothing I can do but to keep quiet in all your "relationship threads"

(And from Knowing me you should also know that you are dealing with the queen of sarcasm but there's a time and place for that too)

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Why bother, amor?! She's not in a relationship. Obviously a reason why?! Unnecessary remark....c'mon MJ.... To find and be in a relationship with absolutely no arguments, no fights, no disagreements, is virtually impossible. Not true! Of course not very common now in days because people have become less tolerant and respectful towards each other.... Therefore, let her keep searching for the impossible. Yes, the key is tolerance and respect and that's exactlly what El Pibe and I have for each other. If we didn't, we wouldn't have lasted as long as we have. If you're in a relationship without it's "downs", it's obviously not a healthy relationship. People handle relationships differently....some people are "cool" others are "hot".....but keeping harmony is not an impossible thing to do....especially when 100% TRUE LOVE is present and there is communication.....I personally think that venting about your relationship on a public forum is "unhealthy"......but (you know me) and and you know how private I am....so maybe it's just me.... meh I guess you and I should live in a fantasty world with care bears and little ponies all over the place!!! You're about 20 years ahead of that goal.....lol Love shu!!! And I prefer Princessa's advice..........I SMAKED YA RIGHT IN THE HEAD DIDN'T I???!!! YEAH ME!!!!!!! :biggrin Everyone's relationship is different.....people handle things and think about things differently....that was Miel's opinion and we all know how she feels about Love and relationships.....I know you and Pibe are new so you have no clue.....but I honestly understood what she was saying AND I also understand how you might have taken it personally......maybe she should have just said people ACT stupid not that they ARE stupid.....

LaDyBuG, LaDyBuG, LaDyBug...........you've known me for years and yet you still don't "know" me. What couple has not had an argument?? If El Pibe and I or any other couple for that matter were beating the $hit out of each other and screaming at each other, then YEAH, I'd say that's f@cked up but he and I argue, give each other some venting time, and THEN we discuss things. I think THAT'S healthy. As for me venting about my relationship on this forum as being unhealthy, so be it. I guess by me expressing my frustrations that was too much detail. I'm looking at my original post and yeah, WOW, I really did spill out the beans there!!!

EP and I aren't new. Hate to break it to ya and yeah, we do have a clue. If we didn't, there's no way in heck we'd be together now.

And yes, you're right, if Miel had said "what MJ and EP do is stupid" as opposed to saying "the stupid is the people involved", that would've made a huge difference.

And from the "horse' mouth", did anyone see MM's post?? A married man's post???

"But that idealistic way of thinking is quite naive.

Misunderstandings happen and then s*hit happens."

What I find odd is, why is it that I'm getting slack from two people who aren't even in a relationship?? That's like me teaching someone how to cook! And I don't even know how to cook!!!

Princessa and Chica W make SENSE!!! Did you read their posts???

"Ya in times you have your ups & downs but overall it's good or at least it should be good."

"The fight and the headaches will only make your relationship stronger once you make up and talk about the problem."

Man.....Princessa, Chica W, and I are doomed!!!!

-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 12:26, 2006-07-03

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

Why bother, amor?! She's not in a relationship. Obviously a reason why?! Unnecessary remark....c'mon MJ....

To find and be in a relationship with absolutely no arguments, no fights, no disagreements, is virtually impossible. Not true! Of course not very common now in days because people have become less tolerant and respectful towards each other....

Therefore, let her keep searching for the impossible. Yes, the key is tolerance and respect and that's exactlly what El Pibe and I have for each other. If we didn't, we wouldn't have lasted as long as we have. If you're in a relationship without it's "downs", it's obviously not a healthy relationship. People handle relationships differently....some people are "cool" others are "hot".....but keeping harmony is not an impossible thing to do....especially when 100% TRUE LOVE is present and there is communication.....I personally think that venting about your relationship on a public forum is "unhealthy"......but (you know me) and and you know how private I am....so maybe it's just me....

meh I guess you and I should live in a fantasty world with care bears and little ponies all over the place!!! You're about 20 years ahead of that goal.....lol

Love shu!!! And I prefer Princessa's advice..........I SMAKED YA RIGHT IN THE HEAD DIDN'T I???!!! YEAH ME!!!!!!! :biggrin

Everyone's relationship is different.....people handle things and think about things differently....that was Miel's opinion and we all know how she feels about Love and relationships.....I know you and Pibe are new so you have no clue.....but I honestly understood what she was saying AND I also understand how you might have taken it personally......maybe she should have just said people ACT stupid not that they ARE stupid.....

