I think that it`s your man que the tiene que dar tu lugar como su esposa. He doesent necesarily have to be rude or anything but as long as he gets the message loud and clear to the girl, it should be OK. Mind you, most guys will not do this
Morning TH,
And it's true however even tho the guy has a girlfriend or doesn't know where future lies with her. He becomes confident that he other girls that have an interest in him, so if things don't go great with X then there's always enough room for Y, and Z.
Jaime Cruz wrote: bistor wrote: I would say the flirting starts when a person grabs another by the crotch. It's all kosher up to that point. Not in all cultures though. For some it's a form of saying a simple hello.
What does a guy or girl do in your opinion that you would take or think of as flirting?And have you ever been wrong and thought someone was flirting with you when they really were not?
O it could be anything. Look, smirk, smile, wink, giggle, tone in your voice, an "innocent" lean or brush against a person, touch and many more obvious ones.
To be honest, I like to flirt. It's in my blood...I can;t help it!
I agree with Chale both times: The whole touchy touchy thing....as well as it's all on the guy you are with....if he respects you enough he will not allow the "flirting" from some fulana cross any lines.... Some people just use the term RESPECT too losely and others don't even know the meaning of it...... RESPECT IS MUTUAL.....YOU CANNOT RESPECT SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T RESPECT YOU.....BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY YOU DO NOT RESPECT YOURSELF.....BECAUSE IF YOU DID, YOU WOULD NOT FEEL SO DISRESPECTED! @ COLO..... There's a thing line between friendliness and flirting....and don't ever forget that MEN are weak when it comes to telling another female to just STOP IT....regardless it's a matter of respect.....and this includes acceptance, love and understanding....you either have it or you don't......
I agree sis, and that`s why I said, sadly many men dont know how to do that. They dont want to come off as "rude or disrespectful" to the other chic, yet they dont care that they're being rude or disrespectful to their "significant" other. But believe, the few men that I know respect their women enough to do it, believe me, they do it well, in a proper manner, and are able to make themselves and their woman be respected.
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The whole touchy touchy thing....as well as it's all on the guy you are with....if he respects you enough he will not allow the "flirting" from some fulana cross any lines....
Some people just use the term RESPECT too losely and others don't even know the meaning of it......
RESPECT IS MUTUAL.....YOU CANNOT RESPECT SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T RESPECT YOU.....BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY YOU DO NOT RESPECT YOURSELF.....BECAUSE IF YOU DID, YOU WOULD NOT FEEL SO DISRESPECTED!
@ COLO.....
There's a thing line between friendliness and flirting....and don't ever forget that MEN are weak when it comes to telling another female to just STOP IT....regardless it's a matter of respect.....and this includes acceptance, love and understanding....you either have it or you don't......
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But sometimes if it`s in that person's nature to be "friendly" as they may want to define it, they're not gonna change it, or if they tone it down when ur around por el solo hecho de que no les reclamen, it will come out ten fold when you're not around. I know of cases where no matter how much one person puts their foot down about this, no importa la manera en que lo digan, the other person refuses to budge, because in their opinion "it's just being friendly" and they see nothing wrong with it. To quote my wonderful Dr. Phil "YOU CANNOT CHANGE WHAT YOU DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE". So if you dont think you're doing anything wrong, you're not gonna change it.
Ok, I'm a friendly person and sometimes the way I am is taken as flirting which is cool I don't have a problem with that as long as I am not disrespecting anyone .... if someone is told that their friendliness is bothering someone for example "la media mitad de un amigo" and it continues then I', SORRY that is total disrespect ...
I agree one may not see what or how they are can be constituted as flirting BUT if your told or even notice that there is tension or problems and one doesn't do anything about it then that is called DISRESPECT!!!
Hey is flirting called COTORREO???? or is that something totally different
LGigolo wrote: Jade wrote: Colombiana4Life wrote: Salsagal wrote: Listen to this.......we are at a wedding, and my man smokes whatever, but everytime he goes for a smoke a group of girls (who are also there with their men) go out too. I don't follow, i trust him So he comes back, and one of these girls comes up to him (we don't know her) she asks him for matches, he pats his pants and she reaches into his pants pocket.............feels around......... and pulls out his lighter. to this day, this moment in time gets brought up at every fight. and i slap myself in the face for not having reached over, grab her by the neck and scratch her ****in face off! Im sorry i lost my composure for a minute. >.............Yes the man needs to draw the line SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!! Yup, but most DONT know where to draw the line, sometimes you gotta be the one that puts a stop to the situation, and then you`re the one that looks bad. SO JUST LIKE LGIGO SAID..."and maybe his line is not the same as your line? " is this their excuse for allowing things to happen...thats what I PERSONALLY dont understand... and of course when they pass your limit as a woman.. they think is unacceptable we look like crazy jealouse girls.!! So if you say ...everyone has different boundaries..where does the good end and the bad begin?????? discuss the boundries among partners... let each other know what will NOT be tolerated... and put your foot down (or up, a kick in his balls?) if that line gets crossed. But sometimes if it`s in that person's nature to be "friendly" as they may want to define it, they're not gonna change it, or if they tone it down when ur around por el solo hecho de que no les reclamen, it will come out ten fold when you're not around. I know of cases where no matter how much one person puts their foot down about this, no importa la manera en que lo digan, the other person refuses to budge, because in their opinion "it's just being friendly" and they see nothing wrong with it. To quote my wonderful Dr. Phil "YOU CANNOT CHANGE WHAT YOU DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE". So if you dont think you're doing anything wrong, you're not gonna change it.
