I am sorry but I ve come to a conclusion....that there are no men worthy of dating out there...It feels to me that all they want is to meet you and take you to bed...thats my impression..its very superficial and you cant GET TO KNOW someone whos just about the fluffyness on top...I wish I could meet a guy who could talk about everything cuz hes got a brain..but those are so hard to find these days....IMHP, or perhaps those are the guys just within my age range...22-28...perhaps older men are a bit more settled in their ways..but I just cant see myself dating a wayyyyyy older guy either..I dunno...
Let me guess....
You like your men "cute"....lol
Because there are men out there with good conversation but they might not necesarily be the best looking ones....
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GENIE wrote: Jade wrote: I am sorry but I ve come to a conclusion....that there are no men worthy of dating out there...It feels to me that all they want is to meet you and take you to bed...thats my impression..its very superficial and you cant GET TO KNOW someone whos just about the fluffyness on top...I wish I could meet a guy who could talk about everything cuz hes got a brain..but those are so hard to find these days....IMHP, or perhaps those are the guys just within my age range...22-28...perhaps older men are a bit more settled in their ways..but I just cant see myself dating a wayyyyyy older guy either..I dunno... how old are u and what kind of men do u like??? I have a few single cuzins!!!! LOL Your Funny Genie girl!
no im serious there cute im not just saying that!!!
I am sorry but I ve come to a conclusion....that there are no men worthy of dating out there...It feels to me that all they want is to meet you and take you to bed...thats my impression..its very superficial and you cant GET TO KNOW someone whos just about the fluffyness on top...I wish I could meet a guy who could talk about everything cuz hes got a brain..but those are so hard to find these days....IMHP, or perhaps those are the guys just within my age range...22-28...perhaps older men are a bit more settled in their ways..but I just cant see myself dating a wayyyyyy older guy either..I dunno...
I know lots of people here will be made with me; but I got to the conclusion that only very few lucky people can get good matches visiting discos and clubs. I know one guy who has slept with so many girls that he gets to know in clubs that is just an believeable. It seems that many girls love the guys who dance well, and dress well, and not mind anything else. I think clubs are full with these kinds of guys. I'm not saying that good matches can be found only in churchs (cause a lot of hypocrytes go there to find a date). I think young woman can get nice dates in other places. Don't give up.
I am sorry but I ve come to a conclusion....that there are no men worthy of dating out there...It feels to me that all they want is to meet you and take you to bed...thats my impression..its very superficial and you cant GET TO KNOW someone whos just about the fluffyness on top...I wish I could meet a guy who could talk about everything cuz hes got a brain..but those are so hard to find these days....IMHP, or perhaps those are the guys just within my age range...22-28...perhaps older men are a bit more settled in their ways..but I just cant see myself dating a wayyyyyy older guy either..I dunno...
Disagree.
But I'm sure your opinion is based on your personal experience.
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Jade wrote: I am sorry but I ve come to a conclusion....that there are no men worthy of dating out there...It feels to me that all they want is to meet you and take you to bed...thats my impression..its very superficial and you cant GET TO KNOW someone whos just about the fluffyness on top...I wish I could meet a guy who could talk about everything cuz hes got a brain..but those are so hard to find these days....IMHP, or perhaps those are the guys just within my age range...22-28...perhaps older men are a bit more settled in their ways..but I just cant see myself dating a wayyyyyy older guy either..I dunno... how old are u and what kind of men do u like??? I have a few single cuzins!!!!
I am sorry but I ve come to a conclusion....that there are no men worthy of dating out there...It feels to me that all they want is to meet you and take you to bed...thats my impression..its very superficial and you cant GET TO KNOW someone whos just about the fluffyness on top...I wish I could meet a guy who could talk about everything cuz hes got a brain..but those are so hard to find these days....IMHP, or perhaps those are the guys just within my age range...22-28...perhaps older men are a bit more settled in their ways..but I just cant see myself dating a wayyyyyy older guy either..I dunno...
how old are u and what kind of men do u like??? I have a few single cuzins!!!!
