do you think it should be split equally? NOT really, Not Necesarily - NO period! Are there things you would rather do? NOT REALLY Things you feel she should do? EVERYTHING! Chilenita says: there are things I will not let my husband do like......laundry, detailed cleaning and dishes....not cuz I think it's my job but more because he just SUCKS at it. MEN: Pay attention to the last highlited statement - the obvious easy way out for us is: If she MAKES us do something we don't want to... just do a bad job, till she decides to do it herself! TIP TO CHILENITA'S MAN: Maybe you can start making holes in the garbage so it leaks all the way to the front yard - and - when mopping the floor, make it dirtier than you started... Maybe Chilenita will start doing those chores too! (THANKS? You're welcome man!)
nah that would backfire since the floors are his to do
So does this mean you fall under the category that LB forgot:
Lazy ASS men that have women do everything for them
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Chilenita wrote: Actually he was in the Air Force in Argentina for five years....still doesn't care about tiles in a bathroom. I guess the argentine military is different...
No why on earth would it be....yes men in the military follow orders but that doesn't mean they continue to live as if they are still in it once they have left.......
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do you think it should be split equally? NOT really, Not Necesarily - NO period!
Are there things you would rather do? NOT REALLY
Things you feel she should do? EVERYTHING!
Chilenita says: there are things I will not let my husband do like......laundry, detailed cleaning and dishes....not cuz I think it's my job but more because he just SUCKS at it.
MEN: Pay attention to the last highlited statement - the obvious easy way out for us is: If she MAKES us do something we don't want to... just do a bad job, till she decides to do it herself!
TIP TO CHILENITA'S MAN: Maybe you can start making holes in the garbage so it leaks all the way to the front yard - and - when mopping the floor, make it dirtier than you started... Maybe Chilenita will start doing those chores too! (THANKS? You're welcome man!)
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Chilenita wrote: McOSIRIS wrote: and...wot's the problem with that??? NOTHING!!! I have dated total metrosexuals and they all are the pay attention to detail when cleaning type of guys....nothing wrong with that if my husband was that way I wouldn't need to explain to him how to clean the bathroom or that he could use a bit of eyebrow plucking I can't really clean the bathroom either... cuz it ruins my manicure...
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Chilenita wrote: bistor wrote: He will never learn if you don't let him "practice". Men's fabled genetic incompetence at household tasks is a good excuse for having someone else (mommy, gf) do them. I guess you are right but I know him and he just doesn't think that scrubbing the tile walls is important......he just does not clean it the way it needs to be cleaned......so yeah I'll just do it forever The one time he did laundry he put in my dogs comforter with our bed sheets I was like ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww what are you doing and he just said "wha it's all in the wash anyway"....he is like a guys guy....nothing metrosexual about him that might help his cleaning YEAH WELL MINE THINKS THAT U DONT NEED TO SEPARATE THE CLOTHES!!! U SHOULD HAVE SEEN MY WHITES!! WERE LIKE DIRTY WHITE!!!!! I COULD OF KILLED HIM!!! SO I THOUGHT HIM TO SEPARATE!!! LMAO! BUT THE BATHROOM NEVER LET HIM TOUCH IT!! NEVER!!!
Yeah see I totally teach him but he will just do his own thing when I am not looking
Some guys just don't see or care about certian things. He also doesn't get why I wipe my dog down when he gets back from the park...well...nobody gets that
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McOSIRIS wrote: and...wot's the problem with that??? NOTHING!!! I have dated total metrosexuals and they all are the pay attention to detail when cleaning type of guys....nothing wrong with that if my husband was that way I wouldn't need to explain to him how to clean the bathroom or that he could use a bit of eyebrow plucking
I can't really clean the bathroom either... cuz it ruins my manicure...
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bistor wrote: He will never learn if you don't let him "practice". Men's fabled genetic incompetence at household tasks is a good excuse for having someone else (mommy, gf) do them. I guess you are right but I know him and he just doesn't think that scrubbing the tile walls is important......he just does not clean it the way it needs to be cleaned......so yeah I'll just do it foreverThe one time he did laundry he put in my dogs comforter with our bed sheets I was like ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww what are you doing and he just said "wha it's all in the wash anyway"....he is like a guys guy....nothing metrosexual about him that might help his cleaning
YEAH WELL MINE THINKS THAT U DONT NEED TO SEPARATE THE CLOTHES!!! U SHOULD HAVE SEEN MY WHITES!! WERE LIKE DIRTY WHITE!!!!! I COULD OF KILLED HIM!!! SO I THOUGHT HIM TO SEPARATE!!! LMAO! BUT THE BATHROOM NEVER LET HIM TOUCH IT!! NEVER!!!