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

El Pibe wrote:

Miel wrote: Marky Mark wrote: Miel wrote: I don't se the point of fighting when u have a "relationship" (husband/wife, bf/gf,.etc),.. it is true that every individual has their own personality and points of view,. and you are never going to agree 100% with the other person,. but the key is TOLERANCE and RESPECT,. I really don't know why ppl in "serious relationship" fight ,... I totally agree. But that idealistic way of thinking is quite naive. Misunderstandings happen and then s*hit happens. What can you do? Well,. I think you can do a lot,... of course misunderstanding happens,. but that doesn't have to lead to $hit,..that s where tolerance and respect comes into play,. and i really don't think is naive or idealistic,. for me it s just common sense,...and beign mature,...you can argue but 'till certain extends,. MJ said about relationships "NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! " and then the next morning with a ,.. the relationship is not stupid,. the stupid is the ppl involve in it,. Miel, I know you don't me or MJ for that matter, but this comment as general as it might be, it does sound as if you attacking her and myself. I understand that ppl post there opinion here, and everyone has full right to do so. However when you make comments like that, they seem as if you are insulting the ppl involved, and thats when you get responses such as this one. So, because you don't know us, or the problem we had in our relationship, I would keep remarks like the ones you made to yourself. Although you aren't in a relationship at the moment, think back at the last time you were in one ... any "STUPID FIGHTS" come mind???? Ya, I thought so. Have you never done something stupid in your life??? I'm sure you have, but you learn from it and move on. Once both of our hot heads calmed the F@ck down, we were able to talk things through like any good couple in a loving relationship. So the next time you decide to give your opinion about someone you don't know, choose your words a little more careful, so "misunderstandings" or "mis-interpretations" don't occur.

Why bother, amor?! She's not in a relationship. Obviously a reason why?! To find and be in a relationship with absolutely no arguments, no fights, no disagreements, is virtually impossible. Therefore, let her keep searching for the impossible. Yes, the key is tolerance and respect and that's exactlly what El Pibe and I have for each other. If we didn't, we wouldn't have lasted as long as we have. If you're in a relationship without it's "downs", it's obviously not a healthy relationship. meh I guess you and I should live in a fantasty world with care bears and little ponies all over the place!!!

Love shu!!!

And I prefer Princessa's advice..........I SMAKED YA RIGHT IN THE HEAD DIDN'T I???!!! YEAH ME!!!!!!!

-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 01:15, 2006-07-03

Miel · Guru

El Pibe wrote:

Miel, I know you don't me or MJ for that matter, but this comment as general as it might be, it does sound as if you attacking her and myself. I understand that ppl post there opinion here, and everyone has full right to do so. However when you make comments like that, they seem as if you are insulting the ppl involved, and thats when you get responses such as this one. So, because you don't know us, or the problem we had in our relationship, I would keep remarks like the ones you made to yourself. Although you aren't in a relationship at the moment, think back at the last time you were in one ... any "STUPID FIGHTS" come mind???? Ya, I thought so. Have you never done something stupid in your life??? I'm sure you have, but you learn from it and move on. Once both of out hot heads calmed the F@ck down, we were able to talk things through like any good couple in a loving relationship.
So the next time you decide to give your opinion about someone you don't know, choose your words a little more careful, so "misunderstandings" or "mis-interpretations" don't occur.

Now because you and MJ have brought this thread to a personal level (I mean personal life and leaving aside nicknames and cyber characters) ,.just to make a little more clear,. I will do the same,. so you guys do not interpret me as a person who comes and post against other memebers or for that heck of just insulting.
As you said I don't know u,.. and you don't know me but I know members of this foro,.eventhough I haven't been able to built a more intimate friendship,. but those who know me ,. they know the way I am,.and I am far from what you are implying,.
Any way i don't not retract about my comment,. because that is my opinion,. and of course is general ,. because the question was done in a general way: " OF RELATIONSHIPS????

