IN LAWS - SUEGRAS - Who doesn't love them?

Guadalupana · Foro Master

RE: IN LAWS - SUEGRAS - Who doesn't love them?

Miel · Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

Sweetness wrote: LaDyBuG wrote: OK LADIES AND GENTS.... SO HERE WE HAVE A GOOD EXAMPLE OF "A SUEGRA WHO LIKES HER DIL" EITHER THAT OR SHE WANTS TO MARRY OFF HER SON...LOL (JOKING)....I CAN TELL HOW MUCH "RESPECT" SWEETNESS AND HER MAN HAVE FOR EACH OTHER......NOT TO MENTION LOVE. -- Edited by LaDyBuG at 14:16, 2006-01-24 Yeah I hope she doesn't just want to marry off her son...lol...no I know that she really likes me for real, because she's always defending me if I get into an argument with my man even if I am the one who's in the wrong sometimes. She always wants me to go see her at her house, and she's always giving me stuff, and words of wisdom aswell. I respect her a lot, and I know she feels the same way about me. What can I say I am lucky to have one that is kind, thoughtful, respectful, and loves me like a daughter. I've been with my man for four years now and known him for 6, and she has mentioned to me and my bf some nice things that we can have for our wedding, but the thing is that me and my bf don't plan on getting married just yet, but she gets so excited when she talks about it, but right there that shows me that she really wants me as a DAUGHTER IN LAW and that makes me feel really special. Yeah ladybug you are right my man and I have a great deal of respect and love for each other, and I hope it stays like that for ever. enjoy the dream, cuz it will all end after you're married. I'm kidding, it gets better.

Liar!!!

Guadalupana · Foro Master

Sweetness wrote:

LaDyBuG wrote:
OK LADIES AND GENTS.... SO HERE WE HAVE A GOOD EXAMPLE OF "A SUEGRA WHO LIKES HER DIL" EITHER THAT OR SHE WANTS TO MARRY OFF HER SON...LOL (JOKING)....I CAN TELL HOW MUCH "RESPECT" SWEETNESS AND HER MAN HAVE FOR EACH OTHER......NOT TO MENTION LOVE. -- Edited by LaDyBuG at 14:16, 2006-01-24

Yeah I hope she doesn't just want to marry off her son...lol...no I know that she really likes me for real, because she's always defending me if I get into an argument with my man even if I am the one who's in the wrong sometimes. She always wants me to go see her at her house, and she's always giving me stuff, and words of wisdom aswell. I respect her a lot, and I know she feels the same way about me. What can I say I am lucky to have one that is kind, thoughtful, respectful, and loves me like a daughter. I've been with my man for four years now and known him for 6, and she has mentioned to me and my bf some nice things that we can have for our wedding, but the thing is that me and my bf don't plan on getting married just yet, but she gets so excited when she talks about it, but right there that shows me that she really wants me as a DAUGHTER IN LAW and that makes me feel really special.
Yeah ladybug you are right my man and I have a great deal of respect and love for each other, and I hope it stays like that for ever.

enjoy the dream, cuz it will all end after you're married.

I'm kidding, it gets better.

Sweetness · Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

OK LADIES AND GENTS.... SO HERE WE HAVE A GOOD EXAMPLE OF "A SUEGRA WHO LIKES HER DIL" EITHER THAT OR SHE WANTS TO MARRY OFF HER SON...LOL (JOKING)....I CAN TELL HOW MUCH "RESPECT" SWEETNESS AND HER MAN HAVE FOR EACH OTHER......NOT TO MENTION LOVE. -- Edited by LaDyBuG at 14:16, 2006-01-24

Yeah I hope she doesn't just want to marry off her son...lol...no I know that she really likes me for real, because she's always defending me if I get into an argument with my man even if I am the one who's in the wrong sometimes. She always wants me to go see her at her house, and she's always giving me stuff, and words of wisdom aswell. I respect her a lot, and I know she feels the same way about me. What can I say I am lucky to have one that is kind, thoughtful, respectful, and loves me like a daughter. I've been with my man for four years now and known him for 6, and she has mentioned to me and my bf some nice things that we can have for our wedding, but the thing is that me and my bf don't plan on getting married just yet, but she gets so excited when she talks about it, but right there that shows me that she really wants me as a DAUGHTER IN LAW and that makes me feel really special.