NOTHING!!! I have dated total metrosexuals and they all are the pay attention to detail when cleaning type of guys....nothing wrong with that if my husband was that way I wouldn't need to explain to him how to clean the bathroom or that he could use a bit of eyebrow plucking
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bistor wrote: I about as little a fan of feminism as you can imagine, but this is plain common sense. Ability at household chores is simply a question of hygene and practice. There really isn't much mystery to washing your colours separate from your whites. Serious! Institutions such as the military, overwhelmingly male, manage to whip slobs... err, I mean "guy's guys" ... into master floor-cleaners, shoe-cleaners, furniture-cleaners, gun-cleaners, anything-you-like-cleaners, in a matter of a few months. Precious few poofs or metrosexuals in the military. I won't even get into the world-class chefs that happen to have a penis dangling between their legs. Nor will I get into the large number of women I have met who's cooking ability is limited to turning on the microwave oven to defrost their pre-cooked dinner. This is not a male/female issue, this is a slob/non-slob issue. Actually he was in the Air Force in Argentina for five years....still doesn't care about tiles in a bathroom. It's not that he is a slob...he isn't....he is NOT one of those men that sits around with his hands in his pants and does not shower....he is very clean BUT he does not pay attention to detail when cleaning....would never care about his hands or nails or getting a manicure.....gets $10.00 hair cuts you know things like that...so it's not just a matter of being a slob or not...he is NOT a slob but he doesn't pay attention to detail......metrosexuals DO and that is my point
and...wot's the problem with that???
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I about as little a fan of feminism as you can imagine, but this is plain common sense. Ability at household chores is simply a question of hygene and practice. There really isn't much mystery to washing your colours separate from your whites. Serious! Institutions such as the military, overwhelmingly male, manage to whip slobs... err, I mean "guy's guys" ... into master floor-cleaners, shoe-cleaners, furniture-cleaners, gun-cleaners, anything-you-like-cleaners, in a matter of a few months. Precious few poofs or metrosexuals in the military. I won't even get into the world-class chefs that happen to have a penis dangling between their legs. Nor will I get into the large number of women I have met who's cooking ability is limited to turning on the microwave oven to defrost their pre-cooked dinner. This is not a male/female issue, this is a slob/non-slob issue.
Actually he was in the Air Force in Argentina for five years....still doesn't care about tiles in a bathroom.
It's not that he is a slob...he isn't....he is NOT one of those men that sits around with his hands in his pants and does not shower....he is very clean BUT he does not pay attention to detail when cleaning....would never care about his hands or nails or getting a manicure.....gets $10.00 hair cuts you know things like that...so it's not just a matter of being a slob or not...he is NOT a slob but he doesn't pay attention to detail......metrosexuals DO and that is my point
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I about as little a fan of feminism as you can imagine, but this is plain common sense. Ability at household chores is simply a question of hygene and practice. There really isn't much mystery to washing your colours separate from your whites. Serious!
Institutions such as the military, overwhelmingly male, manage to whip slobs... err, I mean "guy's guys" ... into master floor-cleaners, shoe-cleaners, furniture-cleaners, gun-cleaners, anything-you-like-cleaners, in a matter of a few months.
Precious few poofs or metrosexuals in the military.
I won't even get into the world-class chefs that happen to have a penis dangling between their legs.
Nor will I get into the large number of women I have met who's cooking ability is limited to turning on the microwave oven to defrost their pre-cooked dinner.
This is not a male/female issue, this is a slob/non-slob issue.
