God wrote:

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Just Wondering .....Having Oral Sex (outside of your relationship) is considered cheating ?-- Edited by God at 11:57, 2005-08-24

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If you're in a relationship and your tongue is on someone else's pu***, that is not your girl..

than hell yeah......

or would you like your girl performing oral sex on some other guy???

-- Edited by Shy_Latina at 12:08, 2005-08-24

Alex Bello wrote:

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chica wow wrote: What do you think about cheating on your partner or been cheated on? I personally think that if you don't get the attention that you need from your current partner, we tend to look for the much needed attention somewhere else and this is why people cheat.     I promise never to cheat again. Y he cumplido mi palabra hasta ahora.       AB......

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THAT IS.... UNTIL OUR DATE!!!!

Lahtina wrote:

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¿Una polla? That sounds kinda "dirty", hehehe. Back home they're called "acordeones". The very first time I heard the word I was all confused mistaking it for the instrument and wondering how the hell that would help me (hehe, whatta nerd). They get that name because you fold them up like an accordion for added discretion. In school I cheated when I was younger. When I got older, the teacher's words made sense: "The only person you are fooling is yourself."

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yeahhhh... that's why I had to clarify what it was... lol... cause other people may see it as something else... I remember girls with notes writen on their legs, then they would lift the skirts to take a peek... I would peek too, but was not looking to see la cheatting polla... was looking for the OTHER one... LMAO

God wrote:

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Just Wondering .....Having Oral Sex (outside of your relationship) is considered cheating ?-- Edited by God at 11:57, 2005-08-24

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Duuuh! You think?

I used to charge the other people to do their test... usually a buck an answer for finals or 5 bucks flat fee if it was just a regular exam... man I loved school!

Daeveed wrote:

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Miel wrote:
   @Daveed ,..U have never cheated before??,. so r u cheating now???
I've never cheated before, I'm not cheating now, and I don't plan to in the future or in another dimension.

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Dont speak to soon, for all you know in the other dimention the rules of social conduct might be as such that cheating is socially acceptable and expected thus you feel compelled to do it so as to not offend your mate.

mmmmmmmmmmmm and FITO ROXXXX!!!!

LGigolo wrote:

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I’ve cheated on my school tests back home… lol… over here not really… back home everyone saca “una polla” (cheating notes, to clarify to the perverted minds) during los tiempos de examenes… It’s so common down there, but not quite so common over here

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that's another topic.....

chica wow wrote:

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What do you think about cheating on your partner or been cheated on? I personally think that if you don't get the attention that you need from your current partner, we tend to look for the much needed attention somewhere else and this is why people cheat.  

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For sure... if you're not getting what you want/need from a current relationship, then youre bound to look elsewhere, or be a more willing participant if someone else comes along. 

Does it make it right if youre not getting what you want? No, I dont think so.  If youre not happy, then end it.  If you dont want to end it, take a break from the relationship for a little while.  

Estoy totalmente de acuerdo contigo, Miel.

I cheat, is greaaaaat, but i only cheat if i dont care about the person.

Daeveed wrote:

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Lahtina wrote: Maybe it's just harder for men to say no to what "the flesh" wants. They know nothing about self-control, hehehe.     Again...please...DO NOT generalize. I'll re-post what you wrote. "Maybe it's just harder for some men to say no to what "the flesh" wants. Some of them know nothing about self-control, hehehe."

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ok I'm gonna agree with this one...

Maybe it's just harder for some men to say no to what "the flesh" wants. Some of them know nothing about self-control, hehehe."

Lahtina wrote:

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Qué te hicieron las generalizaciones, Daeveed, que no las tragas ni en broma. Geez! Hasta pareces gringo!

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lol.... thats too funny cause there is another generalizacion within the disclaimer...

Daeveed wrote:

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Lahtina wrote: Maybe it's just harder for men to say no to what "the flesh" wants. They know nothing about self-control, hehehe.     Again...please...DO NOT generalize. I'll re-post what you wrote. "Maybe it's just harder for some men to say no to what "the flesh" wants. Some of them know nothing about self-control, hehehe."

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Qué te hicieron las generalizaciones, Daeveed, que no las tragas ni en broma. Geez! Hasta pareces gringo!

Lahtina wrote:

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Maybe it's just harder for men to say no to what "the flesh" wants. They know nothing about self-control, hehehe.  

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Al cuerpo lo que Pida!