Yeah ladybug you are right my man and I have a great deal of respect and love for each other, and I hope it stays like that for ever.

LGigolo · Comandante

I am pretty indifferent about my suegra… Sometimes she’s better than others… LOL.
Thought this pic was funny:

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Sweetness wrote:

I love my suegra to be. She's such a nice lady. She is getting on in age so I have to be real paitient with her. All I know is that she will always have my back if I get into a argument with my bf or whatever...lol. One time I got into a yelling match with my bf, and he was being a royal dick to me, and his mom heard what he was saying to me and she staight up went to him and told him to shut his damn mouth and not talk to me in that way...lol I wanted to laugh at my man so bad at that point, but I didn't want to make the situation worse.lol

OK LADIES AND GENTS....

SO HERE WE HAVE A GOOD EXAMPLE OF

"A SUEGRA WHO LIKES HER DIL"

EITHER THAT OR SHE WANTS TO MARRY OFF HER SON...LOL (JOKING)....I CAN TELL HOW MUCH "RESPECT" SWEETNESS AND HER MAN HAVE FOR EACH OTHER......NOT TO MENTION LOVE.

-- Edited by LaDyBuG at 14:16, 2006-01-24

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Lahtina wrote:

LaDyBuG wrote: RESPECT YOUR SUEGRA OR ALONG WILL COME A BITCHY ONE FOR YOUR KIDS....KARMA! Well hellooooo! I'm my MIL's karma. No, seriously.

LOL

EITHER THAT OR SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU.

Sweetness · Guru

I love my suegra to be. She's such a nice lady. She is getting on in age so I have to be real paitient with her. All I know is that she will always have my back if I get into a argument with my bf or whatever...lol. One time I got into a yelling match with my bf, and he was being a royal dick to me, and his mom heard what he was saying to me and she staight up went to him and told him to shut his damn mouth and not talk to me in that way...lol I wanted to laugh at my man so bad at that point, but I didn't want to make the situation worse.lol

CrazyBeautiful · Guru

its tru..i dunno i jus really care for him and i know he cares for me 2...ive never felt this way about a guy before, theres a strong connection and ive really opened up and became comfortable with him. I feel like i can tell him anything..and thats always been hard for me to do because i have a hard time opening up to ppl, my relationships never last...and my bf's always been there for me...

Lahtina · Foro Master

LaDyBuG wrote:

RESPECT YOUR SUEGRA OR ALONG WILL COME A BITCHY ONE FOR YOUR KIDS....KARMA!

Well hellooooo! I'm my MIL's karma.

No, seriously.

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Gitana wrote:

AS FOR RESPECTING MY SUEGRA.... I ALWAYS DID.... IT'S JUST TOO BAD SHE DIDN'T DO THE SAME!

SHE WAS THE ONE "LOSING" A SON....AND SHE PROBABLY DIDNT LIKE YOU THAT MUCH.....SO SHE FELT THAT BY DISRESPECTING YOU YOU WILL LEAVE HIM MAYBE.....

WHEN A SUEGRA FEELS LIKE SHE IS GAINING A DAUGHTER YOU WILL BE IN HEAVEN....YOU'LL BE TREATED REALLY WELL AND RESPECTFULY.....IT'S PURE HARMONY....EITHER THAT OR SHE JUST WANTS TO GET RID OF HER LAZY SON TO THE FIRST WOMAN THAT HE MEETS.....(REALITY)

REGARDLESS....THIS EX-SUEGRA OF YOURS SHOULD HAVE SHOWS EVEN 1% OF CLASS AND RESPECTED THE FACT THAT YOU LOVED HER SON.

LaDyBuG · Comandante

CrazyBeautiful wrote:

wow ur good lady bug....hes actually 22,.,,and i have to admit he is very irrespondsible...i mean its not even his car,,its my mothers...and my mom is too nice...she lets him drive the car to work all the time..but he should have more respect and drive carefully...especially because the car doesnt even belong to him..

WELL IMAGINE THEN....

THE CAR DOESNT BELONG TO HIM AND LOOK HOW HE TREATS IT....

YOU DONT BELONG TO HIM EITHER SO DONT EXPECT MUCH!

I HOPE FOR YOUR SAKE THAT THIS IS A FLING MORE THAN A RELATIONSHIP....YOU COME ACROSS AS SOMEONE WHO DOESNT NEED THESE HEADACHES AND CAN DO BETTER!!! AFLING CAN LAST YOU A WHILE, BUT DONT PLAN A WEDDING.

