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 I think this kind of relationship can work between two very civilized consenting adults who understand that sex is a necessity.  It is like drinking water, you drink water one day and the next day you're thirsty again. SO , we depend apon having a sex partner in order to satisfy that need, and sometimes that loving partner is not there. 


And if two good friends (of the opposite sex in my case) have known each other and respect each other and need to satisfy themselves and can't find anybody for a while; then I think it would be a very civilized way to resolve the situation as long as both parties remain discreet and willing to let go when the time comes.


It is difficult not to become sentimentally attached, but it could be a temporary solution to "loneliness".


Como dice un primo...: Es pecado negarle el favor a la mujer que lo necesita. (No kidding)



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Dogo wrote:

LOL....... I know what you meanBut it's unfortunate that society views it that way (men are dogs, women are sluts) I'm all for equality in pretty much all aspects, and I'm also extremely open minded... maybe that's why I view it the way that I do
Sorry, couldn't help it

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miguel wrote:

i think sex without love is a big no no.. jesus doesn't approve of this. but oral is ok

And nothing before marriage please, that's baddddddddddddddddd.


 


 


 


Miguel, you're going straight to hell.............................................and it's HOT


 


 




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To DOGO: I wouldn't consider myself a slut ...jeej.. un perro si..horny ...its like being a porn star....imaginate....you have sex for fun and entertain. "just give me a call when you need it " ..i'll just be hitting it nice..tapping it a couple of times..and remmber..we just friends oK? thats why im' there..to satisfy your needs....i'll be there for you whenever u need me ****** calling 1-800-free-sex when you feel in need. but these are your friends right? i guess its diff..mm..-- Edited by Cocotaso at 23:23, 2006-04-26


LOL....... I know what you mean
But it's unfortunate that society views it that way (men are dogs, women are sluts) I'm all for equality in pretty much all aspects, and I'm also extremely open minded... maybe that's why I view it the way that I do



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miguel wrote:

i think sex without love is a big no no.. jesus doesn't approve of this. but oral is ok
 

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To DOGO: I wouldn't consider myself a slut ...jeej.. un perro si..horny ...its like being a porn star....imaginate....you have sex for fun and entertain. "just give me a call when you need it " ..i'll just be hitting it nice..tapping it a couple of times..and remmber..we just friends oK? thats why im' there..to satisfy your needs....i'll be there for you whenever u need me ****** calling 1-800-free-sex when you feel in need. but these are your friends right? i guess its diff..mm..-- Edited by Cocotaso at 23:23, 2006-04-26
LOL......see what I meant

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i think sex without love is a big no no.. jesus doesn't approve of this.

but oral is ok

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To DOGO:


I wouldn't consider myself a slut ...jeej.. un perro si..horny ...its like being a porn star....imaginate....you have sex for fun and entertain.


"just give me a call when you need it " ..i'll just be hitting it nice..tapping it a couple of times..and remmber..we just friends oK? thats why im' there..to satisfy your needs....i'll be there for you whenever u need me ******


calling 1-800-free-sex when you feel in need. but these are your friends right? i guess its diff..mm..



-- Edited by Cocotaso at 23:23, 2006-04-26

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AXA wrote:

I don’t see anything wrong with it, and I couldn’t consider any woman a slut because she decides to sleep with a friend. However, from my woman perspective is very difficult don’t get emotional involved and just see the guy as a “friend with rights” if you are sleeping many times with him. Many of my girlfriends have tried to play the game, but at the end they have finished with a broken heart. So it is a good idea if you consider yourself strong enough to don’t get hurt or if you are turning into a man.
OMG......................guys be carefull !!!!

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I don’t see anything wrong with it, and I couldn’t consider any woman a slut because she decides to sleep with a friend. However, from my woman perspective is very difficult don’t get emotional involved and just see the guy as a “friend with rights” if you are sleeping many times with him. Many of my girlfriends have tried to play the game, but at the end they have finished with a broken heart. So it is a good idea if you consider yourself strong enough to don’t get hurt or if you are turning into a man.

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Dogo wrote:

Cocotaso wrote: i don't see it right..i find it slutty..sorry... like if a girl would call me just for sex..after a while you will see her as a *Slut* not a friend.. ..at least i would.. Wondering if you think that the opposite is also trueWould you consider yourself a "slut" if YOU called HER for sex?

Remember ! We are "slut" and you guys are "the one that every girls want to be with" Ironic no ?


 


 


 


 


 


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i don't see it right..i find it slutty..sorry... like if a girl would call me just for sex..after a while you will see her as a *Slut* not a friend.. ..at least i would..


