KIDS

ZIPOTE · TOP Guru

RE: KIDS

Frijol · Regular

ANG wrote:

I have a son. He is a pain in the ass. I have to cook for him, clean for him, make his lunch, do his laundry, buy him things, watch what he likes on TV and listen to his constant back talk....wait....did I forget to mention that he is my 25 year old boyfriend? He is as much of a handful as any kid would be.....but seriously... Children are gifts from God....never to be taken for granted. A lot of Mother's don't get the respect they deserve. All of you Mommy's out there should be proud of yourselves.

para que sos maje pues? nadie te esta obligando a que lo aguantes pues

ANG · Regular

I have a son. He is a pain in the ass. I have to cook for him, clean for him, make his lunch, do his laundry, buy him things, watch what he likes on TV and listen to his constant back talk....wait....did I forget to mention that he is my 25 year old boyfriend? He is as much of a handful as any kid would be.....but seriously... Children are gifts from God....never to be taken for granted. A lot of Mother's don't get the respect they deserve. All of you Mommy's out there should be proud of yourselves.

ZIPOTE · TOP Guru

LO UNICO QUE TE PUEDO DECIR MI QUERIDA CONFU POR SEGURO MI AMIGA QUE SE TE GRABE POR SIEMPRE...........MADRE SOLO HAY UNA MI AMOR .........SOLO UNA

LOS HIJOS NO ESTAN PARA QUE APRENDAN DE NOSOTROS ...........SINO PARA NOSOTROS APRENDER DE ELLOS ...........

PON A UN N~IN~ NEGRO CON UN CHINO Y UN HISPANO OR UN BLANCO JUNTOS A ELLOS NO LES IMPORTA EL COLOR .........SON AMIGUITOS Y PUNTO............

Caliche · TOP Guru

SORRY CONFU, BUH IMMA DISAGREE ON THAT LAST COMMENT BOUT REPLACING DADS BUH NOT MOMS.....

FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.... ( NOT MY OWN, BUT AS A WITNESS)

HAY ALGUINAS MADRES QUE NO LES IMPORTA SUS HIJOS. MAYBE ITS BECAUSE THEY HAD THEIR CHILDREN AT A VERY YOUNG AGE AND STILL WANNA PARTY IT OUT.

AN AUNT OF MINE ( SHES LIKE MAYBE 40 NOW) HAD HER FIRST SON AT 16, SHE OBVIOUSLY WASNT IN AN AGE SHE COULD TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD... SO SHE PUT IT OUT FOR ADOPTION... SHE NEVER TOLD THE GUY THAT IMPREGNATED HER TILL RECENTLY...SHE HAD A 2ND CHILD AT 23 OR SO... SHE KEPT HIM.

MY COUSIN NOW, (THE ADOPTED ONE, MET HIM MAYBE 2 YEARS AGO) WANTED TO MEET HIS MOM ( MA AUNT, SHE DENIED HIM THE RIGHT.... HIS FATHER, WHO NOW IS AN ARMY COLONEL, IS PROUD OF WHAT HIS SON HAS BOCOME WITHOUT HIS REAL PARENTS.

MOTHER CAN BE REPLACED....

angelita dulce · Foro Master

I agree with you Confudida... I'm a single mother myself to a 2 1/2 yr old. I do so much for him, i work so hard working a full time job in the day and night school courses at night from Mon-Thurs. I try to do as much as i can for him. But i do deserve to go out and have fun with my friends. Mind you, that my son is sleeping when i go out on weekend nights!! Us mothers deserve a right to have fun, we do so much for our children!!

Like i said before you will never be ready for a child till the time comes. For example, some want to wait till they are financially stable, but i never was and somehow i manage!!! I'm know i'm doing great and i'm proud!

Miel · Guru

I agree with all of u ladies,.. of course u need to have some fun,. Single moms or dads,. are ppl that need spare time for themseleves,. much respect for all of u,..about partying and getting drunk,. is all good,. as long as u don't do it in front of ur children,.. and u give them the attention that they need,..

@Danny,. yes,. a lot of single moms,. but you have two remeber that to make a kid u need two,.a man and a woman,. but at the ende some so called MEN forget about it,. y se lavan las manos como Poncio Pilato,.. dejame decirte ,.Madre una sola,.. Padre,.. cualquiera,..

Dogo · Comandante

I'm pops to an almost 8 year old boy, great kid and best buddie, If you don't have kids... the work involved is beyond anything you can imagen!!!