Gitana · Foro Master

LaDyBuG wrote:

EVERY BOY IS A MAMA'S BOY...INCLUDING YOURS! THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THAT YOU HAVE BEEN WITH YOURS FOR A FEW YEARS AND THE SUEGRAS HAVE RAISED "A MAN" FOR LIKE 20 OR 30 YEARS.....AND WHEN YOU'VE HAD SOMETHING LONGER, YOU TREASURE IT WAAAAAY MORE, ESPECIALLY CUZ OF EVERYTHING YOU HAVE SACRIFICED FOR THEM. RESPECT YOUR SUEGRA OR ALONG WILL COME A BITCHY ONE FOR YOUR KIDS....KARMA!

I UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM.... ALL MOTHER'S WILL SPOIL THEIR SON(S). I KNOW I DO AND I WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO. BUT THERE WILL COME A TIME IN MY SONS LIFE IN WHICH HE WILL WANT TO HAVE A WIFE AND KIDS... I WILL HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT, AND LET HIM MAKE HIS OWN CHOICES AND LIVE HIS LIFE THE WAY HE WANTS.... JUST BECAUSE I AM HIS MOTHER WILL NOT GIVE ME THE RIGHT TO RUN HIS LIFE.

AS FOR RESPECTING MY SUEGRA.... I ALWAYS DID.... IT'S JUST TOO BAD SHE DIDN'T DO THE SAME!

CrazyBeautiful · Guru

wow ur good lady bug....hes actually 22,.,,and i have to admit he is very irrespondsible...i mean its not even his car,,its my mothers...and my mom is too nice...she lets him drive the car to work all the time..but he should have more respect and drive carefully...especially because the car doesnt even belong to him..

Guadalupana · Foro Master

CrazyBeautiful wrote:

yes im gonna read this post to him!

go prepared, he will deny it, saying he would never be like that, or that he'll ever change.

LaDyBuG · Comandante

CrazyBeautiful wrote:

omg!....my bf doesnt own a car but he drives my moms all the time and hes sooo irrespondsible!....he was driving kinda drunk this weekend and he was baking up and knocked over a stop sign...and made a big hole on my moms bumper...i am styll upset about this!...and to make matters worse!....he left the lights on yesterday and the battery died!..i think i was more upset then my mom was...cause shes always ok with everything..which is not good either...

SO FAR WE HAVE AN IRRESPONSIBLE DRUNK DRIVER WHO DISRESPECTS HIS MOM IN FRONT OF OTHERS.....GEEEZ GIRL...I HOPE HIS OTHER ATTRITBUTES BALANCE OUT THESE ONES......BUT IT COULD ALSO BE THE AGE AND ITS PHASE.....MAYBE HE WILL GROW OUT OF IT......MAAAAAAAYBE

DO YOU ME ASKING HOW OLD HE IS? I FEEL HE HAS TO BE LESS THAN 23......

CrazyBeautiful · Guru

yes im gonna read this post to him!

LaDyBuG · Comandante

CrazyBeautiful wrote:

see...thats wat i tell him allll the time!....that the way he treats his mom is the way he will treat me if we ever end up getting married n the future!...and he says no....hes jus rude to her all the time and it pisses me off soo much...cause shes soo kind ....i always yell at him when he treats her that way n front of me!

YOU ACTUALLY TELL HIM THIS??? LOL

OF COURSE HE'S GONNA SAY NO AND TRY TO SHOW YOU OTHERWISE NOW.....

1. HE'S BEEN WITH HER LONGER

2. HE NEEDS TO BE NICE TO YOU IN ORDER TO GET SOME...LOL

3. HE DOESNT NEED HIS MOM'S LOVE, BUT HE HAS TO EARN YOURS DAILY!

4. IT'S THE MOM'S FAULT ALSO FOR LETTING HIM TALK TO HER LIKE THAT IN FRONT OF YOU....

GET HIM TO READ THIS POST OR RE-THINK THE RELATIONSHIP IF RESPECT MEANS ANYTHING TO YOU, ESPECIALLY WITH THE WAY YOU PLAN ON MARRYING HIM.....

