God wrote: Five years later my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer, she lost one breast and she made it again, mothers are powerful, they have that inner strenght that comes from nowhere, be with her, love her and help her. I honeslty wish the best for your mother&Family Hello CHILENITA i`m soo sorry to hear this ,but you know what i have to agree whit GOD (Foro God) I don`t know how they do it but man can they ever pull it together!!! My mom had to take care of us four by her self and i seen my mother thru ups and downs and it sucks !! You know what .......Un TE QUIERO AND I`M THINKING OF YOU ....has a very powerfull way to get to them !!Our prayer are with you and your family !!!!
Thanks Zipote!! I am actually feeling much better than this morning and I am ready to just take care of her.
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Five years later my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer, she lost one breast and she made it again, mothers are powerful, they have that inner strenght that comes from nowhere, be with her, love her and help her. I honeslty wish the best for your mother&Family
Hello CHILENITA i`m soo sorry to hear this ,but you know what i have to agree whit GOD (Foro God) I don`t know how they do it but man can they ever pull it together!!! My mom had to take care of us four by her self and i seen my mother thru ups and downs and it sucks !!
You know what .......Un TE QUIERO AND I`M THINKING OF YOU ....has a very powerfull way to get to them !! Our prayer are with you and your family !!!!
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Chilenita wrote: Thanks again guys! Gezzz this foro is full of sweet people!! I was still getting over the initial shock this morning....it has sunk in now and I am feeling a bit more positive. My prayers are with you and your mother. The sooner she gets her third operation, the sooner she'll get better. Think positive. She will get through this. She has to, otherwise how else is she going to help you raise Chilenito jr? Or Chilen-tino Jr?
Thanks buff!
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Thanks again guys! Gezzz this foro is full of sweet people!! I was still getting over the initial shock this morning....it has sunk in now and I am feeling a bit more positive.
My prayers are with you and your mother. The sooner she gets her third operation, the sooner she'll get better. Think positive. She will get through this. She has to, otherwise how else is she going to help you raise Chilenito jr? Or Chilen-tino Jr?
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Thanks again guys! Gezzz this foro is full of sweet people!! I was still getting over the initial shock this morning....it has sunk in now and I am feeling a bit more positive.
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Chilenita wrote: Hope you are all ready for some serious venting this morning!! I get a call from my mom last night and it turns out that she is sick again. To make a long story short while I was away she found out her cancer is back and she will need a THIRD operation. She didn't want to tell me because she didn't want me to worry. She has the surgery next Tuesday followed by radiation in months to come. Could not be happening to a better woman. I am so mad and sad I could scream!!!!! Life in unfair and I hate it right now.
Hey Chile I don't know if you know this but My Mum went thru the same, she got cervix cancer when I was 10 Yrs old, my younger brother was 1 year old and we almost lost her.
Five years later my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer, she lost one breast and she made it again, mothers are powerful, they have that inner strenght that comes from nowhere, be with her, love her and help her.
Hope you are all ready for some serious venting this morning!! I get a call from my mom last night and it turns out that she is sick again. To make a long story short while I was away she found out her cancer is back and she will need a THIRD operation. She didn't want to tell me because she didn't want me to worry. She has the surgery next Tuesday followed by radiation in months to come. Could not be happening to a better woman. I am so mad and sad I could scream!!!!! Life in unfair and I hate it right now.
OMG, girl, i am truley sorry to hear that!! Pero Dios ayuda, tenga fe!!! Two years ago my aunt in Washington was told that she had a brain tumor and had a few months to live. But she went through so much kemo (not sure how to spell it) and other treatments and she got cured!!! She almost gave up, because all that Kemo was killing her, but we told her not to give up and have faith!!
We tried not to stress out and we were all there for her!! And thank GOD she is still here with us!!!
SO PLEASE, TRY NOT TO STRESS AND JUST BE THERE FOR HER AND MAKE SURE SHE GOES TO ALL HER TREAMENTS!! TENGA FE GIRL, QUE DIOS AYUDA!!!
Hope you are all ready for some serious venting this morning!! I get a call from my mom last night and it turns out that she is sick again. To make a long story short while I was away she found out her cancer is back and she will need a THIRD operation. She didn't want to tell me because she didn't want me to worry. She has the surgery next Tuesday followed by radiation in months to come. Could not be happening to a better woman. I am so mad and sad I could scream!!!!! Life in unfair and I hate it right now.
I am truly sorry to hear that Chile and for sure, it is never a good time. But I am sure you're Mom is a fighter. The doctors seems to be on top of the situation and are giving her the best treatment and attention. I've been there and it is not easy.
Mostly you have to try to relax and think about your baby as well ; you know that's why your Mom did not wanted to say anything to you
All the best to her and I am sure things will turn out well, keep the faith Chile
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Hope you are all ready for some serious venting this morning!! I get a call from my mom last night and it turns out that she is sick again. To make a long story short while I was away she found out her cancer is back and she will need a THIRD operation. She didn't want to tell me because she didn't want me to worry. She has the surgery next Tuesday followed by radiation in months to come. Could not be happening to a better woman. I am so mad and sad I could scream!!!!! Life in unfair and I hate it right now.
