I'm with Danny on this one (I can't believe I've agreed with him twice today!) but WHAT THE HELL GIRL, you're not in any situation to warrant even the thought of cheating. It's like packing a rubber raft for Mardi Gras because New Orleans flooded once before... but all you're doing is wasting prime luggage space, and worrying for nothing... cause u shouldn't be travelling there in hurricane season anyway!
AY DIO MIO!!! if you put it that way then yeah the thoughts just waste some time in life for other important and more interesting thoughts that could be happening
I'm with Danny on this one (I can't believe I've agreed with him twice today!) but WHAT THE HELL GIRL, you're not in any situation to warrant even the thought of cheating. It's like packing a rubber raft for Mardi Gras because New Orleans flooded once before... but all you're doing is wasting prime luggage space, and worrying for nothing... cause u shouldn't be travelling there in hurricane season anyway!
You ALWAYS stick for what you think is the right thing to do. If you compromise your fundamental values and beliefs, that's gonns come to haunt you for the rest of your life.
Yeah, I guess in one way or another you would know what is RIGHT! ... yeah I'm actually questioning alot of things at the moment ...
@ LAB: true it would depend on the person and the whole context of the situation ...
@DANNY: Ay dio mio my ecuabro LOL!! Yeah your right but I like to prepare myself but I'm realizing that you can't really prepare yourself for anything 'cause things may just go a different way ...
@CHILENITA: yeah I think so ... I rather he tell me he is gonna cheat and then I know that something is wrong in the relationship and see if it can be worked out if at all ...
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Daeveed wrote: LAB_ wrote: Daeveed, isnīt doing just that what we spend our lives on!
That depends on what your fundamental values are, but I think the practice is widespread as you say. I try, but if i REALLY tried, I'd live in a farm in Fiji and I'd cultivate my own food and live off of my own resources.
Daeveed wrote: LAB_ wrote: Daeveed, isnīt doing just that what we spend our lives on!
That depends on what your fundamental values are, but I think the practice is widespread as you say. I try, but if i REALLY tried, I'd live in a farm in Fiji and I'd cultivate my own food and live off of my own resources.
Xx ViCioSiTa xX wrote: Ok, forolandia makes me think to much LOL!!! Ok, I don't know why but with all this LOVE talk I started thinking about CHEATING At this point in my life (meaning I'm single and it hasn't happened to me yet gracias al Jefito del Cielo) I have always said that if I were to be cheated on no matter what the relationship would be over! Osea I was raised with the ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER but I also believe in giving people a second chance ... AY DIO MIO!! I hate questioning myself ... Now I'm thinking if I were in that situation I WOULD NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ... ** I guess my question here is: what do you or what have you done when morals, beliefs, ideas, etc.. in your life conflict each other??? Humans are so unique, that I consider a very dangerous thing to establish a rule of thumb for such thing as emotionally loaded relationships. Or for the kind of decisions to take in each case. I think its all about who you are talking about. To "this" person I might "give a chance", but to "that other" I might not.
You are so right Lab....don't set rules for yourself....every relationship is different
Cheating....as long as he is just sleeping with the person and not taking long walks on a beach and having deep conversation is it really that big of a deal
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Daeveed wrote: You ALWAYS stick for what you think is the right thing to do. If you compromise your fundamental values and beliefs, that's gonns come to haunt you for the rest of your life.
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Daeveed, isnīt doing just that what we spend our lives on!
Ok, forolandia makes me think to much LOL!!! Ok, I don't know why but with all this LOVE talk I started thinking about CHEATING At this point in my life (meaning I'm single and it hasn't happened to me yet gracias al Jefito del Cielo) I have always said that if I were to be cheated on no matter what the relationship would be over! Osea I was raised with the ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER but I also believe in giving people a second chance ... AY DIO MIO!! I hate questioning myself ... Now I'm thinking if I were in that situation I WOULD NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ... ** I guess my question here is: what do you or what have you done when morals, beliefs, ideas, etc.. in your life conflict each other???
well i suggest that if you 'were" in that situation you should worry about it at that time rather then thinking about it right now...
Xx ViCioSiTa xX wrote: Ok, forolandia makes me think to much LOL!!! Ok, I don't know why but with all this LOVE talk I started thinking about CHEATING At this point in my life (meaning I'm single and it hasn't happened to me yet gracias al Jefito del Cielo) I have always said that if I were to be cheated on no matter what the relationship would be over! Osea I was raised with the ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER but I also believe in giving people a second chance ... AY DIO MIO!! I hate questioning myself ... Now I'm thinking if I were in that situation I WOULD NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ... ** I guess my question here is: what do you or what have you done when morals, beliefs, ideas, etc.. in your life conflict each other???
We humans are so unique, that I consider a very dangerous thing to establish a rule of thumb for such thing as emotionally loaded relationships. Or for the kind of decisions to take in each case.
I think its all about who you are talking about. To "this" person I might "give a chance", but to "that other" I might not.
Ok, forolandia makes me think to much LOL!!! Ok, I don't know why but with all this LOVE talk I started thinking about CHEATING
At this point in my life (meaning I'm single and it hasn't happened to me yet gracias al Jefito del Cielo) I have always said that if I were to be cheated on no matter what the relationship would be over! Osea I was raised with the ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER but I also believe in giving people a second chance ... AY DIO MIO!! I hate questioning myself ...
Now I'm thinking if I were in that situation I WOULD NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO ...
** I guess my question here is: what do you or what have you done when morals, beliefs, ideas, etc.. in your life conflict each other???
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~*~ Ta ta tan! Itz me DG! Ay dio mio, el vicio! LoL ~*~
At this point in my life (meaning I'm single and it hasn't happened to me yet gracias al Jefito del Cielo) I have always said that if I were to be cheated on no matter what the relationship would be over! Osea I was raised with the ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER but I also believe in giving people a second chance ... AY DIO MIO!! I hate questioning myself ... 
