I've been told que soy tacaņa Que limosneo amor y atencion that's not a nice thing to be told. But it means that I should do more of the reaching out to people and keeping the friends i create. so I don't have the habit of sitting all sad in my room waiting for friends to call me, but I never realized how much I would depend on my friends initiating plans to go out and parties, or company for an outing.
MAracuya, I think that whoever told you that was someone who was born an assh7le, I remember you from the Foto meeting and you look like a fine very attractive looking young woman. Whoever told you that may be just jelous of you or want to play games with you.
Daeveed wrote: I pull my dong out and make circles in the air with it, while singing a lullaby. I've made really good friends!!! ....they haven't called me though... hahahahaha.....OMG.......by far the funniest comment this week......LOL......and how come you didn't do that at the Foro Potluck...in front of all that food....LOL
He did!!! but the "circle" was very very small, invisible to the naked eye
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I think in friendship, it's about consideration, respect, and understanding. I think it's always a give and take. Everyone that knows me well knows that I'm not much of a phone person, but I like to keep in touch with my close friends at least once or twice a month, just to touch base. I don't like being the only one that calls and then that person never calls. Or i dont think you call someone just for interes. You're not gonna be all distant with someone and then because you need a favour and you know they can hook u up, then u contact them. I hate that. There's gotta be respect for different opinions and you gotta be willing to accept any kind of "constructive" criticism the same way you may be willing to give it.
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that's not a nice thing to be told. But it means that I should do more of the reaching out to people and keeping the friends i create.
so I don't have the habit of sitting all sad in my room waiting for friends to call me, but I never realized how much I would depend on my friends initiating plans to go out and parties, or company for an outing.
I guess sometimes I just don't know how to show my friends how much i care about them
WOrds..don't come easy to me..
how can I find a way..
For me to say, I love you..
Words don't come easy...
Remember that song?,nice eh!
For me is really hard to show love, life has made me have a heart of iron, I can be cold as ice sometimes. FOr me is very hard to express love with words, I usually do actual staff like lending money ( I don't love too many people though jajaja), or something like that. MOst times it simply sucks, especially when I 'm really really very interested in some one. It takes time lots of time for the other person to realize there's love in me.
Sometimes it is as simple as making sure THAT person is alright. And, if she's not, making sure you are doing what you can/should to see that changing for good.
Leo I totally agree, this is simple yet like Baina says: Some people don't know how to show love.....or show you that they care about you. It's not that they don't.....it's just that they don't know how to show you.
AND the big word here is CONCERN: Showing love to me is all about RESPECT and CONCERN....with these 2 things you can just as good of a friend as a lover....paying attention (listening) is an important VIRTUE in any relationship.....thats's a great form of showing love I think.....
Now as for Daeveed, I think I'll smoke some to get the image of a shlong and dong waving all over the room with food on the table!! GROSS!!!
LaDyBuG wrote: Daeveed wrote: I pull my dong out and make circles in the air with it, while singing a lullaby. I've made really good friends!!! ....they haven't called me though... Correct me if I'm wrong....but doesn't DONG mean MIERDA of a COW? hahaha.... @ Daeveed: Did you mean to say SLONG? LOL OMG...............i just bursted out laughing!! Girl, give me a warning next time!!! This client, probably thinks i'm crazy!!!
Just tell him you're laughing at your friend's DONG.....LOL
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Daeveed wrote: I pull my dong out and make circles in the air with it, while singing a lullaby. I've made really good friends!!! ....they haven't called me though... Correct me if I'm wrong....but doesn't DONG mean MIERDA of a COW? hahaha.... @ Daeveed: Did you mean to say SLONG? LOL
OMG...............i just bursted out laughing!! Girl, give me a warning next time!!! This client, probably thinks i'm crazy!!!
Showing love to me is all about RESPECT and CONCERN....with these 2 things you can just as good of a friend as a lover....paying attention (listening) is an important VIRTUE in any relationship.....thats's a great form of showing love I think.....
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I pull my dong out and make circles in the air with it, while singing a lullaby. I've made really good friends!!! ....they haven't called me though...
hahahahaha.....OMG.......by far the funniest comment this week......LOL......and how come you didn't do that at the Foro Potluck...in front of all that food....LOL
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Maracuya wrote: If you're not the type of person to just sit back expecting everyone else to be the one calling you and knocking on your door looking for you~~~
~~how do you reach out to your friends or make new ones??
(Spinoff of Ladybug's Friendship - by the way Ladybug I saw so many 'ladybug' themed pieces like rings/artwork at the Christmas Craft show and sale that reminded me of you each time!!--- aaaaaw)
To show love....mmmmm
I'm not the kind of person that is gonna be calling you 30000 times , or showing on the door with a cheesy bunch of red roses, or telling you 40000 times I love you... I HATE THAT
I think showing respect, admiration and care for your partner is a good way to love...or respecting her time and space....
When it comes to complete strangers, I tend to show love with small signs and acts of helpfulness or courtesy. Which is, come think of it, a rather extended habit.
This has not changed because of moving abroad from Habana: socially, I am a pile of shyness. It MAY not look so if/when meeting the foro people, because of the foro-built common awareness and background, but in most situations you'll find me in a quiet corner... mostly when most of what's going around the room is small talk over small talk!
In consequence, I tend to make few friends.
Now, once I sort of become familiar with a certain person... it's much easier to "show love". Sometimes, just by being there. Other times, by getting involved in what the person next to you is trying to articulate in words. And, other times, by giving love, with a hand shake, a hug and, should it be a more intimate relationship, well... there's always the chance for a (CENSURED), a couple of (CENSURED) and (CENSURED), and, why not, a whole lot of (CENSURED), (CENSURED) and (CENSURED).
Sometimes it is as simple as making sure THAT person is alright. And, if she's not, making sure you are doing what you can/should to see that changing for good.
The real question is................me compraste algo? lol
I'm not sure I understand your question.....you mean like how to approach someone if you happen to be a bit Shy or Anti-Social? Or how to make completely new friends?
Did you also mean:
"If you ARE the type of person to sit back....etc...."
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"To be a good Promoter you must have the heart of a Gambler and the mind of a Computer"
If you're not the type of person to just sit back expecting everyone else to be the one calling you and knocking on your door looking for you~~~
~~how do you reach out to your friends or make new ones??
(Spinoff of Ladybug's Friendship - by the way Ladybug I saw so many 'ladybug' themed pieces like rings/artwork at the Christmas Craft show and sale that reminded me of you each time!!--- aaaaaw)