SERIOUSLY!!!! WHAT IS THE POINT???!!!

NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH ",.. of course that it was clear that MJ was going through something like this,. I made a general comment,.which also affects not only you and her but any other person being in a situation like that,.
About the word choosing,. honestly I don't think I did it in a disrespectful way,. and just to be sure I went to the dictionary and I found out the meaning,. STUPID is a word which is pretty much misused and also misinterpreted,..

1 a : slow of mind : b : given to unintelligent decisions or acts : acting in an unintelligent or careless manner c : lacking intelligence or reason :
2 : dulled in feeling or sensation :
3 : marked by or resulting from unreasoned thinking or acting
4 a : lacking interest or point

Of course everyone has done something stupid,. but she was talking about a relationship,..probably my concept of a relationship differs from yours,.

I just replied to your post to make clear that I DID NOT try to INSULT or OFFEND anyone,. and in particular MJ or you,..

El Pibe · Guru

Miel wrote:

Marky Mark wrote: Miel wrote: I don't se the point of fighting when u have a "relationship" (husband/wife, bf/gf,.etc),.. it is true that every individual has their own personality and points of view,. and you are never going to agree 100% with the other person,. but the key is TOLERANCE and RESPECT,. I really don't know why ppl in "serious relationship" fight ,... I totally agree. But that idealistic way of thinking is quite naive. Misunderstandings happen and then s*hit happens. What can you do? Well,. I think you can do a lot,... of course misunderstanding happens,. but that doesn't have to lead to $hit,..that s where tolerance and respect comes into play,. and i really don't think is naive or idealistic,. for me it s just common sense,...and beign mature,...you can argue but 'till certain extends,. MJ said about relationships "NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! " and then the next morning with a ,.. the relationship is not stupid,. the stupid is the ppl involve in it,.

Miel, I know you don't me or MJ for that matter, but this comment as general as it might be, it does sound as if you attacking her and myself. I understand that ppl post there opinion here, and everyone has full right to do so. However when you make comments like that, they seem as if you are insulting the ppl involved, and thats when you get responses such as this one. So, because you don't know us, or the problem we had in our relationship, I would keep remarks like the ones you made to yourself. Although you aren't in a relationship at the moment, think back at the last time you were in one ... any "STUPID FIGHTS" come mind???? Ya, I thought so. Have you never done something stupid in your life??? I'm sure you have, but you learn from it and move on. Once both of out hot heads calmed the F@ck down, we were able to talk things through like any good couple in a loving relationship.

So the next time you decide to give your opinion about someone you don't know, choose your words a little more careful, so "misunderstandings" or "mis-interpretations" don't occur.

Dogo · Comandante

Marky Mark wrote:

Dogo wrote: Marky Mark wrote: Dogo wrote: he's not the real "El Pibe" Valderrama, you know?! (in case you think he really looks like his avatar) Ok... you never do that without editing my post!... what's up? Just an excuse to show you my new signature.

..and to think that I was about to apologize

Miel · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

Miel wrote: Marky Mark wrote: Miel wrote: I don't se the point of fighting when u have a "relationship" (husband/wife, bf/gf,.etc),.. it is true that every individual has their own personality and points of view,. and you are never going to agree 100% with the other person,. but the key is TOLERANCE and RESPECT,. I really don't know why ppl in "serious relationship" fight ,... I totally agree. But that idealistic way of thinking is quite naive. Misunderstandings happen and then s*hit happens. What can you do? Well,. I think you can do a lot,... of course misunderstanding happens,. but that doesn't have to lead to $hit,..that s where tolerance and respect comes into play,. and i really don't think is naive or idealistic,. for me it s just common sense,...and beign mature,...you can argue but 'till certain extends,. MJ said about relationships "NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! " and then the next morning with a ,.. the relationship is not stupid,. the stupid is the ppl involve in it,. For those who know me........they knew I was having one of my little b*tchy tantrums again and yet they did not call me STUPID. You, who just called me stupid, don't know me OR my relationship at all. So yes, my bf and I got into an argument, cause every relationship is perfect right?? After we discussed things like adults and NOT STUPID PEOPLE, we went out and met up with some foro members who clearly saw that things were patched up. Me ranting and raving about a relationship is not being stupid, it's me being frustrated. Forgive me for being the only woman on the planet who gets frustrated. I'm sorry I can't be so logical, adult-like, and mature like you. While you're at it, read El Pibe's post. Care to call him stupid too? He just so happens to be the other half in this relationship with stupid me.-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 11:04, 2006-07-02

