I think both women and males can be loyal to their friends. It depends on the individual. Men can have friends for years and keep them because they don't fight over every little stupid thing like women do & they don't take everything personal. Women are so complicated...... lol
I agree with you on this,.friendship is based on respect and loyalty,. if either male or female friend betrayed you in any way, he/she has never been your friend and will never be,. his/her personality is just like that and noone need someone like that in their lives.
Y sobre el ejemplo que planteo LadyBug,.yo creo que la mujer que mintio no sabia como hacerlo, y si no sabes mentir o planear lo que vas a decir , mejor no lo digas. Y en el caso del hombre,. a lo mejor todos lo s amigos sabian lo que estba haciendo, eso quiere decir y estoy mas que segura, que los hombres se cuentan mas sobre sus cosas(sinverguencerias) mas que las mujeres,
I think both women and males can be loyal to their friends. It depends on the individual.
Men can have friends for years and keep them because they don't fight over every little stupid thing like women do & they don't take everything personal.
Well many of you know me on a friendship level and know that i am very loyal if ur man calls me at three in the morning asking if u with me ill say yes shes in the washroom ill tell her to call u back plain and simple! I dont rat on my girls i find it very bad do i expect you to do the same nope! cuz i choose my men and my lies carefuly!! I like most females have way too many male friends and my good good female friends can be counted!
Yes i do think guys are more loyal then females trust me i have been facked up by way too many females over a d i c k and it still happens to this day, why dont know but it does happen!
LaDyBuG wrote: Does this mean that women are smarter than men AND more discreet OR does this mean that men are more loyal to each other than women are? Que opinan...... I've always admired male-bonding and, since I've mostly worked in a male-dominated field, had to deal a lot with guys. Now I'm working with mostly women and it's unbelievable how mean and disloyal we can be to each other. It's always bothered me. I really don't know what it is, but I do think that men are more loyal to each other, and we women are more petty and backstabing, and I wish there was a way for us to change that. On the other hand, we're better communicators, but sometimes we're just too "detailed" in our communication, and since we're always reading between the lines, that's where conflict starts. We need to start learning how to let by-gones be by-gones, and not be so picky with everything. Sorry, what was the question again? I got lost somewhere in there...
I sooo agree with u on this...it seems that my friendship with my girlfriends (well the close "best" ones anyway) takes so much effort on a day to day basis just to stay peaceful and at the end of it all i'm not so sure i'll get the return of all that effort when i really need it. Looking at relationships between men however it seems that there is a whole lot less convincing each other that they ARE there for them and a whole lot more ACTUALLY being there...ugh can u tell i'v been having friendship frustrations lately
what always amazed me about about my female friends is how sometimes they would be "not talking" with someone else or how such and such person would be "cut off"
I AM SORRY BUT WE ARE MORE LOYAL THEN U LADYS, THERE ARE THINGS THAT WE NEVER SAY NO MATTER WHAT, WHEN U HAVE TRUE FRIENDS TRUE HOMEBOYS DON'T SAY SH** NO MATTER WHAT HASTA PRESO SE PUEDE IR UNO Y NO DISE NADA Y LO DIGO CAUSE IT HAD HAPPEND 2 ME I WILL NOT GO IN DETAILS PERO ES LA VERDA....
YEAH HAY UNOS QUE THEY BACKSTUB 4 A GIRL BUT THOSE FOOLS WERE NEVER YOUR FRIENDS YOUR TRUE HOMEBOYS DON'T SAY SH**..
I do think that girls can tend to be a little bit more coniving and backstabbing than guys. Believe me, i know because it's happened many times, that's why i always had more guy friends than girls. The girls that i actually consider "good friends" i can count them with one hand. Guys do seem to have a better bond, but i have seen my share of guys that will backstab other guys to get with their girl. So i think there it evens out.
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Does this mean that women are smarter than men AND more discreet OR does this mean that men are more loyal to each other than women are? Que opinan......
I've always admired male-bonding and, since I've mostly worked in a male-dominated field, had to deal a lot with guys. Now I'm working with mostly women and it's unbelievable how mean and disloyal we can be to each other. It's always bothered me. I really don't know what it is, but I do think that men are more loyal to each other, and we women are more petty and backstabing, and I wish there was a way for us to change that. On the other hand, we're better communicators, but sometimes we're just too "detailed" in our communication, and since we're always reading between the lines, that's where conflict starts. We need to start learning how to let by-gones be by-gones, and not be so picky with everything. Sorry, what was the question again? I got lost somewhere in there...
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Friendship Among Women:A woman doesn't come home one night.The next day she tells her husband she slept over at a friend's house.The man calls his wife's 10 best friends.None of them know about it.Friendship Among Men:<>A man doesn't come home one night.The next day he tells his wife he slept over at a friend's house.The woman calls her husband's 10 best friends.8 of them say he did sleep over, and 2 claim he's still there. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Does this mean that women are smarter than men AND more discreet OR does this mean that men are more loyal to each other than women are? Que opinan......
I realize I'm setting myself up, but here it goes anyways
I do think men are more loyal friends, It's almost a brotherhood with many unwriten rules, we know what we have to do get each others back, I don't mean so much in cases as the one above, but in general... a couple of examples
we'll talk to "la fea" if you're trying to pick up "la linda", just to help you out
since you ended up picking up "la linda", we'll lend you our car so you can drop her of at home, while we sleep on the park bench
we don't fight and make up, twice a week
we don't tell each other "sorry buddie,your butt looks kind of big in those jeans" but you're really trying to say "see? I'm skinier than you, you fat B"
The list goes on, but definitely, I think men are more loyal friends than the ladies... which doesn't mean women aren't smarter (going back to the original question)....... let the bashing beggin!
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A woman doesn't come home one night. The next day she tells her husband she slept over at a friend's house. The man calls his wife's 10 best friends. None of them know about it.
Friendship Among Men: <> A man doesn't come home one night. The next day he tells his wife he slept over at a friend's house. The woman calls her husband's 10 best friends. 8 of them say he did sleep over, and 2 claim he's still there.
