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Jaime Cruz wrote:

Are any of you guys still friends with an ex? Yes, I am only friends with one If so does your boyfriend/girlfriend have a problem with that? Well I don't habe a boyfriend, but if he would have a problem, well I told him to close the door in his way out If you reverse the roles would you be ok with it given any past chemistry or history? Yes, becuase if there is trust in the relationship there is nothing to worry I had just 1 ex that I maintained a good friendship. My girlfriend wasn't too pleased about that but our friendship didn't last too long either.I myself would not like my girlfriend maintaining a relationship with an ex.


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no, and again no

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PRECIOSA wrote:

LIFE IS TO SHORT TO HOLD GRUDGES WITH AN EX...OR ANY PERSON FOR THAT MATTER... YOU LIVE AND YOU LEARN...YOU FORGIVE AND MIGHT NEVER FORGET...HOWEVER, IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE PERSON AND THE SITUATION...IT'S ALL A LEARNING EXPERIENCE...WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU WILL ONLY MAKE YOU STRONGER...  
I AGREE.... SOME THING WE JUST HAVE TO LEARN THE HARD WAY!

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LIFE IS TO SHORT TO HOLD GRUDGES WITH AN EX...OR ANY PERSON FOR THAT MATTER...


YOU LIVE AND YOU LEARN...YOU FORGIVE AND MIGHT NEVER FORGET...HOWEVER, IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE PERSON AND THE SITUATION...IT'S ALL A LEARNING EXPERIENCE...WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU WILL ONLY MAKE YOU STRONGER...


 



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I agree with those that say it depends on how the relationship ends.  I dont think they should stay chummy cause that just makes it akward when one or the other moves on.  If there are kids involved I think it is very important to stay civil for the children.  But that cant always be the case.

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@ chica wow......good stuff....you've just inspired me to start a thread......

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Rebelde wrote:

 @chica wow....wow 5 years that alot of healing......jk
That's how long it took him...LOL!!! It took me about a month..

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 @chica wow....wow 5 years that alot of healing......jk

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Rebelde wrote:

Urien wrote: well, all my exs are friends of mine, exepto una me 2 excepts they are guys it can work you just first need some time apart to get over the bitterness.

This is true. I'm friends with an ex, we met up after 5 years of not knowing about each other and now we have a nice friendship even though his girlfriend doesn't want him talking to me.


 



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I'm agree with rebelde!!! time heels all wounds, but until those's wounds heel stay away from eachother!! cuz if you don't you'll be causin eachother more pain then joy!



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Urien wrote:

well, all my exs are friends of mine, exepto una

me 2 excepts they are guys



it can work you just first need some time apart to get over the bitterness.



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Gitana wrote:

I BELIEVE AN EX CAN BE A FRIEND.... IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW THE RELATIONSHIP ENDED AND WHETHER OR NOT BOTH PARTIES ARE OKAY WITH IT.... PERSONALLY I AM ONLY FRIENDS WITH ONE OF MY EX'S.....WE WOULD NEVER CROSS THE LINE TO RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP WE HAVE.....  AS FOR MY MAN HAVING A PROBLEM WITH ME BEING FRIENDS WITH AN EX.... I DON'T THINK IT SHOULD BE A PROBLEM AS LONG AS THE RESPECT AND TRUST IS THERE.....


I agree with Gitana....OR ideally I would like it to work out like that but realistically it doesn't.


#1. Each time you see tha person you think of WHY they are no longer with you.....and "other" feelings come out...LOL


#2. It's pretty hard maintaining a plutonic relationship when TRUE feelings were there to start with......if real love was there....


And as far as "friends" (strong term).....NO.....we keep it civil YES.....and do we call each other all the time or see each other often....NO.....nothing to talk about.....


I guess it also helps if the exes are far from the crowd and people you're around....