CrazyBeautiful · Guru

omg!....my bf doesnt own a car but he drives my moms all the time and hes sooo irrespondsible!....he was driving kinda drunk this weekend and he was baking up and knocked over a stop sign...and made a big hole on my moms bumper...i am styll upset about this!...and to make matters worse!....he left the lights on yesterday and the battery died!..i think i was more upset then my mom was...cause shes always ok with everything..which is not good either...

GENIE · Foro Master

CrazyBeautiful wrote:

see...thats wat i tell him allll the time!....that the way he treats his mom is the way he will treat me if we ever end up getting married n the future!...and he says no....hes jus rude to her all the time and it pisses me off soo much...cause shes soo kind ....i always yell at him when he treats her that way n front of me!

WAIT DIDNT U BREAK UP WITH HIM??? NOW UR BACK??

I LOVED MY OLD IN LAWS AND ORALES PARENTS ARE AMAZING THEY ASK MORE FOR ME THEN HIM LOL LOL!!!

Guadalupana · Foro Master

LaDyBuG wrote:

WE ALSO SAY.....THE WAY A GUY TREATS HIS CAR IS HOW HE WILL TREAT YOU......

i never heard that one....

Guadalupana · Foro Master

CrazyBeautiful wrote:

see...thats wat i tell him allll the time!....that the way he treats his mom is the way he will treat me if we ever end up getting married n the future!...and he says no....hes jus rude to her all the time and it pisses me off soo much...cause shes soo kind ....i always yell at him when he treats her that way n front of me!

that's wrong. poor lady.

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Guadalupana wrote:

CrazyBeautiful wrote: my suegra to be is such a nice lady i luv her already....i hate the way my bf treats her tho...do u guys beleive that the way a guy treats his mother..is the way he will treat u? oh yes, if he doesn't respect HIS OWN mother, don't expect anything more.

YES!! AND NOT ONLY HIS MOM, BUT PEOPLE IN GENERAL.....HIS FRIENDS, TIPPING THE WAITERS, CO-WORKERS.,.....ETC

WE ALSO SAY.....THE WAY A GUY TREATS HIS CAR IS HOW HE WILL TREAT YOU......

CrazyBeautiful · Guru

see...thats wat i tell him allll the time!....that the way he treats his mom is the way he will treat me if we ever end up getting married n the future!...and he says no....hes jus rude to her all the time and it pisses me off soo much...cause shes soo kind ....i always yell at him when he treats her that way n front of me!

LaDyBuG · Comandante

Gitana wrote:

LGigolo wrote: Gitana wrote: I AGREE WITH YOU.... I GUESS THEY WANT US TO SPOIL THEIR SON THE SAME WAY THEY HAVE I'LL SPOIL MY MAN.... BUT TO A CERTAIN EXTENT!!! And in a certain WAY! LOL THAT TOO!! BUT IF HE'S GONNA BE A MOMMA'S BOY.... PUES ENTONCES QUE SE QUEDE CON ELLA!

GIRL.....EVERY BOY IS A MAMA'S BOY...INCLUDING YOURS!

THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THAT YOU HAVE BEEN WITH YOURS FOR A FEW YEARS AND THE SUEGRAS HAVE RAISED "A MAN" FOR LIKE 20 OR 30 YEARS.....AND WHEN YOU'VE HAD SOMETHING LONGER, YOU TREASURE IT WAAAAAY MORE, ESPECIALLY CUZ OF EVERYTHING YOU HAVE SACRIFICED FOR THEM.

RESPECT YOUR SUEGRA OR ALONG WILL COME A BITCHY ONE FOR YOUR KIDS....KARMA!

Gitana · Foro Master

CrazyBeautiful wrote:

do u guys beleive that the way a guy treats his mother..is the way he will treat u?

I THINK THIS IS TRUE....

Guadalupana · Foro Master

CrazyBeautiful wrote:

my suegra to be is such a nice lady i luv her already....i hate the way my bf treats her tho...do u guys beleive that the way a guy treats his mother..is the way he will treat u?

oh yes, if he doesn't respect HIS OWN mother, don't expect anything more.

CrazyBeautiful · Guru

my suegra to be is such a nice lady i luv her already....i hate the way my bf treats her tho...do u guys beleive that the way a guy treats his mother..is the way he will treat u?

