nothin personal .. and i m in the same situation , i got nothing better to do now ... and I can t go to sleep !!!!..I m watchin tv and with the laptop beside me .. Unique auto is over .. now what.. build or bust !!!
damn u girls ... I said chill out cuz i thought u were gettin pissed about mi machismo .. pero tu dices por el internet no se puede ver si u are tryin to be sarcastic or not .. lot easier in person .. we should go for a coffee or something .. a lo mejor nos entendemos mejor lol
lol ok now I'm confused. So let me get this straight. You thought we were getting pissed so you told us to chill...if that's the case don't pay attention to my you make no sense statement...lol. From your post though it seemed like you were telling us to chill, but you were trying to piss us off aswell...ahhh whatever man...who cares...lol. Yeah you're right we would probably understand each other better in person, unless you speak like you type. Lol j/ks I'm just picking on you cus I have nothing else to do right now. Lol So don't take it personal ok hun.
damn u girls ... I said chill out cuz i thought u were gettin pissed about mi machismo .. pero tu dices por el internet no se puede ver si u are tryin to be sarcastic or not .. lot easier in person .. we should go for a coffee or something .. a lo mejor nos entendemos mejor lol
I was being sarcastic, but I guess over the computer it's hard to tell when someone is being sarcastic. You still made no sense though by telling us to chill, but yoou were trying to piss us off. Don't try to turn things around, because hon it's not going to work...lol
anyways joking aside ... I m not a machista i let my girl do what she wants .. and she let me do what i want ... y si mas no recuerdan el topic no era que yo no dejaba que me dejaran salir sino my ex .no em dejaba a mi ir de viaje .. I already got back with my high school girlfriend after a long break so its all good. So chill out girls I m just tryin to get u all piss
How about you retype this message so that we can actually understand what you are saying, and if you are trying to piss us off, than why tell us to chill in the first place? Makes no sense. Just pointing it out "BUDDY". lol
I thought you didn understand what I typed .. so why would you think I m tryin to piss you off ?? does make sense to me??.. just pointing it out "buddy"
anyways joking aside ... I m not a machista i let my girl do what she wants .. and she let me do what i want ... y si mas no recuerdan el topic no era que yo no dejaba que me dejaran salir sino my ex .no em dejaba a mi ir de viaje .. I already got back with my high school girlfriend after a long break so its all good. So chill out girls I m just tryin to get u all piss
How about you retype this message so that we can actually understand what you are saying, and if you are trying to piss us off, than why tell us to chill in the first place? Makes no sense. Just pointing it out "BUDDY". lol
anyways joking aside ... I m not a machista i let my girl do what she wants .. and she let me do what i want ... y si mas no recuerdan el topic no era que yo no dejaba que me dejaran salir sino my ex .no em dejaba a mi ir de viaje .. I already got back with my high school girlfriend after a long break so its all good. So chill out girls I m just tryin to get u all piss
hahaah okkkkk buddy !! i ll get out ... hahahaha... I been with a girl for 6 years ( we wen t on a break for six months ) and i don t think she is a dummy ....
chale no disrespect or anythin g pero en mi pais te llamarian pisado ... a man has to take control of his girl ... no es que sea su padre o nada por el estilo pero u cant let ur girl do whatever she wants to do.. u may as well be single and just have a f buddy..
Oh no you didn't...lol. You're joking right? You must be joking...lol I agree with chale when she says that you are not her father to tell her what to do. It's obvious that you don't respect women, and with an attitude like that you will never be able to keep one, unless they like to be bossed around, and frankly whoever likes that is a real dummy. Si en tu pais te llamarian pisado, pero chico no estas en tu pais estas en Canada, and the rules change here. So either get with it or get out! Simple as that. Next!
No disrespect taken... In this country you would be called an egotistical neanderthalic asswipe
Thank God for the womens liberation movement that has put us as equals with the male gender so that we can do as we please, when we please and with whomever we please.
haha damn I thought you were a guy cuz of the nickname , sorry then you are not a pisado .... I m a what !!"egotistical neanderthalic asswipe " ,, sure buddy watever you say .. anyways I dig ur girl movement stuff ... my sis is the same as you . girl power all the way ... haha
rick wrote: chale no disrespect or anythin g pero en mi pais te llamarian pisado ... a man has to take control of his girl ... no es que sea su padre o nada por el estilo pero u cant let ur girl do whatever she wants to do.. u may as well be single and just have a f buddy.. No disrespect taken... In this country you would be called an egotistical neanderthalic asswipe Thank God for the womens liberation movement that has put us as equals with the male gender so that we can do as we please, when we please and with whomever we please.
*ehem
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rick wrote: chale no disrespect or anythin g pero en mi pais te llamarian pisado ... a man has to take control of his girl ... no es que sea su padre o nada por el estilo pero u cant let ur girl do whatever she wants to do.. u may as well be single and just have a f buddy..
