"My daughter posing naked . . . Death Wish" WOW! ......that's a bit drastic don't you think? LOL ...it sounds like a threat too.... My question was: If you daughter was an actress and posed for playboy would you be this upset? You said "actress posing for plaboy = publicity stunt".......doesn't that sound like you're saying that it's ok? I highly agree with you when you say this: "By laying a strong foundation down for your children filled with strong morals and plenty of discipline you are handling most of these issues before they have an opportunity to start." The only thing is that I don't see posing for Playboy as "an issue of morality, discipline or foundation"......I see it as art and publicity for someone's career......nothing wrong with posing nude as long as it's tastefully done.....I would DRAW THE LINE if there was some explicit pornographic sexual stunts being exposed.....then you have just raised a SLUT who might as well be doing Pornos for a living..... Not all PLAYBOY covers are in full nude.....so if my daughter made it on there, I would be proud.....it's very hard to make it on the cover......LOL
Death Wish sounds like a threat – maybe it does . . .
If you daughter was an actress and posed for playboy would you be this upset? Absolutely.
I agree that it’s difficult to get on the cover of PLAYBOY but in my opinion this is hardly worth celebrating.
Just look at some examples of Past cover girls . . .
1. Anna Nicole Smith
2. Paris Hilton
You draw the line at explicit pornographic sexual stunts being exposed. When your children get to this point – I think it’s already to late.
"My daughter posing naked . . . Death Wish" WOW! ......that's a bit drastic don't you think? LOL ...it sounds like a threat too....
My question was:
If you daughter was an actress and posed for playboy would you be this upset? You said "actress posing for plaboy = publicity stunt".......doesn't that sound like you're saying that it's ok?
I highly agree with you when you say this:
"By laying a strong foundation down for your children filled with strong morals and plenty of discipline you are handling most of these issues before they have an opportunity to start."
The only thing is that I don't see posing for Playboy as "an issue of morality, discipline or foundation"......I see it as art and publicity for someone's career......nothing wrong with posing nude as long as it's tastefully done.....I would DRAW THE LINE if there was some explicit pornographic sexual stunts being exposed.....then you have just raised a SLUT who might as well be doing Pornos for a living.....
Not all PLAYBOY covers are in full nude.....so if my daughter made it on there, I would be proud.....it's very hard to make it on the cover......LOL
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I also see photography as art. Where do you draw the Line?
If you support your children and accept everything they do because they are young adults, where do they draw the Line?
By laying a strong foundation down for your children filled with strong morals and plenty of discipline you are handling most of these issues before they have an opportunity to start.
Actress posing for Playboy . . . Publicity Stunt
My daughter posing naked . . . Death Wish
I don't care who posed for Playboy - They are not my Daughters . . .
Ok...this is a question to all of you who RIGHT AWAY got upset, claimed to disown your children, not include them in the will, beat the crap out of them....etc
#1. WHAT IS SO WRONG ABOUT POSING FOR PLAYBOY? MORALLY AND EVERYTHING ELSE......
Me being so "traditional" according to Chilenita...(LOL).....have no problem with it at all......it's a business, it's NOT degrading, if anything it's prestigious, and so long as it's tastefully done and NOT so pornographic, it's a cool experience.....many models, actors, singers, aim to pose for Playboy as the ultimate challenge and source of publicity in their career.......
Which brings me to my second question:
#2. If your child decided to become an actor, model, or singer.....and THEN pose for Playboy....would you still be upset?
At the end of the day....it's THEIR CHOICE......so to get all upset and not support them would be a huge amount of un necessary stress.....
I'm sure many of you buy that kind of entertainment, magazines, porn movies, nude calendars....and it's enjoyable to the eye.......so what's so different if it's your own daughter OR SON....let's not leave the boys out of this......
I see photography as ART......so I'm having a hard time with this one.....UNLESS someone can explainto me the moral aspect of it.....and WHY you wouldnt's let your kids do it.....
