Foro relationships......

X4v13r · Comandante

RE: Foro relationships......

TV Buff · TOP Guru

God wrote:

TV Buff wrote: You and Pancho Cachondo are both caras perdidas. He can't remember his password.

Whatever happened to the Aztech and Anonymus posters? Hmm...

Did they forget their passwords also?

God · Foro Master

TV Buff wrote:

You and Pancho Cachondo are both caras perdidas.

He can't remember his password.

Lahtina · Foro Master

santoor wrote:

Daeveed wrote: Oops, I hadn't realized that "girl" was just somebody's clone account.... I hate clone accounts!!

LOL Clone accounts are the bestest thing on the forum! Hooray for anonymity!

Jade · Guru

Daeveed wrote:

Daeveed wrote: I think she is relaxed. There is no need for comments like the one you just made, unless you know for a fact who her man is and the opinion of every woman ( and gay men) in the world about him. Oops, I hadn't realized that "girl" was just somebody's clone account....

Clone account or not...she is very mmm how should I say...Mean... (that was putting it politely cuz I am polite person je je) Now my curiosity is...Whos is it really behind that clone? TAN TAN TANNNNNNNNN

-- Edited by Jade at 14:10, 2006-02-09

TV Buff · TOP Guru

miguel wrote:

this thread is r e t a r d e d and i'm a retard for posting here

For posting here?

@ Santoor: Welcome Back! Long time no read! You and Pancho Cachondo are both caras perdidas. What's new with you?

X4v13r · Comandante

miguel wrote:

this thread is r e t a r d e d

and i'm a retard for posting here

hey miguel thnx for stating the obvious.....here is a cookie.....couldn't find a cookie so here is a cake

X@vier

Julie · Comandante

Chilenita wrote:

Wondering if it's a good idea to post about foro hookups....we have seen some go well....others go bad.....If you air everything it may come back to bite you in the butt.....some people are truly not interested in reading about it.......others love reading about it and watching it fizzle..... QUESTION is do you guys think it's best to keep foro hookups PRIVATE?-- Edited by Chilenita at 10:36, 2006-02-09

Didi you got bored trying to find out what was going on during your leave

@ LaDyBug, yes, yes, yes ... to each and everyone of your points

miguel · TOP Guru

this thread is r e t a r d e d

and i'm a retard for posting here

santoor · Regular Plus

Daeveed wrote:

Oops, I hadn't realized that "girl" was just somebody's clone account....

I hate clone accounts!!

Date: Feb 9 2:02 PM, 2006

TV Buff wrote:

PRINCESSA wrote: Me & X assumed ppl. assumed about us & it was fun, know I've confirmed it & that's as much as most will know. The odd time i will say like for V-Day thread we are going away but I will not share the details cause it's irrelevant. I personally think that any relationship should always be private, even between good friends. My good friends know about him, know him but I don't get into details of how we are, things we do cause again i don't think it's important for them to know everything. I don't even like to date my friends friends, or b/f friends cause at the end it's just a headache. I rather have a b/f that i met on my own, & doen't involed anyone i know. So... when's the wedding? 'Cause we are all ASSUMING that there is going to be a wedding, right? Oh, and another thing... "X and I"... (Sorry, Pet peeve). @ NeNa: Are you the original NeNa? You and your twin are confusing the heck out of me. If you are, there's an impostor stealing your name. If you're the same, shame on you!

@ Buff: I'm the original NeNa... and yes the "impostor" changed her name to Sweet Nenita.. so we're good

Daeveed · Foro Master

Daeveed wrote:

I think she is relaxed. There is no need for comments like the one you just made, unless you know for a fact who her man is and the opinion of every woman ( and gay men) in the world about him.

Oops, I hadn't realized that "girl" was just somebody's clone account....

Daeveed · Foro Master

SHikiYa SeKreTa wrote:

YOU NEED TO RELAX. ONE ONE WANTS YOUR MAN ANYWAYS. BUT REALLY WHO PEE'D IN YOUR COFFEE TODAY?

I think she is relaxed. There is no need for comments like the one you just made, unless you know for a fact who her man is and the opinion of every woman ( and gay men) in the world about him.