@ chilenita... if you think the dog is too much!! that's a walk in the park compared to having a kid...... the good thing is though, that you already have practice with wipping butts!!!

confundida · Foro Master

Danny416 wrote:

Now a days I see alot of single moms out there with kids , personally i admire them how they hold it down on their own selves, they have the time to look after their kids, work and goto school much respect

THE REASON U SEE THIS IS SIMPLE THE PPL THA THERE WITH ARE NOT WORTH IT..... LIKE PPL ALWAYS SAY U CAN REPLACE UR DAD BUT U CANT REPLACE UR MOM......

THIS ALSO GOES WITH MENTALLY OF MOST PPL, SHE CAN TAKE CARE OF IT, SHES DA MOM....... MEANWHILE SOME PPL FORGET THAT OTHER THAN US BEING SINGLE MOTHER WE ARE PPL AND WE ARE ALLOWED TO GO OUT AND HAVE FUN AND GET DRUNK.....WE DO ALOT FOR OUR KIDS THAT SOMETIMES WE FORGET WHO WE ARE....

Colombiana4Life · Foro Master

confundida wrote:

WHO CALLED CHILDREN A BURDEN?? JUST READING THAT POST MAKES ME HAVE A BURDEN THAT I EVEN WASTED MY TIME RREADING IT..... FIRST OF ALL CHILDREN ARE THE MOST PRECIOUS THINGS IN THIS WORLD. THEY ARE A PART OF YOU....YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR SOMEOBODY BODY, MIND AND SOUL..... YOU GET TO SEE A CHILD EVOLVED IN ALL ASPECTS..... MIND YOU HAVING A CHILD IS EXPENSIVE BUT IT ALL COMPENSATE WHEN U HEAR THOSE THREE LITTLE WORD I LOVE U ...... HEARING THOSE WORDS COMING FROM A LITTLE PERSON THAT YOU HAD IN YOUR WOMB AND UR WATCHING THEM GROW MAKES UP FOR ANYTHING IN THE WORLD..... AND BY THE WAY NOBODY IS NEVA READY FOR KIDS.....

Yep, i agree with Confu. It's true that u have to cut down on a lot of the fun stuff, partiying every weekend (although there's people with kids that still manage to do that, no se como), picking up and doing whatever u want when u want, but the payout at the end is much more rewarding. I had my first daughter at a young age y no me pesa para nada. And im still planning on more kids, believe me, kids are very rewarding.

confundida · Foro Master

WHO CALLED CHILDREN A BURDEN??

JUST READING THAT POST MAKES ME HAVE A BURDEN THAT I EVEN WASTED MY TIME RREADING IT.....

FIRST OF ALL CHILDREN ARE THE MOST PRECIOUS THINGS IN THIS WORLD. THEY ARE A PART OF YOU....YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR SOMEOBODY BODY, MIND AND SOUL.....

YOU GET TO SEE A CHILD EVOLVED IN ALL ASPECTS.....

MIND YOU HAVING A CHILD IS EXPENSIVE BUT IT ALL COMPENSATE WHEN U HEAR THOSE THREE LITTLE WORD I LOVE U ...... HEARING THOSE WORDS COMING FROM A LITTLE PERSON THAT YOU HAD IN YOUR WOMB AND UR WATCHING THEM GROW MAKES UP FOR ANYTHING IN THE WORLD.....

AND BY THE WAY NOBODY IS NEVA READY FOR KIDS.....

DulceGalletita · Foro Master

I have no children yet, but yes I love kids and want 2 or 3 .... and if possible a set of twins jijiji

... Pero estare feliz con lo que el jefito del cielo send me ...

God · TOP Guru

FEA wrote:

i definitely want kids. 4 if i'm well off if not then 2 or 3.

hopefully they come out cute LOL can someone hook me up with Jude Law? i LOVE his eyes!!

4 Wow Sexy ! you're brave !

angelita dulce · Foro Master

@ Torontotrucho - I agree with the Colombiana4Life & QUE chuld LINDA, kids are not a burden and i hope you don't mean it. I was never ready to have a child, but when he was born, right away i felt the mother instinct. During my pregnancy i was afraid that i would not hold him right, change his diapers right or even be able to know what to do when he is sick. Well it all changed the day he was born and i love it!! Your life definately changes when you have a child, but it's the most beautiful thing you can ever experience. Just knowing that he's/she's yours and that you are there to protect him/her. Hearing them tell you 'i love u mommy', it's the best feeling. You will never be ready until the day it happens!!

Congrats to the mothers & fathers out there, for their hard work and sacrifice to raise their children!!!

