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Afrodita wrote:

Dogo wrote: SH!T!!!! I just keep making this worst!!!!!  Sooooorry!! LOL....It's ok is not your fault. You are just stating your opinion. And I appreciate your comments


Well... good luck with that hon.


But in all seriousness, how considerate ones partner is towards oneself, is something to really "consider" if "long term" is something you're looking for (I mean in general... not your case specifically)


Sorry. It might not make you feel any better, but hard for me to hold my tongue



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SH!T!!!! I just keep making this worst!!!!!  Sooooorry!!


LOL....It's ok is not your fault. You are just stating your opinion.
And I appreciate your comments

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Dogo wrote: Ooops! sorry didn't mean to "stir that pot", but I think it's like this... The key element here is timing (which might not apply to you, you see?) she mentioned she's just dating this guy for a few months... If you're dating someone for a couple of years chances are you'll get them "gifts" not as often as you used to (which doesn't mean that you shouldn't), but the first few months or year, when you're still walking on clouds!!? and you don't feel the urge to make your partner happy with the little things!!?.... that's just a bit strange. I don't even do it to impress, I think it's just instinctive to want to make someone that you really like, happy LMAO... I am at the beginning of something...I think However, you are soo right Dogo, sooo right.


SH!T!!!! I just keep making this worst!!!!!  Sooooorry!!



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MARILYN MONROE wrote:

What's up with cheap guys. I'm Like a magnet that attracts those kind of cheap asses. Not no more...tired of that shiat. Mara and afro I say we start giving ourselves standards. It's time to start caring about ur selfs instead of inconsiderate, self centered guys. We're women that have needs!!..lol...I sound like a mad woman!! But anyhow, remember that some guys just arn't romantic or thoughful. My ex hated valentines day. I never got anything for that day...and it was 4 damm long yrs. I'm lying I think that our last valentine I forced him to get me a card...ahh that was sweet. Lol...and the yr before we were watching the micheal jackson documentary. Lol Mara: I'm sure ur man , show's his love differently...if not...... Why would u want to be with a man que ingnores you? Or que no te tenga en cuenta?


Yeah, but don't confuse people that are self centered with people that might not be able to afford much...... sometimes you get the best gifts from them.


I actually appreciate the smallest or most thoughtful things a lot more than valuable items (not that they are not thoughtful) for example I appreciate cards more than anything you could give me. I don't like gift for b-days etc.


For example... had an ex that was in between jobs, she was crushed she coudn't get me anything for... I forget what occasion, so i assured her it didn't matter, and as we were talking she wrote me the sweetest note on how she felt about that and about me, on nothing but a paper napkin... by far the best gift I ever received!



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Dogo wrote:

Ooops! sorry didn't mean to "stir that pot", but I think it's like this...
The key element here is timing (which might not apply to you, you see?) she mentioned she's just dating this guy for a few months... If you're dating someone for a couple of years chances are you'll get them "gifts" not as often as you used to (which doesn't mean that you shouldn't), but the first few months or year, when you're still walking on clouds!!? and you don't feel the urge to make your partner happy with the little things!!?.... that's just a bit strange. I don't even do it to impress, I think it's just instinctive to want to make someone that you really like, happy


LMAO...
I am at the beginning of something...I think
However, you are soo right Dogo, sooo right.

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What's up with cheap guys. I'm Like a magnet that attracts those kind of cheap asses.

Not no more...tired of that shiat. Mara and afro I say we start giving ourselves standards.
It's time to start caring about ur selfs instead of inconsiderate, self centered guys. We're women that have needs!!..lol...I sound like a mad woman!!

But anyhow, remember that some guys just arn't romantic or thoughful.

My ex hated valentines day. I never got anything for that day...and it was 4 damm long yrs. I'm lying I think that our last valentine I forced him to get me a card...ahh that was sweet. Lol...and the yr before we were watching the micheal jackson documentary. Lol

Mara: I'm sure ur man , show's his love differently...if not......

Why would u want to be with a man que ingnores you? Or que no te tenga en cuenta?