No disrespect taken... In this country you would be called an egotistical neanderthalic asswipe
Thank God for the womens liberation movement that has put us as equals with the male gender so that we can do as we please, when we please and with whomever we please.
all the ladies in the house join me outside for a little bra burning session please
rick wrote: haha all i can tel l u is that everygirl i been with after we break up they ll call me to get back .. so dont hate the player hate the game girl !
Jeez dude...you really think you are hot $hit...don't you?
sorry but i think i was the one who pass first sweety ... i i think u got the wron g idea about machistas... nunca ni nguna chica me ha dicho machista .. so u r the first one
Really LMAO
No te lo dicen ? pero al parecer tratan de hacertelo entender. But since you're one, you can't.
Good luck for the poor girls that falls
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sorry but i think i was the one who pass first sweety ... i i think u got the wron g idea about machistas... nunca ni nguna chica me ha dicho machista .. so u r the first one
3 reasons: 1 I flirt to much with girls 2 I was gonna go camping with my friends (including my ex girlfriend) 3 i was stayin with my friend (who happens to be big time player) and lives by himself
And you still wonder why she was reacting the way she was ? Estas pero bien p.....
El inseguro eres tu "... no es que sea su padre o nada por el estilo pero u cant let ur girl do whatever she wants to do.. " Tambien le dicen Machismo y eso me C.L.M
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Those can be some pretty good reasons for her to feel the way she felt....I am not siding with her I am just saying that a lot of girls would feel the way she felt...just for future reference....lol
chale no disrespect or anythin g pero en mi pais te llamarian pisado ... a man has to take control of his girl ... no es que sea su padre o nada por el estilo pero u cant let ur girl do whatever she wants to do.. u may as well be single and just have a f buddy..
rick wrote: since there is muchas chicas aqui en el foro , i was just wondering what would ur think about this
if your boyfriend calls and receives calls from amigas or just have lots of amigas,, how would u feel or react to it? is it a kind of cheatin??No way nothing wrong with a friendly Guy
if you r boyfreind tells you that he is going back to his country on vacation )or simply on vacation) for like a month without you ?? Why Should I take her ? Is VACATIONS , nothing wrong with that.
what would said about that?? it happened to me with my ex , she wouldn allow me to go on vacation for a month , cuz she told me that everyguy goes on vacation to his country just to have fun and sleep around with girls .. What heppends in Vegas stays in Vegas so chill....
and that the perfect excuse was that i was going to "visit my family" and she didnt believe that ..... I tried to convinced her but guess what ?didn work,now she is my ex
Jeeeez you sound like a lil needy Woman.....I mean guy....leave her alone you dont belong to her and she doesnt belong to you...there is plenety of fish...
if your boyfriend calls and receives calls from amigas or just have lots of amigas,, how would u feel or react to it? I truthfully wouldnt mind hey i have pure male friends that call me all the time and he doenst care cuz hes met most of them! You always know when its just a friendship and whent he girl is after him for other intentions little comments here and there! is it a kind of cheatin??its not cheating at all unless the person is truthfully not his friend or hes got other motives for being her friends!
if you r boyfreind tells you that he is going back to his country on vacation )or simply on vacation) for like a month without you ?? what would said about that?? Have fun! Tu sabes lo ke haces y en tu conciencia queda! but for a month i would miss him terribly! it did happen to me and he did cheat and thats why we broke up! BUt with my current bf i have no worries! and besides im leaving in may for a trip to cuba with the girls and hes ok with it! so i mean its all about trust loyaltiy and love!
yea true , but how much would you trust someone ! I love my girl now but if she told that she is going to cuba with her girlfriend for two weeks .. I know she wouldn go there to cheat on me ... but humans are humans .. u know what i mean .. there is alcohol , guys lookin to get laid , the environment .. etc , i ll probably say no , even though i trust her !! , todo tiene un limite girl!!
Not to be rude or anything Rick, but youre not her father... she doesnt need your permission.
If your girl or any girl for that matter wants to go anywhere, that is her perogative... if her man is absolutely and adament against it, then maybe they could find an alternative route or make some sort of compromise... but you cant NOT ALLOW her to go... shes a grown azz woman.
if your boyfriend calls and receives calls from amigas or just have lots of amigas,, how would u feel or react to it? if my future boyfriend had lots of amigas that he calls and receives calls from I don't think I would hope he introduces me to them ... I mean these friends have been there before me and I wouldn't expect him to break all ties just because he's my boyfriend ... now if he calls and receive calls (like many calls) from a girl he met after me then I would have to think twice about it ... but overall I would be okay with it ... as long as we talk things out ... communication is really IMPORTANT!!!
is it a kind of cheatin?? Ummm, I wouldn't call it cheating ...
if you r boyfreind tells you that he is going back to his country on vacation )or simply on vacation) for like a month without you ?? what would said about that?? I would say so whatcha gonna bring me back LOL!! I wouldn't have a problem with that at all is all about trust and respect ... I'm not gonna be thinking OMG what is he doing now, is he cheating, is he sleeping around, para que y amargarme la vida ... if the boy is gonna cheat like LEO said he is gonna do it here or on vacation and one way or another it will be known ...
