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Chale_Tanga wrote:


Hmmmmmm well we need to confirm this statement. Meet me in my room at 5 and I'll double check the booty factor.  Deal?

should I take a tape measure or you just go by eye???

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 you're just not gangsta enough for me... i need someone a little ruder ha ha

WHAT UP MIGUEL?? LOL

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 We should get together to discuss international politics, world religions, the stock market, etc ..... the only problem is that my butt is kinnda flat....

Hmmmmmm well we need to confirm this statement. Meet me in my room at 5 and I'll double check the booty factor.  Deal?



@ Afro: Girl we ARE on the same wave length!!! And with our infinate wisdom we can discuss the wonderful world of cute butts!!


@ Miguel: how you gonna do me like that? Love me and leave me?  My poor heart cant take it!

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Chale_Tanga wrote:

miguel wrote:
yo guy... you gotta check my hot ride my 95 escort station wagon getz all da ladeez

ey rude bwoi! So how ju doin'????? you need to stop mackin on all the other ladies and give me another chance!I miss you python! You gave me the greatest pleasure ever!!!
 
 




i'm sorry babe.. you're just not gangsta enough for me... i need someone a little ruder

ha ha

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soooooooooo true!
you are so wise as well! We should start our very own 'wisdom club' Me too! I could never be with a man that I cant joke around with. Or a man whos only mental capacity is to talk about sports and cars. I need me a brainy/funny/witty man... with a cute butt!




We can organize a 'wisdom club' that discusses Cute Butts!!!

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Me too! I could never be with a man that I cant joke around with. Or a man whos only mental capacity is to talk about sports and cars. I need me a brainy/funny/witty man... with a cute butt!


We should get together to discuss international politics, world religions, the stock market, etc .....


the only problem is that my butt is kinnda flat....



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miguel wrote:


yo guy... you gotta check my hot ride my 95 escort station wagon getz all da ladeez


ey rude bwoi! So how ju doin'?????


you need to stop mackin on all the other ladies and give me another chance!
I miss you python! You gave me the greatest pleasure ever!!!


 


 



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Afrodita wrote: The way I see it, the man I like MUST have personality, it is pointless to date a man that has the greatest looks but you cannot joke around with him, have a great conversation with him, or enjoy listening to him. Brains, Personality and Kind/Honest Feelings are more important to me than a pretty face. soooooooooo true!you are so wise as well! We should start our very own 'wisdom club' Me too! I could never be with a man that I cant joke around with. Or a man whos only mental capacity is to talk about sports and cars. I need me a brainy/funny/witty man... with a cute butt!


LOL Chale!! Umm, yeah one like that with nice eyes


 


 



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Chale_Tanga wrote:

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The way I see it, the man I like MUST have personality, it is pointless to date a man that has the greatest looks but you cannot joke around with him, have a great conversation with him, or enjoy listening to him. Brains, Personality and Kind/Honest Feelings are more important to me than a pretty face.
soooooooooo true!you are so wise as well! We should start our very own 'wisdom club' Me too! I could never be with a man that I cant joke around with. Or a man whos only mental capacity is to talk about sports and cars. I need me a brainy/funny/witty man... with a cute butt!




yo guy... you gotta check my hot ride

my 95 escort station wagon getz all da ladeez

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The way I see it, the man I like MUST have personality, it is pointless to date a man that has the greatest looks but you cannot joke around with him, have a great conversation with him, or enjoy listening to him. Brains, Personality and Kind/Honest Feelings are more important to me than a pretty face.

soooooooooo true!

you are so wise as well! We should start our very own 'wisdom club'


Me too! I could never be with a man that I cant joke around with. Or a man whos only mental capacity is to talk about sports and cars. I need me a brainy/funny/witty man... with a cute butt!

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But what I found interesting in this movie is that the girl only saw him as a friend or as a brother when he was fat and not so attractive.  But once the boy shed those excess pounds she was all over him like white on rice!  If I was the guy, or if I was ever in that situation, I would not have even given the girl a second look! She didnt like me when I was fat, then forget you when you want me now that Im all hot looking! lol.



