What do you do.....

DulceGalletita · Foro Master

RE: What do you do.....

Lahtina · Foro Master

Take on a lover? Pffffffft!! That's just ridiculous!

MJ: Just end it, girl!

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Sorry Mowtown Junkie, but to answer Buffy's question about saffron i got this from a website and i've seen them do it on a documentary... ok the food network:

The Saffron filaments, or threads, are actually the dried stigmas of the saffron flower, "Crocus Sativus Linneaus". Each flower contains only three stigmas. These threads must be picked from each flower by hand, and more than 75,000 of these flowers are needed to produce just one pound of Saffron filaments, making it the world?s most precious spice.

Now.... back to Motown.

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know

try Tantra....

experiment with allucinogenics...

take pottery classes...

invent an imaginary lover...

get a "real" lover... (gimme a call )

experiment same sex relations...

buy him a one way ticket to Nigeria...

NeNa · Guru

bistor wrote:

After 4 months? Theres nothing to think... it wasn't the right person at the right time... move on. Millions of men in Toronto. Why delay being happy?

Only 4 months with him, and you're already bored....

NEXT......

there are plenty of men out there.... if you are bored already.. you're not that into him...

bistor · Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

@ BISTOR...
DON'T HELP HER!!
ALL SHE'S GONNA DO IS FEED YOU PLAIN YELLOW RICE FOR HOURS
NOT WORTH IT!
LOL

I have seen the funniest "paellas" (aka 'yellow rice dishes')... I remember one I saw at a cafeteria in Ottawa that had... broccoli! Funny stuff

Next time I go to Spain I'll let you know, though I'm not the sure the prices are much much better than here. Shipping is cheap

LaDyBuG · Comandante

@ BISTOR...

DON'T HELP HER!!

ALL SHE'S GONNA DO IS FEED YOU PLAIN YELLOW RICE FOR HOURS

NOT WORTH IT!

LOL

TV Buff · TOP Guru

bistor wrote:

They are the petals of a flower, and they have to be separated by hand... human labour costs money, specially when that labour comes from Spain, which is the largest producer of saffron in the world. I'm sure there would be money to be made if the separation process could be automated, but that hasn't happened yet

See, that's where you and LadyBug are different. You gave me a long (though insightful) explanation.

LadyBug offered me $20 worth of free saffron.

bistor · Guru

TV Buff wrote:

bistor wrote:
JOKER_ESCO wrote: PUT SOME SPICE IN YOUR SEX LIFE THAT HELPS ALLOT . I refuse to put cayenne pepper on my penis. Sorry.
Totally off-topic, why is it that saffron is such an expensive spice? I wanted to cook spanish rice the other day and it was like 10 bucks for a tiny container. Do you know?

Yep.

They are the petals of a flower, and they have to be separated by hand... human labour costs money, specially when that labour comes from Spain, which is the largest producer of saffron in the world.

I'm sure there would be money to be made if the separation process could be automated, but that hasn't happened yet

TV Buff · TOP Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

TV Buff wrote: I don't know about Paella, but you can have all the saffronized rice your heart desires. SO THEN I MIGHT AS WELL STAY HOME... THANKS FOR NOTHING BUFFY!!!

You're very, very welcome.

So when can I get my free $20 worth container of saffron? I'd appreciate it if I can have it before the weekend. Can you Fed-Ex it to me, using Baina's old account?

LaDyBuG · Comandante

TV Buff wrote:

I don't know about Paella, but you can have all the saffronized rice your heart desires.

SO THEN I MIGHT AS WELL STAY HOME...

THANKS FOR NOTHING BUFFY!!!

TV Buff · TOP Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

TV Buff wrote: I think I need to pay a visit to a Middle Eastern store... or your house... whichever is cheaper. IT ALL DEPENDS..... AM I INVITED FOR DINNER? PAELLA SOUNDS YUUUMMMM

I don't know about Paella, but you can have all the saffronized rice your heart desires.