I am really sorry if I offended you with my comment,.. But I really think that people who is in a serious relationship and do not know how to manage their problems in a mature manner,. that includes no fighting,.yelling at each other,.etc, they are acting plain stupid,..

As you mention about El Pibe's post,. in my comment I said ppl involve in it,. I do not only said the woman involved in it,. or MJ,. it was pretty much a general comment,. so it also includes him,. About your comment "I'm sorry I can't be so logical, adult-like, and mature like you." Thanks for thinking like that about me, even being sarcastic,.. but because i know myself,. and I know that I won't put up with $hit like that,. I m not in a relationship,..

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Dogo wrote:

Marky Mark wrote:
Dogo wrote: he's not the real "El Pibe" Valderrama, you know?! (in case you think he really looks like his avatar)

Ok... you never do that without editing my post!... what's up?

Just an excuse to show you my new signature.

Dogo · Comandante

Marky Mark wrote:

Dogo wrote: he's not the real "El Pibe" Valderrama, you know?! (in case you think he really looks like his avatar)

Ok... you never do that without editing my post!... what's up?

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Dogo wrote:

he's not the real "El Pibe" Valderrama, you know?! (in case you think he really looks like his avatar)

Julie · Comandante

Dogo wrote:

"there"? there where?... he's not the real "El Pibe" Valderrama, you know?! (in case you think he really looks like his avatar) We were introduced by "real" name. I had no idea

Really...........I think you missed something then

Dogo · Comandante

Marky Mark wrote:

Dogo wrote: ok... WHAT?!?!Really?........ how come I'm always the last to know these things? aarrrgghhh! Dude, even I knew that and I wasn't even there! Actually, I had my suspicions from the start but I'm not a chismoso!!

"there"? there where?... he's not the real "El Pibe" Valderrama, you know?! (in case you think he really looks like his avatar)

We were introduced by "real" name. I had no idea

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Dogo wrote:

ok... WHAT?!?!Really?........ how come I'm always the last to know these things? aarrrgghhh!

Dude, even I knew that and I wasn't even there! Actually, I had my suspicions from the start but I'm not a chismoso!!

Dogo · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

Miel wrote: Marky Mark wrote: Miel wrote: I don't se the point of fighting when u have a "relationship" (husband/wife, bf/gf,.etc),.. it is true that every individual has their own personality and points of view,. and you are never going to agree 100% with the other person,. but the key is TOLERANCE and RESPECT,. I really don't know why ppl in "serious relationship" fight ,... I totally agree. But that idealistic way of thinking is quite naive. Misunderstandings happen and then s*hit happens. What can you do? Well,. I think you can do a lot,... of course misunderstanding happens,. but that doesn't have to lead to $hit,..that s where tolerance and respect comes into play,. and i really don't think is naive or idealistic,. for me it s just common sense,...and beign mature,...you can argue but 'till certain extends,. MJ said about relationships "NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! " and then the next morning with a ,.. the relationship is not stupid,. the stupid is the ppl involve in it,. For those who know me........they knew I was having one of my little b*tchy tantrums again and yet they did not call me STUPID. You, who just called me stupid, don't know me OR my relationship at all. So yes, my bf and I got into an argument, cause every relationship is perfect right?? After we discussed things like adults and NOT STUPID PEOPLE, we went out and met up with some foro members who clearly saw that things were patched up. Me ranting and raving about a relationship is not being stupid, it's me being frustrated. Forgive me for being the only woman on the planet who gets frustrated. I'm sorry I can't be so logical, adult-like, and mature like you. While you're at it, read El Pibe's post. Care to call him stupid too? He just so happens to be the other half in this relationship with stupid me.-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 11:04, 2006-07-02

ok... WHAT?!?!
Really?........ how come I'm always the last to know these things? aarrrgghhh!

