Gay Parents

D_Lo · Senior Member

RE: Gay Parents

Chilenita · Comandante

D_Lo wrote:

@ LADYBUG Yes to me being gay is not normal. God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. Obviously people choose to be gay because as they get older they realize that there attracted to the same sex instead of the opposite sex. Your right, unforunately our world does have to many followers and not leaders, but thats how it is and I think will always be. I do have gay friends and what they choose to do is there choice but for me I dont think its appropriate for them to have childen, nor do I think its appropriate for unfit couples to have children either. It works both ways whether the couple is 2 men 2 women or a man and a women, if they wouldnt be good parents than none of them should have kids. Just a question, would you feel confortable letting your child go play at their friends house whose parents are a gay couple and there hugging and kissing in front of your child?

One of my BEST male friends is gay and I can assure you it was not a CHOICE!!!! Just like you liking men is not a CHOICE it's just the way he was BORN! Anyhow, do you intend on keeping your children locked up? There are gay people EVERYWHERE they will meet gay couples and gay men and gay women regardless of how uncomfortable it makes you! I think people who have children should focus on teaching them how important is is to execpt people the way they are!! If you have a problem with gay people you should really NOT try and pass that on to your kids!! I work in an office downtown and there are three gay men that work here. Growing up I worked retial in Yorkville and my manager was gay!! My point is they are everywhere and they are not going anywhere hence the famous chant "we are here we are queer get use to it"

Question: What if one children turns out gay? Do you still think they should NEVER be parents

D_Lo · Senior Member

@ LADYBUG

Yes to me being gay is not normal. God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. Obviously people choose to be gay because as they get older they realize that there attracted to the same sex instead of the opposite sex. Your right, unforunately our world does have to many followers and not leaders, but thats how it is and I think will always be.

I do have gay friends and what they choose to do is there choice but for me I dont think its appropriate for them to have childen, nor do I think its appropriate for unfit couples to have children either. It works both ways whether the couple is 2 men 2 women or a man and a women, if they wouldnt be good parents than none of them should have kids.

Just a question, would you feel confortable letting your child go play at their friends house whose parents are a gay couple and there hugging and kissing in front of your child?

miguel · TOP Guru

there's no way the government could enforce gay couples not having kids anyway..

it's impossible... unless we lived in a police state with spies watching us all the time

LaDyBuG · Comandante

@ D LO

So you're saying that being Gay is not normal?
Like when you say they're teaching them it's normal.....when it's not......

When there's too much of something.....or more than 1 as a matter of fact....it just becomes NORMAL....it is not different anymore.......and humans by nature are FOLLOWERS.....if we were all LEADERS, no one would follow and everything in this world would be different and unique......

So imagine gay couples worldwide.....yeah, they might be a minority NOW......but 10 years from now, don't you think there will be more gay marriages and even gay parents.....

I don't mind it at all......especially because most gay people I know are "positive", educated and happy people over all.......so I don't doubt for one minute that they would make excellent guardians.......(even better than some straight parents....OR single young mothers who have pop out kids all over the place and straight men who have no idea how to interact with their own kids)

On a more "vain" note......imagine how much fashion, decor, style and flair will INCREASE if they reproduce .....LOL

Chilenita · Comandante

I have seen MANY MANY MANY striaght men and women have children and be HORRIBLE parents!!!!!

As long as you are a loving couple that will dedicate your lives to a child it should not matter!!!! I am not sure how many gay people you guys know or if you know any at all but EVERY gay person I know was born that way!!! Watching people be gay does not make you gay!

And no the joke is not funny....not to me anyhow.....

I know I am an annoying politically correct BITCH!! I am working on changing my nick to that

D_Lo · Senior Member

This is a very touchy subject because everyone has so many different opinions. I dont have a problem with a gay couple getting married or being together but I do have a problem with them having kids. How would they explain to their child why their the only kid in school with 2 Moms or 2 Dads. There teaching them that its normal when its not. A normal couple is a man and a women. I dont know to me its weird and I dont like the idea. I think that a child raised by a gay couple will most likely become gay because that will be all they know and what to them "normal" would be.

Thats my opinion, and comments?

LaDyBuG · Comandante

@ D Lo .........do you see a negative part to it?

Like, can you balance the good and the bad......maybe we can get a discussion going on here.....

I personally have no problem with it......but I really think they should adopt......

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Adriana22 wrote:

Two gay men decide to have a baby. They mix their sperm, and then have a surrogate mother artificially inseminated. When the baby is born, they rush to the hospital. A dozen babies are in the ward, eleven of whom are crying and screaming. Over in the corner, one is smiling serenely. A nurse comes by and to the gays' delight she points out the happy child as theirs. "Isn't it wonderful?" one fruitcake says to the other. "All these unhappy children and ours is so happy." The nurse says, "Oh sure, he's happy now. But just watch what happens when we take the pacifier out of his ass."

LOL...

how would you do that??? you put it in a blender???

D_Lo · Senior Member

Thats funny, but I dont beleive in gay couples having children. What do you think?

Adriana22 · Senior Member

Two gay men decide to have a baby. They mix their sperm, and then have a surrogate mother artificially inseminated. When the baby is born, they rush to the hospital. A dozen babies are in the ward, eleven of whom are crying and screaming. Over in the corner, one is smiling serenely. A nurse comes by and to the gays' delight she points out the happy child as theirs.

"Isn't it wonderful?" one fruitcake says to the other. "All these unhappy children and ours is so happy."

The nurse says, "Oh sure, he's happy now. But just watch what happens when we take the pacifier out of his ass."