SHikiYa SeKreTa · Regular Plus

LaDyBuG wrote:

THE WHOLE KEEPING THINGS "PRIVATE" IS TOTALLY UP TO THE 2 PEOPLE INVOLVED REALLY.... IF THEY WANNA FLAUNT IT....THEY CAN....IF NOT, THEN THAT'S COOL TOO....BUT ONLY THEY ARE ALLOWED TO MAKE THE DECISION..... I DONT KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE IN AN ACTUAL FORO RELATIONSHIP.....EXCEPT FOR THE ONES THAT OPENLY TALK ABOUT THEIR "LOVE LIFE" WITH ONE.... WHAT I DO WANNA SAY IS THIS: 1. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP ASSUMING THINGS ABOUT OTHERS AND SPREADING IT LIKE IT'S PEANUT BUTTER....GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT! 2. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP PM-ING SOMEONE WHO YOU VERY WELL KNOW IS NOT SINGLE, BECUASE YOU ARE BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND ASKING FOR A WELL DESERVED BEATING... 3. IF PM'S COULD TALK, WE'D HAVE A LOT OF KAOS AND COURT ORDERS TO DEAL WITH....AND HEARTBREAKS AND DIVORCE... 4. IF SOMEONE TELLS YOU DONT TELL ANYBODY THATS EXACTLY WHAT THAT MEANS....THATS A BIG FORM OF DISRESPECT AS WELL....BEING GOSSIPY!!! 5. IF NOBODY ASKS YOU, DON'T VOLUNTEER INFO WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF THE OTHER PARTY INVOLVED.... SO BASICALLY.....TO MAINTAIN YOUR PRIVACY, YOU MUST ALSO MAINTAIN YOUR MOUTH SHUT....AND TRUST THE PERSON YOU ARE "DEALING" WTIH.....THAT'S THE HARDEST PART!! I PERSONALLY AM AWARE OF A LOT OF "ONE NIGHT STANDS"...FLINGS, FLIRTINGS AND OTHER DRAMA THAT GOES ON WITH FORO MEMBERS.....BECUASE PEOPLE CONFIDE IN ME AND KNOW THAT I WON'T REVEAL THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT........BUT WHAT I KNOW IS PROBABLY NOT EVEN HALF OF WHAT GOES ON IN PRIVATE MESSAGES......TRUST ME!! BTW: IF YOU GUYS KNEW THAT PM'S ARE NOT 100% PRIVATE...YOU WOULD RE-THINK YOUR MESSAGES....

YOU NEED TO RELAX. ONE ONE WANTS YOUR MAN ANYWAYS. BUT REALLY WHO PEE'D IN YOUR COFFEE TODAY?

X4v13r · Comandante

Lahtina wrote:

God wrote:
X4v13r wrote: God wrote: X4v13r wrote: yup keep it private!!!! X@vier When is the wedding ? hey buddy, u want to take this out side?? X@vier wanna piece of me huh huh

Whoa there, calm down! Relax. There's not much of you to go around anyway! LOL

No se crea, ken lo kele?

i don't think there is even enough for the one that has him now

X@vier

Lahtina · Foro Master

God wrote:

X4v13r wrote: God wrote: X4v13r wrote: yup keep it private!!!! X@vier When is the wedding ? hey buddy, u want to take this out side?? X@vier wanna piece of me huh huh

Whoa there, calm down! Relax. There's not much of you to go around anyway! LOL

No se crea, ken lo kele?

Sweetness · Guru

LIKE LB SAID IT'S UP TO THE COUPLE IF THEY WANT TO COME OUT AND TELL EVERYONE ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIP....BUT AT THE SAME TIME IT WOULD BE GOOD THAT THOSE WHO ARE IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP COME OUT AND TELL US THAT THEY'RE TAKEN, THAT WAY OTHERS DON'T TRY TO STEP ON THE NEXT MAN/WOMAN'S TURF IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. JUST TO AVOID PROBLEMS WITH THEIR OTHER HALFS.

@LB WHAT DO YOU MEAN NOT ALL PMS ARE PRIVATE?

TV Buff · TOP Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

I SMILE AND LAUGH A LOT WHEN I JOKE AROUND....AND SOME PEOPLE MISTAKE THAT FOR FLIRTING....OH WELL! AT THE END OF THE DAY....MY CONSCIENCE IS AT REST AND I HAD A GREAT TIME AND MET A NEW PERSON THANKS TO MY OUT GOING NESS....OOOOPS...I MEANT MY "FLIRTING"

Me too! I'm in the same boat as you! I'm half blind and when I stare at people 'cause I can't see properly, I've been accused of flirting! And seriously, I can't even see who I'm "allegedly" flirting with!