What does Dr. Phil know, his only got a doctorate PhD in this or that...
ok, maybe he's right THIS ONE TIME...
but that just takes it back to square one (or was that square two) the "discussion" between partners... there needs to be some kind of AGREEMENT where to start off.
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Jade wrote: Colombiana4Life wrote: Salsagal wrote: Listen to this.......we are at a wedding, and my man smokes whatever, but everytime he goes for a smoke a group of girls (who are also there with their men) go out too. I don't follow, i trust him So he comes back, and one of these girls comes up to him (we don't know her) she asks him for matches, he pats his pants and she reaches into his pants pocket.............feels around......... and pulls out his lighter. to this day, this moment in time gets brought up at every fight. and i slap myself in the face for not having reached over, grab her by the neck and scratch her ****in face off! Im sorry i lost my composure for a minute. >.............Yes the man needs to draw the line SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!! Yup, but most DONT know where to draw the line, sometimes you gotta be the one that puts a stop to the situation, and then you`re the one that looks bad. SO JUST LIKE LGIGO SAID..."and maybe his line is not the same as your line? " is this their excuse for allowing things to happen...thats what I PERSONALLY dont understand... and of course when they pass your limit as a woman.. they think is unacceptable we look like crazy jealouse girls.!! So if you say ...everyone has different boundaries..where does the good end and the bad begin?????? discuss the boundries among partners... let each other know what will NOT be tolerated... and put your foot down (or up, a kick in his balls?) if that line gets crossed.
But sometimes if it`s in that person's nature to be "friendly" as they may want to define it, they're not gonna change it, or if they tone it down when ur around por el solo hecho de que no les reclamen, it will come out ten fold when you're not around. I know of cases where no matter how much one person puts their foot down about this, no importa la manera en que lo digan, the other person refuses to budge, because in their opinion "it's just being friendly" and they see nothing wrong with it. To quote my wonderful Dr. Phil "YOU CANNOT CHANGE WHAT YOU DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE". So if you dont think you're doing anything wrong, you're not gonna change it.
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Colombiana4Life wrote: Salsagal wrote: Listen to this.......we are at a wedding, and my man smokes whatever, but everytime he goes for a smoke a group of girls (who are also there with their men) go out too. I don't follow, i trust him So he comes back, and one of these girls comes up to him (we don't know her) she asks him for matches, he pats his pants and she reaches into his pants pocket.............feels around......... and pulls out his lighter. to this day, this moment in time gets brought up at every fight. and i slap myself in the face for not having reached over, grab her by the neck and scratch her ****in face off! Im sorry i lost my composure for a minute. >.............Yes the man needs to draw the line SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!! Yup, but most DONT know where to draw the line, sometimes you gotta be the one that puts a stop to the situation, and then you`re the one that looks bad. SO JUST LIKE LGIGO SAID..."and maybe his line is not the same as your line? " is this their excuse for allowing things to happen...thats what I PERSONALLY dont understand... and of course when they pass your limit as a woman.. they think is unacceptable we look like crazy jealouse girls.!! So if you say ...everyone has different boundaries..where does the good end and the bad begin??????
discuss the boundries among partners... let each other know what will NOT be tolerated... and put your foot down (or up, a kick in his balls?) if that line gets crossed.
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touching.you can talk to a person all you want, but once that hand starts crawling up the arm or leg, then juz in trouble mang.
Oh oh... I'm in deep trouble then. I think I'm gonna have to disagree. I touch a lot... or rather punch. I wouldn't touch a person I don't like with a 10 foot pole though. Hmmm.
I went to the shower and she saw me pregnant, the wedding was 2 weeks after i gave birth, she'd seen me with him. Yeah it is grade 9, but i've only gotten into 1 fight my whole life and i really really really want to try it again, it just seemed like the perfect opportunity.
If Oscar De La Hoya loses his next fight, he may come knocking your door to book his next fight... I still don't think he has a chance!
