Guys vs. Girls

rick · Guru

RE: Guys vs. Girls

Colombiana4Life · Foro Master

rick wrote:

i think guys take longer to get over it ... girls can easily get involved in a new relationship (since its easier for girls to find a boy friend than it is for a guy to find a girlfriend) .. ..

See, there I have usually seen the opposite. I have seen the men move on faster than the women. I guess cause the majority of situations I have seen have involved couples that have kids, it's like sometimes that will turn guys off, they dont want to get involved with someone that has kids cause they consider that "baggage". Some men cant handle that.

Gitana · Foro Master

I AGREE.... WOMEN TEND TO GET EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED QUICKER THAN MEN DO.... HOWEVER WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING OVER THE OTHER PERSON I GUESS IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION AND ON HOW SERIOUS THE RELATIONSHIP MAY HAVE BEEN......

SOME PEOPLE DON'T FULLY GET OVER THEIR OTHER HALF.....

rick · Guru

i think guys take longer to get over it ... girls can easily get involved in a new relationship (since its easier for girls to find a boy friend than it is for a guy to find a girlfriend) .. ..

bistor · Guru

I'd agree that, in general, girls get over it quicker. They're more emotional... volatile, frankly. One moment they're crying over a *movie* and the next they're giggling because your fly is unzipped.

I think most men, emotionally, seem to move in slow motion. Our feelings don't change at the drop of a dime. So if we're hurt, yes, it might last longer. On the other hand, it's more difficult to hurt us.

Each sex has its strengths...

Lahtina · Foro Master

Like everything in life, there are no generalizations. The time it takes a person to get over a relationship totally depends on how the relationship was conceived, how it developed and how it ended.

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Rebelde wrote:

ok foro land what do you think When you are in a seriouse relationship does it take longer for guys to get over girls or for girls to get over guys? i mean people always say that girls are more emotional and take longer to get over a guy but i tend to differ i think guys try to act like they are not attached but when push comes to shove i think they are the ones that can't see to let go.

I would say men take longer to get over a relationship cuz men are more sensible emotionally (believe it or not) than women....

girls are all "witches"....

Julie · Comandante

El Duro wrote:

Julie wrote: Colombiana4Life wrote: Rapsy wrote: It's more difficult for men to get over it, for what ever reasons, valids or not ! I guess most of the time it can be, but I know some women too that can't get over it and the guys just go around como si nada. Women hurt a lot but, I guess we're better at hiding it, especially when there are children involved, u gotta be strong for them. BTW - welcome Well C4L, fair enough. The last time I got cut off, years ago, I palyed the big girl but I was a bag of ....... but knw, I am in heaven and I hope it will last forever. Oh, thanks for the welcome, goes for el Duro as well

And I thought that more pple will react but nop, just you LOL

Julie · Comandante

El Duro wrote:

Julie wrote: Colombiana4Life wrote: Rapsy wrote: It's more difficult for men to get over it, for what ever reasons, valids or not ! I guess most of the time it can be, but I know some women too that can't get over it and the guys just go around como si nada. Women hurt a lot but, I guess we're better at hiding it, especially when there are children involved, u gotta be strong for them. BTW - welcome Well C4L, fair enough. The last time I got cut off, years ago, I palyed the big girl but I was a bag of ....... but knw, I am in heaven and I hope it will last forever. Oh, thanks for the welcome, goes for el Duro as well

HAHAHA ! I am annoyed by all these fake newbies so I decides to answer Sh@%#^$ on there behalf as if it was them but keeping my identity, of course !

Stupid, well, I am bored, what do you want me to tell you !

SORI...AH I won't do it again

Colombiana4Life · Foro Master

Julie wrote:

Colombiana4Life wrote: Rapsy wrote: It's more difficult for men to get over it, for what ever reasons, valids or not ! I guess most of the time it can be, but I know some women too that can't get over it and the guys just go around como si nada. Women hurt a lot but, I guess we're better at hiding it, especially when there are children involved, u gotta be strong for them. BTW - welcome Well C4L, fair enough. The last time I got cut off, years ago, I palyed the big girl but I was a bag of ....... but knw, I am in heaven and I hope it will last forever. Oh, thanks for the welcome, goes for el Duro as well

Good for you girl, u look great, ur having a great time. You go girl

El Duro · Foro Master

Julie wrote:

