Daeveed wrote: Jaime Cruz wrote: Do you guys ever compare? No, what are you a woman? haha J/K I don't compare anything, I just try to make it better all the time. priceless... haha... i think ppl do this by nature. you don't necessarily want to be like them but you look at what ppl have and say i wish.. blah blah blah.. just don't let it ruin the view of your relationship 'cause what looks good on the outside isn't necessarily how it is on the inside.... (refer to the lowest point thread) and hey.. maybe he is trying to over compensate for something he CAN'T buy her! LOL...
Either that, or he's cheating on her.
I never compare. Cada cabeza es un mundo and what's good for us might not necessarily be good for anyone else.
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Do guys do that???
@LB: LMAO your too much, but have a point nonetheless
** to answer the question, no I wouldn't compare any relationship to another because everyone is different ... besides if I get to many gifts I would be wondering if maybe he's done something wrong ... or he thinks I'm materialistic ... not that I would REALLY mind the gifts LOL
Jaime Cruz wrote: This mainly applies to women, but a bit to men too.Do you guys ever compare the relationship you have with your boyfriend or girlfriend with the one your friends or someone you know has?Like for example my girlfriends best friend has been seeing some guys for nearly a year now. He spoils her like crazy by buying her clothes, shoes, accessories and so on all the damn time.They ain't even engaged. I'm not tight or cheap, but I don't or haven't ever bought my girlfriend gifts every weekend. They have a good relationship and all, but I don't know if maybe she's in it for the goods.I asked my girl if it bothers her that I am not like that and she said no. She's fine the way things are and have always been. How about you guys. Do you guys ever compare?
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Once you start comparing your relationship with other's, it's a sure sign of uncertainty and some lost faith. If a friend of yours seems to be showering his/her partner with gifts and such, doesn't mean you have to run out and max out the credit card either. Everyone is different. There are definately people who exist that take a relationship as how much money someone has or what kind of gift they buy for you. Those who are in genuine strong relationships already know that showering your loved one with gifts can't compare to showering your loved one with your attention, your respect, your praise for them and your time! Those are the traits that stick to your partner's mind and heart. Wish you all a Very Happy Valentine's Day...although I still see it just as Christmas...a business scheme! If you truly love someone, celbrate that Shit EVERYDAY!!!
Once you start comparing your relationship with other's, it's a sure sign of uncertainty and some lost faith. If a friend of yours seems to be showering his/her partner with gifts and such, doesn't mean you have to run out and max out the credit card either. Everyone is different. There are definately people who exist that take a relationship as how much money someone has or what kind of gift they buy for you. Those who are in genuine strong relationships already know that showering your loved one with gifts can't compare to showering your loved one with your attention, your respect, your praise for them and your time! Those are the traits that stick to your partner's mind and heart. Wish you all a Very Happy Valentine's Day...although I still see it just as Christmas...a business scheme! If you truly love someone, celbrate that Shit EVERYDAY!!!
You're totally right !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Once you start comparing your relationship with other's, it's a sure sign of uncertainty and some lost faith. If a friend of yours seems to be showering his/her partner with gifts and such, doesn't mean you have to run out and max out the credit card either. Everyone is different. There are definately people who exist that take a relationship as how much money someone has or what kind of gift they buy for you. Those who are in genuine strong relationships already know that showering your loved one with gifts can't compare to showering your loved one with your attention, your respect, your praise for them and your time! Those are the traits that stick to your partner's mind and heart.
Wish you all a Very Happy Valentine's Day...although I still see it just as Christmas...a business scheme! If you truly love someone, celbrate that Shit EVERYDAY!!!
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Jaime Cruz wrote: Do you guys ever compare? No, what are you a woman? haha J/K I don't compare anything, I just try to make it better all the time.
priceless...
haha... i think ppl do this by nature. you don't necessarily want to be like them but you look at what ppl have and say i wish.. blah blah blah.. just don't let it ruin the view of your relationship 'cause what looks good on the outside isn't necessarily how it is on the inside.... (refer to the lowest point thread)
and hey.. maybe he is trying to over compensate for something he CAN'T buy her! LOL...
This mainly applies to women, but a bit to men too. Do you guys ever compare the relationship you have with your boyfriend or girlfriend with the one your friends or someone you know has? Like for example my girlfriends best friend has been seeing some guys for nearly a year now. He spoils her like crazy by buying her clothes, shoes, accessories and so on all the damn time. They ain't even engaged. I'm not tight or cheap, but I don't or haven't ever bought my girlfriend gifts every weekend. They have a good relationship and all, but I don't know if maybe she's in it for the goods. I asked my girl if it bothers her that I am not like that and she said no. She's fine the way things are and have always been.
priceless... haha... i think ppl do this by nature. you don't necessarily want to be like them but you look at what ppl have and say i wish.. blah blah blah.. just don't let it ruin the view of your relationship 'cause what looks good on the outside isn't necessarily how it is on the inside.... (refer to the lowest point thread) and hey.. maybe he is trying to over compensate for something he CAN'T buy her! LOL... 
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... or he thinks I'm materialistic ... not that I would REALLY mind the gifts LOL 
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