i didn't read the whole thing, just scanned it, but change MEN to WOMEN, and Him to Her, and 'perspective' to you (if yo're straight or gay, don't matter) its all the same
No need to question my menhood, as long as I know what I am lo que piensen otros en verdad no me cocinara el arroz.
Soy hombre y aunque se que esto es algo en contra de nosotros, no sere un hipócrita e ignorar la esencia del mensaje. Nosotros los hombres en verdad perdemos el interes por amor en una relacion cuando una mujer se lanza sin darse sus valores, bueno hablo de mi persona no en general. -- Edited by Alex Bello at 09:02, 2005-11-10 -- Edited by Alex Bello at 09:04, 2005-11-10
Actually Alex, I was trying to give guys advice, sometimes guys also find themselves in situations like this with their relationships with women and can end up heartbroken and maybe reading this paragraph helps them out too.
lol, I was generalizing the 'you' to all the audience not to you 'Alex'
jejeje what do you expect, someone that makes all that money better be saying things like this, i am sure she has a very good research team and writers too lol
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.::El Amor No Es Para Todos::. : El Amor Comienza Con Una Mirada, Crece Con Un Beso Y Muere Con Una Lagrima.
i didn't read the whole thing, just scanned it, but change MEN to WOMEN, and Him to Her, and 'perspective' to you (if yo're straight or gay, don't matter) its all the same
No need to question my menhood, as long as I know what I am lo que piensen otros en verdad no me cocinara el arroz.
Soy hombre y aunque se que esto es algo en contra de nosotros, no sere un hipócrita e ignorar la esencia del mensaje. Nosotros los hombres en verdad perdemos el interes por amor en una relacion cuando una mujer se lanza sin darse sus valores, bueno hablo de mi persona no en general.
-- Edited by Alex Bello at 09:02, 2005-11-10
-- Edited by Alex Bello at 09:04, 2005-11-10
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i didn't read the whole thing, just scanned it, but change MEN to WOMEN, and Him to Her, and 'perspective' to you (if yo're straight or gay, don't matter)
I know this is nothing to be happy about as a men but is the truth.
OK LADIES THIS IS A GIFT, NOT THAT YOU DON’T KNOW THIS ALREADY
BUT THIS IS JUST TO RE-FRESH YOUR MIND ....GOTTA LOVE 'O' ....FOR THOSE OF YOU IN HARD TIMES LET OPRAH LEAD THE WAY HAHA....BOYS WILL BE BOYS.....AND GIRLS WILL ALWAYS BE SMARTER THAN THAT! SO please read this i REALLY think its worth the mins…………
"Oprah"
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't be friends A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think it will get better. You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different; women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less .Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you him in your radar but get to know others Share this with other women and men (just so they know You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
-- Edited by Alex Bello at 22:56, 2005-11-09
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