Gitana · Foro Master

LGigolo wrote:

Gitana wrote: I AGREE WITH YOU.... I GUESS THEY WANT US TO SPOIL THEIR SON THE SAME WAY THEY HAVE I'LL SPOIL MY MAN.... BUT TO A CERTAIN EXTENT!!! And in a certain WAY! LOL

THAT TOO!!

BUT IF HE'S GONNA BE A MOMMA'S BOY.... PUES ENTONCES QUE SE QUEDE CON ELLA!

LGigolo · Comandante

Gitana wrote:

I AGREE WITH YOU.... I GUESS THEY WANT US TO SPOIL THEIR SON THE SAME WAY THEY HAVE I'LL SPOIL MY MAN.... BUT TO A CERTAIN EXTENT!!!

And in a certain WAY! LOL

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

I have a strong hunch that I am not going to like my suegros at all.

Lahtina · Foro Master

Julie wrote:

I had a great relationship with my Suegra. I was talking to her like a friend, giving her all my support and telling her off from time to time as well sin irme por 4 caminos. And I was her favorite D.I.L go figure, I guess being myself paid out.

No es por meter cizaña... bah! who am I kidding?! It is por meter cizaña, pero creo que una razón por la que te quería la suegra es por ser franchuta.

God · Foro Master

Lahtina wrote:

God wrote:
I don't know but all My past suegras Loved me...and I'm still having a frienship with them.....I'm just a charmer
Oh, spare me, Charmy Charmington! Si yo no me llevo con la suegra no es por falta de 'charm'.

Bueno bueno....mejor no hablo hay cocas en el refri...but tu sabes....

Lahtina · Foro Master

God wrote:

I don't know but all My past suegras Loved me...and I'm still having a frienship with them.....I'm just a charmer

Oh, spare me, Charmy Charmington! Si yo no me llevo con la suegra no es por falta de 'charm'.

Lahtina · Foro Master

Well, I think we all know which car I'd be getting.

ZIPOTE · TOP Guru

God wrote:

I don't know but all My past suegras Loved me...and I'm still having a frienship with them.....I'm just a charmer

GOD y quien va hablar de su casa aunque se este callendo

But you know what i can say enough good things about my suegra that lady is a sweet heart and i have a lot of respect for her !!!!!

Gitana · Foro Master

PRINCESSA wrote:

I can like them, but HATE when they are CHISMOSAS & Over protective of their son. I feel like slapping her, it's not like she's the one who's going to have to take care of him, so weather or not I'm a good house wife, It's NOT her business, get over it. And if she is soo worried then she should come to cook & clean. I'm not molly maid. Then why I'm rude to her. But overall I'm Very Nice to her.

I AGREE WITH YOU.... I GUESS THEY WANT US TO SPOIL THEIR SON THE SAME WAY THEY HAVE

I'LL SPOIL MY MAN.... BUT TO A CERTAIN EXTENT!!!

God · Foro Master

One of My exe''ws after few glases of winr told me

"You deserve a better woman, my daughter is not good enough for you"

Damn Right ! Next !

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

I can like them, but HATE when they are CHISMOSAS & Over protective of their son.

I feel like slapping her, it's not like she's the one who's going to have to take care of him, so weather or not I'm a good house wife, It's NOT her business, get over it. And if she is soo worried then she should come to cook & clean. I'm not molly maid.

Then why I'm rude to her.

But overall I'm Very Nice to her.

God · Foro Master

I don't know but all My past suegras Loved me...and I'm still having a frienship with them.....I'm just a charmer

Julie · Comandante

I had a great relationship with my Suegra. I was talking to her like a friend, giving her all my support and telling her off from time to time as well sin irme por 4 caminos. And I was her favorite D.I.L go figure, I guess being myself paid out.

Gitana · Foro Master

I HATED MY EX SUEGRA.... SHE WANTED THINGS DONE HER WAY OR NO WAY!!

I HOPE THAT NEXT TIME AROUND I'M BLESSED TO HAVE A SUPER SWEET SUEGRA!!

LGigolo · Comandante

angelita dulce wrote:

I can't see it But i did like my ex-suegra. She was more nice to me then her own daughter!!

Sorry, but I had put a block so that only YOU would not be able to see it!

OH NO - It's your birfday- I take it back!

angelita dulce · Foro Master

I can't see it But i did like my ex-suegra. She was more nice to me then her own daughter!!

LGigolo · Comandante

Quien no ama a sus suegros, EH?