Would you marry someone who has 2 or more kids?

GENIE · Foro Master

RE: Would you marry someone who has 2 or more kids?

PRECIOSA · Guru

I HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCED DATING A MAN WITH CHILDREN...AND I REALLY DON'T KNOW IF I WOULD APPROVE IT OR NOT...BUT...I WOULD SURE GIVE IT A TRY IF I WERE INTO THE MAN...HOWEVER...I WOULD MAKE SURE NOT TO MEET THE CHILDREN RIGHT AWAY...NOT BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO...BUT...JUST INCASE THE MAN AND I DON'T WORK OUT...I DON'T WANT TO FEEL ATTACHED OR GUILTY IN GETTING TO CLOSE WITH THE CHILDREN AND THEN LEAVING THEM...

bistor · Guru

I wonder what a child psychologist would say about that.

Salsera de Corazon · TOP Guru

Chilenita wrote:

Jaime Cruz wrote: Chilenita wrote: I have never dated anyone with kids so I don't really know. I do think that if you decide to marry or seriously date someone with children then you should be fully prepared to be a dad/mom. There is nothing worse for a child than having some man or woman come into their life that doesn't give a crap about them. So true. Kids shouldn't be played with in relationships. I don't even think a women/man with children should introduce a man to their kids until it's a rock solid relationship!! The child does not need to meet all of mommy or daddy's flings. If it's serious than that is different.

I agree with you 100% on what you are saying Chilenita, the kids do not need to see any of that

Chilenita · Comandante

Jaime Cruz wrote:

Chilenita wrote: I have never dated anyone with kids so I don't really know. I do think that if you decide to marry or seriously date someone with children then you should be fully prepared to be a dad/mom. There is nothing worse for a child than having some man or woman come into their life that doesn't give a crap about them. So true. Kids shouldn't be played with in relationships.

I don't even think a women/man with children should introduce a man to their kids until it's a rock solid relationship!! The child does not need to meet all of mommy or daddy's flings. If it's serious than that is different.

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

Chilenita wrote:

I have never dated anyone with kids so I don't really know. I do think that if you decide to marry or seriously date someone with children then you should be fully prepared to be a dad/mom. There is nothing worse for a child than having some man or woman come into their life that doesn't give a crap about them.

So true. Kids shouldn't be played with in relationships.

Salsera de Corazon · TOP Guru

Well I wouldn't married the person because I just don't want to get married, but I think one is o.k with me since I already have one, I wouldn't mind, as long as we both treta the kids the same way

God · Foro Master

Depends....

How old they kids are....
How much she gets of child support..LMAO
and what kinda dude is the EX...some Ex'es are Psycho

Chilenita · Comandante

I have never dated anyone with kids so I don't really know.

I do think that if you decide to marry or seriously date someone with children then you should be fully prepared to be a dad/mom. There is nothing worse for a child than having some man or woman come into their life that doesn't give a crap about them.

ana nonymous · Regular Plus

Yes I would marry a man if he had kids. 1 is my limit though because I want to have two of my own.

bistor · Guru

I wouldn't marry. Why ruin it?

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

Just wondering if anyone here would marry someone who already has 2 or more kids?

I myself don't know. I have never even dated someone who has kids, but I don't think it would be a problem if the connection was right and if I loved the girl, but I think 2 kids would be my limit. I would still want my own children so thats why I wouldn't want her to have too many kids.