LaDyBuG · Comandante

TV Buff wrote:

I think I need to pay a visit to a Middle Eastern store... or your house... whichever is cheaper.

IT ALL DEPENDS.....

AM I INVITED FOR DINNER?

PAELLA SOUNDS YUUUMMMM

TV Buff · TOP Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

TV Buff wrote: Sorry. Totally off-topic, why is it that saffron is such an expensive spice? I wanted to cook spanish rice the other day and it was like 10 bucks for a tiny container. Do you know? Yes I know...we use a lot of it at home....we always add that to our rice.....and you can find it a bit cheaper in middle eastern stores.....for the Largest container....it's $20.....and that can last you for a good year if you use it once a month.... You're out of luck....since for the Persian new year last week they were giving them away for FREE.....

I think I need to pay a visit to a Middle Eastern store... or your house... whichever is cheaper.

LaDyBuG · Comandante

TV Buff wrote:

Sorry. Totally off-topic, why is it that saffron is such an expensive spice? I wanted to cook spanish rice the other day and it was like 10 bucks for a tiny container. Do you know?

Yes I know...we use a lot of it at home....we always add that to our rice.....and you can find it a bit cheaper in middle eastern stores.....for the Largest container....it's $20.....and that can last you for a good year if you use it once a month....

You're out of luck....since for the Persian new year last week they were giving them away for FREE.....

bistor · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

bistor wrote:
Motown Junkie wrote: Jaime Cruz wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know Have you asked him what he thinks of all this? He doesn't want it be over. We're TRYING to come up with resolutions. I think it's just the $hit thta's going on beyond our relationship that's playing a factor. We're both in a funk right now. Some people enjoy the agony. What can I say. All I would say is that neither of you is the last man/woman on earth and you're fortunate enough to share a city with millions of attractive, interesting human beings. Why prolong the BullShit?
Alright BISTOR, YOU'RE my next victim!!!! Drop the strippers!!!

But the strippers are my friends!

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

bistor wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote:
Chilenita wrote:
How long have you been together?
Not long at all. 4 months. I know......I'm lame.

Next him.

LOL, LOL, LOL

Something I would Say.

TV Buff · TOP Guru

bistor wrote:

JOKER_ESCO wrote: PUT SOME SPICE IN YOUR SEX LIFE THAT HELPS ALLOT . I refuse to put cayenne pepper on my penis. Sorry.

Totally off-topic, why is it that saffron is such an expensive spice? I wanted to cook spanish rice the other day and it was like 10 bucks for a tiny container. Do you know?

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

bistor wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Jaime Cruz wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know Have you asked him what he thinks of all this? He doesn't want it be over. We're TRYING to come up with resolutions. I think it's just the $hit thta's going on beyond our relationship that's playing a factor. We're both in a funk right now. Some people enjoy the agony. What can I say. All I would say is that neither of you is the last man/woman on earth and you're fortunate enough to share a city with millions of attractive, interesting human beings. Why prolong the BullShit?

Alright BISTOR, YOU'RE my next victim!!!! Drop the strippers!!!

bistor · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

Jaime Cruz wrote:
Motown Junkie wrote: when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know Have you asked him what he thinks of all this?
He doesn't want it be over. We're TRYING to come up with resolutions. I think it's just the $hit thta's going on beyond our relationship that's playing a factor. We're both in a funk right now.

Some people enjoy the agony. What can I say.

All I would say is that neither of you is the last man/woman on earth and you're fortunate enough to share a city with millions of attractive, interesting human beings.

Why prolong the BullShit?

Jinx · TOP Guru

bistor wrote:

Take on a lover.

a lover with a long thick d*ck jajajajaja

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Jaime Cruz wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know Have you asked him what he thinks of all this?

He doesn't want it be over. We're TRYING to come up with resolutions. I think it's just the $hit thta's going on beyond our relationship that's playing a factor. We're both in a funk right now.

bistor · Guru

Jaime Cruz wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote:
when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know
Have you asked him what he thinks of all this?

