Would you marry...

God · Foro Master

RE: Would you marry...

torontotrucho · Guru

I've been asked liked 3 times and I think $5,000 is too little money for the agravation. I once new a very pretty girl who basically implied to me that She wanted to get married while looking into my eyes, I'm glad my brain won over my heart cause I know She just wanted the damned papers, I mean I had only met her about 3 times,

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The next week She just dissapeared from the picture hahaha!. I have no idea where She is.
I think I could do it for free sometimes, but I've heard so many bad stories about ingrate people taking advantage of people here, it's just not worth it.

Miel · Guru

I voted hell no,. 'cause i don't want to get marry period,.. and about legal papers,. it s true what Angelita _dulce said,. but it all depends on the person that u r going to marry with,..

LGigolo · Comandante

McOSIRIS wrote:

This is my friend Maria....she's looking for a husband in order to stay in Canada....she doesn't have any money to pay for a wedding.... Do you know anyone who can help her????

I’ll help her out with her marriage needs if she helps me out with some needs of my own for as long as it takes to get the papers… day and nite, 24/7… LMAO…

Nahhhh – been offered money for marriage – haven’t done it yet. Would seriously think about it if it was for someone I have known for some time.

Salsera de Corazon · TOP Guru

JOKER_ESCO wrote:

Hell no, this type of $hit can really mess u up in the future, Imagine u win the lottery U have by law give cash 2 this person or u go 2 jail so hell no......

Not really, it depends on who you married

JOKER_ESCO · Foro Master

Hell no, this type of $hit can really mess u up in the future, Imagine u win the lottery U have by law give cash 2 this person or u go 2 jail so hell no......

Salsera de Corazon · TOP Guru

miguel wrote:

blah.. after living with someone for a certain time (6 months?? a year??, i forget) you're common law anyway, which essencially means married, which essentially means you still have to divorce / settle up..

well yeah, you are right but it depends on the situation I guess

miguel · TOP Guru

blah.. after living with someone for a certain time (6 months?? a year??, i forget) you're common law anyway, which essencially means married, which essentially means you still have to divorce / settle up..

Salsera de Corazon · TOP Guru

God wrote:

Salsera de Corazon wrote: Pancho Cachondo wrote: Nothing against marriage, it's beautiful BUT when is with the right person...... My parents have veen married for 30 something years BUT they adapted to each other...they acepted to each other and basically they are old school. Personally at this point of my life I dont think I will commit, I do not believe in marriage. I believe that you can be with a person because I WANT to be with her, because I feel good to be around her, because we want the same in life... No because I'm stuck with her. Thats why I don't believe in marriage. You know what I agree with you, I think the same way, when you are with somebody is because you just want to be with the person, no need to sign a piece of paper. The worse part is as persons we change and grow up and when you realized that you or your partner is not the same and you are stuck with a piece of paper...

In the first place you wouldn't be stuck with a piece of paper, if you just don't get married, just be with the person, but don't get married, is true that we change and we grow up, but I always believed in not getting married.

God · Foro Master

Salsera de Corazon wrote:

Pancho Cachondo wrote:
Nothing against marriage, it's beautiful BUT when is with the right person...... My parents have veen married for 30 something years BUT they adapted to each other...they acepted to each other and basically they are old school. Personally at this point of my life I dont think I will commit, I do not believe in marriage. I believe that you can be with a person because I WANT to be with her, because I feel good to be around her, because we want the same in life... No because I'm stuck with her. Thats why I don't believe in marriage.
You know what I agree with you, I think the same way, when you are with somebody is because you just want to be with the person, no need to sign a piece of paper.

The worse part is as persons we change and grow up and when you realized that you or your partner is not the same and you are stuck with a piece of paper...

Salsera de Corazon · TOP Guru

Pancho Cachondo wrote:

Nothing against marriage, it's beautiful BUT when is with the right person...... My parents have veen married for 30 something years BUT they adapted to each other...they acepted to each other and basically they are old school. Personally at this point of my life I dont think I will commit, I do not believe in marriage. I believe that you can be with a person because I WANT to be with her, because I feel good to be around her, because we want the same in life... No because I'm stuck with her. Thats why I don't believe in marriage.

You know what I agree with you, I think the same way, when you are with somebody is because you just want to be with the person, no need to sign a piece of paper.