Anyway, nice to have met you Pibe, dude

-- Edited by Dogo at 11:13, 2006-07-02

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Miel wrote:

Marky Mark wrote: Miel wrote: I don't se the point of fighting when u have a "relationship" (husband/wife, bf/gf,.etc),.. it is true that every individual has their own personality and points of view,. and you are never going to agree 100% with the other person,. but the key is TOLERANCE and RESPECT,. I really don't know why ppl in "serious relationship" fight ,... I totally agree. But that idealistic way of thinking is quite naive. Misunderstandings happen and then s*hit happens. What can you do? Well,. I think you can do a lot,... of course misunderstanding happens,. but that doesn't have to lead to $hit,..that s where tolerance and respect comes into play,. and i really don't think is naive or idealistic,. for me it s just common sense,...and beign mature,...you can argue but 'till certain extends,. MJ said about relationships "NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! " and then the next morning with a ,.. the relationship is not stupid,. the stupid is the ppl involve in it,.

For those who know me........they knew I was having one of my little b*tchy tantrums again and yet they did not call me STUPID. You, who just called me stupid, don't know me OR my relationship at all. So yes, my bf and I got into an argument, cause every relationship is perfect right?? After we discussed things like adults and NOT STUPID PEOPLE, we went out and met up with some foro members who clearly saw that things were patched up.

Me ranting and raving about a relationship is not being stupid, it's me being frustrated. Forgive me for being the only woman on the planet who gets frustrated. I'm sorry I can't be so logical, adult-like, and mature like you.

While you're at it, read El Pibe's post. Care to call him stupid too? He just so happens to be the other half in this relationship with stupid me.

-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 11:04, 2006-07-02

Marky Mark · Foro Master

LAB_ wrote:

my gf is going back to cuba tomorrow morning.

tell me about problems with relationships.

sigh.

That blows dude. Sorry to hear.

LAB_ · Guru

my gf is going back to cuba tomorrow morning.

tell me about problems with relationships.

sigh.

Miel · Guru

Marky Mark wrote:

Miel wrote:
I don't se the point of fighting when u have a "relationship" (husband/wife, bf/gf,.etc),.. it is true that every individual has their own personality and points of view,. and you are never going to agree 100% with the other person,. but the key is TOLERANCE and RESPECT,. I really don't know why ppl in "serious relationship" fight ,...

I totally agree. But that idealistic way of thinking is quite naive.

Misunderstandings happen and then s*hit happens.

What can you do?

Well,. I think you can do a lot,... of course misunderstanding happens,. but that doesn't have to lead to $hit,..that s where tolerance and respect comes into play,. and i really don't think is naive or idealistic,. for me it s just common sense,...and beign mature,...you can argue but 'till certain extends,.
MJ said about relationships "NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! " and then the next morning with a

,.. the relationship is not stupid,. the stupid is the ppl involve in it,.

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Miel wrote:

I don't se the point of fighting when u have a "relationship" (husband/wife, bf/gf,.etc),.. it is true that every individual has their own personality and points of view,. and you are never going to agree 100% with the other person,. but the key is TOLERANCE and RESPECT,. I really don't know why ppl in "serious relationship" fight ,...

I totally agree. But that idealistic way of thinking is quite naive.

Misunderstandings happen and then s*hit happens.

What can you do?

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Julie wrote:

Dogo wrote: I have a feeling things will be better in the morning Pffff.................so there is no point for this anymore MJ, what the.with you I just went for some waiting for the fight

Miel · Guru

I don't se the point of fighting when u have a "relationship" (husband/wife, bf/gf,.etc),.. it is true that every individual has their own personality and points of view,. and you are never going to agree 100% with the other person,. but the key is TOLERANCE and RESPECT,. I really don't know why ppl in "serious relationship" fight ,...

