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  The first time i probably heard of surrogate mothers was in the show Friends.. not sure if you guys watch the show.. or even know the characters.  But.. it was about a sister holding her brother's triplets because his wife couldn't give birth.  the second time i heard of it .. was in lecture.. we discussed one case where a mother of 46-7 yrs wasn't able to give birth because it would have meant complications.. so she had her daughter carry the baby.  i think it's such an amazing advance in science.. i've always had a fear that i wouldn't be able to get pregnant.. so  knowing that this exists.. gives me a great relief.  as for being a surrogate mother.. i would do it.. no second thoughts.. only because if there is someone out there that cannot.. it's always good to know that there is someone who can.. (foro members .. and myself ) ..



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Julie wrote: Miel wrote: B.U.T.T Well, I don't know if it's because it's is a touchy subject but I guess nobody else than us will post something.   Why??,. I m tired of those hating threads,...we have good threads in which we can give our opinions on interesting/controversial topics,..

I totally agree with you but it looks like those are not as popular as they use to be !

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Julie wrote:

Miel wrote:
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Well, I don't know if it's because it's is a touchy subject but I guess nobody else than us will post something.
 



Why??,. I m tired of those hating threads,...we have good threads in which we can give our opinions on interesting/controversial topics,..


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I would post in this thread....but I can't be a surrogate mother....


 


I like making babies though...



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Miel wrote:


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Well, I don't know if it's because it's is a touchy subject but I guess nobody else than us will post something.


 



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B.U.T.T

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I PERSONALLY WOULDNT DO IT...I WOULD WANT TO KEEP THE BABY AFTER...CAUSE I WOULD FEEL IT IS MINE

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I think I would do it,.. even for strangers,. because u have to see it as a service,. of course if it is for a family memeber or a friend u would do it  for LOVE,.. to help them,. u won't see it as a service,. and if u don't see it like that,. u might get attached to the baby,. if he/she is not part of ur family would be hard for u,...about the money issue,. I think it depends on the amount,. because even when u adopt u have to pay ,..

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    IN THE US I HAVE HEARD OF WOMEN CHARGING UP TO 15G's AND ON TOP OF IT ALL THE COUPLE PAYS MEDICAL BILLS AND HOUSING AND FOOD!!! NOW THATS CRAZY!  

Wowww, that's crazy and a lot of money. Well in the web site I check last night, it say that the "price" can vary between 9k to 18k US. I don't know but I thought pple would not do that for money but out of good heart (I am definitively to naive, Sh@%). If one day I decide or be asked to do it, I would only ask for the pregnancy related expenses, I mean, it's not abot doing business, at least not for me.

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GENIE wrote:  I WOULD DO IT! MY AUNT WAS TRYING TO HAVE ANOTHER BABY AND MYSELF MY MOM AND MY CUZIN ALL WENT WITH HER TO GET TESTED AND SEE IF WE COULD DO IT BUT BECAUSE I HAVE HAD TWO MISSCARRIAGES FAR ALONG THEY DIDNT WANT TO RISK ME!! AND MY BLOOD TYPE HAS ALOT TO DO WITH IT AS WELL. SO I WOULD BUT FOR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ONLY! Sorry to hear that. Ithink I'll do it as well for family and friends only but definitively not for money as I was ask The whole point it to make a couples happy parents and not making money on their back and bad luck.


         IN THE US I HAVE HEARD OF WOMEN CHARGING UP TO 15G's AND ON TOP OF IT ALL THE COUPLE PAYS MEDICAL BILLS AND HOUSING AND FOOD!!! NOW THATS CRAZY!


 



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 I WOULD DO IT! MY AUNT WAS TRYING TO HAVE ANOTHER BABY AND MYSELF MY MOM AND MY CUZIN ALL WENT WITH HER TO GET TESTED AND SEE IF WE COULD DO IT BUT BECAUSE I HAVE HAD TWO MISSCARRIAGES FAR ALONG THEY DIDNT WANT TO RISK ME!! AND MY BLOOD TYPE HAS ALOT TO DO WITH IT AS WELL. SO I WOULD BUT FOR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ONLY!


Sorry to hear that. Ithink I'll do it as well for family and friends only but definitively not for money as I was ask


The whole point it to make a couples happy parents and not making money on their back and bad luck.



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I don't know why, but this subject just poped up in my mind and I was wondering what are you feelings or thoughts about Surrogate Mothers. It is a legal practice in Canada, even if, from what I just read. But it seems not to be very popular within the medical field. I know that adoption is also an option but sometimes, for whatever reason, it is denied to some couples (and I am not even thinking about the gay/lesbian community). So the only resort for those couples seems to be "finding a Surrogate Mother". I don't think this is a bad thing as far as all the parties are well aware and conscious about what they are doing.

         I WOULD DO IT! MY AUNT WAS TRYING TO HAVE ANOTHER BABY AND MYSELF MY MOM AND MY CUZIN ALL WENT WITH HER TO GET TESTED AND SEE IF WE COULD DO IT BUT BECAUSE I HAVE HAD TWO MISSCARRIAGES FAR ALONG THEY DIDNT WANT TO RISK ME!! AND MY BLOOD TYPE HAS ALOT TO DO WITH IT AS WELL. SO I WOULD BUT FOR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ONLY!

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I don't even want my own and I'm gonna have someone else's....


But I do think it's a good idea for those who obviously do not consider adoption as a valid option.....



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THIS IS A TUFFY ONE BUT I WOULD BE A SURROGATE MOTHER.........BUT INSTEAD OF THEM CHOOSING ME I WOULD CHOOSE THEM.....

Hummmm, I am wondering if you can do that ! I am trying to find it on the web but There is no specifics

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THIS IS A TUFFY ONE BUT I WOULD BE A SURROGATE MOTHER.........BUT INSTEAD OF THEM CHOOSING ME I WOULD CHOOSE THEM.....

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Lahtina wrote:


I don't think I'd would like someone else's buns cooking in my oven.

Jajaja ! You're back

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I don't think I'd would like someone else's buns cooking in my oven.

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I don't know why, but this subject just poped up in my mind and I was wondering what are you feelings or thoughts about Surrogate Mothers.


It is a legal practice in Canada, even if, from what I just read. But it seems not to be very popular within the medical field.


I know that adoption is also an option but sometimes, for whatever reason, it is denied to some couples (and I am not even thinking about the gay/lesbian community). So the only resort for those couples seems to be "finding a Surrogate Mother".


I don't think this is a bad thing as far as all the parties are well aware and conscious about what they are doing.



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