FEA · Guru

i definitely want kids. 4 if i'm well off if not then 2 or 3.

hopefully they come out cute LOL can someone hook me up with Jude Law? i LOVE his eyes!!

Shy_Latina · Guru

I'm also a proud mommy...

my 3 year old son is my inspiration... he's the best thing that has happened to me. It's true, it is very hard to race a kid and a lot of responsibilities come with having a child, but it is ALL worth it. He is my strength, he is what gets me through bad times, he's was makes my life better.

For the people that don't have kids, it's something very hard to explain. There are no words to explain the love you feel for you child. You just love them more than your own life and even though they can be a hand full, just hearing them say "I love you mommy" can make anything bad go away....

And like I say to all my friend that don't have kids and say they don't think they'll ever be ready to have one, you'll just never feel ready until it actually comes...

Ladyhawk · Regular Plus

I have 2 kids

A little girl who is 8 yrs and a litttle boy who is 5 going into 20 yrs .

They are the love of my life , my reason for living and a reason to better myself .

It's hard taking care of kids but it's all worth it for me .

They are my greatest joy .

I am very proud of them .

My daughter was born with some disibilities and when I see everything she had to endured in her short life . It's makes me so proud of her .

When I have a bad day she always there to remind me that were are strong and must take life for what it is , and surpass our problems .

My Son remind me that I not alone and he is aways will to help me and his sister .

Kids are Precious and sometimes we forget that we can learn alot from them .

God · TOP Guru

torontotrucho wrote:

I have no kids. It just never happened, I mean finding a woman and falling in love and all that staff. PErhaps some day, who knows. But honestly I can't handle the burden, if I was in love and everything then I would give it a try.

Join the club dude...finding the right woman and fall in love...is just too much !

Chilenita · Comandante

Afrodita wrote:

I'm not really sure if I would like to be responsible for someone else's life, I can bearly handle mine. Maybe that's selfish on my part, but I would be really scared of not making the right choices when bringing up a child. My respect to those single mothers that raise their children on their own, and to all moms, but i don't think having my own kids is something I want. Plus I adopted some 22 year old girl...man...she's a lot of trouble...she's the reason why i don't want to have any kids... Just kidding....I love you daughter...-- Edited by Afrodita at 23:06, 2005-09-15

I am with you Afro!! I admire all single mommies that work hard and sacrafice everything to raise their children! I also admire single daddies my brother is a single dad with full custody of his child and does an amazing job rasing her!!!

As for me I have far too many things that I want to do before having children. I want to travel, make money and purchase a home before kiddies come along. I also party WAY too much to have a child and I am not ready to stop quite yet.

Danny416 · TOP Guru

and some parents dont have patience!!

MARILYN MONROE · Guru

Afrodita wrote:

I'm not really sure if I would like to be responsible for someone else's life, I can bearly handle mine. Maybe that's selfish on my part, but I would be really scared of not making the right choices when bringing up a child. My respect to those single mothers that raise their children on their own, and to all moms, but i don't think having my own kids is something I want.

Plus I adopted some 22 year old girl...man...she's a lot of trouble...she's the reason why i don't want to have any kids...

Just kidding....I love you daughter...-- Edited by Afrodita at 23:06, 2005-09-15

I love kids, but I'm a kid myself. Como dijo afro "I can bearly handle myself". That's why I have 5 adpotive parents that always watch over me 24/7. What would i do with out u guys?

Afrodita · Guru

I'm not really sure if I would like to be responsible for someone else's life, I can bearly handle mine. Maybe that's selfish on my part, but I would be really scared of not making the right choices when bringing up a child. My respect to those single mothers that raise their children on their own, and to all moms, but i don't think having my own kids is something I want.

Plus I adopted some 22 year old girl...man...she's a lot of trouble...she's the reason why i don't want to have any kids...

Just kidding....I love you daughter...

-- Edited by Afrodita at 23:06, 2005-09-15

QUE chula LINDA · Guru

Colombiana4Life wrote:

I hope ur not implying that kids are a burden. They are hard work but I would NEVER, EVER call it a burden.

I agree with you Colombiana. Kids are never to be called a burden. Having them is precious. They are gift from God. A blessing, little miracles.

Like you said hard work, but never a burden.

Girl · Guru

UFF ME encataria ser mama si ya tuviera mi carrera ya tuviera hijos...ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY..

y si tengo hijos quiero dos ahunque i'm the 3rd generation of twins in my fam so that means que yo puedo tener twins....:D:D:D: and i will love 2..... jajaja i even have the namde 4 my kids... lol

Danny416 · TOP Guru

Now a days I see alot of single moms out there with kids , personally i admire them how they hold it down on their own selves, they have the time to look after their kids, work and goto school much respect

Colombiana4Life · Foro Master

torontotrucho wrote:

I have no kids. It just never happened, I mean finding a woman and falling in love and all that staff. PErhaps some day, who knows. But honestly I can't handle the burden, if I was in love and everything then I would give it a try.