Julie · Comandante

Dogo wrote:

I have a feeling things will be better in the morning

Pffff.................so there is no point for this anymore

MJ, what the.with you I just went for some waiting for the fight

Dogo · Comandante

I have a feeling things will be better in the morning

Chica W · Guru

It depends on what kind of a relationship you are talking about......if you mean with a b/f, husband or a significant other than I think we just need someone to witness our lives. By this I mean that we want someone to share our dreams, our sucess and our goals....there is nothing better than having someone always by your side to tell you or to even encourage you to keep going.

The fight and the headaches will only make your relationship stronger once you make up and talk about the problem.

This all makes sense to me but I don't understand why we need to put ourselves through the headaches and the fights......like you said what is the point?? I think this is how God wanted since the beginning of time, it's just a matter of finding your soul mate.

DulceGalletita · Foro Master

I don't know ... I'm still trying to figure out ... but for now it's all good I think

QUE chula LINDA · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

OF RELATIONSHIPS???? SERIOUSLY!!!! WHAT IS THE POINT???!!! NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH

Aww its ok....breathe. It happens… and then you’ll kiss and make up. -- that is the best part

El Pibe · Guru

PRINCESSA wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: OF RELATIONSHIPS???? SERIOUSLY!!!! WHAT IS THE POINT???!!! NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH There is nothing better then to have a loving, caring partner in your life. To me it makes life so much more fuller & great. I think it's a compliment to everything else that's so great in my life, like family, friends, etc. Ya in times you have your ups & downs but overall it's good or at least it should be good. Advice: hit him in the head & smarten him up a bit. LOL j/k

I couldn't agree more. Couples are bound to have their ups and downs. Everything is amazing during the up, not a care in the world, but when you get your downs, its like everything on earth has come crashing down. These are the moments when you have to remember how much you care about that special person in your life, how they make you feel when you are with them. I know that things can get pretty tough, but no one is perfect in a relationship, or in general. Everyone makes mistakes, its a matter of acknowledging them, finding a solution for them and moving on, looking forward and not holding on the what had happen. I know its easier said than done, but forgive, and try to forget.

Or, just take PRINCESSA's advice, and smack him one over the head, he might become a little dumber (because you'll be killing valuble brain cells), but he'll learn.

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

OF RELATIONSHIPS???? SERIOUSLY!!!! WHAT IS THE POINT???!!! NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH

There is nothing better then to have a loving, caring partner in your life. To me it makes life so much more fuller & great. I think it's a compliment to everything else that's so great in my life, like family, friends, etc.

Ya in times you have your ups & downs but overall it's good or at least it should be good.

Advice: hit him in the head & smarten him up a bit. LOL j/k

Dogo · Comandante

I don’t know if this make sense or not, but when I was feeling a bit down in my relationships, I always tried to find some sort of distraction… something that would get my mind off of the “argument” to think about what I’ve done and to find the courage to say “I’m sorry, baby” and somewhere that would get my spirits up

So I would go to my trusty, local strip club… that always got my “spirits” up.
So yeah, I would never find the courage to say “I’m sorry, baby” but DAMN! Did I ever feel better!!!

I'm joking sorry.... I hope you kiss & make up

Lahtina · Foro Master

Julie wrote:

Lahtina wrote: Why moiiiiiiiiiiiiii always moiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii I want my keys back Lo que se da ya no se quita porque el diablo lo desquita!! Ok, esta bien pues, anly because it's youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu :ojitos:

Bah! Le tienes miedo al diablo, verdad?

Julie · Comandante

Lahtina wrote:

Why moiiiiiiiiiiiiii always moiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii I want my keys back Lo que se da ya no se quita porque el diablo lo desquita!!