Ohhh Chale you are sooo wise!!!
I agree with what people have been saying, most of the time men and women only pay attention to the way people look on the outside and never realize that even though someone might not have the greatest looks, that person is beautiful inside. The way I see it, the man I like MUST have personality, it is pointless to date a man that has the greatest looks but you cannot joke around with him, have a great conversation with him, or enjoy listening to him. Brains, Personality and Kind/Honest Feelings are more important to me than a pretty face.


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I has to be human nature.....How people treat each other according to how they look.........Kinda sad really......

So very true!  The way people are treated has a lot to do with their outward appearance.
It is not only based on how thin/big you are, it also has a lot to do with how you dress and how you carry yourself... or even your age.  (Ex. my younger 17 year old brother always gets watched at any store, no matter how he is dressed, just b/c he fits the stereotypical 'teenager' category).


But what I found interesting in this movie is that the girl only saw him as a friend or as a brother when he was fat and not so attractive.  But once the boy shed those excess pounds she was all over him like white on rice!  If I was the guy, or if I was ever in that situation, I would not have even given the girl a second look! She didnt like me when I was fat, then forget you when you want me now that Im all hot looking!


lol.

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Ummm, this is all true ... But many people don't take the time to see what really counts and the ones that do, well I think they have the best of them ...


 



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The weight thing applies both to men and women.....

I tend to gain weight real easily.....and I can lose it just as fast if I really want to.....And I've noticed a MASSIVE difference on how women treat me when I'm on the thinner side......Like...Night and Day!!!!

So yeah....I has to be human nature.....How people treat each other according to how they look.........Kinda sad really......


I myself have dated super thin girls...and girls with a little more to them.......and really.......for me there has to be "something" that attracts me to them......It could be something as simple as their smile.....or whatever....but once that attraction is there.....I'm good..........Chemistry is key!!!





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Phantasma wrote:


WHat do u mean time will catch up with me? its not my fault men are shallow....


Not necessarily you ! I personally don't know you or do I , if not maybe on the next foro gathering  . I was talking about the male gender in general.


At one point in life, people have to change, take the wake up call or whatever you want to name it. If not they are going to miss it !

I just hope that for those shallow persons, it won’t be to late !

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Julie wrote:

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LaDyBuG wrote: NOW HERE'S MY QUESTION THEN.... WHY DON'T WE EVER SEE A HOT LOOKING GUY WITH A NASTY, FAT LOOKING GIRL "CON BUENOS SENTIMIENTOS" Thats easy... Its cause we men are shallow...
Don't worry man, Time will catch up with you




WHat do u mean time will catch up with me? its not my fault men are shallow....

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LaDyBuG wrote: NOW HERE'S MY QUESTION THEN.... WHY DON'T WE EVER SEE A HOT LOOKING GUY WITH A NASTY, FAT LOOKING GIRL "CON BUENOS SENTIMIENTOS" Thats easy... Its cause we men are shallow...

Don't worry man, Time will catch up with you

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Why do we full ourselves, if the first thing we notice is the look !


With the years, you definitively learn to differentiate the good looking from the appearance. As you, I rather have a man that do take care of himself than an **** for who the look is just a façade and when you scratch it a little there is nothing else but emptiness.


Sometimes both can be combined but it is very rare.


I do not say that I don’t like been seen with a good looking person but I will probably not expect a lot of it. Is it the experience that is talking, LOL


At the same time, somebody can be very good looking according to my criteria’s but it doesn’t mean that he or she is according to the “society” criteria.


As for the weight, I have been on both side of the mirror, myself and with people sharing my life. And yes, it does make a huge difference to the way others look at you. But, well if they don’t want to take the time to get to know you, to bad, not interested either.


But bottom line, it all comes down to “How do you feel” with yourself ? Are you self-confident with the way you look, etc….


If you’re well balance, in your mind, you should have no problem to conquer the world !



-- Edited by Julie at 09:41, 2005-12-28

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NOW HERE'S MY QUESTION THEN....
WHY DON'T WE EVER SEE A HOT LOOKING GUY WITH A NASTY, FAT LOOKING GIRL "CON BUENOS SENTIMIENTOS"




Thats easy... Its cause we men are shallow...

