Daeveed wrote: Pancho Cachondo wrote: I know exactly what are you talking about I've the same problem I'm soooo independant...and again sometimes there is the need of companion.....
ZIPOTE wrote: CADA QUIEN TIENE SU OPINION PANCHO CACHONDO Y RESPETO LA TUYA YOU..... IETHER WAY WE HAVE TO GO THRUE PROBLEMS AND SOLVE THEM ........NADA EN LA VIDA BIENE FACIL Y SI BIENE FACIL NO VALE LA PENA NO CREES ??
I know Bro! recierda que habemos unos que le sacamos a la vida conyugal.....I know I know
Dogo wrote: Damn!... I'm so divided on this one I've been at both ends and then back again I can't say I didn't like married life, but the freedom of single life is priceless (or maybe I'm just too independant) then again at times you long for constant companion. I guess we just always want what we don't have I think there's good in both and inevitably we will fall in love and have the urge to want to spend the rest of our lives with someone, most of us at least I do find though that after having being married and maybe because it didn't work the first time around I tend to be paranoid about imperfections and live the "single life" till something near perfect falls on my lap... not good I guess
I know exactly what are you talking about I've the same problem I'm soooo independant...and again sometimes there is the need of companion.....
Damn!... I'm so divided on this one I've been at both ends and then back again
I can't say I didn't like married life, but the freedom of single life is priceless (or maybe I'm just too independant) then again at times you long for constant companion. I guess we just always want what we don't have
I think there's good in both and inevitably we will fall in love and have the urge to want to spend the rest of our lives with someone, most of us at least
I do find though that after having being married and maybe because it didn't work the first time around I tend to be paranoid about imperfections and live the "single life" till something near perfect falls on my lap... not good I guess
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CADA QUIEN TIENE SU OPINION PANCHO CACHONDO Y RESPETO LA TUYA YOU..... IETHER WAY WE HAVE TO GO THRUE PROBLEMS AND SOLVE THEM ........NADA EN LA VIDA BIENE FACIL Y SI BIENE FACIL NO VALE LA PENA NO CREES ??
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NADIE ES HONESTO EN ESTE MUNDO!! Y NO MIENTAS PORQUE HASTA TU HAS MENTIDO ...
TV Buff wrote: Marriage is not easy, but neither is life in general. It's not a myth nor is it a fairy tale. It's just life and you share it with someone else. People do not exist to be isolated from one another and this is just another step in our lives. WEEL SAID TV BUFF..........WELL SAID
Another step,. ??? sera a la profundidad de un avismo,..lol
I m joking I m happy for the ones that r married and Happy ,.. best wishes,..But I don't think I m gonna get married
Marriage is not easy, but neither is life in general. It's not a myth nor is it a fairy tale. It's just life and you share it with someone else. People do not exist to be isolated from one another and this is just another step in our lives.
WEEL SAID TV BUFF..........WELL SAID
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NADIE ES HONESTO EN ESTE MUNDO!! Y NO MIENTAS PORQUE HASTA TU HAS MENTIDO ...
A Resource For Committed Singles & Those Who THINK Before Making the Ultimate Mistake.... It all seems so perfect. You've dated for months or even years. You've shared both the good times and the bad times. You've endured commitment. You love each other unconditionally. Marriage seems like the only logical next step right? After all, it was meant to be... The next thing you know, you're a bitter, romantically deprived, sexless, emotional disaster. That ring on your finger feels like a garrote around your neck. You feel as though you've been herded into mental slavery. You think back to your wedding day and that walk down the isle doesn't seem so pristine anymore. In fact, it feels as though that walk was like that of a deathrow inmate on his way down the prison corridor for the last time. That's right. Your married and half the time you're wishing you were dead , the other half wishing it was your spouse. What happened to all the rhetoric about the everlasting bond and life-long joy of married life? The greatest myth ever to deceive humanity is the myth of marriage. We've all been duped into believing that marriage is the end-all remedy to our loneliness; that tying the knot is a mandatory function we all must seek during our brief tenure on earth. Wake up people! It's time to face the chilling reality. Marriage isn't a cure for our want of companionship, it's the disease of imprisonment. You'll be pleading to be euthanized in no time at all as millions upon millions have already found out. Look at the marriage world around you. Divorce is at an all-time high and while the "experts" toil over the tedious statistics, trying to psycho-analyze and negotiate a solution to the crisis, those of us who've been to hell and back are frantically trying to warn the oh-so-envied singles of the impending doom that awaits them if they elect to tie the noose...er, the knot. Therefore, fret not then, single person. You are endowed through your sound judgment the freedom that so many married victims only dream of embracing again. Stay free, stay empowered, stay single!! -- Edited by Pancho Cachondo at 14:39, 2005-10-25
thanx for the info! i shall now cherish my single life even more
Marriage is not easy, but neither is life in general. It's not a myth nor is it a fairy tale. It's just life and you share it with someone else. People do not exist to be isolated from one another and this is just another step in our lives.
Marriage is not easy, but neither is life in general. It's not a myth nor is it a fairy tale. It's just life and you share it with someone else. People do not exist to be isolated from one another and this is just another step in our lives.
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Dios nos conceda SERENIDAD para aceptar las cosas que no podemos cambiar, VALOR para cambiar las que podemos, y SABIDURIA para conocer la diferencia.
Chilenita wrote: Interesting and funny! Actually I often wonder if 2 people are really meant to spend an eternity together....that's a long time man!!!! Pancho don't ever get married......I can tell already you'll hate it!
You have to actually be nice to someone in your place, even when they're in your way, using your stuff and you just want to be left the hell alone.
You don't own anything anymore unless it's something bad. Then it is yours and only yours.