Hubby's a big flirt, though, and he will never admit it.

Miel · Guru

I agree with LB points,. in conclusion make it public or keep it private is the decision of the persons involved in the relationship ( friendship, couples, parteners, etc)

TV Buff · TOP Guru

PRINCESSA wrote:

Me & X assumed ppl. assumed about us & it was fun, know I've confirmed it & that's as much as most will know. The odd time i will say like for V-Day thread we are going away but I will not share the details cause it's irrelevant. I personally think that any relationship should always be private, even between good friends. My good friends know about him, know him but I don't get into details of how we are, things we do cause again i don't think it's important for them to know everything. I don't even like to date my friends friends, or b/f friends cause at the end it's just a headache. I rather have a b/f that i met on my own, & doen't involed anyone i know.

So... when's the wedding? 'Cause we are all ASSUMING that there is going to be a wedding, right? Oh, and another thing... "X and I"... (Sorry, Pet peeve).

@ NeNa: Are you the original NeNa? You and your twin are confusing the heck out of me. If you are, there's an impostor stealing your name. If you're the same, shame on you!

Dogo · Comandante

What I don't get is why people even want to know

@LB, Yes! to all your points!

PRECIOSA · Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

NeNa wrote: How????? Whoever is flirting (or more) with non-single members have low self-respect, easy as that.... ITS THE JOB OF THE PERSON THAT THEY ARE FLIRTING WITH TO PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACE..... NO NEED TO BE "MEAN"......OR "RUDE"....UNLESS YOU HAVE NO CHOICE.... SO MANY PEOPLE ARE WIMPS....AND DONT WANNA BE MEAN....ESPECIALLY BECAUSE WHEN SOMEONE FLIRTS WITH YOU...IT'S ONLY HUMAN NATURE TO FEEL "GOOD"...OR WANTED.....AND GOD KNOWS THAT WOMEN LOOOVE ATTENTION..... NOT ONLY DO THEY HAVE LOW SELF RESPECT.....A "TAKEN" PERSON IS MORE APPEALING THAN A SINGLE ONE.....SO IT PRESENTS A CHALLENGE..... ALL THOSE DISRESPECTFUL PEOPLE NEED TO BE KE TE'D!!!

YES THAT IS CORRECT...

I KNOW ALOT OF FEMALES AND MALES THAT FLIRT AND ARE TAKEN...BUT THEN AGAIN TO ANY INDIVIDUAL FLIRTING CAN BE PORTRAYED DIFFERENTLY...

(FOR CONVERSATION SAKE)...WHAT YOU AND I THINK FLIRTING IS...BOB AND JOE MIGHT THINK IT'S NOT...

CHALLENGE COMES WITH BEING HUMAN...AND A HUMAN WILL SEEK DIFFERENT OBSTICLES TO ACHIEVE THEIR CHALLENGE...BUT...IF A HUMAN WHO SEEKS THE WRONG CHALLENGE WILL LEARN AND DEAL WITH IT IN DIFFERENT OBSTICLES...

-- Edited by PRECIOSA at 12:38, 2006-02-09

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Bainaman wrote:

LaDyBuG wrote: Bainaman wrote: How many people have had this happen to them.... ....You go out with their signigicant other....and that person flirts with someone right in front of you..... How do you react??? I DO IT ALL THE TIME!!! MY LEVEL OF WHAT SOMEONE WOULD CALL "FLIRTING" IS VERY LOW.... THAT'S WHY I ONLY DATE "SECURE" MEN! I think the same respect thing should apply........It shouldn't be done.

GOOD POINT!

BUT I "FLIRT" OPENLY.....AND NOT DISRESPECTFULLY.....IN PRIVATE OVER PM'S

AND IM CALLING IT FLIRTING WHEN I DONT THINK IT IS.....

I SMILE AND LAUGH A LOT WHEN I JOKE AROUND....AND SOME PEOPLE MISTAKE THAT FOR FLIRTING....OH WELL!