Shy_Latina wrote:

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Daeveed wrote:
Shy_Latina wrote:  It is wrong...   for both girls and men to do it. I think it is mostly done by men.... only they would  know if they are part of the generalization or not.   I think you've just had bad experiences.

actually no I hadn't .... who knows.. may be I have been cheated on but I never found out...
and again just to clarify.. I don't think ALL men are cheaters.... just most...

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Once again, just to clarify as well , both of the following statements:

I think ALL men are cheaters.

I think MOST men are cheaters.

are stereotypical.

Your Local Clarica Advisor!

Shy_Latina wrote:

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 It is wrong...   for both girls and men to do it. I think it is mostly done by men.... only they would  know if they are part of the generalization or not.

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I think you've just had bad experiences.

chica wow wrote:

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 I think shy latina meant to say "some" but not all man....if you guys are getting offended than you probably fall under the "most" category.

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I wasnt offended. Its not like she knows me or what I do. I was just providing information.

Like the statements that Daeveed posted as examples, anytime we make a blanket generalization about a particular group of people based on the actions of a few individuals we are being stereotypical by definition. Now, the fact that she doesnt THINK she is, does not matter. its like just cause Michael Jackson doesnt think he's black dont make him white. zeen?

good. Im glad I could help...

P.S. I dont think Im being condecending and/or sarcastic and I am sorry If I you think I am and I offended you too k?

 I think shy latina meant to say "some" but not all man....if you guys are getting offended than you probably fall under the "most" category.

Colombiana4Life wrote:

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R u talking about the Clarica commercial?

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I think so... u know the ones where the agent explains stuff to the people in simple easy to follow terms.

Phantasma wrote:

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Shy_Latina wrote: Daeveed wrote: Shy_Latina wrote:  I didn't say "all", I said "most".  that's not streotyping...   "Most blacks are drug dealers" "Most muslims are terrorists" "Most gays have AIDS" "Most Americans are stupid"   -- Edited by Daeveed at 14:28, 2005-08-23 what's this???? are you trying to tell me something???? you're entitle to your opinion.... I think the point he is trying to mate is that, even thought u dont think your comment is stereotypical. In actuallity and by DEFINITION it was.... wow, Im such a facilitator.... I should be in one of them insurance commercials I make things so clear

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R u talking about the Clarica commercial?

Daeveed wrote:

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Shy_Latina wrote:  I didn't say "all", I said "most".  that's not streotyping...   "Most blacks are drug dealers" "Most muslims are terrorists" "Most gays have AIDS" "Most Americans are stupid"   -- Edited by Daeveed at 14:28, 2005-08-23

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what's this????

are you trying to tell me something????

you're entitle to your opinion....

Shy_Latina wrote:

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 I didn't say "all", I said "most".  that's not streotyping...

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"Most blacks are drug dealers"

"Most muslims are terrorists"

"Most gays have AIDS"

"Most Americans are stupid" 

 

-- Edited by Daeveed at 14:28, 2005-08-23

Phantasma wrote:

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Nat Flores wrote: Phantasma wrote: Shy_Latina wrote: Daeveed wrote: Shy_Latina wrote:  I guess all men have cheated at least once in their life.... wrong. I haven't. you're saying you've never cheated in anyway...???? .... if that is true... then good for you and the girls that dated you.  but you can't deny that men are usually the ones that cheat on their partner.... more then girls cheat on their men. Thast so not true.... Women cheat all kinds of times, they just better at it and dont get caught, it comes with being the smarter sex.. pero de que si, si! woOw, i know u wanna talk bout it... come on, let it out, LET IT out/ jajajahh/ Ok fine...... I didnt wanna have to do this Nat, pero back when we were engaged, Nat cheated on me with a certain Toronto merengue musician whose name I shall not mention..... my therapist says I'll be ok... but some days its just; hard u know? can I have a hug foro ladies? what about a little second base action?

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i'll deny it all as always. i didn't do it.
i think someone heard me saying this b4 "yo NO te engañe, fue mi cuerpo quien nos traiciono a los 2" or how about this one " yo Te soy fiel con el corazon pero no con el cuerpo"

as for the therapist, guess who had 2pay for it?! yeahh me! 4something i didn't do.
or at least not yet. jijiji

Cheating is wrong.
i have never cheated, and don't plan on cheating.

I disagree with the comment someone made saying that everyone cheats sometime...that is absolutely not true.