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El Representante wrote: My daughter posing for PLAYBOY . . . I will raise my children knowing that with every action there is a consequence. I am sure many doors opened with endless possibilities offered to some of the females, however, I will also teach my children not to go for the easy way out but instead just to be aware of them. Morals and discipline will be a huge part of there childhood. As an adult if my daughter came to me telling me that she was considering posing for PLAYBOY I would simply say “Is this How I Raised You?” Point a finger at her, look angry and walk away . . . That would be the end of it . . . -- Edited by El Representante at 12:56, 2005-10-04 Very good answer Rep.
confundida wrote: Dogo wrote: confundida wrote: IM GLAD, THAT WAY I CAN BE CERTAIN YOU WONT BE AROUND FOR DA REST OF MY LIFE!!!!!! HAHAHA... I might just do that..... just to piss you off!! OK, BUT DAT GOING TO HAVE CONSEQUENCES!!!!! Forget it then!! you're on your own!! good luck with the playboy thing though!!
THKS FOR DA SUPPORT, ILL KEEP U IN MIND....HOPEFULLY YOU WONT BE DEAD BY THEN SO I TRY TO LOOK FOR YOU AND LET YOU KNOW HOW IT WENT......
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Dogo wrote: confundida wrote: IM GLAD, THAT WAY I CAN BE CERTAIN YOU WONT BE AROUND FOR DA REST OF MY LIFE!!!!!! HAHAHA... I might just do that..... just to piss you off!! OK, BUT DAT GOING TO HAVE CONSEQUENCES!!!!!
Forget it then!! you're on your own!!
good luck with the playboy thing though!!
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My daughter posing for PLAYBOY . . . I will raise my children knowing that with every action there is a consequence. I am sure many doors opened with endless possibilities offered to some of the females, however, I will also teach my children not to go for the easy way out but instead just to be aware of them. Morals and discipline will be a huge part of there childhood. As an adult if my daughter came to me telling me that she was considering posing for PLAYBOY I would simply say “Is this How I Raised You?” Point a finger at her, look angry and walk away . . . That would be the end of it . . . -- Edited by El Representante at 12:56, 2005-10-04
Very good answer Rep.
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confundida wrote: IM GLAD, THAT WAY I CAN BE CERTAIN YOU WONT BE AROUND FOR DA REST OF MY LIFE!!!!!! HAHAHA... I might just do that..... just to piss you off!!
OK, BUT DAT GOING TO HAVE CONSEQUENCES!!!!!
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confundida wrote: Dogo wrote: confundida wrote: ALL I WOULD SAY IF OK ITS UR CHOICE .......... BUT "IF YOU DECIDE TO DO THIS, FORGET YOUR NAME IN DA WILL" You don't mean that... you think you do... but you don't YOU WANNA BET??? Nahhh.... would hate to take your money
IM GLAD, THAT WAY I CAN BE CERTAIN YOU WONT BE AROUND FOR DA REST OF MY LIFE!!!!!!
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Dogo wrote: confundida wrote: ALL I WOULD SAY IF OK ITS UR CHOICE .......... BUT "IF YOU DECIDE TO DO THIS, FORGET YOUR NAME IN DA WILL" You don't mean that... you think you do... but you don't YOU WANNA BET???
Nahhh.... would hate to take your money
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I will raise my children knowing that with every action there is a consequence.
I am sure many doors opened with endless possibilities offered to some of the females, however, I will also teach my children not to go for the easy way out but instead just to be aware of them.
Morals and discipline will be a huge part of there childhood.
As an adult if my daughter came to me telling me that she was considering posing for PLAYBOY I would simply say
“Is this How I Raised You?”
Point a finger at her, look angry and walk away . . .
That would be the end of it . . .
-- Edited by El Representante at 12:56, 2005-10-04
confundida wrote: ALL I WOULD SAY IF OK ITS UR CHOICE .......... BUT "IF YOU DECIDE TO DO THIS, FORGET YOUR NAME IN DA WILL" You don't mean that... you think you do... but you don't
YOU WANNA BET???