AT THE END OF THE DAY....MY CONSCIENCE IS AT REST AND I HAD A GREAT TIME AND MET A NEW PERSON THANKS TO MY OUT GOING NESS....OOOOPS...I MEANT MY "FLIRTING"

Confesiones · TOP Guru

Chilenita wrote:

Wondering if it's a good idea to post about foro hookups....we have seen some go well....others go bad.....If you air everything it may come back to bite you in the butt.....some people are truly not interested in reading about it.......others love reading about it and watching it fizzle..... QUESTION is do you guys think it's best to keep foro hookups PRIVATE?-- Edited by Chilenita at 10:36, 2006-02-09

I THINK YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT THE 'WHAT IM DOING THREAD"

God · Foro Master

Daeveed wrote:

X4v13r wrote:
hey buddy, u want to take this out side?? X@vier

You mean like an outdoors wedding???

I tought the same....lol

God · Foro Master

X4v13r wrote:

God wrote:

X4v13r wrote:
yup keep it private!!!!

X@vier

When is the wedding ?

hey buddy, u want to take this out side??

X@vier

wanna piece of me huh huh

Bainaman · Foro Master

LaDyBuG wrote:

Bainaman wrote: How many people have had this happen to them.... ....You go out with their signigicant other....and that person flirts with someone right in front of you..... How do you react??? I DO IT ALL THE TIME!!! MY LEVEL OF WHAT SOMEONE WOULD CALL "FLIRTING" IS VERY LOW.... THAT'S WHY I ONLY DATE "SECURE" MEN!

I think the same respect thing should apply........It shouldn't be done.

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Bainaman wrote:

How many people have had this happen to them.... ....You go out with their signigicant other....and that person flirts with someone right in front of you..... How do you react???

I DO IT ALL THE TIME!!!

MY LEVEL OF WHAT SOMEONE WOULD CALL "FLIRTING" IS VERY LOW....

THAT'S WHY I ONLY DATE "SECURE" MEN!

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

Chilenita wrote:

X4v13r wrote: yup keep it private!!!! X@vier Actually in your case it's a little different....you have been sort of seeing your better half for a VERY LONG TIME and you guys waited a while b4 saying anything.....plus we don't know much other than you are finally a couple (I think Buffy is having a party to celebrate).....in other words we don't need detail but it's nice to know it happened. In other cases people may get hurt if they read certian things and so on

Well exactly I would never come in el foro & say anything personal about us. No need for it, it's not to share, plus i doubt anyone cares, so i see no piont.

Me & X assumed ppl. assumed about us & it was fun, know I've confirmed it & that's as much as most will know.

The odd time i will say like for V-Day thread we are going away but I will not share the details cause it's irrelevant.

I personally think that any relationship should always be private, even between good friends. My good friends know about him, know him but I don't get into details of how we are, things we do cause again i don't think it's important for them to know everything. I don't even like to date my friends friends, or b/f friends cause at the end it's just a headache. I rather have a b/f that i met on my own, & doen't involed anyone i know.

Date: Feb 9 12:08 PM, 2006

LaDyBuG wrote:

NeNa wrote: How????? Whoever is flirting (or more) with non-single members have low self-respect, easy as that.... ITS THE JOB OF THE PERSON THAT THEY ARE FLIRTING WITH TO PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACE..... NO NEED TO BE "MEAN"......OR "RUDE"....UNLESS YOU HAVE NO CHOICE.... SO MANY PEOPLE ARE WIMPS....AND DONT WANNA BE MEAN....ESPECIALLY BECAUSE WHEN SOMEONE FLIRTS WITH YOU...IT'S ONLY HUMAN NATURE TO FEEL "GOOD"...OR WANTED.....AND GOD KNOWS THAT WOMEN LOOOVE ATTENTION..... NOT ONLY DO THEY HAVE LOW SELF RESPECT.....A "TAKEN" PERSON IS MORE APPEALING THAN A SINGLE ONE.....SO IT PRESENTS A CHALLENGE..... ALL THOSE DISRESPECTFUL PEOPLE NEED TO BE KE TE'D!!!

Right.. to those people:

Ke Te .................................

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Bainaman wrote:

How many people have had this happen to them.... ....You go out with their signigicant other....and that person flirts with someone right in front of you..... How do you react???

I just grab a cab and I go home.........

alone....

Bainaman · Foro Master

How many people have had this happen to them....

....You go out with their signigicant other....and that person flirts with someone right in front of you.....

How do you react???

LaDyBuG · Comandante

NeNa wrote:

How????? Whoever is flirting (or more) with non-single members have low self-respect, easy as that....

ITS THE JOB OF THE PERSON THAT THEY ARE FLIRTING WITH TO PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACE.....

NO NEED TO BE "MEAN"......OR "RUDE"....UNLESS YOU HAVE NO CHOICE....