I AM TRULY SORRY TO HEAR THAT CHILENITA...MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY...ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE...GOD PUT US ON THIS EARTH FOR A REASON...HE GAVE US A JOURNEY AND A PATH TO FOLLOW...BE STRONG...!!!
I HAVE BEEN EXPERIENCING ROUGH TIMES ALSO IN THESE PAST COUPLE OF MONTHS...I JUST TRY TO KEEP ON SMILING...AND SPEND AS MUCH TIME WITH THE PEOPLE I LOVE THE MOST...
Hope you are all ready for some serious venting this morning!! I get a call from my mom last night and it turns out that she is sick again. To make a long story short while I was away she found out her cancer is back and she will need a THIRD operation. She didn't want to tell me because she didn't want me to worry. She has the surgery next Tuesday followed by radiation in months to come. Could not be happening to a better woman. I am so mad and sad I could scream!!!!! Life in unfair and I hate it right now.
I can't really say anything right now, but all the best to mami.........I'm in shock....
just take it easy and remember that things happend for a reason and try to learn from this situations....
Todo lo mejor
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Hope you are all ready for some serious venting this morning!!
I get a call from my mom last night and it turns out that she is sick again. To make a long story short while I was away she found out her cancer is back and she will need a THIRD operation. She didn't want to tell me because she didn't want me to worry. She has the surgery next Tuesday followed by radiation in months to come.
Could not be happening to a better woman. I am so mad and sad I could scream!!!!!
Life in unfair and I hate it right now.
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I need to vent. I have a company where I get all my IT department stuff, Like computers, printers, blah, blah, blah. One day looking the Executive Account Reps I saw a Latino Name, I called him and I decided to give him the biz, for the fact of being latino, well this Cerote de Mierda (He's Salvadorian) has been slacking off to an unacceptable point, he does not reply my email and or return my phone calls, enough is enough, I gave him warnings (3) and since he didn't smarted up I just send a letter to his boss asking for another Account Executive due his incompetence.
I thought you would have had a new sales rep by now ? Isn't the same you mentioned me about few month ago ?
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I have a company where I get all my IT department stuff, Like computers, printers, blah, blah, blah. One day looking the Executive Account Reps I saw a Latino Name, I called him and I decided to give him the biz, for the fact of being latino, well this Cerote de Mierda (He's Salvadorian) has been slacking off to an unacceptable point, he does not reply my email and or return my phone calls, enough is enough, I gave him warnings (3) and since he didn't smarted up I just send a letter to his boss asking for another Account Executive due his incompetence.
buffy...i know exactly how u feel...but alot of ppl will surprise and disappoint u n life...it suks but asi es la vida...but u gotta jus b strong and go on with ur life...
Buffy....I might know what you are talking about exactly....(I think ) LOL....call me or PM me to talk.
You're definitely on the right track. I've had this whole weekend to think about this, and I know I'm making the right decision by walking away. I'll PM you later to tell you what happened.
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Hey you know that if you smile it makes you feel better !!!!! Si queres te cuento un chiste ... si no preguntale a cualquiera del foro !!!! Por credenciales !!! Despues de la tempestad biene la calma !!!!
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If you helped them become stronger and more independent you have done them a service. Good on you! Unfortunately they may not thank you. This happens to parent all the time. Parents raise children all the time to be independent and strong, sacrificing much for little or nothing. Too often they are blamed rather than thanked. Not until later, much later and sometimes too late, do we realize how they helped us. Take solice in the fact your intentions were good.
Well, Neruda, who would've thought? I like that last line. It wasn't thank you that I wanted to hear. I just wanted them to go with me where I wanted to take them, but now that the project grew, they want to take it to a whole different place, but I know it'll crash, so I'm walking away.
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At least these situations lets you separate the good from the bad, and the people or situations that are truly important in your life and that are worthy of your time and efforts
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Today I had one of the biggest disappointments of my life. Sometimes you do things for people thinking someone will appreciate it and knowing full well that you've made a difference in their lives, and if things get tough or if they start sailing on their own, they 1) attack you and 2) feel so independent and strong that they think they don't need you anymore, and that you, in fact, have been an obstacle for the betterment of the project. Without going into much detail, I can tell you that I did something for some people and it went so, so well, that when a little mishap happened, and some constructive criticism was given, it all came to bite me in the Ass. I defended myself as much as I could, and it is surprising how much some people dislike me; people I thought were maybe not friends but good people on my side. I am fuming right now, and hubby and mommy are not available to hear me out, so where do I go? To foro. I guess I just want a sympathetic ear, besides good old hubby, who wants to kill them all right about now and who wasn't there to be by my side at that very minute. It's also surprising that people you would never think take your side, do. I don't know, I guess I'm just so disappointed and furious that I don't know what's worth anymore.
If you helped them become stronger and more independent you have done them a service. Good on you! Unfortunately they may not thank you. This happens to parent all the time.