 



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melanie wrote:

I am friends with all of my Ex's except for one...he's cut off because he was painfully jealous, negative and dumb. Being friends with my Ex's has never interfered with my relationships.  I think the only time this becomes an issue is if your GF or BF is not aware that this friendship exists, and also if you are hanging out with your Ex. going to the movies, lunch..sh%T like that... which just isnt cool or necessary.   

 


 


THAT'S MY POINT EXACTLY IT ALL DEPENDS HOW THE RELATIONSHIP ENDED..



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melanie wrote:

I am friends with all of my Ex's except for one...he's cut off because he was painfully jealous, negative and dumb. Being friends with my Ex's has never interfered with my relationships.  I think the only time this becomes an issue is if your GF or BF is not aware that this friendship exists, and also if you are hanging out with your Ex. going to the movies, lunch..sh%T like that... which just isnt cool or necessary.   
THOSE ONE'S ARE THE WORST ONES.... IT'S BETTER TO KEEP THEM FAR AWAY!

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I FIRMLY BELIEVE "NO" IT JUS DOESN'T WORK.

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I am friends with all of my Ex's except for one...he's cut off because he was painfully jealous, negative and dumb.


Being friends with my Ex's has never interfered with my relationships.  I think the only time this becomes an issue is if your GF or BF is not aware that this friendship exists, and also if you are hanging out with your Ex. going to the movies, lunch..sh%T like that... which just isnt cool or necessary. 


 



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Guadalupana wrote:

can an ex be your friend? sure, but it's the opposite of being promoted. ( i guess you can say) like being a manager and they tell you that you suck at being manager so you'll become a regular employee..again...

interesting way of putting it :D.


I'm friends with most of my exes, or at least the relationship is civil. Though after some time, people tend to go their separate ways... like most friendships, really. No different.



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IT ALL DEPENDS HOW THE RELATIONSHIP ENDS.



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can an ex be your friend? sure, but it's the opposite of being promoted. ( i guess you can say)

like being a manager and they tell you that you suck at being manager so you'll become a regular employee..again...

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I think u can.... i'm friends with some of my ex's..and it's stay's like that no more

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Lahtina wrote:

My exes are too far to even be considered human.
el pato Donald???

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Lahtina wrote:
My exes are too far to even be considered human.


chubbaca ?

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My exes are too far to even be considered human.

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I BELIEVE AN EX CAN BE A FRIEND.... IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW THE RELATIONSHIP ENDED AND WHETHER OR NOT BOTH PARTIES ARE OKAY WITH IT....


PERSONALLY I AM ONLY FRIENDS WITH ONE OF MY EX'S.....WE WOULD NEVER CROSS THE LINE TO RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP WE HAVE..... 


AS FOR MY MAN HAVING A PROBLEM WITH ME BEING FRIENDS WITH AN EX.... I DON'T THINK IT SHOULD BE A PROBLEM AS LONG AS THE RESPECT AND TRUST IS THERE.....



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 2 of my Ex's are good friends of mine now...the rest have just sorta dissappeared of the face of the earth....



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Supposedly we're on "friendly" terms but I never hear from them so or if I do it's once in a full moon so... NO, not really. I suppose you could but it's hard.  

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well, all my exs are friends of mine, exepto una

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Jaime Cruz wrote:
Are any of you guys still friends with an ex?If so does your boyfriend/girlfriend have a problem with that?If you reverse the roles would you be ok with it given any past chemistry or history?
I had just 1 ex that I maintained a good friendship. My girlfriend wasn't too pleased about that but our friendship didn't last too long either.I myself would not like my girlfriend maintaining a relationship with an ex.


I've few and yeah we're friends, even some married and I know their hubby's don't like that....

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Are any of you guys still friends with an ex?
If so does your boyfriend/girlfriend have a problem with that?
If you reverse the roles would you be ok with it given any past chemistry or history?


I had just 1 ex that I maintained a good friendship. My girlfriend wasn't too pleased about that but our friendship didn't last too long either.
I myself would not like my girlfriend maintaining a relationship with an ex.



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