If you walk around naked all the time, you get made aware of everything that is wrong with your body and told to put it away OR you're constantly being pawed at when you're just trying to be naked.
You are now completely aware of what things you do that are completely weird when before you could live in complete ignorance and bliss. In order to do weird things, you now have to hide somehow in the bathroom, wait until they're away or go rent a hotel room for an afternoon.
Now there are two people to pick up after. This especially sucks if one of you is a neat freak and simply can't rest until everything is put away.
Another set of parents are around to tell you what to do with your lives, and to try guilt tripping you when both families have events planned and you can't make it to both.
There is always going to be at least one chore that both of you hate doing and therefore you'll fight over it, and be forced to list off ALL the things you do to try to force them into feeling guilty and doing the chore.
Your secret box of secrets now needs to be more cleverly hidden than ever before.
It's easier to tell people off and storm off in a huff when you don't have to pack up all your **** and find a new place to live.
There is now another person to remember everything you've ever done wrong and remind you about it. Even those things that you forget you've done and can't really verify that you DID do them are used against you for years. After awhile you are convinced they're just making up ****.
Existing purely on bread and peanut butter becomes wrong somehow.
They find out you're not all the things you had claimed to be when you were trying to get them to like you.
You have justify spending thousands of dollars on an entertainment system and hundreds of CDs where before you would just not eat for a few weeks to pay it off.
There is someone that knows what and ****/**** you are and they still stay around. That just seems like something very creepy is going on. Why on earth do they stick around?
If there is no toilet paper around when they go to the bathroom, it can only be YOUR fault.
It's always the smallest things that end up driving you insane about them.
You can't tell them off because for some reason you don't want them to leave, even those times you think you do.
You have to put up with their crappy taste in music/movies so they put up with yours.
There are moments you look at them and wonder what the hell you think you're doing with your life.
Listening to music in the car becomes a negotiation deal when you both have different taste in music.
You have to pretend to like their stupid friends and they have to pretend to like yours.
If you start a 'war' of pranks, you have to be ready to fight it for the next few years until one of you gets hurt. By that time it's a 'tradition' and who are you to stop a tradition?
Don't ask questions you don't want answered honestly. You will get an honest answer to "Am I fat?", along with dietary advice to alter the situation.
They know when you're lying to them after a while.
You have to replace older items with "nice" things. Apparently duct taped sofas aren't "nice".
You can't drive like a maniac without getting elbowed in the arm.
Finding private time to masturbate becomes more difficult and if you try to include them then you're 'bothering' them all the time.
If you get up to get yourself a drink/snack, you now have to make two or at least ask them if they want any.
You will never again find YOUR underwear, just THEIRS.
When you're sick, it rocks because they have to take care of you. When they are sick, it totally SUCKS because you have to take care of them.
There is always a witness to your stupidity and someone to remind you of it the next day. (and the rest of your life)
You have to argue over what movie to see and can somehow never win because you can go see your movie 'next weekend' but by the time they agree, it's not in the theatres anymore.
Toothpaste tubes become a touchy issue.
For a certain week it's hell on earth for both of you in completely different ways.
Things you used to do that were cute are now called annoying and you're told to stop them.
You have to share the bed with someone after sex.
No matter what, you will always be wearing their socks, yet you don't seem to have any of your own.
You forget what being 'right' feels like because it all just degrees of wrong. They tell you they feel the same way, so who the hell IS winning here?
There are little notes around telling YOU where things go because it seems you've become braindead and NEED them. So you begin to write your own notes to them.
You are asked fifteen million times where their belt/hat/whatever is every day, and you never know. You've gone beyond even suggesting they put it in the same place each time because that just makes things YOUR fault for suggesting such a thing.
The cat/dog seems to like the other person, and you don't want to upset the cat/dog by killing them.
The first time you tell a story they think it's funny. After a few years, they've heard it a million times and now roll their eyes every time you open your mouth. So you start making things up to seem more interesting and they just shake their head.
You can't always point out odd things they do because they will simply tell you something odd you do. Each time you do this, you realize that you really ARE odd.
There are times you get bored with hanging out with them. You have nothing new to say to each other and just want to be left alone for a bit.
A Resource For Committed Singles & Those Who THINK Before Making the Ultimate Mistake....
It all seems so perfect. You've dated for months or even years. You've shared both the good times and the bad times. You've endured commitment. You love each other unconditionally. Marriage seems like the only logical next step right? After all, it was meant to be...
The next thing you know, you're a bitter, romantically deprived, sexless, emotional disaster. That ring on your finger feels like a garrote around your neck. You feel as though you've been herded into mental slavery. You think back to your wedding day and that walk down the isle doesn't seem so pristine anymore. In fact, it feels as though that walk was like that of a deathrow inmate on his way down the prison corridor for the last time. That's right. Your married and half the time you're wishing you were dead , the other half wishing it was your spouse. What happened to all the rhetoric about the everlasting bond and life-long joy of married life?
The greatest myth ever to deceive humanity is the myth of marriage. We've all been duped into believing that marriage is the end-all remedy to our loneliness; that tying the knot is a mandatory function we all must seek during our brief tenure on earth. Wake up people! It's time to face the chilling reality. Marriage isn't a cure for our want of companionship, it's the disease of imprisonment. You'll be pleading to be euthanized in no time at all as millions upon millions have already found out. Look at the marriage world around you. Divorce is at an all-time high and while the "experts" toil over the tedious statistics, trying to psycho-analyze and negotiate a solution to the crisis, those of us who've been to hell and back are frantically trying to warn the oh-so-envied singles of the impending doom that awaits them if they elect to tie the noose...er, the knot.
Therefore, fret not then, single person. You are endowed through your sound judgment the freedom that so many married victims only dream of embracing again. Stay free, stay empowered, stay single!!
Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