Chilenita wrote: bistor wrote: He will never learn if you don't let him "practice". Men's fabled genetic incompetence at household tasks is a good excuse for having someone else (mommy, gf) do them. I guess you are right but I know him and he just doesn't think that scrubbing the tile walls is important......he just does not clean it the way it needs to be cleaned......so yeah I'll just do it forever The one time he did laundry he put in my dogs comforter with our bed sheets I was like ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww what are you doing and he just said "wha it's all in the wash anyway"....he is like a guys guy....nothing metrosexual about him that might help his cleaning I fail to see what proper hygene has to do with masculinity or his being a metrosexual or not.
any metrosexual male I have ever met is much more clean and tidy then those who are not.....every single one....they take better care of themselves....they pay more attention to detail......the same is true with gay men....I have tons of gay friends and they pay attention to detail when it comes to cleaning....not sure why it is it just is...of course there are exceptions to every rule.....
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Now that I am pregnant I have no choice but to let him do it because I use harsh chemicals in the bathroom for cleaning but I ask him about every little thing. POOR GUY
Another good reason why both need to KNOW about to clean....or learn if they don't.....
I agree with Biscotti...
He will never learn if you don't let him "practice".
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Chilenita wrote: bistor wrote: He will never learn if you don't let him "practice". Men's fabled genetic incompetence at household tasks is a good excuse for having someone else (mommy, gf) do them.
I guess you are right but I know him and he just doesn't think that scrubbing the tile walls is important......he just does not clean it the way it needs to be cleaned......so yeah I'll just do it forever The one time he did laundry he put in my dogs comforter with our bed sheets I was like ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww what are you doing and he just said "wha it's all in the wash anyway"....he is like a guys guy....nothing metrosexual about him that might help his cleaning
I fail to see what proper hygene has to do with masculinity or his being a metrosexual or not.
He will never learn if you don't let him "practice".Men's fabled genetic incompetence at household tasks is a good excuse for having someone else (mommy, gf) do them.
I guess you are right but I know him and he just doesn't think that scrubbing the tile walls is important......he just does not clean it the way it needs to be cleaned......so yeah I'll just do it forever
The one time he did laundry he put in my dogs comforter with our bed sheets I was like ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww what are you doing and he just said "wha it's all in the wash anyway"....he is like a guys guy....nothing metrosexual about him that might help his cleaning
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Chilenita wrote: GENIE wrote: LaDyBuG wrote: GENIE wrote: EN MY LITTLE CASITA WE GO 50/50 BUT HE CANT WAIT I WONT LET HIM DO THE WASHROOMS I HAVE TO MAKE SURE I DO IT I HAVE A SYSTEM!!!! AND WE SHARE EVERYTHING ELSE Share the wealth please! Do you call MAGOS??? LOL LOL YES I DO!!!! LOL NO I JUST KNOW WHEN ITS CLEAN!!! AND WE BOTH COOK!!! Genie I am the same way I will only let him clean the bathroom floor but not the rest....I do the rest...one time I let him clean it and then I asked him what he used to clean the tile walls and he was like..."was I supposed to clean those"....so never again. Now that I am pregnant I have no choice but to let him do it because I use harsh chemicals in the bathroom for cleaning but I ask him about every little thing. POOR GUY
He will never learn if you don't let him "practice".
Men's fabled genetic incompetence at household tasks is a good excuse for having someone else (mommy, gf) do them.
LaDyBuG wrote: GENIE wrote: EN MY LITTLE CASITA WE GO 50/50 BUT HE CANT WAIT I WONT LET HIM DO THE WASHROOMS I HAVE TO MAKE SURE I DO IT I HAVE A SYSTEM!!!! AND WE SHARE EVERYTHING ELSE Share the wealth please! Do you call MAGOS??? LOL LOL YES I DO!!!! LOL NO I JUST KNOW WHEN ITS CLEAN!!! AND WE BOTH COOK!!!
Genie I am the same way I will only let him clean the bathroom floor but not the rest....I do the rest...one time I let him clean it and then I asked him what he used to clean the tile walls and he was like..."was I supposed to clean those"....so never again. Now that I am pregnant I have no choice but to let him do it because I use harsh chemicals in the bathroom for cleaning but I ask him about every little thing. POOR GUY
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GENIE wrote: EN MY LITTLE CASITA WE GO 50/50 BUT HE CANT WAIT I WONT LET HIM DO THE WASHROOMS I HAVE TO MAKE SURE I DO IT I HAVE A SYSTEM!!!! AND WE SHARE EVERYTHING ELSE Share the wealth please! Do you call MAGOS??? LOL
LOL YES I DO!!!! LOL NO I JUST KNOW WHEN ITS CLEAN!!! AND WE BOTH COOK!!!
bistor wrote: I don't think it matters who does what, as long as the contribution of both to their welfare is the same. It goes without saying that if only one is bringing home the bacon, the other should do all the housework. Yes you make sense....but what if they are vegetarian? Also (it's no surprise I like working)....but if a man was to support me financially (well off) I would stay home 24/7 and clean all day.....LOL....but I won't cook!!!