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Salsagal wrote: Listen to this.......we are at a wedding, and my man smokes whatever, but everytime he goes for a smoke a group of girls (who are also there with their men) go out too. I don't follow, i trust him So he comes back, and one of these girls comes up to him (we don't know her) she asks him for matches, he pats his pants and she reaches into his pants pocket.............feels around......... and pulls out his lighter. to this day, this moment in time gets brought up at every fight. and i slap myself in the face for not having reached over, grab her by the neck and scratch her ****in face off! Im sorry i lost my composure for a minute. >.............Yes the man needs to draw the line SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!! Yup, but most DONT know where to draw the line, sometimes you gotta be the one that puts a stop to the situation, and then you`re the one that looks bad.
SO JUST LIKE LGIGO SAID..."and maybe his line is not the same as your line? " is this their excuse for allowing things to happen...thats what I PERSONALLY dont understand...
and of course when they pass your limit as a woman.. theythink is unacceptable we look like crazy jealouse girls.!!
So if you say ...everyone has different boundaries..where does the good end and the bad begin??????
thats where i think a man and woman have to tell each other what their boundaries are..what they like and dont like...and if they dont get each others limits..then its not to be because then youll always be surpassing each other which only ends up in constant fighting....
I went to the shower and she saw me pregnant, the wedding was 2 weeks after i gave birth, she'd seen me with him. Yeah it is grade 9, but i've only gotten into 1 fight my whole life and i really really really want to try it again, it just seemed like the perfect opportunity.
Listen to this.......we are at a wedding, and my man smokes whatever, but everytime he goes for a smoke a group of girls (who are also there with their men) go out too. I don't follow, i trust him So he comes back, and one of these girls comes up to him (we don't know her) she asks him for matches, he pats his pants and she reaches into his pants pocket.............feels around......... and pulls out his lighter. to this day, this moment in time gets brought up at every fight. and i slap myself in the face for not having reached over, grab her by the neck and scratch her ****in face off! Im sorry i lost my composure for a minute. >.............Yes the man needs to draw the line SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!!
Yup, but most DONT know where to draw the line, sometimes you gotta be the one that puts a stop to the situation, and then you`re the one that looks bad.
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Listen to this.......we are at a wedding, and my man smokes whatever, but everytime he goes for a smoke a group of girls (who are also there with their men) go out too. I don't follow, i trust him So he comes back, and one of these girls comes up to him (we don't know her) she asks him for matches, he pats his pants and she reaches into his pants pocket.............feels around......... and pulls out his lighter. to this day, this moment in time gets brought up at every fight. and i slap myself in the face for not having reached over, grab her by the neck and scratch her ****in face off! Im sorry i lost my composure for a minute. >.............Yes the man needs to draw the line SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!!
I see what you're saying but maybe she didn't know he's taken... and maybe his line is not the same as your line?
It's the past - let it go. You've already argued about it a gazillion times, it won't change the past; but hopefully he learned for the future.
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Listen to this.......we are at a wedding, and my man smokes whatever, but everytime he goes for a smoke a group of girls (who are also there with their men) go out too. I don't follow, i trust him So he comes back, and one of these girls comes up to him (we don't know her) she asks him for matches, he pats his pants and she reaches into his pants pocket.............feels around......... and pulls out his lighter. to this day, this moment in time gets brought up at every fight. and i slap myself in the face for not having reached over, grab her by the neck and scratch her ****in face off! Im sorry i lost my composure for a minute. >.............Yes the man needs to draw the line SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!!
Yeah see that totally is uncalled for..wahts the girl thinking! Thats my same theory..I will trust a boyfriend..but its the girls that i dont trust...cuz i know how we b! lol But guys dont believe that...and on top of that...THEY IN DENIAL half of the time!!!
yeah sorry to hear about that...would you have beat her up for real?! (sounds so gr.9) lol
i dont think i would get to the point of violence...
Listen to this.......we are at a wedding, and my man smokes whatever, but everytime he goes for a smoke a group of girls (who are also there with their men) go out too. I don't follow, i trust him So he comes back, and one of these girls comes up to him (we don't know her) she asks him for matches, he pats his pants and she reaches into his pants pocket.............feels around......... and pulls out his lighter. to this day, this moment in time gets brought up at every fight. and i slap myself in the face for not having reached over, grab her by the neck and scratch her ****in face off! Im sorry i lost my composure for a minute. >.............Yes the man needs to draw the line SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!!
