NeNa wrote: All depends on the couple... if they are ready as soon as they get married.. I don't see a problem... but IF there are other factors... like where are they going to live, can they afford it at the time??? Remember.. they JUST got married.. and a wedding is not a cheap thing to organize... I suggest u talk to the person and have a heart-to-heart conversation.... *cough*cough* Is someone going to have a baby soon???
I was going to wait....that idea went out the window!! I got married in August and pregnant in October. I have had my husband in my life for a number of years in one way or another and we both have had more than our share of kid free fun. I agree that it's very important to be in a stable financial situation before having any children. It's also best to have a great relationship.
There are also no guarantees in life....everything can be wonderful today and all go down the SHITHOLE tomorrow soooooooooo you may wait your whole life for a "perfect" situation.
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i'm waiting at least 3 years. Hopefully dios me bendiga con poder tener hijos. You never know.
there's a saying that goes something like this:
Man plans--god just laughs.
And it's so true. So yo digo por decir, pero solo dios dice when.
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All depends on the couple... if they are ready as soon as they get married.. I don't see a problem... but IF there are other factors... like where are they going to live, can they afford it at the time??? Remember.. they JUST got married.. and a wedding is not a cheap thing to organize... I suggest u talk to the person and have a heart-to-heart conversation....
*cough*cough* Is someone going to have a baby soon???
All depends on the couple... if they are ready as soon as they get married.. I don't see a problem... but IF there are other factors... like where are they going to live, can they afford it at the time??? Remember.. they JUST got married.. and a wedding is not a cheap thing to organize...
I suggest u talk to the person and have a heart-to-heart conversation....
The possibilities of this for me are looking grimmer by the minute!
I would have to say that I think that 2 years after marriage is a good time period. It gives you time to figure out your financial situation........and if all looks good and stable.....then GO NUTZ makine it!!!!! LOL
But you could never really plan these things anyway.....
Cuando te toca....te toca.
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bistor wrote: Whenever you're ready to have one. It would depend on your financial state, and the state of the relationship. No point brining kids to an unstable environment.
I'm with u on that one...
IMO i think one year for sure maybe 2.....just to enjoy the time together and get the moving, traveling and buying stuff out of the way, after that back to work!!!
I was having a conversation with someone about family, and when is it the right time to start one when you just got married?.. I think you should start one in less then a year married.. what do you guys and girls think?
I think as long as both want it and at least are financial o.k., I don't see why not but I would wait at least a year to enjoy as a couple
I was having a conversation with someone about family, and when is it the right time to start one when you just got married?.. I think you should start one in less then a year married.. what do you guys and girls think?
I'm not gonna start a family for atleast 4 years. I wanna live atleast 3 years child free.
It doesn't really matter, as long as you both are ready and want to!! If you are waiting to be finacially stable, that is the wrong thing to do. Nobody will ever be financially stable. Also If you want to enjoy your first year of just the two of you, then go ahead!!
When i got married, we wanted to wait at least a year, but then two months later i got pregnant!! I'm not not 100% financially stable, but i'm doing my best as a single mom!!!
"Most of us fall short much more by omission than by commission."