SO MANY PEOPLE ARE WIMPS....AND DONT WANNA BE MEAN....ESPECIALLY BECAUSE WHEN SOMEONE FLIRTS WITH YOU...IT'S ONLY HUMAN NATURE TO FEEL "GOOD"...OR WANTED.....AND GOD KNOWS THAT WOMEN LOOOVE ATTENTION.....

NOT ONLY DO THEY HAVE LOW SELF RESPECT.....A "TAKEN" PERSON IS MORE APPEALING THAN A SINGLE ONE.....SO IT PRESENTS A CHALLENGE.....

ALL THOSE DISRESPECTFUL PEOPLE NEED TO BE KE TE'D!!!

Date: Feb 9 11:55 AM, 2006

LaDyBuG wrote:

PRECIOSA wrote: WELL THERE IS A DIFFRENCE... FORO RELATIONSHIPS IN THE SENSE THAT THE COUPLE ARE AN ITEM...WELL...WHY NOT SHARE IT WITH OTHERS...THEY HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE...RIGHT... HOWEVER... FORO (DOWN AND DIRTY) RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD ALWAYS BE KEPT QUIET...THERE IS NO NEED TO SHARE OTHERS EXPERIENCES...IN THE OUT AND OPEN ON A FORUM...UNLESS THEY DECIDE TOO...AND BY THAT I GUESS GET READY FOR SOME WACK QUESTIONS... IF THEY HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE THEN WHY DO WE HAVE ALIASES..... AND IT'S ALL UP TO THE COUPLE...JUST BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT TO FLAUNT IT....IT DOESNT MEAN THAT THEY ARE HIDING SOMETHING.... BEING PRIVATE AVOIDS UN-NECESSARY DRAMA...ESPECIALLY ON A PUBLIC FORUM..... MANY PEOPLE ABUSE THE PM SYSTEM TO FLIRT TO PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT SINGLE.....SO IT ALL COMES DOWN TO A TRUST FACTOR BETWEEN "COUPLES".....AND HOW TO PUT A DISRESPECTFUL PERSON IN THEIR PLACE....

How?????

Whoever is flirting (or more) with non-single members have low self-respect, easy as that....

LaDyBuG · Comandante

PRECIOSA wrote:

WELL THERE IS A DIFFRENCE... FORO RELATIONSHIPS IN THE SENSE THAT THE COUPLE ARE AN ITEM...WELL...WHY NOT SHARE IT WITH OTHERS...THEY HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE...RIGHT... HOWEVER... FORO (DOWN AND DIRTY) RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD ALWAYS BE KEPT QUIET...THERE IS NO NEED TO SHARE OTHERS EXPERIENCES...IN THE OUT AND OPEN ON A FORUM...UNLESS THEY DECIDE TOO...AND BY THAT I GUESS GET READY FOR SOME WACK QUESTIONS...

IF THEY HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE THEN WHY DO WE HAVE ALIASES.....

AND IT'S ALL UP TO THE COUPLE...JUST BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT TO FLAUNT IT....IT DOESNT MEAN THAT THEY ARE HIDING SOMETHING....

BEING PRIVATE AVOIDS UN-NECESSARY DRAMA...ESPECIALLY ON A PUBLIC FORUM.....

MANY PEOPLE ABUSE THE PM SYSTEM TO FLIRT TO PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT SINGLE.....SO IT ALL COMES DOWN TO A TRUST FACTOR BETWEEN "COUPLES".....AND HOW TO PUT A DISRESPECTFUL PERSON IN THEIR PLACE....

DulceGalletita · Foro Master

LaDyBuG wrote:

DulceGalletita wrote: ... But would I reconsider my PM's to anyone?? NOPE! My PM's are always PSSSSST 'cause I have a question LOL!!!! I should call myself PREGUNTONA THOSE WHO ASK ...LEARN! AND THOSE WHO DON'T....... KNOW IT ALL!!!! LOL

LOL LB!!!! That is my goal TO KNOW IT ALL

One day, one day

LaDyBuG · Comandante

DulceGalletita wrote:

... But would I reconsider my PM's to anyone?? NOPE! My PM's are always PSSSSST 'cause I have a question LOL!!!! I should call myself PREGUNTONA

THOSE WHO ASK ...LEARN!

AND THOSE WHO DON'T.......

KNOW IT ALL!!!!

LOL

PRECIOSA · Guru

WELL THERE IS A DIFFRENCE...

FORO RELATIONSHIPS IN THE SENSE THAT THE COUPLE ARE AN ITEM...WELL...WHY NOT SHARE IT WITH OTHERS...THEY HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE...RIGHT...

HOWEVER...

FORO (DOWN AND DIRTY) RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD ALWAYS BE KEPT QUIET...THERE IS NO NEED TO SHARE OTHERS EXPERIENCES...IN THE OUT AND OPEN ON A FORUM...UNLESS THEY DECIDE TOO...AND BY THAT I GUESS GET READY FOR SOME WACK QUESTIONS...

DulceGalletita · Foro Master

LaDyBuG wrote:

1. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP ASSUMING THINGS ABOUT OTHERS AND SPREADING IT LIKE IT'S PEANUT BUTTER....GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT! 2. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP PM-ING SOMEONE WHO YOU VERY WELL KNOW IS NOT SINGLE, BECUASE YOU ARE BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND ASKING FOR A WELL DESERVED BEATING... 3. IF PM'S COULD TALK, WE'D HAVE A LOT OF KAOS AND COURT ORDERS TO DEAL WITH....AND HEARTBREAKS AND DIVORCE... 4. IF SOMEONE TELLS YOU DONT TELL ANYBODY THATS EXACTLY WHAT THAT MEANS....THATS A BIG FORM OF DISRESPECT AS WELL....BEING GOSSIPY!!! 5. IF NOBODY ASKS YOU, DON'T VOLUNTEER INFO WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF THE OTHER PARTY INVOLVED.... SO BASICALLY.....TO MAINTAIN YOUR PRIVACY, YOU MUST ALSO MAINTAIN YOUR MOUTH SHUT....AND TRUST THE PERSON YOU ARE "DEALING" WTIH.....THAT'S THE HARDEST PART!! I PERSONALLY AM AWARE OF A LOT OF "ONE NIGHT STANDS"...FLINGS, FLIRTINGS AND OTHER DRAMA THAT GOES ON WITH FORO MEMBERS.....BECUASE PEOPLE CONFIDE IN ME AND KNOW THAT I WON'T REVEAL THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT........BUT WHAT I KNOW IS PROBABLY NOT EVEN HALF OF WHAT GOES ON IN PRIVATE MESSAGES......TRUST ME!! BTW: IF YOU GUYS KNEW THAT PM'S ARE NOT 100% PRIVATE...YOU WOULD RE-THINK YOUR MESSAGES....

TRUST is a key factor .... And LB has great points ... but all in all it comes down to the COUPLE and no one else ... Now what if you don't know someone is NOT SINGLE it shouldn't be taken as disrepect ... I don't know who is with who, or whatever ... The only couple I know is LSC & XTINA 'cause they let it be known with the CHEESE they are sooo cute ... oh and another couple too who also is cute together ...

But would I reconsider my PM's to anyone?? NOPE! My PM's are always PSSSSST 'cause I have a question LOL!!!!

I should call myself PREGUNTONA

Date: Feb 9 11:39 AM, 2006

LaDyBuG wrote:

THE WHOLE KEEPING THINGS "PRIVATE" IS TOTALLY UP TO THE 2 PEOPLE INVOLVED REALLY.... IF THEY WANNA FLAUNT IT....THEY CAN....IF NOT, THEN THAT'S COOL TOO....BUT ONLY THEY ARE ALLOWED TO MAKE THE DECISION..... I DONT KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE IN AN ACTUAL FORO RELATIONSHIP.....EXCEPT FOR THE ONES THAT OPENLY TALK ABOUT THEIR "LOVE LIFE" WITH ONE.... WHAT I DO WANNA SAY IS THIS: 1. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP ASSUMING THINGS ABOUT OTHERS AND SPREADING IT LIKE IT'S PEANUT BUTTER....GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT! 2. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP PM-ING SOMEONE WHO YOU VERY WELL KNOW IS NOT SINGLE, BECUASE YOU ARE BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND ASKING FOR A WELL DESERVED BEATING... 3. IF PM'S COULD TALK, WE'D HAVE A LOT OF KAOS AND COURT ORDERS TO DEAL WITH....AND HEARTBREAKS AND DIVORCE... 4. IF SOMEONE TELLS YOU DONT TELL ANYBODY THATS EXACTLY WHAT THAT MEANS....THATS A BIG FORM OF DISRESPECT AS WELL....BEING GOSSIPY!!! 5. IF NOBODY ASKS YOU, DON'T VOLUNTEER INFO WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF THE OTHER PARTY INVOLVED.... SO BASICALLY.....TO MAINTAIN YOUR PRIVACY, YOU MUST ALSO MAINTAIN YOUR MOUTH SHUT....AND TRUST THE PERSON YOU ARE "DEALING" WTIH.....THAT'S THE HARDEST PART!! I PERSONALLY AM AWARE OF A LOT OF "ONE NIGHT STANDS"...FLINGS, FLIRTINGS AND OTHER DRAMA THAT GOES ON WITH FORO MEMBERS.....BECUASE PEOPLE CONFIDE IN ME AND KNOW THAT I WON'T REVEAL THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT........BUT WHAT I KNOW IS PROBABLY NOT EVEN HALF OF WHAT GOES ON IN PRIVATE MESSAGES......TRUST ME!! BTW: IF YOU GUYS KNEW THAT PM'S ARE NOT 100% PRIVATE...YOU WOULD RE-THINK YOUR MESSAGES....

LaDyBuG.. u are right on the spot....

A relationship is between 2 people, u need to trust your partner (which is hard) but that's what a good relationship is establish on....

LaDyBuG · Comandante

I HOPE THAT CERTAIN PEOPLE GET THE POINT WHEN THEY READ MY PREVIOUS POST....

PEOPLE CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT.....PERO QUE LUEGO NO SE QUEJEN FOR TAKING THE WRONG STEP AND FALLING FROM THE LADDER....(SO TO SPEAK)

"PEOPLE" THEMSELVES ARE THE ONLY ONES THAT CAN RUIN A PERSON'S REPUTATION....

angelita dulce · Foro Master

LaDyBuG wrote:

THE WHOLE KEEPING THINGS "PRIVATE" IS TOTALLY UP TO THE 2 PEOPLE INVOLVED REALLY.... IF THEY WANNA FLAUNT IT....THEY CAN....IF NOT, THEN THAT'S COOL TOO....BUT ONLY THEY ARE ALLOWED TO MAKE THE DECISION..... I DONT KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE IN AN ACTUAL FORO RELATIONSHIP.....EXCEPT FOR THE ONES THAT OPENLY TALK ABOUT THEIR "LOVE LIFE" WITH ONE.... WHAT I DO WANNA SAY IS THIS: 1. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP ASSUMING THINGS ABOUT OTHERS AND SPREADING IT LIKE IT'S PEANUT BUTTER....GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT! 2. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP PM-ING SOMEONE WHO YOU VERY WELL KNOW IS NOT SINGLE, BECUASE YOU ARE BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND ASKING FOR A WELL DESERVED BEATING... 3. IF PM'S COULD TALK, WE'D HAVE A LOT OF KAOS AND COURT ORDERS TO DEAL WITH....AND HEARTBREAKS AND DIVORCE... 4. IF SOMEONE TELLS YOU DONT TELL ANYBODY THATS EXACTLY WHAT THAT MEANS....THATS A BIG FORM OF DISRESPECT AS WELL....BEING GOSSIPY!!! 5. IF NOBODY ASKS YOU, DON'T VOLUNTEER INFO WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF THE OTHER PARTY INVOLVED.... SO BASICALLY.....TO MAINTAIN YOUR PRIVACY, YOU MUST ALSO MAINTAIN YOUR MOUTH SHUT....AND TRUST THE PERSON YOU ARE "DEALING" WTIH.....THAT'S THE HARDEST PART!! I PERSONALLY AM AWARE OF A LOT OF "ONE NIGHT STANDS"...FLINGS, FLIRTINGS AND OTHER DRAMA THAT GOES ON WITH FORO MEMBERS.....BECUASE PEOPLE CONFIDE IN ME AND KNOW THAT I WON'T REVEAL THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT........BUT WHAT I KNOW IS PROBABLY NOT EVEN HALF OF WHAT GOES ON IN PRIVATE MESSAGES......TRUST ME!! BTW: IF YOU GUYS KNEW THAT PM'S ARE NOT 100% PRIVATE...YOU WOULD RE-THINK YOUR MESSAGES....

Girl i totally agree with you!! I personally know a lot of things going on and i just keep it to myself cause that's what i would want in return!

Basically, it's up to the couple if they want to be open about their personal life on el foro!!

LaDyBuG · Comandante

THE WHOLE KEEPING THINGS "PRIVATE" IS TOTALLY UP TO THE 2 PEOPLE INVOLVED REALLY....

IF THEY WANNA FLAUNT IT....THEY CAN....IF NOT, THEN THAT'S COOL TOO....BUT ONLY THEY ARE ALLOWED TO MAKE THE DECISION.....

I DONT KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE IN AN ACTUAL FORO RELATIONSHIP.....EXCEPT FOR THE ONES THAT OPENLY TALK ABOUT THEIR "LOVE LIFE" WITH ONE....

WHAT I DO WANNA SAY IS THIS:

1. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP ASSUMING THINGS ABOUT OTHERS AND SPREADING IT LIKE IT'S PEANUT BUTTER....GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT!

2. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP PM-ING SOMEONE WHO YOU VERY WELL KNOW IS NOT SINGLE, BECUASE YOU ARE BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND ASKING FOR A WELL DESERVED BEATING...

3. IF PM'S COULD TALK, WE'D HAVE A LOT OF KAOS AND COURT ORDERS TO DEAL WITH....AND HEARTBREAKS AND DIVORCE...

4. IF SOMEONE TELLS YOU DONT TELL ANYBODY THATS EXACTLY WHAT THAT MEANS....THATS A BIG FORM OF DISRESPECT AS WELL....BEING GOSSIPY!!!

5. IF NOBODY ASKS YOU, DON'T VOLUNTEER INFO WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF THE OTHER PARTY INVOLVED....

SO BASICALLY.....TO MAINTAIN YOUR PRIVACY, YOU MUST ALSO MAINTAIN YOUR MOUTH SHUT....AND TRUST THE PERSON YOU ARE "DEALING" WTIH.....THAT'S THE HARDEST PART!!

I PERSONALLY AM AWARE OF A LOT OF "ONE NIGHT STANDS"...FLINGS, FLIRTINGS AND OTHER DRAMA THAT GOES ON WITH FORO MEMBERS.....BECUASE PEOPLE CONFIDE IN ME AND KNOW THAT I WON'T REVEAL THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT........BUT WHAT I KNOW IS PROBABLY NOT EVEN HALF OF WHAT GOES ON IN PRIVATE MESSAGES......TRUST ME!!

BTW: IF YOU GUYS KNEW THAT PM'S ARE NOT 100% PRIVATE...YOU WOULD RE-THINK YOUR MESSAGES....

X4v13r · Comandante

Daeveed wrote:

X4v13r wrote:
hey buddy, u want to take this out side?? X@vier

You mean like an outdoors wedding???

I'll take both of u!!!!

one at a time.

X@vier

Date: Feb 9 11:23 AM, 2006

Relationships should be kept private, I don't think discussing what u do is a really good idea

Daeveed · Foro Master

X4v13r wrote:

hey buddy, u want to take this out side?? X@vier

You mean like an outdoors wedding???

X4v13r · Comandante

God wrote:

X4v13r wrote:
yup keep it private!!!!

X@vier

When is the wedding ?

hey buddy, u want to take this out side??

X@vier

X4v13r · Comandante

Chilenita wrote:

X4v13r wrote:
yup keep it private!!!! X@vier

Actually in your case it's a little different....you have been sort of seeing your better half for a VERY LONG TIME and you guys waited a while b4 saying anything.....plus we don't know much other than you are finally a couple (I think Buffy is having a party to celebrate).....in other words we don't need detail but it's nice to know it happened.

In other cases people may get hurt if they read certian things and so on

yup that is true but i still like to keep my personal stuff out of the foro, I have always said that and always will.

X@vier

Chilenita · Comandante

Daeveed wrote:

Chilenita wrote: Daeveed wrote: I say it's good to let it be know if you're in one or not. The rest is up to the couple. Fine Fea and I have been seeing eachother for a long time now I forgot to say that we need footage of the intimate moments.

it's a deal as long as I get the Daeveed/Dogo/Baina naked cha cha tape in return....you know only cuz I want to see if you guys were dancing properly

DulceGalletita · Foro Master

Daeveed wrote:

I say it's good to let it be know if you're in one or not. The rest is up to the couple.

This is so true! You should let others know your in a relationship so that in the long run no one get hurt ...

And if you are in a foro relationship where both of you read the post unless you are ok with ummm I think the word is "cottoreando" the itz cool and if not then respect should be taken into consideration ..