Wondering if you think that the opposite is also true
Would you consider yourself a "slut" if YOU called HER for sex?



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I don't approve of it and yes it is slutty, but what friend would you be if you are there when the person is in need.


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


J/K I think it's wrong


Maybe


I don't know



-- Edited by Jaime Cruz at 23:15, 2006-04-26

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McOSIRIS wrote:

Dogo wrote: McOSIRIS wrote: that's playing on the edge.... dangerous zone.... What is? what is when you play emotions with physical entertainment...


There isn't always "emotions" in physical entertainment....... otherwise you would only have sex when in love



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i don't see it right..i find it slutty..sorry... like if a girl would call me just for sex..after a while you will see her as a *Slut* not a friend.. ..at least i would..

I think you got it wrong. If you and this friend, a girl in you case, feel attracted to each other but not romanticaly and none of you are in a relationship, why not give it a shot.


I am not talking about you or her calling each other when you fell like it just for that, more like, the atmosphere is rght and there you go.



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Dogo wrote:

McOSIRIS wrote: that's playing on the edge.... dangerous zone.... What is?

what is when you play emotions with physical entertainment...



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i don't see it right..i find it slutty..sorry... like if a girl would call me just for sex..after a while you will see her as a *Slut* not a friend.. ..at least i would..



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miguel wrote:

you guys are so slutty i don't approve at all.

Kittyyyyyyyyy, sorry but I forgot your name


 


Tell Miguel not to have you involved in this ! For your own good



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McOSIRIS wrote:

that's playing on the edge.... dangerous zone....


What is?



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you guys are so slutty

i don't approve at all.

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that's playing on the edge....


dangerous zone....



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@ Miguel Try again and see if we believe you !


 


@ Girl, why not ? we're adults no ? So if you're attracted to someone and this person happens to be or becoming a friend, go for it ! If it developped into something else, nice for both of you and if not, well, at least you have a good friend with who you can share some good moments, besides talks I mean


But don't play around, that wouldn't be fair. Meaning No se vayan de flor en flor. Friends with benefits yes but don't loose the respect either !


So be honest and respectful and it will work out just fine



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lol..ur going to explode...wats that supposed to mean..i agree with him

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i don't think it's appropriate to have sexual relations without being in love


Dude! you're going to EXPLODE!



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i don't think it's appropriate to have sexual relations without being in love

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cause ur a guy!..LOL ..AND MEN think with there penises and not there heads!


LOL! NOOO!!!
It obviously took the other person to agree to have sex (in my case females.. obviously, all you jokers)
And I always had sex with that person BEFORE it became serious... so, NO, it's not a guy thing..... I don't think



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cause ur a guy!..LOL ..AND MEN think with there penises and not there heads!



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i mean i wouldnt sleep with a guy unless we are commited to each other....being monogomous is very important to me


I understand monogamy, and I agree with you


I'm just saying that most times it takes a while to make that relationship a "commited" one
I will very likely have sex before I feel that the relationship is turning serious.... otherwise I probably won't be having sex with that person for months!


If that's how your relationships work, I admire you... but I certainly couldn't do it



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i mean i wouldnt sleep with a guy unless we are commited to each other....being monogomous is very important to me

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na..i wouldnt have a freind with benefits...i only sleep with a guy if we're n a relationship



But what does that mean, really?
That you wouldn't have sex until you develop some kind of feeling?
Hardly anybody does.... I'm not saying you don't, but it's rare



-- Edited by Dogo at 21:30, 2006-04-26

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na..i wouldnt have a freind with benefits...i only sleep with a guy if we're n a relationship

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I don't think it's slutty.  As long as it's only one guy and you're not in a relationship, then I think it's fine.  Everyone has their needs! 



Why just the "one" guy?
I'm not disputing you, I'm only curious about the logic behind that thought



-- Edited by Dogo at 21:21, 2006-04-26

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Girl wrote:

is it a good idea to have a friend who u can call when u need it..!! or will that be to sluty coming from a girl side.. and what do guys think about it....??


Sluty?...Not at all, and it doesn’t necessarily mean you (the girl) are promiscuous


It sometimes happens, you’re sexually attracted but you don’t feel romantically attached


Among adults and as long as you’re not "playing" with the other person, it should be ok


Sex is "fun", it feels great and it doesn’t ALWAYS involve romance........ there shouldn’t be anything wrong with that, I don’t think



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I don't think it's slutty.  As long as it's only one guy and you're not in a relationship, then I think it's fine.  Everyone has their needs! 



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is it a good idea to have a friend who u can call when u need it..!! or will that be to sluty coming from a girl side.. and what do guys think about it....??

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