I hope ur not implying that kids are a burden. They are hard work but I would NEVER, EVER call it a burden.

Danny416 · TOP Guru

Chilenita wrote:

Okay so we know confu has a "lil man" that she loves dearly. How else has children? Who wants children? Who will never have children? Personally I am not too sure if I want them or not

same here, not to fond of kids or babies

torontotrucho · Guru

I have no kids. It just never happened, I mean finding a woman and falling in love and all that staff. PErhaps some day, who knows. But honestly I can't handle the burden, if I was in love and everything then I would give it a try.

Phantasma · TOP Guru

Im thinking if I did have any kids I would like to have a daughter. Im not so sure when I wanna have them babies, however I am a slow learner which is why I am dedicated to practising making them till the day comes that I decide that I no longer need any free time, sleep and/or a disposable income.

Colombiana4Life · Foro Master

I have 2 beautiful girls. One is 8 and the other one will be 2 soon. I love them with all my heart and soul. They come for me before anyone and anything.

Chale_Tanga · TOP Guru

confundida wrote:

PLS MAKE SURE THAT THE FOLLOWING PPL MUST AGREE READY?? GENIE LADYBUG BAINAMAN LATINSOUL CHILD CHALE HIS FATHER HIS AUNTS AND UNCLES HIS GRANDPARENTS THEN FINALLY ME!!!!! PLS BE ADIVSED THAT YOU MUST GO THREW THE FOLLOWING PPL IN ORDER TO GET THE MOST IMPORTANT BLESSING OF ALL MINE!!!

I would hope so!!

Considering the fact that I AM little mans girlfriend!!!!!

confundida · Foro Master

I THINK LITTLE MAN WAS THE BEST THING THAT HAS HAPPENED AND RIGHT NOW HIS 2.5 AND HE ASKED ME A BUNCHOF QUESTIONS AND I WOULDNT CHANGE THIS TIME FO RTHE WORLD.... AND TO MAKE IT EVEN MORE CUTER HE HAS A LISP!!!

AIGHT AS LONG AS NOBODY ON EL FORO HOOKS MY SON UP WITH AN ARRANGED MARRIAGE AND IF U PLAN TO PLS MAKE SURE THAT THE FOLLOWING PPL MUST AGREE READY??

GENIE

LADYBUG

BAINAMAN

LATINSOUL CHILD

CHALE

HIS FATHER

HIS AUNTS AND UNCLES

HIS GRANDPARENTS

THEN FINALLY ME!!!!!

PLS BE ADIVSED THAT YOU MUST GO THREW THE FOLLOWING PPL IN ORDER TO GET THE MOST IMPORTANT BLESSING OF ALL MINE!!!

QUE chula LINDA · Guru

I do not have any children. Will I have any, not sure. Playing with them is fun and cute, but having one is big responsibility…. and I am not ready for it any time soon.

Sweetness · Guru

I don't have any kids, but I do want to have some in the future. Once I'm married and have the funds to support all of us. I want two, a boy and a girl. I have their names planed out already.

Miel · Guru

Chilenita wrote:

Okay so we know confu has a "lil man" that she loves dearly. How else has children? Who wants children? Who will never have children? Personally I am not too sure if I want them or not

I do have but theiy r not mine (thanks God (the real one)),. My two monstritos,.. (little cousins boy and girl) ,. They r so funny,. pero aveces necesitan un par de ....,. Pero para eso tienen a la mama y al papa,...I also have 5 sobrinitos,. but becuase of the distance I don't spend time with them,. but I love them,..

Personally,. I don't think,.. i m gonna have kids,. unless I m financial and emotional stable ,. it s a big responsability,. but If I decide that i want to be mom,.. I only want to have one,...

chica wow · Guru

ZIPOTE wrote:

Gitana wrote: YEAH.... IT'S HARD.... BUT I DON'T MIND.... IT'S ALL WORTH IT!!!!! YEP I`M A DADDY TOO ..........2 NINAS PRECIOSAS QUE HAGO LO QUE SEA POR ELLAS .........LITTLE WOMAN LOOKING FOR A LITTLE MAN ................. ELLAS SON MI MUNDO Y LAS QUIERO CON TODITO MI CORAZON.............. ANY OTHER DADDYS HAND FULL OR NOT AT THE END OF THE DAY THEY MAKE EVERYTHING WORTH IT...........