Colombiana4Life wrote: Rapsy wrote: It's more difficult for men to get over it, for what ever reasons, valids or not ! I guess most of the time it can be, but I know some women too that can't get over it and the guys just go around como si nada. Women hurt a lot but, I guess we're better at hiding it, especially when there are children involved, u gotta be strong for them. BTW - welcome Well C4L, fair enough. The last time I got cut off, years ago, I palyed the big girl but I was a bag of ....... but knw, I am in heaven and I hope it will last forever. Oh, thanks for the welcome, goes for el Duro as well

Julie · Comandante

Colombiana4Life wrote:

Rapsy wrote: It's more difficult for men to get over it, for what ever reasons, valids or not ! I guess most of the time it can be, but I know some women too that can't get over it and the guys just go around como si nada. Women hurt a lot but, I guess we're better at hiding it, especially when there are children involved, u gotta be strong for them. BTW - welcome

Well C4L, fair enough. The last time I got cut off, years ago, I palyed the big girl but I was a bag of ....... but knw, I am in heaven and I hope it will last forever.

Oh, thanks for the welcome, goes for el Duro as well

Colombiana4Life · Foro Master

Rapsy wrote:

It's more difficult for men to get over it, for what ever reasons, valids or not !

I guess most of the time it can be, but I know some women too that can't get over it and the guys just go around como si nada. Women hurt a lot but, I guess we're better at hiding it, especially when there are children involved, u gotta be strong for them.

BTW - welcome

El Duro · Foro Master

Rapsy wrote:

It's more difficult for men to get over it, for what ever reasons, valids or not !

I still think it depend on the person................. and welcome to el foro.. it can become addictive

Rapsy · Regular

It's more difficult for men to get over it, for what ever reasons, valids or not !

El Duro · Foro Master

Colombiana4Life wrote:

El Duro wrote: I think it dedend in how long u have been with that person. I think if you've been with that person for 6years i think it will take a bit of time for anyone to get over them Of course, the longer you are with the person it can be a factor. But at the same time, if the person mistreated you for a lot of years, whether physically or emotionally, that can make you become indiferente to that person, and make you get over them quickly, not necessarily hate. Maybe the you were already over them before you split.

U have made a valid point...................

-- Edited by El Duro at 20:00, 2006-02-23

Colombiana4Life · Foro Master

El Duro wrote:

I think it dedend in how long u have been with that person. I think if you've been with that person for 6years i think it will take a bit of time for anyone to get over them

Of course, the longer you are with the person it can be a factor. But at the same time, if the person mistreated you for a lot of years, whether physically or emotionally, that can make you become indiferente to that person, and make you get over them quickly, not necessarily hate. Maybe you were already over them before you split.

-- Edited by Colombiana4Life at 20:01, 2006-02-23

El Duro · Foro Master

I think it dedend in how long u have been with that person. I think if you've been with that person for 6years i think it will take a bit of time for anyone to get over them

Colombiana4Life · Foro Master

Rebelde wrote:

i guess that can be true but then which gender has more power over their emotions. i think that girls may get attached faster but when the relationship is over its the guy who takes longer to move on.

I kinda agree with you, but a lot of times, I think the guys take longer to move on, mostly because of a macho attitude. Ya, they usually realize what they lost, but I think a big part has to do with the fact that they see they are not the ONLY man in this world, this I find in men that have had a girl pining over them for years, and then when the girl finally wakes up it's like "wow, I didnt think this was coming". Also with comfort, like ur used to that person, that they have put up with crap from you, and they think maybe next time they wont be so lucky, but some men change with experiences like that and are actually decent partners the second time around. Como dice Rocio Durcal "no cabe duda que es verdad que la costumbre es mas fuerte que el amor".

Rebelde · Guru

Loco_Lopez wrote:

Well It all depends on the person, some people get over it quicker then other dispite the gender! pretty much it's just about emotional strength, the door swings both ways!

i guess that can be true but then which gender has more power over their emotions.

i think that girls may get attached faster but when the relationship is over its the guy who takes longer to move on.

Loco_Lopez · Senior Member

Well It all depends on the person, some people get over it quicker then other dispite the gender! pretty much it's just about emotional strength, the door swings both ways!

angelita dulce · Foro Master

From experience, i think guys can also take long to get over an ex! It has been 3 years since i divorced my ex-hus and he still can't get over it!!!

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Guys take longer to get over the relationship.

Rebelde · Guru

ok foro land what do you think

When you are in a seriouse relationship does it take longer for guys to get over girls or for girls to get over guys?

i mean people always say that girls are more emotional and take longer to get over a guy but i tend to differ i think guys try to act like they are not attached but when push comes to shove i think they are the ones that can't see to let go.