A GOOD LOVER TO PERSON A IS NOT NECESSARILY A GOOD LOVER FOR PERSON B, C, OR D… It comes down to chemistry, what satisfies your partner, what your partner is and is not into, how he/she likes certain things, etc… If you’re God’s gift to one woman, it doesn’t make you God’s best gift to every woman… Similarly, if you were the worse experience a woman ever had, it doesn’t mean you’re gonna be a horrible lover to the next one!
Exactly my point!
@NENA: itz true 'cause what if a person only has had relationship with one person para el o ella the could be the BEST lover they ever had and then they meet someone else and PRESTO they realize WT *ejem* this is the BEST they had ... it all comes down to comparing and that I would say is NO GOOD
A GOOD LOVER TO PERSON A IS NOT NECESSARILY A GOOD LOVER FOR PERSON B, C, OR D… It comes down to chemistry, what satisfies your partner, what your partner is and is not into, how he/she likes certain things, etc… If you’re God’s gift to one woman, it doesn’t make you God’s best gift to every woman… Similarly, if you were the worse experience a woman ever had, it doesn’t mean you’re gonna be a horrible lover to the next one!
I totally agree with this. It all depends on the persons taste. Everyone is different, and unique. I believe chemistry makes and breaks everything when it comes to sex. If you don't have chemistry with your partner it's not going to be enjoyable. The only thing I would recommend to avoid being a bad lover is to be well rounded. Be able to adjust to what she likes. Fast, slow, or whatever. It also doesn't hurt to ask what she likes to reach maximum satisfaction(This applies to girls to. Don't be afraid to ask the guys what they like)
DulceGalletita wrote: But what constitutes a GOOD LOVER??? I mean just 'cause one thinks they may be doesn't necessarily mean they are ... and if people tell them they are they may also not necessarily be ... I mean in this case would you be comparing the "good lover" with other relationships got to agree with you DG.... u always going to be comparing the so-called good lover to the rest of your relationships.... and u will never find.. I personally think a "good lover" doesn't exist... ..yes u're in a relationship and every relationship should have a "good lover" otherwise u wouldn't be with that person.....
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In other words, one should not be with someone who doesn’t please you sexually? Even if everything else is ok? Give him a chance to improve/learn your pleasures?
-- Edited by LGigolo at 15:29, 2006-03-13
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Being a good lover pretty much depends if your level of kink is in synch with that of your partner. And, very importantly, if your partner likes you. I think most people will go the extra mile for someone they like.
But what constitutes a GOOD LOVER??? I mean just 'cause one thinks they may be doesn't necessarily mean they are ... and if people tell them they are they may also not necessarily be ... I mean in this case would you be comparing the "good lover" with other relationships
got to agree with you DG.... u always going to be comparing the so-called good lover to the rest of your relationships.... and u will never find..
I personally think a "good lover" doesn't exist... ..yes u're in a relationship and every relationship should have a "good lover" otherwise u wouldn't be with that person.....
A GOOD LOVER TO PERSON A IS NOT NECESSARILY A GOOD LOVER FOR PERSON B, C, OR D…
It comes down to chemistry, what satisfies your partner, what your partner is and is not into, how he/she likes certain things, etc… If you’re God’s gift to one woman, it doesn’t make you God’s best gift to every woman… Similarly, if you were the worse experience a woman ever had, it doesn’t mean you’re gonna be a horrible lover to the next one!
On a LESS serious note: Best to stick to inflatable dolls, they don't care if they get pleasure or not!
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Bainaman wrote: Lahtina wrote: Whaaaat? I suppose but... sex is like dancing - the guy leads. I have heard of dead lays though. That's my point. Takes two to dance......and no matter how much someone leads.....if the partner can't follow...... What about teaching though? If you're a good lover, you can certainly teach your partner, can't you?
I doubt it... I think sensuality is innate
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Bainaman wrote: Lahtina wrote: Whaaaat? I suppose but... sex is like dancing - the guy leads. I have heard of dead lays though. That's my point. Takes two to dance......and no matter how much someone leads.....if the partner can't follow......What about teaching though? If you're a good lover, you can certainly teach your partner, can't you?
But what constitutes a GOOD LOVER??? I mean just 'cause one thinks they may be doesn't necessarily mean they are ... and if people tell them they are they may also not necessarily be ... I mean in this case would you be comparing the "good lover" with other relationships
How does that phrase go? “Se una dama en la cocina pero una p**a en la cama”… isn’t that what your moms told you, ladies? Am I way off on this?-- Edited by Dogo at 15:13, 2006-03-13
No my mom no but my abuelita did ... I miss her she was always to the point
Lahtina wrote: Whaaaat? I suppose but... sex is like dancing - the guy leads. I have heard of dead lays though. That's my point. Takes two to dance......and no matter how much someone leads.....if the partner can't follow......
What about teaching though? If you're a good lover, you can certainly teach your partner, can't you?