LGigolo wrote: Salsagal wrote: Me.....yo soy selosa, so almost anything constitutes as flirting, a look, a smile, a grin. yeah im crazy! there is an unwritten code about these sorts of things, when a friend of you man, comes over to say hello, she knows her boundaries, she knows if she's doing something to piss you off. Anything that causes a reaction from my man.......i consider flirting *mental note to self: never add Salsagal as potential dating material unless you want to stay in a bubble 24/7 for the rest of your life* I plead insanity due to the children factor,
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Salsagal wrote: Me.....yo soy selosa, so almost anything constitutes as flirting, a look, a smile, a grin. yeah im crazy! there is an unwritten code about these sorts of things, when a friend of you man, comes over to say hello, she knows her boundaries, she knows if she's doing something to piss you off. Anything that causes a reaction from my man.......i consider flirting It`s true, some girls are stupid like that, but in cases like that I think that it`s your man que the tiene que dar tu lugar como su esposa. He doesent necesarily have to be rude or anything but as long as he gets the message loud and clear to the girl, it should be OK. Mind you, most guys will not do this
Yes I agree with Salsagal...and Colo...a lot of girls will do this ..supposedly they are too respect what is not theirs..but in the end its the guy that has to know where he can go and cant go ,,,how to conduct himself and hes supposed to know what will piss you off and what wont if hes your man...but like Colo said...they (GUYS) just dont get it! they sometimes even say they see nothing wrong...are they that naive? o solo se hacen?
I have girl friends who will grab each others man's asses...and they all find it funny....whatcha all think of that?!?!?!? how far does flirting go if you were just "joking".??.or theyll sit on their laps and stuff like that."jokingly" and of course they are all like.."NO NO it dont bother me"..but really I think they fronting and that deep inside they all wish each other to hell..(Fack girls we are crazy!!!)..LOL..i would never do that though its all about....
Salsagal wrote: Me.....yo soy selosa, so almost anything constitutes as flirting, a look, a smile, a grin. yeah im crazy! there is an unwritten code about these sorts of things, when a friend of you man, comes over to say hello, she knows her boundaries, she knows if she's doing something to piss you off. Anything that causes a reaction from my man.......i consider flirting *mental note to self: never add Salsagal as potential dating material unless you want to stay in a bubble 24/7 for the rest of your life*
Me.....yo soy selosa, so almost anything constitutes as flirting, a look, a smile, a grin. yeah im crazy! there is an unwritten code about these sorts of things, when a friend of you man, comes over to say hello, she knows her boundaries, she knows if she's doing something to piss you off. Anything that causes a reaction from my man.......i consider flirting
*mental note to self: never add Salsagal as potential dating material unless you want to stay in a bubble 24/7 for the rest of your life*
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Me.....yo soy selosa, so almost anything constitutes as flirting, a look, a smile, a grin. yeah im crazy! there is an unwritten code about these sorts of things, when a friend of you man, comes over to say hello, she knows her boundaries, she knows if she's doing something to piss you off. Anything that causes a reaction from my man.......i consider flirting
It`s true, some girls are stupid like that, but in cases like that I think that it`s your man que the tiene que dar tu lugar como su esposa. He doesent necesarily have to be rude or anything but as long as he gets the message loud and clear to the girl, it should be OK. Mind you, most guys will not do this
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Me.....yo soy selosa, so almost anything constitutes as flirting, a look, a smile, a grin. yeah im crazy! there is an unwritten code about these sorts of things, when a friend of you man, comes over to say hello, she knows her boundaries, she knows if she's doing something to piss you off. Anything that causes a reaction from my man.......i consider flirting
What does a guy or girl do in your opinion that you would take or think of as flirting?And have you ever been wrong and thought someone was flirting with you when they really were not?
First off I`d like to say I love your avatar, I knew the whole routine to that song. LMAO.
To kinda answer your question, some people take simple compliments waayyy overboard and think it`s flirting, when it could be just that, a simple compliment. Also, some dont know how to draw the line between friendly and flirty, and that gets them in trouble.
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What does a guy or girl do in your opinion that you would take or think of as flirting?And have you ever been wrong and thought someone was flirting with you when they really were not?
Woo hoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! CONGRATS top guru
I can't answer this , 'cause this confuses me .... so I will wait and read
What does a guy or girl do in your opinion that you would take or think of as flirting? And have you ever been wrong and thought someone was flirting with you when they really were not?
Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
I think you say coqueto/a 
So he comes back, and one of these girls comes up to him (we don't know her) she asks him for matches, he pats his pants and she reaches into his pants pocket.............feels around......... and pulls out his lighter. to this day, this moment in time gets brought up at every fight. and i slap myself in the face for not having reached over, grab her by the neck and scratch her ****in face off! Im sorry i lost my composure for a minute. >.............Yes the man needs to draw the line SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!! Yup, but most DONT know where to draw the line, sometimes you gotta be the one that puts a stop to the situation, and then you`re the one that looks bad. 
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