Parents raise children all the time to be independent and strong, sacrificing much for little or nothing. Too often they are blamed rather than thanked. Not until later, much later and sometimes too late, do we realize how they helped us.
Take solice in the fact your intentions were good.
TV Buff wrote: Colombiana4Life wrote: Girl, believe me, I learned that lesson the hard way this year that just passed. Not necessarily the same scenario, but I was going thru a really rough time last summer and the people that I thought were gonna be the greatest form of support actually turned on me or were on my side cuando les convenia. And the people I least expected to be understanding and take my side actually did. In the tough times, that's when u realize who's who. Shit! That is so true! And the ferocity with which they turn on you! It's like you're enemies or something and there were just waiting for a chance to let it all out! And I was so happy and emotional when the ones who I least expected took my side. You never getting to know about people. Cheer up girl. Believe me that when you least expect la gente empieza a reconocer las cosas como son. I hope u feel better After going through the Kept rocking on thread, and laughing my head off, I feel a lot better, thank you. Now I just need some wine.
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Colombiana4Life wrote: Girl, believe me, I learned that lesson the hard way this year that just passed. Not necessarily the same scenario, but I was going thru a really rough time last summer and the people that I thought were gonna be the greatest form of support actually turned on me or were on my side cuando les convenia. And the people I least expected to be understanding and take my side actually did. In the tough times, that's when u realize who's who. Shit! That is so true! And the ferocity with which they turn on you! It's like you're enemies or something and there were just waiting for a chance to let it all out! And I was so happy and emotional when the ones who I least expected took my side. You never getting to know about people.
Cheer up girl. Believe me that when you least expect la gente empieza a reconocer las cosas como son. I hope u feel better
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Sorry about what's happening buffy. I've been in many-a-situation where I gave selfless help and effort for others then get bitten in the Ass as a "Thank You". What doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger. I guess in your situation, these people take constructive crticism as an insult or that's just the way they handle it when they have to recognize their faults.. But I think they would've saved alot of time AND strain if they were legit and striaght with you from the beginning, if the case was that they didn't like you. As long as in the end they recognize that you had good intentions, they'll realize their ignorance was what got the best of them all along. Hope you feel better girl...
I don't think they see it at all. In their eyes, I did nothing, and they were the big contributors all along. It serves me right. My mother told me not to get involved, and I didn't listen. Live and learn, I guess. I'm walking away before I get real enemies, which I've never had in my life, even though there are people, young people, who are benefitting from this. But I do see the need to walk away. I like the "makes you stronger" phrase. I think this will apply to me right now. Thanks.
Julie: Thanks, girl. It's good to have sympathetic ears right now.
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Girl, believe me, I learned that lesson the hard way this year that just passed. Not necessarily the same scenario, but I was going thru a really rough time last summer and the people that I thought were gonna be the greatest form of support actually turned on me or were on my side cuando les convenia. And the people I least expected to be understanding and take my side actually did. In the tough times, that's when u realize who's who.
Shit! That is so true! And the ferocity with which they turn on you! It's like you're enemies or something and there were just waiting for a chance to let it all out! And I was so happy and emotional when the ones who I least expected took my side. You never getting to know about people.
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Sorry about what's happening buffy. I've been in many-a-situation where I gave selfless help and effort for others then get bitten in the Ass as a "Thank You". What doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger.
I guess in your situation, these people take constructive crticism as an insult or that's just the way they handle it when they have to recognize their faults.. But I think they would've saved alot of time AND strain if they were legit and striaght with you from the beginning, if the case was that they didn't like you. As long as in the end they recognize that you had good intentions, they'll realize their ignorance was what got the best of them all along.
Hope you feel better girl...
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Girl, believe me, I learned that lesson the hard way this year that just passed. Not necessarily the same scenario, but I was going thru a really rough time last summer and the people that I thought were gonna be the greatest form of support actually turned on me or were on my side cuando les convenia. And the people I least expected to be understanding and take my side actually did. In the tough times, that's when u realize who's who.
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Today I had one of the biggest disappointments of my life. Sometimes you do things for people thinking someone will appreciate it and knowing full well that you've made a difference in their lives, and if things get tough or if they start sailing on their own, they 1) attack you and 2) feel so independent and strong that they think they don't need you anymore, and that you, in fact, have been an obstacle for the betterment of the project. Without going into much detail, I can tell you that I did something for some people and it went so, so well, that when a little mishap happened, and some constructive criticism was given, it all came to bite me in the Ass. I defended myself as much as I could, and it is surprising how much some people dislike me; people I thought were maybe not friends but good people on my side. I am fuming right now, and hubby and mommy are not available to hear me out, so where do I go? To foro. I guess I just want a sympathetic ear, besides good old hubby, who wants to kill them all right about now and who wasn't there to be by my side at that very minute. It's also surprising that people you would never think take your side, do. I don't know, I guess I'm just so disappointed and furious that I don't know what's worth anymore.
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Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
-- Edited by Dogo at 17:57, 2006-02-18 
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