Dogo wrote: men are willing to do ALMOST anything in bed with a woman, generally more than the woman is willing to Our limits are pretty much determined by how far the woman will let us go, and we only do as much as we’re “allowed” to do by the woman….
Someone likes to get FREAKY in bed!!! But so true are Dogo's statements!
I just read this. Question.... Why assume that the bad lover in a relationship is the guy???? There are some women that are horrible lovers. I wonder how many women would admit to it.
Hmmmm true, that’s probably more true than the opposite, I mean, we already know men are willing to do ALMOST anything in bed with a woman, generally more than the woman is willing to
Our limits are pretty much determined by how far the woman will let us go, and we only do as much as we’re “allowed” to do by the woman…. (A sense of chivalry overcomes us, I suppose)
I tend to be more aggressive if the woman is aggressive, and if she’s not… well, I adapt to that
How does that phrase go? “Se una dama en la cocina pero una p**a en la cama”… isn’t that what your moms told you, ladies?
Am I way off on this?
-- Edited by Dogo at 15:13, 2006-03-13
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Lahtina wrote: Whaaaat? I suppose but... sex is like dancing - the guy leads. I have heard of dead lays though. That's my point. Takes two to dance......and no matter how much someone leads.....if the partner can't follow......
Quit the settled talk: I want graphic naughty talk so I can understand – penis in vagina kindda talk!
I thought my parents were bad with the “birds and the bees” bullshiet… wait, they never game me no sex talk! I must have learned it all from my classmates and on line! LOL
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I just read this. Question.... Why assume that the bad lover in a relationship is the guy???? There are some women that are horrible lovers. I wonder how many women would admit to it.
Whaaaat? I suppose but... sex is like dancing - the guy leads. I have heard of dead lays though.
Bainaman wrote: I just read this. Question.... Why assume that the bad lover in a relationship is the guy???? There are some women that are horrible lovers. I wonder how many women would admit to it. I'll ask when I'll find one
I will sacrifice some of my valuable time to help you with your “research”!
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I just read this. Question.... Why assume that the bad lover in a relationship is the guy???? There are some women that are horrible lovers. I wonder how many women would admit to it.
I'll ask when I'll find one
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Julie wrote: Unfortunately, I had 1, and thank God RGNFG, just 1 pffff Did he admit it? Admit it ? You're jokng right, since when men admit that kind of thing ?Did you tell him? Daaaaah, I did! Did he cry when you dumped him? I did wait to see his reaction SORI...AH LOL
-- Edited by Julie at 11:43, 2006-03-12
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angelita dulce wrote: Dogo wrote: angelita dulce wrote: Dogo wrote: I will never admit to it! NEVER!!!!....oops Should we ask BAINA!! If he'll admit to being a bad lover? ya sure ask him (should I ask ****? ha! I can play that game too, LOL) If those stars stand for what i'm thinking, well then go ahead and ask tonight!! Cause i wouldn't know! I'm playing with you loca (as in girl) they don't stand for anything.... you only like playing when it's fun for you, huh? LOL
That's right mister!! I'm the one that runs the show here!!!
Dogo wrote: angelita dulce wrote: Dogo wrote: I will never admit to it! NEVER!!!!....oops Should we ask BAINA!! If he'll admit to being a bad lover? ya sure ask him (should I ask ****? ha! I can play that game too, LOL) If those stars stand for what i'm thinking, well then go ahead and ask tonight!! Cause i wouldn't know!
I'm playing with you loca (as in girl) they don't stand for anything.... you only like playing when it's fun for you, huh? LOL
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angelita dulce wrote: Dogo wrote: I will never admit to it! NEVER!!!!....oops Should we ask BAINA!! If he'll admit to being a bad lover? ya sure ask him (should I ask ****? ha! I can play that game too, LOL)
If those stars stand for what i'm thinking, well then go ahead and ask tonight!! Cause i wouldn't know!
you know what... sadly a lot of bad lovers out there will never know the extent at which they suck (in a bad way of course)
Most women are afraid to hurt their partners feelings, or too shy to tell their partners what they like or dont like, thus making the partner a bad lover for them.
women need to speak up and say what they want/dont want... and if he sucks in bed help him improve and if not then move on. Nothing is worst than sleeping with someone that you gain absolutely no pleasure from.
... it all comes down to comparing and that I would say is NO GOOD 
What about teaching though? If you're a good lover, you can certainly teach your partner, can't you? 
"Most of us fall short much more by omission than by commission."
Am I way off on this?-- Edited by Dogo at 15:13, 2006-03-13 
... I miss her 
she was always to the point 
Did he admit it? Admit it ? You're jokng right, since when men admit that kind of thing ?Did you tell him? Daaaaah, I did ! Did he cry when you dumped him? I did wait to see his reaction SORI...AH LOL 
ha! I can play that game too, LOL) If those stars stand for what i'm thinking, well then go ahead and ask tonight!! Cause i wouldn't know! 
Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