I am sorry but I ve come to a conclusion....that there are no men worthy of dating out there...It feels to me that all they want is to meet you and take you to bed...thats my impression..its very superficial and you cant GET TO KNOW someone whos just about the fluffyness on top...I wish I could meet a guy who could talk about everything cuz hes got a brain..but those are so hard to find these days....IMHP,
or perhaps those are the guys just within my age range...22-28...perhaps older men are a bit more settled in their ways..but I just cant see myself dating a wayyyyyy older guy either..I dunno...
I'm confused!!!!!!!!! Is dating just superficial ... a fancy and legit way of getting something something ... I haven't been in the dating area for a bit, but I was under the understanding that it was relationship oriented but ummmmmmmmmm I'm now leaning to the fact it's all sex oriented I mean to have sex you don't have to date someone ... just be up front about it ... Discuss.
You could do what I did...join the Opus Dei.
I have an extra cilice if you wanna try
Just Kidding Galletita.
I think that sometimes is better to be: mejor solo que mal acompañado!. Unless the other one is to hard to resist
LaDyBuG wrote: it also has a lot to do with already knowing the person.....so a date can lack good conversation..... Oh that sucks lemons!!!!!!! Not sure if I want to get back into the DATING GAME Soo, if you lack conversation it becomes habit a routine ... then one shouldn't take the next step to make it official ... I mean become a gf or bf I wanna date and I don't want to ....
I once felt the same way, just don't see as dating, go out, have fun, if there is a connection than take it from there.
LaDyBuG wrote: Dating is fun, entertaining, refreshing...........but only at the beggining of a relationship..... Out of the 2 bachelors, I would date....... NEITHER..... They both sound boring and predictable.....and there is no mention of HUMOUR or having BRAINS.... and then what happens??? ... it get boring and redundant and becomes a routine Ummmmm, yes Bachelor numero 1 says fun
It gets to be a habit, it becomes a routine.....it also has a lot to do with already knowing the person.....so a date can lack good conversation.....
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Dating is fun, entertaining, refreshing...........but only at the beggining of a relationship..... Out of the 2 bachelors, I would date....... NEITHER..... They both sound boring and predictable.....and there is no mention of HUMOUR or having BRAINS....
and then what happens??? ... it get boring and redundant and becomes a routine
DulceGalletita wrote: Talking about dating .... FORO LADIES!!!!!!! Reading the below who would you date or even consider an outing ... Bachelor #1: He's got all the inner qualities that touch your heart and soul. He's caring, communicative, charismatic, emotionally mature, fun and optimistic. He loves people and life, has great values and is committed to continuing self-development. He respects women and will treat his soul mate like a princess.Bachelor #2: He is a Big Man on Campus who can be flashy and likes to play Mr. Big Shot. He's mostly concerned with work, himself and getting ahead at any cost. He's also a control freak, temperamental, highly critical and dictatorial. He hasn't dumped the old baggage, so he's often blocked when it comes to intimacy, communication and the real life values like family and love.
FORO LADIES!!!!!!! Reading the below who would you date or even consider an outing ...
Bachelor #1: He's got all the inner qualities that touch your heart and soul. He's caring, communicative, charismatic, emotionally mature, fun and optimistic. He loves people and life, has great values and is committed to continuing self-development. He respects women and will treat his soul mate like a princess.
Bachelor #2: He is a Big Man on Campus who can be flashy and likes to play Mr. Big Shot. He's mostly concerned with work, himself and getting ahead at any cost. He's also a control freak, temperamental, highly critical and dictatorial. He hasn't dumped the old baggage, so he's often blocked when it comes to intimacy, communication and the real life values like family and love.
Is dating just superficial ... a fancy and legit way of getting something something ... I haven't been in the dating area for a bit, but I was under the understanding that it was relationship oriented but ummmmmmmmmm I'm now leaning to the fact it's all sex oriented
I mean to have sex you don't have to date someone ... just be up front about it ...