most guys i know keep a stash of porn for a rainy day... even if they have girlfriends
Yeah and theres nothing wrong with that...once again so long as the wife or the gf knows about it...you keep a secret your saying you got something to hide...thats just not cool..at least in my books....
I think that the INTERNET is a tricky tricky issue.
In regards to what Genie has posted, I would consider it cheating.
1. because he is married, he dont need to go into no porn site..especially as a single person..when he clearly has a family.
2. I think anything you hide from your spouse is not rite. Like Nena said...You have to have open communication...IF he says he's just going into the website to "make fun of" thats a bunch of bull**** because..if this were the case he would have had no problem in telling his wife from the beginning. I think a woman is more at ease if she knows whats going on..at least i do... instead of FINDING OUT cuz then that just makes everything SHADY..if it was nothing why not share it with her too...
This has happened to me before..I had an EX that surfed the net constantly..and I came across some emails and pictures ..where it clearly stated that he was going to meet with these girls and i confronted him about it..and he didnt considere it cheating because he didnt actually go and do it....and I told him it dont matter its the thought that counts..if it wasnt cuz i ran into these stuff..i would have never known...I consider it cheating...I told him that if he woulda told me from the beginning i would have never had a problem...but its the fact that he hid it from me that makes me wonder....
OK guys and girls!!! My cuzin and I were just talking on MSN about Prono and how she caught her husband looking at it! they have two kids and well i was saying that its normal for men to look at that stuff and get excited. But She felt like he was in a sense Cheating cuz he seemed to have joined some kinda of website for singles via a pron site!?!? So my question is would you guys consider it cheating even though he told her that he did to make fun of pathetic ppl and stuff?? So do u guys think that maybe he feels hes missing something?? or does he just do it for fun?? Guys would u do this if ur with a wife and kids??? I peronsally dont think its cheating i mean if thats what rocks his boat do what u please but then again if u join a singles porn site why do it and claim that ur single??? That i find wrong Im confused on this topic!!!!
I personally think that him joining the site as a single guy is cheating... I don't think is right, for a married man to go into the internet and start looking for porno.. I know that's what men in general like to watch.. but if you are married don't u think u need to be true to your wife and have an open communication with her... Explain what yours needs are and both of you can work it out
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OK guys and girls!!! My cuzin and I were just talking on MSN about Prono and how she caught her husband looking at it! they have two kids and well i was saying that its normal for men to look at that stuff and get excited. But She felt like he was in a sense Cheating cuz he seemed to have joined some kinda of website for singles via a pron site!?!? So my question is would you guys consider it cheating even though he told her that he did to make fun of pathetic ppl and stuff?? So do u guys think that maybe he feels hes missing something?? or does he just do it for fun?? Guys would u do this if ur with a wife and kids??? I peronsally dont think its cheating i mean if thats what rocks his boat do what u please but then again if u join a singles porn site why do it and claim that ur single??? That i find wrong Im confused on this topic!!!!
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Ok, so me and the boyfriend read this over and discussed it. He said, with a wife and kids AND on a singles site, that's not cool. It's not appropriate and it's wrong. I would consider it e-cheating.
Ok pizza is here, so I'll get back to this in a bit. I still think it's wrong. If my bf watches porn, so be it, but I don't want to see it or even know about it.
Ok.....good morning! That was some good pizza. Hope your cousin is feeling better.
Now I have a question. Was your cousin's hubby into porn prior to their marriage? I can't get over that "excuse" that it's to make fun of people!
I think the guys should answer this post too because I'm just talking from a paranoid, psychotic, jealous girlfriend perspective!
-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 08:58, 2006-04-24
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My cuzin and I were just talking on MSN about Prono and how she caught her husband looking at it! they have two kids and well i was saying that its normal for men to look at that stuff and get excited. But She felt like he was in a sense Cheating cuz he seemed to have joined some kinda of website for singles via a pron site!?!? So my question is would you guys consider it cheating even though he told her that he did to make fun of pathetic ppl and stuff?? So do u guys think that maybe he feels hes missing something?? or does he just do it for fun??
Guys would u do this if ur with a wife and kids???
I peronsally dont think its cheating i mean if thats what rocks his boat do what u please but then again if u join a singles porn site why do it and claim that ur single??? That i find wrong