Ke Te Pika · Guru

I'VE BEEN ASKED FEW TIMES.... CONSIDERED IT.... DIDNT HAVE THE BALS TO DO SO...

MONEY WAS GOOD...CHICK WAS UGLY!!

Guadalupana · Foro Master

Pancho Cachondo wrote:

Nothing against marriage, it's beautiful BUT when is with the right person...... My parents have veen married for 30 something years BUT they adapted to each other...they acepted to each other and basically they are old school.

Personally at this point of my life I dont think I will commit, I do not believe in marriage. I believe that you can be with a person because I WANT to be with her, because I feel good to be around her, because we want the same in life...

No because I'm stuck with her. Thats why I don't believe in marriage.

You're right. But it's different for everyone. If i weren't married i don't think my love or commitment for my hubby would have changed. If you think about it, marriage is an extra step.
Now a days you don't have to be married to have babies, you can live together without being married, and even share accounts...which i would have preffered to keep to myself..but...oh well.

And what sucks more is that i don't get my GST checks anymore!!!

Oh well. if only i had known.....

Nah, but i'm happy. If that person is able to put a smile on your face. It's all that really matters.

Pancho Cachondo · Guru

Nothing against marriage, it's beautiful BUT when is with the right person...... My parents have veen married for 30 something years BUT they adapted to each other...they acepted to each other and basically they are old school.

Personally at this point of my life I dont think I will commit, I do not believe in marriage. I believe that you can be with a person because I WANT to be with her, because I feel good to be around her, because we want the same in life...

No because I'm stuck with her. Thats why I don't believe in marriage.

CrazyBeautiful · Guru

if someone paid me a large amount of money i would probably do it....so i could get my implants

Julie · Comandante

I really don't think I would marry somebody that reason, and being used to get where he wants to. I am not for sell, plus, few of you pinpointed that this could be a very delicate, not to say dangerous adventure. Does it really worth it ? I don't know but for sure, I do not want to jeopardize MY papers for somebody elses.

But as the same time, you never know que sorpresa de reserva la vida ! We might one day ends up in this situation and who knows what will be our reaction.

CrazyBeautiful · Guru

my dad paid someone 5000 to marry my cousin in ecuador and its a very long procedure...it took her 2 yrs to come here...and now that shes here...she wants to go bak to ecuador...

DJAlonso · Guru

we want prenump, we want prenumP! yeah!

Pancho Cachondo · Guru

Jinx wrote:

"Con la plata baila el mono"

Y sin plata bailas como mono !

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Jinx wrote:

"Con la plata baila el mono"

y le zapatea la araña????

miguel · TOP Guru

PRINCESSA wrote:

miguel wrote:
exactly... people are sketchy.. they divorce you and go for half your accumulated assets during the marriage.. and alimony... you're out a lot more than 10 grand

LMAO.....ur too funny.
Would I???......HELL NO, NEVER!!! What do i want to do with a fresh off the boat. No way !! No money is worth me getting married with them....having to put up with them, I'll feel like babysitting. NOPE

can you tell i'm marriage-o-phobic

lol

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

miguel wrote:

exactly... people are sketchy.. they divorce you and go for half your accumulated assets during the marriage.. and alimony... you're out a lot more than 10 grand

LMAO.....ur too funny.

Would I???......HELL NO, NEVER!!! What do i want to do with a fresh off the boat. No way !! No money is worth me getting married with them....having to put up with them, I'll feel like babysitting. NOPE

McOSIRIS · Comandante

This is my friend Maria....she's looking for a husband in order to stay in Canada....she doesn't have any money to pay for a wedding....

Do you know anyone who can help her????

miguel · TOP Guru

exactly...

people are sketchy.. they divorce you and go for half your accumulated assets during the marriage.. and alimony... you're out a lot more than 10 grand

angelita dulce · Foro Master

GENIE wrote:

i have had a few girl friends who have done it and there free now and have about 10 grand in there pocket so porke no!!!

That's the only great part..............receiving money for it!! But then again, you are liable for that person for 3 years!!! In those three years if they decide to be a ****, then you can get screwd over real bad, even if you get divorced!! Just remember, you are signing a 3 yr contract with Immigration. I can't disclose any cases, but let's just say............ there are a lot of people who get screwed over and now owe the government $$$.