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angelita dulce wrote:


Well to tell you the truth, i've only dated good looking men and trust me, good looks is NOT everything!! My ex-hubby was all looks, but not a MAN!! (some of u know what i mean) I don't always judge on good looks. I want someone who is clean shaven, dressed appropriate and clean! With that said, i also want someone who knows how to treat a woman right!! So any feos out there!!LOL!!

I AGREE WITH YOU GIRL..... WHAT'S THE POINT OF HAVING A GOOD LOOKING MAN IF INSIDE HE'S ROTTEN!!!! PERSONALLY.... I'VE NEVER BEEN ONE TO GO FOR JUST LOOKS.... THE BEAUTY OF IT ALL IS IN THE WAY THE PERSON WILL TREAT HIS/HER OTHER HALF

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Well to tell you the truth, i've only dated good looking men and trust me, good looks is NOT everything!! My ex-hubby was all looks, but not a MAN!! (some of u know what i mean)


I don't always judge on good looks. I want someone who is clean shaven, dressed appropriate and clean! With that said, i also want someone who knows how to treat a woman right!! So any feos out there!!LOL!!



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ive noticed that ive seen alot of really pretty gurls with ugly guys but ive never really seen ugly gurls with really good looking guys...

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Now....the issue with WEIGHT.....hmmmmm


This is just plain prejudice.....


I've been on both sides of the "scale" so to speak....lol.....and I've seen how both men and women will treat someone who is thinner waaaaay better (and more azz kissing) than someone who is over-weight.....


I guess it's just an appeal to the eye.....human nature......and most people DONT take the time to see the "inner beauty"....TRUST ME!!!!



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NOW HERE'S MY QUESTION THEN....


WHY DON'T WE EVER SEE A HOT LOOKING GUY WITH A NASTY, FAT LOOKING GIRL "CON BUENOS SENTIMIENTOS"


To me personally, appearance is a big deal....the way a guy dresses, smells, keeps clean....etc.....it says a lot about him......but most importantly it's how he carries himself that matters to me.....he HAS TO have class......


I mean, let's be real, who wouldn't wanna date a good looking, great personality guy?.......So I'm not gonna come on here and say that looks don't matter....etc.....


People should take care of themselves & their appearance the best way they can.....cuz UGLY IS UGLY no matter how you look at it..........that's why a good personality and some class shine as their attributes.....


Vanidosamente...thank god I've never dated an ugly person.....lol


 



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i totally agree...my boyfriend that im with rite now isnt that good looking and i never pictured myself with him..but as i started talking to him and getting to know him..there was a strong connection and i started gaining feelings for him...ive had my share of good looking guys but it jus never worked out...my boyfriend treats me the best out of all the guys ive dated n the past...we have a great time together and  hes a really nice guy..and that is y i am with him..,.its about how the guy treats u and its true when they say...its wats n the inside that counts...

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@ Luna:
I definately agree with you, any solid relationship needs to have a strong foundation... and friendship is just that, a strong foundation upon which to build a good relationship.


 



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I think the basis of a good relationship starts with friendship.  Outter beauty lasts for only so long but what's inside is what truly counts. 


Ok, my hubby isn't the cream of crop (altho he is to me) but when we were friends back in high school, his charm, wit and humour is what attracted me to him.  I knew back then that he wasn't the "hottest guy" (kinda like DannyFriedEgg boy) but I also knew that he was the one that was going to make the best father, the best partner and my best friend (and he's lived up to all three).


I dated my fair share of "hot" guys, but with very little substance.  From personal experience, its what's inside that counts.



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Last night I saw the movie "Just Friends", it was really good... very funny and sweet... NOT just another chick flick... truely it was good!  





But anyways, it got me thinking... the premise of this movie is that Boy was in love with Girl, but Girl didnt like him 'that way' b/c she was not attracted to him b/c he was FAT.  However, once he lost all that weight, and became a hottie, she was all over him! 


So here's my question... how do you guys feel about that?
Someone failing to see your inner beauty when the 'outside package' is not so beautiful?

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