After 4 months? Theres nothing to think... it wasn't the right person at the right time... move on.

Millions of men in Toronto. Why delay being happy?

Chilenita · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

Chilenita wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: Chilenita wrote: How long have you been together? Not long at all. 4 months. I know......I'm lame. Ummm nope it's over Motown. Seriously it never began. Ouch....where's the broken heart emoticon? F*$K!!

Sorry I am way to blunt! Okay I just mean that it's only been four months...if it's already boring and you feel you only see him out of convienence then cut your losses and just move on.

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

Motown Junkie wrote:

when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know

Have you asked him what he thinks of all this?

GENIE · Foro Master

Motown Junkie wrote:

Is it possible that since he's having a hard time with work and soccer and I'm having a hard time with work that we're taking it out on each other?? We're both in a personal rut and it's spreading into a relationship rut??

SO U HAVE FOUND UR PROBLEM NOW FIND A SOLUTION!!! AND YEAH IF U CANT GET PAST 4MTHS ITS OVER GIRL!!!

God · Foro Master

JOKER_ESCO wrote:

PUT SOME SPICE IN YOUR SEX LIFE THAT HELPS ALLOT

.

Damn right....Jiiiiiiiiiiiiiinnnxxxx where are ya ?

Miel · Guru

Chilenita wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Chilenita wrote: How long have you been together? Not long at all. 4 months. I know......I'm lame. Ummm nope it's over Motown. Seriously it never began.

AGREE

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Chilenita wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Chilenita wrote: How long have you been together? Not long at all. 4 months. I know......I'm lame. Ummm nope it's over Motown. Seriously it never began.

Ouch....where's the broken heart emoticon? F*$K!!

JOKER_ESCO · Foro Master

Jaime Cruz wrote:

JOKER_ESCO wrote: PUT SOME SPICE IN YOUR SEX LIFE THAT HELPS ALLOT . Yes spice in your sex life but not during sex....trust me it burns

LMAO WELL THAT IS NOT WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT

bistor · Guru

JOKER_ESCO wrote:

PUT SOME SPICE IN YOUR SEX LIFE THAT HELPS ALLOT

.

I refuse to put cayenne pepper on my penis.

Sorry.

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

JOKER_ESCO wrote:

PUT SOME SPICE IN YOUR SEX LIFE THAT HELPS ALLOT .

Yes spice in your sex life but not during sex....trust me it burns

JOKER_ESCO · Foro Master

PUT SOME SPICE IN YOUR SEX LIFE THAT HELPS ALLOT

.

God · Foro Master

Motown Junkie wrote:

Chilenita wrote:
How long have you been together?
Not long at all. 4 months. I know......I'm lame.

Neeeeeeeeeeexxxxxxxxxxxtttttttttttttttttt!

Chilenita · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

Chilenita wrote: How long have you been together? Not long at all. 4 months. I know......I'm lame.

Ummm nope it's over Motown. Seriously it never began.

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Is it possible that since he's having a hard time with work and soccer and I'm having a hard time with work that we're taking it out on each other?? We're both in a personal rut and it's spreading into a relationship rut??

Miel · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

Chilenita wrote: How long have you been together? Not long at all. 4 months. I know......I'm lame.

4 months and boring,... yeah,. i can see that, . la solucion,. find someone else,. if u really love him, u won't get bored in 4 months,..unless,. ustedes no hagan nada divertido,. just listen to the advices of the experts here,..I dunno

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

Jaime Cruz wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Jaime Cruz wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: Jaime Cruz wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know You may have heard this before from other people but try and do new things.I'm in a long relationship and I know things can become a routine, but you have to do new things to keep it interesting. Try new restaurants, or go on a short trip. Thank you. Do you have any ideas that don't involve a lot of money?? What's your budget? I never thought of that. Well he just started a new job and I'm not working plus we eat out A LOT so we went grocery shopping and hopefully that'll help. We decided to see each other only on weekends as opposed to every day which to me is crappy but I think we're just too routine now. This sucks!! Budget?? Maybe $50 for the weekend? $50 for the weekend I don't know about a weekend, but now the it's starting to get warm you may want to consider harbourfront at night. You can go for a walk there and have a couple of drinks on one of the patio restaurants.