I would have to agree with Zipote, at the end of the day it's all worth it.

Even though it may be hard but it feels good that someone thinks the world of you and looks up to you...I'm a mommy too.

ZIPOTE · TOP Guru

Gitana wrote:

YEAH.... IT'S HARD.... BUT I DON'T MIND.... IT'S ALL WORTH IT!!!!!

YEP I`M A DADDY TOO ..........2 NINAS PRECIOSAS QUE HAGO LO QUE SEA POR ELLAS .........LITTLE WOMAN LOOKING FOR A LITTLE MAN .................

ELLAS SON MI MUNDO Y LAS QUIERO CON TODITO MI CORAZON..............

ANY OTHER DADDYS

HAND FULL OR NOT AT THE END OF THE DAY THEY MAKE EVERYTHING WORTH IT...........

Gitana · Foro Master

YEAH.... IT'S HARD.... BUT I DON'T MIND.... IT'S ALL WORTH IT!!!!!

Chilenita · Comandante

Gitana wrote:

@ CHILENITA.... I HAVE A 3 YR OLD. DAUGHTER.... AND A 11 MONTH OLD SON..... I HAVE TO ADMIT.... IT IS A HANDFUL....BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY.... I'M HAPPY TO HAVE THEM IN MY LIFE!!

Holy smokes they are still tiny!!! Yeah that must be hard you must be crazy busy! Like I said I have a hard time with my perrito...

Gitana · Foro Master

@ CHILENITA....
I HAVE A 3 YR OLD. DAUGHTER.... AND A 11 MONTH OLD SON.....

I HAVE TO ADMIT.... IT IS A HANDFUL....BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY.... I'M HAPPY TO HAVE THEM IN MY LIFE!!

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

I want kids also.

I would like at least 4 or 6 if I'm really, really well off. Hey i know it sounds crazy but I love big families & since mine at this point is fairly small, I would love to increase it. Now six ONLY if it comes with a Nanny, cause I'm not up to be a stay -at- home mom.

Chilenita · Comandante

Gitana wrote:

I AM ALSO A MOMMY.....

how old? BOY OR GIRL???? Is it crazy hard???

estrellita0712 · Regular Plus

I LOVE KIDS!! SPECIALLY BABIES. I WANT TWO..MAX 3..THAT'S IT..

IF IT IS TWO..BOY AND A GIRL...

IF IT IS THREE..ONE GIRL AND TWO BOYS

BUT AT THE END OF ALL...I WANT THEM TO BE HEALTHY...ESO ES LO QUE IMPORTA..LA SALUD..

BESHOS Y ABACHOS...

MUUUUUUUUUUUUUUASKS!

ESTRELLITA0712

Gitana · Foro Master

I AM ALSO A MOMMY.....

God · TOP Guru

MARILYN MONROE wrote:

God wrote:
I don't want kids..... But I adopted 2 lil girls they are 22 and 25 yrs each....they are my daughters -- Edited by God at 16:35, 2005-09-15
LOL, yes daddy! thanks for always taking care of me. luv ya!

Luv ya too Mija ...muaaaa

MARILYN MONROE · Guru

God wrote:

I don't want kids..... But I adopted 2 lil girls they are 22 and 25 yrs each....they are my daughters -- Edited by God at 16:35, 2005-09-15

LOL, yes daddy! thanks for always taking care of me. luv ya!

Chilenita · Comandante

Afrodita wrote:

Chilenita wrote: Afro and GENIE...I sent you a pic via email....awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww @GOD...yeah I am like super duper crazy sellfish I'm hooking up your niece with my little nephew...Extremely good looking couple right there.

Yep Afro and I decided that they will have an "arranged marriage" they will be in the guiness book of world records for the couple with the BIGGEST cheeks awwww

Afrodita · Guru

Chilenita wrote:

Afro and GENIE...I sent you a pic via email....awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
@GOD...yeah I am like super duper crazy sellfish

I'm hooking up your niece with my little nephew...Extremely good looking couple right there.

angelita dulce · Foro Master

I have a son. He's my reason to live, the love of my life!!! He the most adorable beautiful boy. (Doesn't every mother say the same!) He's 2 1/2 and he's in the stage where he's now asking too many questions. For example... what are you doing? and why? He also says a lot of... Que paso? ..................He's so cute!!!

JOKER_ESCO · Foro Master

I want kids, in fact I want twins...... alguna voluntaria.....