Well I agree with you I'll clean, do laundry, anything but I won't cook, I hate cooking
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EN MY LITTLE CASITA WE GO 50/50 BUT HE CANT WAIT I WONT LET HIM DO THE WASHROOMS I HAVE TO MAKE SURE I DO IT I HAVE A SYSTEM!!!! AND WE SHARE EVERYTHING ELSE
Share the wealth please!
Do you call MAGOS??? LOL
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LaDyBuG wrote: bistor wrote: I don't think it matters who does what, as long as the contribution of both to their welfare is the same. It goes without saying that if only one is bringing home the bacon, the other should do all the housework. Yes you make sense....but what if they are vegetarian?
Porque la carita pumpkin? chunowateyementrite? lol
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LaDyBuG wrote: bistor wrote: I don't think it matters who does what, as long as the contribution of both to their welfare is the same. It goes without saying that if only one is bringing home the bacon, the other should do all the housework.
Yes you make sense....but what if they are vegetarian?
I don't think it matters who does what, as long as the contribution of both to their welfare is the same. It goes without saying that if only one is bringing home the bacon, the other should do all the housework.
Yes you make sense....but what if they are vegetarian?
Also (it's no surprise I like working)....but if a man was to support me financially (well off) I would stay home 24/7 and clean all day.....LOL....but I won't cook!!!
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I actually like washing dishes so I wouldn't mind.....I feel a man should take out the trash.....don't really have a reason but somehow it makes sense....lol I think both need to know HOW to clean and if they don't know then they have to LEARN.....because what if one gets sick for a long time or goes away on a trip....etc
Yep I just refuse....ewwww....no way Jose I will not take out the trash! Now it's more complicated than ever with the blue/green bins and then the regular trash....it's all so stinky....yuck
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I don't think it matters who does what, as long as the contribution of both to their welfare is the same. It goes without saying that if only one is bringing home the bacon, the other should do all the housework.
Hey everyone! So as far as housework do you think it should be split equally? Are there things you would rather do? Things you feel he/she should do? To be honest I don't do everything at home but there are things I will not let my husband do like...laundry, detailed cleaning and dishes....not cuz I think it's my job but more because he just SUCKS at it. There are things I refuse to do .....I will not under any circumstances take out the trash...I just won't do it. I also make him wash the floors.
CHILE YOU ARE THE MAN!!
IN MY CASE WE DO 50/50.WHEN THE WEEKEND STARTS,IT BECOMES 100% FOR HIM. AND YES I REFUSE TO TAKE THE GARBAGE AS WELL.
I actually like washing dishes so I wouldn't mind.....
I feel a man should take out the trash.....don't really have a reason but somehow it makes sense....lol
I think both need to know HOW to clean and if they don't know then they have to LEARN.....because what if one gets sick for a long time or goes away on a trip....etc
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So as far as housework do you think it should be split equally?
Are there things you would rather do?
Things you feel he/she should do?
To be honest I don't do everything at home but there are things I will not let my husband do like...laundry, detailed cleaning and dishes....not cuz I think it's my job but more because he just SUCKS at it. There are things I refuse to do .....I will not under any circumstances take out the trash...I just won't do it. I also make him wash the floors.
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NOTHING!!! I have dated total metrosexuals and they all are the pay attention to detail when cleaning type of guys....nothing wrong with that if my husband was that way I wouldn't need to explain to him how to clean the bathroom or that he could use a bit of eyebrow plucking
I can't really clean the bathroom either... cuz it ruins my manicure... 
The one time he did laundry he put in my dogs comforter with our bed sheets
I was like ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww what are you doing and he just said "wha it's all in the wash anyway"....he is like a guys guy....nothing metrosexual about him that might help his cleaning 
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