"dime con quien andas y te dire quien eres"... if you are in a room where everyone is drinkin u most likely drink right?? I truly don't believe in that at all ... I mean it all depends on the person ... and yes many believe this and it's so sad ... Yeah, I may drink water or orange juice ... but if I did drink it would be because I decided to not 'cause everyone else is drinking ...
** I agree with LB! Especially with this quote:
IF YOU DON'T HAVE AT LEAST 3 OF THESE, YOU'RE BAKING THE WRONG CAKE...LOL
what would u think about this if your boyfriend calls and receives calls from amigas or just has lots of amigas,, how would u feel or react to it? is it a kind of cheatin?? Well this is a funny question for me, because my man does have many amigas. I'll be honest when I first started dealing with him I didn't like that at all. the reason for this is that I didn't know what kind of girls they were, but once I got to know them a bit better I found out that they were cool girls and I had no problem with them calling him...well except for one. I just don't like her, because she seems fake and because she started talking **** about me behind my back, but that's another story...lol. I don't consider him talking to his amigas as cheating at all. They are just his friends and mine aswell, so I have no problem with that at all.
if your boyfreind tells you that he is going back to his country on vacation )or simply on vacation) for like a month without you, what would u say about that?? If my bf wanted to go back to Jamaica or anywhere else on vacation without me I wouldn't have a problem with that either. Everyone needs their space and alone time, and if he wanted to do that out of the country, then so be it. I won't stop him. I would let him go and visit his family, and let him have fun. I went back to Guatemala for one month without him, and he was cool with it, so I guess it's only fair that I be cool about him going away without me too. I mean I trust him and he trusts me, so there really shouldn't be a problem. When you are in a relationship love,trust,respect,understanding, responsibility and good communication are the key ingrediants. If you don't have these things your relationship will go no where just like you and your ex.
one thing i forgot to tell u is that a girl cheated on me once .. and it was cuz i let her do everythin she wanted and u know wha t she told me after .. it was your fault you said it was ok if i went there haha s ll utt.. anyways gracias por tus consejos ladybug ... i see ur points y estoy de acuerdo con muchos de ellos
I KINDA FIGURED THAT YOU HAD BEEN CHEATED ON....
BECUASE PEOPLE DON'T JUST GET UP ONE MORNING AND FEEL INSECURE IN A RELATIONSHIP.....AND YOU DON'T SEEM INSECURE BY NATURE....JUST "CAUTIOUS"
THE SAME WAY I SAY: NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE....IT GOES FOR WOMEN TOO
GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE I HELPED YOU SOMEHOW.
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one thing i forgot to tell u is that a girl cheated on me once .. and it was cuz i let her do everythin she wanted and u know wha t she told me after .. it was your fault you said it was ok if i went there haha s ll utt..
anyways gracias por tus consejos ladybug ... i see ur points y estoy de acuerdo con muchos de ellos
maybe so .. I still go by that .. don't play with fire .... don't set up you r girl for failure good thing that my girl believes in that too , so we are both happy .... I may be insecure a bit... but I ll tell you something in the past 3 years I seen a lot of commited girls , wifes, cheat ... i had a friends that had a one night stand con mujeres casadas ... and the husbands never found out (cornudos ).. that makes u think , does n it??
OK THEN....
THERE IS AN UNDERSTANDING HERE....SO IT'S OK
AND GOOD POINT ABOUT "NOT PLAYING WITH FIRE" ....
BUT THE SECOND YOU "FEEL" OR "THINK" QUE ALGUIEN TE VA A QUEMAR.....YOU JUST DON'T GET INVOLVED FROM THE GET GO, ESPECIALLY IF YOU WANT AN ACTUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH REAL FEELINGS INVOLVED.........CUZ YOU DON'T TRUST THEM....
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maybe so .. I still go by that .. don't play with fire .... don't set up you r girl for failure
good thing that my girl believes in that too , so we are both happy .... I may be insecure a bit... but I ll tell you something in the past 3 years I seen a lot of commited girls , wifes, cheat ... i had a friends that had a one night stand con mujeres casadas ... and the husbands never found out (cornudos ).. that makes u think , does n it??
