Have you ever lied to a friend....

JOKER_ESCO · Foro Master

RE: Have you ever lied to a friend....

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

LaDyBuG wrote:

Jaime Cruz wrote: Have you ever lied to a friend and told them that they were attractive or looked good when they really didn't or don't? It may sound rude, but I have lied to a few friends mainly girls and told them they were attractive when they really weren't. NO. I'M PRETTY HONEST WHEN PEOPLE ASK FOR MY OPINION. BUT I ALSO WON'T HURT THEIR FEELINGS ON PURPOSE...MEANING, I WON'T SAY ANYTHING IF I DON'T HAVE TO...SOMETIMES SILENCE IS BEST. WHAT BOTHERS ME THOUGH....IS PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY ARE SOOOOOO GOOD LOOKING WHEN IN FACT IT'S MORE THAN OBVIOUS THEY GOT HIT WITH THE UGLY STICK.....OR WHEN THEY SAY "EVERYONE TELLS ME IM SUCH A GOOD LOOKING GIRL/GUY" .......AND IT JUST DROPS MY JAW TO THE GROUND LIKE "ARE U KIDDING ME" ......THATS WHEN I STAY QUIET

What I hate is when you are in a group of people and someone in the group tells someone else that they look great when they really don't. I feel like asking sometimes if they came wearing bear goggles or something

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Jaime Cruz wrote:

Have you ever lied to a friend and told them that they were attractive or looked good when they really didn't or don't? It may sound rude, but I have lied to a few friends mainly girls and told them they were attractive when they really weren't.

NO. I'M PRETTY HONEST WHEN PEOPLE ASK FOR MY OPINION. BUT I ALSO WON'T HURT THEIR FEELINGS ON PURPOSE...MEANING, I WON'T SAY ANYTHING IF I DON'T HAVE TO...SOMETIMES SILENCE IS BEST.

WHAT BOTHERS ME THOUGH....IS PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY ARE SOOOOOO GOOD LOOKING WHEN IN FACT IT'S MORE THAN OBVIOUS THEY GOT HIT WITH THE UGLY STICK.....OR WHEN THEY SAY "EVERYONE TELLS ME IM SUCH A GOOD LOOKING GIRL/GUY" .......AND IT JUST DROPS MY JAW TO THE GROUND LIKE "ARE U KIDDING ME" ......THATS WHEN I STAY QUIET

torontotrucho · Guru

angelita dulce wrote:

torontotrucho wrote: angelita dulce wrote: I haven't really lied, but when my friend said she was pretty and sexy, i just changed the subject or said "i like your hair, it looks nice today". Her hair is the only nice thing on her! Plus she thinks she is skinny with NO fat, i don't know who she is kidding, because she is a little chunky. Just cause she fits into a size 3 doesn't mean she is skinny. It's just that she is petite and is she were to lose weight she would fit into kids clothing. I have told her she is chunky, i don't care what she says, i just don't want her going around telling people she looks good, when in fact she does NOT!! Well, here mother probably tell her everyday that she is beautiful and all that stuff. She probably can't handle the truth anymore. Next time if she asks you about her looks- ask her: Can you handle the truth? and do her a favour...She will apreciate it in the end. LOL!! I can't tell her she is ugly, i'm NOT that mean!! LOL!! But i do tell her she is chunky and if what she is wearing doesn't look good etc....!! But no way i can tell her that she is ugly!!!LOL!!

SOme one said...No hay mujer fea, solo mal arreglada. She may buy it and actually start doing something about it. She could get loose clothing and stop looking like " chorizo mal amarrado". I think she will thank you in the end.

angelita dulce · Foro Master

torontotrucho wrote:

angelita dulce wrote: I haven't really lied, but when my friend said she was pretty and sexy, i just changed the subject or said "i like your hair, it looks nice today". Her hair is the only nice thing on her! Plus she thinks she is skinny with NO fat, i don't know who she is kidding, because she is a little chunky. Just cause she fits into a size 3 doesn't mean she is skinny. It's just that she is petite and is she were to lose weight she would fit into kids clothing. I have told her she is chunky, i don't care what she says, i just don't want her going around telling people she looks good, when in fact she does NOT!! Well, here mother probably tell her everyday that she is beautiful and all that stuff. She probably can't handle the truth anymore. Next time if she asks you about her looks- ask her: Can you handle the truth? and do her a favour...She will apreciate it in the end.