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Well, i already know myself, i would be totally pissed. I have 2 daughters so i already have a lot of worries. Obviously she'll be 19 and make up her own mind, but belive me, she would know how pissed and offended I would be. Not sure yet what dad will reply to this.
Heeeeeey! it was a joke!!
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I would probably tell her that her body is not yet ready to be shown in public (psychological boicot) ...but like somebody said before...she's got the last word...
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Well, i already know myself, i would be totally pissed. I have 2 daughters so i already have a lot of worries. Obviously she'll be 19 and make up her own mind, but belive me, she would know how pissed and offended I would be. Not sure yet what dad will reply to this.
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I dont think its really that bad. Alot of the pics that are taken for Playboy arent that trashy. I think as long as my daughter was shown if you wanna say "classy" naked I wouldnt have a problem with it. But on the other hand, if the pic was slutty looking than forget it. A women can be naked in a pic, but look beautiful, sexy, and classy at the same time.
Let's say your daughter is 19 and over and one day comes to you wanting to pose for playboy.....what would you do? Seriously....give you reason for why it's right or wrong.......
How would YOU respond to YOUR daughter, Chilenita? Would you offer a mother-and-daughter spread? LMAO
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I would ask her to give me her agents name, i would want pose as well!! LOL!! Seriously, I would try to convince her not to do it, but in the end it's her decision. I would just give her the best advice possible.
LGIG....if it was a world famous painter wanting to paint a portrait of her would you feel differently? Is it because Playboy is cheesy? Do you buy playboy or are you against the explotation of women in general?
Playboy is more PORNOGRAPHIC than ARTISTIC… makes women more of a sexual object than anything… I just wouldn’t want my daughters’ twits or twat visible to the world either an artistic and even worse on a pornographic level. If it was an artistic PAINTING in which she didn’t reveal all her goodies, it would make it more acceptable… still at 19, it would be her decision – but as a parent, if she was to ask for my view, that’s what she would get. At the end, if she did decide to go for it, I would still want her to do well – whatever doing well would mean in Playbor (selling millions of copies?)… I would definitely not be one of the buyers!
No, I don’t buy Playboy – in my life, I have bought it a handful of times, yes – seen other even trashier magz, as well – the idea of seen a loved one in those kind of poses is not a very pleasant.
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at this age u can't do nothing, I would give her a piece of my mind but I don't thing it will make any difference, once u make your mind that's it nothing u can say or do will make any difference....
Chilenita wrote: Let's say your daughter is 19 and over and one day comes to you wanting to pose for playboy.....what would you do? Seriously....give you reason for why it's right or wrong....... I would just give her “that look” and she would know EXACTLY what I was thinking! I would not approve – would let her know that I don’t support approve the idea of posing nude – too many reasons; but mainly re-assure her that she’s smart enough to make enough money without taking that route. Wouldn’t want any girls/women related or close to me to pose nude. – just my view.
LGIG....if it was a world famous painter wanting to paint a portrait of her would you feel differently? Is it because Playboy is cheesy? Do you buy playboy or are you against the explotation of women in general?
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Let's say your daughter is 19 and over and one day comes to you wanting to pose for playboy.....what would you do? Seriously....give you reason for why it's right or wrong.......
I would just give her “that look” and she would know EXACTLY what I was thinking!
I would not approve – would let her know that I don’t support approve the idea of posing nude – too many reasons; but mainly re-assure her that she’s smart enough to make enough money without taking that route.
Wouldn’t want any girls/women related or close to me to pose nude. – just my view.
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Let's say your daughter is 19 and over and one day comes to you wanting to pose for playboy.....what would you do? Seriously....give you reason for why it's right or wrong.......
Right now I would say that I will suport her in everything that she decides to do....but who knows how I would feel if this actually happens 13 years from now.....
Let's say your daughter is 19 and over and one day comes to you wanting to pose for playboy.....what would you do? Seriously....give you reason for why it's right or wrong.......
It would be right only if she hooks me up with another playmate(s)!!!