LIKE LEO SAID....SHE CAN BE ANYWHERE, WITH ANYONE, EVEN IN A ROOM FULL OF HOT LOOKING MEN, DYING TO SLEEP WITH HER....AND SHE CAN STILL SAY "NO"......THAT'S WHAT ADULTS WHO ARE IN A MATURE RELATIONSHIP AND TRUST AND RESPECT THEIR PARTNERS DO.
IF YOU TRUST HER, YOU WILL TRUST HER JUDMENTS AND TRUST HER ENOUGH TO COME TELL YOU THAT SOME NEXT MAN TRIED TO HIT ON HER.....AND HOW SHE SAID NO, AND YOU LAUGH IT OFF...
IF SHE RESPECT YOU.....SHE WILL NOT PUT YOU IN A POSITION TO MIS-TRUST HER.....
THEY GO HAND IN HAND.....AND IF YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN IN SUCH RELATIONSHIP....YOU NEED TO WORK ON THESE INSECURITIES ON YOUR OWN....OR JUST BE WITH A WOMAN WHO CAN TEACH YOU THESE VALUES...SO YOU CAN RECOGNIZE IT IN YOUR FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS.....
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yea i see your point .. bu t como dicen "dime con quien andas y te dire quien eres"... if you are in a room where everyone is drinkin u most likely drink right?? .. same goes if your girlfriend goes to a place where almost everyguy is lookin to ha ve some "fun" then u are exposin her to that ... i know is about respect and all but siempre es bueno tomar precauciones .. u know what i mean .. if your son told you ... mom can i m go out with my friends but you know his friends are in drugs and all that .. u ll probably said not .. even though u trust ur son and u know he won 't do that kind of stuff.. its just precauciones .. don 't set yourself for failure.
i understand if its only a party , a girls night out , she wants to spend sometime alone.. but as i said en casos like a month on vacation to cuba (or anyplace like that) ... its different
Rick? I would honestly look forward to thinking of my girlfriend in slightly more flattering terms than merely assuming that it will only take a bit of warm weather, alcohol and fun for her to put my health at risk, to begin with, and cheat on me, while at it.
If either you or her are going to cheat, well, I'm sure it's gonna happen no matter if it's "here" or "there". This is first and foremost a matter between "you" and "her", not "here" and "there". Which is what I believe LB was referring to with "trust" and "respect".
But what do I know? I'm a single, lonely student -and a single, lonely theology student at that.
yea true , but how much would you trust someone ! I love my girl now but if she told that she is going to cuba with her girlfriend for two weeks .. I know she wouldn go there to cheat on me ... but humans are humans .. u know what i mean .. there is alcohol , guys lookin to get laid , the environment .. etc , i ll probably say no , even though i trust her !! , todo tiene un limite girl!!
OOOPPPSSS I FORGOT TO ADD THE WORD....
"RESPECT"
ONCE YOU HAVE RESPTEC FOR EACH OTHER, TRUST IS MUTUAL....
IF YOU ACTUALLY SAY "HUMANS ARE HUMANS"...THEN YOU DONT TRUST HER AND SADLY ENOUGH, YOU DONT RESPECT HER....NOT ON THAT LEVEL....
ONE MO REASON IS "INSECURITY"....JUST BECUASE YOU ARE INSECURE.....YOU WILL END UP WORRYING ABOUT HER ACTIONS, AND HER CHEATING...ETC
(sorry, didnt mean to direct this to you, but it's just general info)
MANY PEOPLE, INCLUDING MY OWN FRIENDS OR BETTER YET, "ACQUAINTANCES" NOW....LOL......STILL HAVEN'T GRASPED THE WORD "RESPECT"......AND THEY TELL PEOPLE THINGS I HAVE ASKED THEM NOT TO.....TO ME IT'S A TEST OF OUR FRIENDSHIP.....A TEST OF RESPECT....(THAT'S ANOTHER LEVEL THOUGH)
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I love my girl now but if she told that she is going to cuba with her girlfriend for two weeks .. I know she wouldn go there to cheat on me ... but humans are humans .. u know what i mean .. there is alcohol , guys lookin to get laid , the environment .. etc , i ll probably say no , even though i trust her !! , todo tiene un limite girl!!
since there is muchas chicas aqui en el foro , i was just wondering what would ur think about this
if your boyfriend calls and receives calls from amigas or just have lots of amigas,, how would u feel or react to it? is it a kind of cheatin??
if you r boyfreind tells you that he is going back to his country on vacation )or simply on vacation) for like a month without you ?? what would said about that??
it happened to me with my ex , she wouldn allow me to go on vacation for a month , cuz she told me that everyguy goes on vacation to his country just to have fun and sleep around with girls .. and that the perfect excuse was that i was going to "visit my family" and she didnt believe that .....
I tried to convinced her but guess what ?didn work,now she is my ex
... but overall I would be okay with it ... as long as we talk things out ... communication is really IMPORTANT!!!