LOL!! I can't tell her she is ugly, i'm NOT that mean!! LOL!! But i do tell her she is chunky and if what she is wearing doesn't look good etc....!! But no way i can tell her that she is ugly!!!LOL!!

torontotrucho · Guru

angelita dulce wrote:

I haven't really lied, but when my friend said she was pretty and sexy, i just changed the subject or said "i like your hair, it looks nice today". Her hair is the only nice thing on her! Plus she thinks she is skinny with NO fat, i don't know who she is kidding, because she is a little chunky. Just cause she fits into a size 3 doesn't mean she is skinny. It's just that she is petite and is she were to lose weight she would fit into kids clothing. I have told her she is chunky, i don't care what she says, i just don't want her going around telling people she looks good, when in fact she does NOT!!

Well, here mother probably tell her everyday that she is beautiful and all that stuff. She probably can't handle the truth anymore.

Next time if she asks you about her looks- ask her: Can you handle the truth? and do her a favour...She will apreciate it in the end.

GENIE · Foro Master

MOST OF MY FRIENDS KNOW IM VERY BLUNT AND HONEST! IF U DONT LOOK GOOD ILL TELL U! IM NOT RUDE BUT I AM HONEST!

CONFU KNOWS BUT THEN AGAIN HALF THE TIME IM DRESSING HER!

LOL

BUT I WOULD RATHER U TRULY LOOK GOOD! THEN LOOK CRAP AND U THINK U LOOK GOOD AND THEN U TRULY LOOK LIKE A FOOL!

SAME AS HOW FRIENS ARE WITH ME IM WITH THEM! AND HONESTY TO ME IS THE BEST THATS WHY WHEN I GO SHOPPING I TAKE CONFU MORE HONEST U CANT GET!

Julie · Comandante

McOSIRIS wrote:

why do I sense hate in these words???? BTW you forgot "blondes".....

OMG, you're so right, how could I ! Ewwwwww they're BLONDES LOL

But no, no hate, just sorry for them. One of my friend is looking like that now, she says see had neve felt better but Damn, she look awfull, y es poco decir and she had a nice body before (in my opinion, but I am just a girl)

bistor · Guru

Julie wrote:

I did ! But then, I am wondering, should we just go right now under the surgical knife ? When is the next flight for Gdl LOL You're more than right for the girls magazine thing and we all know that in both cases those images a re-arrange. But what can we don't ? It seems that we just want to please you but don't really know how LOL, Am I writnig that Sh%& ? I must be really sick, but at least it entertains me

If you want to please us, and what woman wouldn't: exercise, eat well, dress well. Nothing more to it.

I'll add (before I'm lynched :) that the same goes for men.

Do NOT go under the knife. Ugh. Breast implants are the most unnatural devices ever invented. The feel and look like beach balls. Liposuction? The long term effects of losing that many fat cells aren't known yet.

Why do this to your health? There are no short cuts, but a good diet and exercise will, without a doubt, give you any kind of body you want.

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Julie wrote:

Well, you might want to let the message out then ! Because, unfortunately, magazines are the point of ref. for most girls and yes, the only thing you see is not skinny but anorexic girls (barely women) and the tones of tips and diet pages as well. How do you think the feminine gender feels about it ? That we're just not good enough ! And when we hear "hummm, mami...." and who do you think this is directed too Ok, forget a bout me today, I think I should just go home

why do I sense hate in these words????

BTW you forgot "blondes".....

Julie · Comandante

bistor wrote:

Julie wrote: Well, you might want to let the message out then ! Because, unfortunately, magazines are the point of ref. for most girls and yes, the only thing you see is not skinny but anorexic girls (barely women) and the tones of tips and diet pages as well. How do you think the feminine gender feels about it ? That we're just not good enough ! And when we hear "hummm, mami...." and who do you think this is directed too Ok, forget a bout me today, I think I should just go home Those magazines are for women, and more often than not, written by women, not men. If you want to see what men like, pick up any pornographic magazine. You will see all kinds of bodytypes.

I did ! But then, I am wondering, should we just go right now under the surgical knife ? When is the next flight for Gdl LOL

You're more than right for the girls magazine thing and we all know that in both cases those images a re-arrange. But what can we don't ? It seems that we just want to please you but don't really know how

LOL, Am I writnig that Sh%& ? I must be really sick, but at least it entertains me

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

bistor wrote:

Julie wrote: Well, you might want to let the message out then ! Because, unfortunately, magazines are the point of ref. for most girls and yes, the only thing you see is not skinny but anorexic girls (barely women) and the tones of tips and diet pages as well. How do you think the feminine gender feels about it ? That we're just not good enough ! And when we hear "hummm, mami...." and who do you think this is directed too Ok, forget a bout me today, I think I should just go home Those magazines are for women, and more often than not, written by women, not men. If you want to see what men like, pick up any pornographic magazine. You will see all kinds of bodytypes.