Jinx · TOP Guru

"Con la plata baila el mono"

miguel · TOP Guru

i think that anyone who accepts money from someone they barely know for marriage is reeeetardeeeeeddddd

angelita dulce · Foro Master

Jinx wrote:

but what about si te pagan en Cash?

If you mean as in the illegal person paying you money to marry them...........well that doesn't matter. They can still screw you over by receving goverment help! If Immigration finds out that they paid you, then that's a fraud, means the marriage was never a true thing!! I would never do it!!! If you need info...you can log into www.cic.gc.ca. And read the fine prints on the applications. But not everyone can help the other person get status. For example if you have gone bankrupt, then there's no way you can sponsor, even if you are in arrears with Child Support!! There are too many guidlines!!

GENIE · Foro Master

Jinx wrote:

angelita dulce wrote: miguel wrote: GENIE wrote: miguel wrote: hell no. how do you guarantee they won't screw you and ask for a divorce settlement later... dumb move! THATS WHY U SIGN A CONTRACT STATING THAT THIS AMOUNT OF MONEY IS DUE AND HAT THE DIVORCE WILL COME LATER AND SO ON AND WHEN THAT PERSON TRIES TO SCREW U OVER U PLAY THE DRAMA CARD U TELL THEM THAT IF THEY DONT DO IT PEACEFULLY U WILL GO TO COURT AND IMMIGRATION CANADA AND SAY THAT U MARRIED THEM FOR LOVE AND THEY MARRIED U FOR PAPERS AND PLAY A DRAMATIC ROLE! I SAY YES IF THE MONEYS RIGHT AND I KNOW THE PERSON LIKE A FRIEND OR SO SURE WHY NOT! this is great in theory, but in ontario the law dictates that all assets accumulated during the marriage are 50/50. assets from before the marriage are yours. a person trying to screw you could easily try and go for half of any assets you've accumulated while you were married. i don't care too much about the immigration aspect of it.. Yup, that's true!! When i divorced i came across that!! As far as getting married for the papers, the illegal person can screw you over if he/she end up on welfare, or any other form of government help. Which means whatever they received in those 3 years, you have to pay back the government!! And once they get the papers, you can't do anything else to cancel their status in Canada!! We had too many cases like those!! but what about si te pagan en Cash?

i have had a few girl friends who have done it and there free now and have about 10 grand in there pocket so porke no!!!

Jinx · TOP Guru

I was asked 3 times and recently a close friend got married to this dude she barely knows for the $$$

Gitana · Foro Master

I WAS ASKED ONCE TO DO THIS.... I DID NOT ACCEPT!!!

Jinx · TOP Guru

angelita dulce wrote:

miguel wrote: GENIE wrote: miguel wrote: hell no. how do you guarantee they won't screw you and ask for a divorce settlement later... dumb move! THATS WHY U SIGN A CONTRACT STATING THAT THIS AMOUNT OF MONEY IS DUE AND HAT THE DIVORCE WILL COME LATER AND SO ON AND WHEN THAT PERSON TRIES TO SCREW U OVER U PLAY THE DRAMA CARD U TELL THEM THAT IF THEY DONT DO IT PEACEFULLY U WILL GO TO COURT AND IMMIGRATION CANADA AND SAY THAT U MARRIED THEM FOR LOVE AND THEY MARRIED U FOR PAPERS AND PLAY A DRAMATIC ROLE! I SAY YES IF THE MONEYS RIGHT AND I KNOW THE PERSON LIKE A FRIEND OR SO SURE WHY NOT! this is great in theory, but in ontario the law dictates that all assets accumulated during the marriage are 50/50. assets from before the marriage are yours. a person trying to screw you could easily try and go for half of any assets you've accumulated while you were married. i don't care too much about the immigration aspect of it.. Yup, that's true!! When i divorced i came across that!! As far as getting married for the papers, the illegal person can screw you over if he/she end up on welfare, or any other form of government help. Which means whatever they received in those 3 years, you have to pay back the government!! And once they get the papers, you can't do anything else to cancel their status in Canada!! We had too many cases like those!!

but what about si te pagan en Cash?

angelita dulce · Foro Master

miguel wrote:

GENIE wrote: miguel wrote: hell no. how do you guarantee they won't screw you and ask for a divorce settlement later... dumb move! THATS WHY U SIGN A CONTRACT STATING THAT THIS AMOUNT OF MONEY IS DUE AND HAT THE DIVORCE WILL COME LATER AND SO ON AND WHEN THAT PERSON TRIES TO SCREW U OVER U PLAY THE DRAMA CARD U TELL THEM THAT IF THEY DONT DO IT PEACEFULLY U WILL GO TO COURT AND IMMIGRATION CANADA AND SAY THAT U MARRIED THEM FOR LOVE AND THEY MARRIED U FOR PAPERS AND PLAY A DRAMATIC ROLE! I SAY YES IF THE MONEYS RIGHT AND I KNOW THE PERSON LIKE A FRIEND OR SO SURE WHY NOT! this is great in theory, but in ontario the law dictates that all assets accumulated during the marriage are 50/50. assets from before the marriage are yours. a person trying to screw you could easily try and go for half of any assets you've accumulated while you were married. i don't care too much about the immigration aspect of it..

Yup, that's true!! When i divorced i came across that!! As far as getting married for the papers, the illegal person can screw you over if he/she end up on welfare, or any other form of government help. Which means whatever they received in those 3 years, you have to pay back the government!! And once they get the papers, you can't do anything else to cancel their status in Canada!! We had too many cases like those!!

Jinx · TOP Guru

woa!

miguel · TOP Guru

GENIE wrote:

miguel wrote:
hell no. how do you guarantee they won't screw you and ask for a divorce settlement later... dumb move!

THATS WHY U SIGN A CONTRACT STATING THAT THIS AMOUNT OF MONEY IS DUE AND HAT THE DIVORCE WILL COME LATER AND SO ON AND WHEN THAT PERSON TRIES TO SCREW U OVER U PLAY THE DRAMA CARD U TELL THEM THAT IF THEY DONT DO IT PEACEFULLY U WILL GO TO COURT AND IMMIGRATION CANADA AND SAY THAT U MARRIED THEM FOR LOVE AND THEY MARRIED U FOR PAPERS AND PLAY A DRAMATIC ROLE!
I SAY YES IF THE MONEYS RIGHT AND I KNOW THE PERSON LIKE A FRIEND OR SO SURE WHY NOT!

this is great in theory, but in ontario the law dictates that all assets accumulated during the marriage are 50/50. assets from before the marriage are yours. a person trying to screw you could easily try and go for half of any assets you've accumulated while you were married.

i don't care too much about the immigration aspect of it..

Pancho Cachondo · Guru

Sometimes when you marry someone for Love, it sucks ! Maybe if you do it for money it works

That way you stick to a contract so the contract will last forever; on the hand, love....who knows !

-- Edited by Pancho Cachondo at 12:01, 2005-11-21

-- Edited by Pancho Cachondo at 12:03, 2005-11-21

Salsera de Corazon · TOP Guru

miguel wrote:

hell no. how do you guarantee they won't screw you and ask for a divorce settlement later... dumb move!

Well Miguel, it depends who the person is, before a person does this, they have to make sure, who the person is and it doesn't have to a stranger, it could also be somebody that you know

GENIE · Foro Master

miguel wrote:

hell no. how do you guarantee they won't screw you and ask for a divorce settlement later... dumb move!

THATS WHY U SIGN A CONTRACT STATING THAT THIS AMOUNT OF MONEY IS DUE AND HAT THE DIVORCE WILL COME LATER AND SO ON AND WHEN THAT PERSON TRIES TO SCREW U OVER U PLAY THE DRAMA CARD U TELL THEM THAT IF THEY DONT DO IT PEACEFULLY U WILL GO TO COURT AND IMMIGRATION CANADA AND SAY THAT U MARRIED THEM FOR LOVE AND THEY MARRIED U FOR PAPERS AND PLAY A DRAMATIC ROLE!

I SAY YES IF THE MONEYS RIGHT AND I KNOW THE PERSON LIKE A FRIEND OR SO SURE WHY NOT!

Jinx · TOP Guru

or like my Friend's horror story, the chick he married fell in love with him y siempre lo chantagiaba que le hiba llamar la imigracion...

miguel · TOP Guru

hell no. how do you guarantee they won't screw you and ask for a divorce settlement later...

dumb move!

Jinx · TOP Guru

someone that is gonna pay you $$$ if you marry 'em so they 'd get their Canadian Papers?