Ok, esta bien pues, anly because it's youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu :ojitos:

Lahtina · Foro Master

Julie wrote:

Lahtina wrote: Dogo wrote: Lahtina wrote: I think we all ask ourselves the same thing everyday. There is no point, really. It's a choice of which state of mind you want to be in: do you want to be bored (single), or do you want to be annoyed (in a relationship)? I'm not bored!... this is the bestest streak of singleness I've had... ... and I get my dose of annoyance from my friends.... SOME friends, capichi? Capisco... friggin Julie, man! Why moiiiiiiiiiiiiii always moiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii I want my keys back

Lo que se da ya no se quita porque el diablo lo desquita!!

Julie · Comandante

Lahtina wrote:

Dogo wrote: Lahtina wrote: I think we all ask ourselves the same thing everyday. There is no point, really. It's a choice of which state of mind you want to be in: do you want to be bored (single), or do you want to be annoyed (in a relationship)? I'm not bored!... this is the bestest streak of singleness I've had... ... and I get my dose of annoyance from my friends.... SOME friends, capichi? Capisco... friggin Julie, man!

Why moiiiiiiiiiiiiii always moiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

I want my keys back

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

Lahtina wrote: Guadalupana wrote: Trouble in paradise? just yesterday, this is what you said the the relationship thread: "Relationship with my bf = WONDERFUL " Just goes to show you how quickly things can change. oh i know. i know.

Yeah! No F@CKING KIDDING!!!!!!!!!!!

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

OF RELATIONSHIPS???? SERIOUSLY!!!! WHAT IS THE POINT???!!! NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH

why does the word "co-worker pop into my head????

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Dogo wrote:

I'm not bored!... this is the bestest streak of singleness I've had...

Singleness and CRABS!!!!

Lahtina · Foro Master

Dogo wrote:

Lahtina wrote: I think we all ask ourselves the same thing everyday. There is no point, really. It's a choice of which state of mind you want to be in: do you want to be bored (single), or do you want to be annoyed (in a relationship)? I'm not bored!... this is the bestest streak of singleness I've had... ... and I get my dose of annoyance from my friends.... SOME friends, capichi?

Capisco... friggin Julie, man!

Dogo · Comandante

Lahtina wrote:

I think we all ask ourselves the same thing everyday. There is no point, really. It's a choice of which state of mind you want to be in: do you want to be bored (single), or do you want to be annoyed (in a relationship)?
I'm not bored!... this is the bestest streak of singleness I've had...

... and I get my dose of annoyance from my friends.... SOME friends, capichi?

Danny416 · TOP Guru

reasons like that make me 100% happier to be single

.........cant deal with that bs nowadays.........i do whatever i want go chill wherever i want...meet whoever i want...

...its like some people rush themselves into something....nothing wrong with being single peeps!!! until ur time comes one day..it will all unfold eventually;P

Lahtina · Foro Master

Guadalupana wrote:

Trouble in paradise? just yesterday, this is what you said the the relationship thread: "Relationship with my bf = WONDERFUL "

Just goes to show you how quickly things can change.

Guadalupana · Foro Master

Lahtina wrote:

Guadalupana wrote:
Trouble in paradise? just yesterday, this is what you said the the relationship thread: "Relationship with my bf = WONDERFUL "

Just goes to show you how quickly things can change.

oh i know. i know.

Guadalupana · Foro Master

Trouble in paradise?

just yesterday, this is what you said the the relationship thread:

"Relationship with my bf = WONDERFUL

"

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Lahtina wrote:

I think we all ask ourselves the same thing everyday.
There is no point, really. It's a choice of which state of mind you want to be in: do you want to be bored (single), or do you want to be annoyed (in a relationship)?

yep.

Daeveed · Foro Master

Motown Junkie wrote:

OF RELATIONSHIPS???? SERIOUSLY!!!! WHAT IS THE POINT???!!! NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH

Bad day eh?

Remember to listen...be objective...communicate.

Julie · Comandante

Somebody is having a good day

Lahtina · Foro Master

I think we all ask ourselves the same thing everyday.

There is no point, really. It's a choice of which state of mind you want to be in: do you want to be bored (single), or do you want to be annoyed (in a relationship)?

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

OF RELATIONSHIPS????

SERIOUSLY!!!! WHAT IS THE POINT???!!!

NOTHING BUT GOD DAMN HEADACHES AND STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH