I have been living on my own since I finished highskool...I actually had to force myself out..my parents didnt want me to move out..just like you all said..its a latin thing that parents dont want to let go until it is right. But for me I wanted to get out there and experience...lol I guess I wanted to suffer...They thought i wouldnt do well...they told me the world is cruel..and it is...but I ve learned things..I havef reedom and my own apartment and my own car and it feels good to know that I am doing it by myself. I guess I am just very independent...could be a Taurus thing too...I feel I get along better with my parents now then I did before..
$HIT I LIVE @ HOME AND I AM OVER 25, PARA QUE MIERCOLES MOVERME DE MI CASA JUST 2 MAKE OTHER PPL FEEL GOOD HELL NAH, I AM HAPPY @ HOME I KEEP COMPANY 2 MY MOM AND SHE KEEPS ME COMPANY, ILL MOVE OUT WHEN I FIND A GIRL THAT I WANT LIVE WITH, PARA MIENTRAS I AM OK....
PRINCESSA wrote: I understand what ur saying, cause yes I do get all that nice care......but my parents can be a bit tooo much in times & In times I also feel the rush to leave. If I ever did leave they would soooo disowned me. Worst if I ever moved in with a guy, I minus well forget about them. Ay dio mio!! Do I ever know what you mean .... And that is the thing, I know if I do leave I will be disowned but the fact of the matter is that no matter what they are my parents ... And with a guy not even mentionable, my dad would find an escopeta or something for sure
yup...the disowned thing would apply here too...funny though girls have it worse than guys...
my brother was allowed to move out with his girlfriend and my mama liked it but most importantly...LET IT HAPPEN!!!!!!!!!!!!
but if i ever even had a thought...bye bye familia...damn double standards...
I understand what ur saying, cause yes I do get all that nice care......but my parents can be a bit tooo much in times & In times I also feel the rush to leave. If I ever did leave they would soooo disowned me. Worst if I ever moved in with a guy, I minus well forget about them.
Ay dio mio!! Do I ever know what you mean .... And that is the thing, I know if I do leave I will be disowned but the fact of the matter is that no matter what they are my parents ... And with a guy not even mentionable, my dad would find an escopeta or something for sure
PRINCESSA wrote: Don't understand what's the RUSH for. With me it's not about the rush ... my brother did the same thing and he's happy ... I think it all depends on how the parent's go about it ...
I understand what ur saying, cause yes I do get all that nice care......but my parents can be a bit tooo much in times & In times I also feel the rush to leave.
If I ever did leave they would soooo disowned me. Worst if I ever moved in with a guy, I minus well forget about them.
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how many of you still live at home AND have your parents cook for you wash your clothes clean your room make your lunch give you an allowance remind you to clean behind your ears do you think you'll ever grow out of it? or will you try to keep going like this till the last second? If you're older than 25, don't you think it's time to become more independant? I moved out a while ago, and do my own thing. I just wonder sometimes when I hear of grown people still living at home, and having their parents do everything for them. Their parents must be so proud. lol
MEEEEEEEE.....This is so ME !!!
LOVE IT. LOVE THEM.
That's what parents are for, should always look after their kids.
Don't think it should be a must to move out cause your 25. My first bro. lived with us until he got married, did it the right way, he's got a GREAT life. My second Bro. is on the same boat, getting married soon, & for the looks of it, will also have a great life with his wife. Don't understand what's the RUSH for.
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Bonita wrote: im 22 and i still live at home...but for me its not even an option to move out before i get married...ecuadorian mama!!! -- Edited by Bonita at 13:00, 2006-02-01 Sooo it is an ecuadorian thing .... I know what you mean ... but I want to beat the odds
i think its just a spanish mama thing...caus emany of my friends that arent away from home because of school have it like i do...
my mama will accept anyone in the house...but im not allowed to leave before i get married...as long as im under the same roof as her.
im 22 and i still live at home...but for me its not even an option to move out before i get married...ecuadorian mama!!! -- Edited by Bonita at 13:00, 2006-02-01
Sooo it is an ecuadorian thing ....
I know what you mean ... but I want to beat the odds
I moved out of my parents' home and went to the U.S. when I was 22. Even though I was used to washing my own clothes and picking after myself for way longer than that it was very hard at first to be completely on your own but it was a great learning experience.
So anyway, you can just imagine how I feel now that I live with my in-laws. Facking hell, I tell ya!
Ummm, I'm in the verge of moving out ... but I do everything MYSELF ... I cook, clean, wash, and whatever else is needed ... I pay rent as anyone else would do if they live on their own ... Maybe not as much so it helps to save ...
Although like Julie said, I'm kinda thinking that everything I contribute my mom is saving on the side for me and I tell her NO she needs to use it up ...
Sometimes pple over 25 are not stay at home by choice but because they have no other options. I mean money earned vs expenses (basic ones of course). And some are just to confortable in this situation and even if they could do it they prefer the convinience of the home and someone that does things for them. In this case, if I was the parents, I will ask for a contribution but I will use this money and deposit it to an acct to his or her name (unknown for that person) and give it as a gift for a new start when he/she decide to finally fly by themselves
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have your parents cook for you wash your clothes clean your room make your lunch give you an allowance remind you to clean behind your ears
do you think you'll ever grow out of it? or will you try to keep going like this till the last second?
If you're older than 25, don't you think it's time to become more independant?
I moved out a while ago, and do my own thing. I just wonder sometimes when I hear of grown people still living at home, and having their parents do everything for them. Their parents must be so proud. lol
.I feel I get along better with my parents now then I did before..
Ay dio mio!! Do I ever know what you mean .... And that is the thing, I know if I do leave I will be disowned but the fact of the matter is that no matter what they are my parents ... And with a guy not even mentionable, my dad would find an escopeta or something for sure 
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