If that doesn't work you can buy a few things at one of the many sex shops downtown to spice things up or experiment with

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Well thanks everyone! Hopefully when the weather gets better, our relationship will get better.

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

Motown Junkie wrote:

Jaime Cruz wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: Jaime Cruz wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know You may have heard this before from other people but try and do new things.I'm in a long relationship and I know things can become a routine, but you have to do new things to keep it interesting. Try new restaurants, or go on a short trip. Thank you. Do you have any ideas that don't involve a lot of money?? What's your budget? I never thought of that. Well he just started a new job and I'm not working plus we eat out A LOT so we went grocery shopping and hopefully that'll help. We decided to see each other only on weekends as opposed to every day which to me is crappy but I think we're just too routine now. This sucks!! Budget?? Maybe $50 for the weekend?

$50 for the weekend

I don't know about a weekend, but now the it's starting to get warm you may want to consider harbourfront at night. You can go for a walk there and have a couple of drinks on one of the patio restaurants.

bistor · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

Chilenita wrote:
How long have you been together?
Not long at all. 4 months. I know......I'm lame.

Next him.

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Chilenita wrote:

How long have you been together?

Not long at all. 4 months. I know......I'm lame.

Gitana · Foro Master

YOU NEED TO ADD SOME SPICE TO THE RELATIONSHIP... IN EVERY ASPECT.... YOU BOTH NEED TO DO NEW THINGS, PERHAPS THINGS THAT AT ONE POINT YOU BOTH NEVER IMAGINED DOING... BEING SPONTANEOUS AND CREATIVE CAN GO A LONG WAY!

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Jaime Cruz wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Jaime Cruz wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know You may have heard this before from other people but try and do new things.I'm in a long relationship and I know things can become a routine, but you have to do new things to keep it interesting. Try new restaurants, or go on a short trip. Thank you. Do you have any ideas that don't involve a lot of money?? What's your budget?

I never thought of that. Well he just started a new job and I'm not working plus we eat out A LOT so we went grocery shopping and hopefully that'll help. We decided to see each other only on weekends as opposed to every day which to me is crappy but I think we're just too routine now. This sucks!! Budget?? Maybe $50 for the weekend?

GENIE · Foro Master

Motown Junkie wrote:

when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know

WELL INSTEAD OF STAYING AT HOME ON THE WEEKENDS GO ON A DATE KEEP IT LIVELY

GO TO THE MOVIES OR JUST OUT WALK AROUND U LIVE DOWNTOWN!!! DO THINGS HE LIKES AS WELL!!!

bistor · Guru

Take on a lover.

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

Motown Junkie wrote:

Jaime Cruz wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know You may have heard this before from other people but try and do new things.I'm in a long relationship and I know things can become a routine, but you have to do new things to keep it interesting. Try new restaurants, or go on a short trip. Thank you. Do you have any ideas that don't involve a lot of money??

What's your budget?

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Jaime Cruz wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know You may have heard this before from other people but try and do new things.I'm in a long relationship and I know things can become a routine, but you have to do new things to keep it interesting. Try new restaurants, or go on a short trip.

Thank you. Do you have any ideas that don't involve a lot of money??

Chilenita · Comandante

How long have you been together?

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

Motown Junkie wrote:

when you're relationship is in a rut??? I'm getting so depressed because my relationship is getting SO boring . It's like we see each other out of convenience. Any suggestions?? The ONLY thing I know is that I love him other than that......I don't know

You may have heard this before from other people but try and do new things.
I'm in a long relationship and I know things can become a routine, but you have to do new things to keep it interesting. Try new restaurants, or go on a short trip.