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Afrodita wrote:

Dogo wrote: Didn't expect that coming from me, right? is that it? Well...to be honest, from what i've read on othere posts you seem to know how to treat women, so i wasn't surprised at all when i read what you wrote here. I said you put me to wonder cuz I'm almost in the same situation as she is, but had never paid too much attention to it.


Ooops! sorry didn't mean to "stir that pot", but I think it's like this...


The key element here is timing (which might not apply to you, you see?) she mentioned she's just dating this guy for a few months... If you're dating someone for a couple of years chances are you'll get them "gifts" not as often as you used to (which doesn't mean that you shouldn't), but the first few months or year, when you're still walking on clouds!!? and you don't feel the urge to make your partner happy with the little things!!?.... that's just a bit strange. I don't even do it to impress, I think it's just instinctive to want to make someone that you really like, happy



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Didn't expect that coming from me, right? is that it?


Well...to be honest, from what i've read on othere posts you seem to know how to treat women, so i wasn't surprised at all when i read what you wrote here.

I said you put me to wonder cuz I'm almost in the same situation as she is, but had never paid too much attention to it.

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Dogo wrote: Afrodita wrote: @Dogo...you really put me to wonder... what do mean!? what you do mean!?? (i hope it was a good thing)  LMAO....Is not a bad thing...trust me. At least not bad for you.


Didn't expect that coming from me, right? is that it?



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Afrodita wrote:
@Dogo...you really put me to wonder...

what do mean!? what you do mean!?? (i hope it was a good thing) 


LMAO....Is not a bad thing...trust me.
At least not bad for you.

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@Dogo...you really put me to wonder...


what do mean!? what you do mean!?? (i hope it was a good thing) 



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@Dogo...you really put me to wonder...
You are right, if you are really interested in somebody you just want to make them feel wanted and give them surprises that you know would make them happy and you don't care how much you are spending cuz seeing that person smile or knowing that you made their day is soo much worth it.
It doesn't need to be anything big though, sometimes for us girls one flower would do it.

@Mara
I don't know about dumping him just for that, but, you have your right to be wondering what's up with him. Maybe he's just cheap and Simplote.

-- Edited by Afrodita at 14:06, 2005-08-28

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mara wrote:

I'VE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR A WHILE HE TREATS ME OK I WOULD SAY BUT HE HAS NEVER A HAD A DETAIL WITH ME. NO FLOWERS, NO DINNERS, NO LITTLE GIFT. I MEAN I DON'T EXPECT A BIG GIFT, JUST A LITTLE DETAIL AND IT SEEMS LIKE HE’S NEVER GOING TO DO ANYTHING LIKE THAT. IT’S NOT LIKE HE’S BROKE OR ANYTHING HE HAS AN OK JOB AND SOME MONEY TO SPARE. WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK, IS HE A CHEAP ASS? OR MAYBE HE THINKS I’M NOT WORTH SPENDING MONEY ON?


Not to be harsh or anything but......... DROP 'M!... (OK, so maybe it was harsh, lol!!)


You see, us guys, if we're really interested, that's the first thing we do... dinners, flowers, little gifts, etc.....   We spend the money we don't have on you, we run up our cards, etc, we don't care... If we like you enough we want to make you happy and make you like us....... and if we don't like you enough... then we do all of the above (above of the above)


We're suckers like that. lol!



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I'VE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR A WHILE HE TREATS ME OK I WOULD SAY BUT HE HAS NEVER A HAD A DETAIL WITH ME. NO FLOWERS, NO DINNERS, NO LITTLE GIFT. I MEAN I DON'T EXPECT A BIG GIFT, JUST A LITTLE DETAIL AND IT SEEMS LIKE HE’S NEVER GOING TO DO ANYTHING LIKE THAT. IT’S NOT LIKE HE’S BROKE OR ANYTHING HE HAS AN OK JOB AND SOME MONEY TO SPARE.
WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK, IS HE A CHEAP ASS? OR MAYBE HE THINKS I’M NOT WORTH SPENDING MONEY ON?

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