LMAO!

bistor · Guru

Julie wrote:

Well, you might want to let the message out then ! Because, unfortunately, magazines are the point of ref. for most girls and yes, the only thing you see is not skinny but anorexic girls (barely women) and the tones of tips and diet pages as well. How do you think the feminine gender feels about it ? That we're just not good enough ! And when we hear "hummm, mami...." and who do you think this is directed too Ok, forget a bout me today, I think I should just go home

Those magazines are for women, and more often than not, written by women, not men.

If you want to see what men like, pick up any pornographic magazine. You will see all kinds of bodytypes.

Julie · Comandante

bistor wrote:

angelita dulce wrote: bistor wrote: Beauty is relative... nothing wrong with a chunky girl, as long as it isn't extreme. Girls are by nature a little fat. Of course there is nothing wrong with that!! Pffft, i have fat on me too and i rather have that then no meat!! It's just my friend ain't that pretty!! You would know what i mean if you saw her!! I believe you... I'm not saying overweight girls don't exist. But I can also tell you women are paranoid about their weight. They seem to think men are only attracted to the model type (tall, super skinny), and I can guarantee you, most of us aren't.

Well, you might want to let the message out then ! Because, unfortunately, magazines are the point of ref. for most girls and yes, the only thing you see is not skinny but anorexic girls (barely women) and the tones of tips and diet pages as well. How do you think the feminine gender feels about it ? That we're just not good enough ! And when we hear "hummm, mami...." and who do you think this is directed too

Ok, forget a bout me today, I think I should just go home

bistor · Guru

Julie wrote:

@ Bistor, I'll say, yes, girls do, most of the time y si no se hacen tontas

Sin duda. Vamos, se puede ser diplomatico... pero mentir? Me parece contraproducente...

Julie · Comandante

In those situations, well, yes I have lied but I have to say that it more like a "metira piadosa" that anything else. And it's because of this friend of mine that had (hoplefully, still pass temps) major psychological issue, so there was no way I could really told her thethings as they were.

I took other ways to let her know that, this or that was good or bad and not specifically in terms of fisical appearance.

But anyway, I have no reason to tell someone they look good if they don't since I expect my friends to be honnest with me, it's the less I can do : Be honnest with them.

@ Bistor, I'll say, yes, girls do, most of the time y si no se hacen tontas

Jade · Guru

Thas no NICE ... LOL

bistor · Guru

angelita dulce wrote:

bistor wrote: Beauty is relative... nothing wrong with a chunky girl, as long as it isn't extreme. Girls are by nature a little fat. Of course there is nothing wrong with that!! Pffft, i have fat on me too and i rather have that then no meat!! It's just my friend ain't that pretty!! You would know what i mean if you saw her!!

I believe you... I'm not saying overweight girls don't exist. But I can also tell you women are paranoid about their weight. They seem to think men are only attracted to the model type (tall, super skinny), and I can guarantee you, most of us aren't.

angelita dulce · Foro Master

bistor wrote:

Beauty is relative... nothing wrong with a chunky girl, as long as it isn't extreme. Girls are by nature a little fat.

Of course there is nothing wrong with that!! Pffft, i have fat on me too and i rather have that then no meat!! It's just my friend ain't that pretty!! You would know what i mean if you saw her!!

McOSIRIS · Comandante

bistor wrote:

Beauty is relative... nothing wrong with a chunky girl, as long as it isn't extreme. Girls are by nature a little fat.

I can predict a rainy day of coursing.....

bistor · Guru

I don't lie, BTW. That's pointless.

Chicks can smell bull**** a mile away.

bistor · Guru

Beauty is relative... nothing wrong with a chunky girl, as long as it isn't extreme.

Girls are by nature a little fat.

Gitana · Foro Master

I WOULD BE AS HONEST AS POSSIBLE.... IF MY FRIEND DOES NOT LOOK GOOD I WOULD TELL HER IN A NICE WAY! I WOULDN'T WANT HER TO MAKE AN A$$ OUT OF HERSELF!!!

angelita dulce · Foro Master

I haven't really lied, but when my friend said she was pretty and sexy, i just changed the subject or said "i like your hair, it looks nice today". Her hair is the only nice thing on her! Plus she thinks she is skinny with NO fat, i don't know who she is kidding, because she is a little chunky. Just cause she fits into a size 3 doesn't mean she is skinny. It's just that she is petite and is she were to lose weight she would fit into kids clothing. I have told her she is chunky, i don't care what she says, i just don't want her going around telling people she looks good, when in fact she does NOT!!

El Duro · Foro Master

Jaime Cruz wrote:

Have you ever lied to a friend and told them that they were attractive or looked good when they really didn't or don't? It may sound rude, but I have lied to a few friends mainly girls and told them they were attractive when they really weren't.

Same here.. i do it alot

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

Have you ever lied to a friend and told them that they were attractive or looked good when they really didn't or don't?

It may sound rude, but I have lied to a few friends mainly girls and told them they were attractive when they really weren't.