quote: Originally posted by: God " It is a written agreement entered into between spouses after they say "I do." Like the prenup, the primary purpose of a postnuptial agreement is to stipulate ownership and division of financial assets in the event a couple divorces. A couple might seek a postnup for several reasons: * They didn't define their financial relationship in a prenup. * They want to amend their prenup. * One party's financial circumstances have changed, perhaps through inheritance, promotion, stock options or sale of a business. * Financial insecurity is undermining the marriage. * They want to provide for dependents from prior marriages. * They want to specify the division of their assets rather than leave it up to the divorce laws of their state. "
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... Gotcha. Pre = before the marriage Post = after the marriage. kinda like a will almost
quote: Originally posted by: PRINCESSA "@ God.....What's a PostNup???"
It is a written agreement entered into between spouses after they say "I do." Like the prenup, the primary purpose of a postnuptial agreement is to stipulate ownership and division of financial assets in the event a couple divorces.
A couple might seek a postnup for several reasons:
* They didn't define their financial relationship in a prenup.
* They want to amend their prenup.
* One party's financial circumstances have changed, perhaps through inheritance, promotion, stock options or sale of a business.
* Financial insecurity is undermining the marriage.
* They want to provide for dependents from prior marriages.
* They want to specify the division of their assets rather than leave it up to the divorce laws of their state.
quote: Originally posted by: Chale_Tanga "when both are mature enough to know that this is what they both want. And also when both are willing to give up 'single' life in order to be a real married couple.Really has no age, just whenever both are ready to settle down and commit."
when both are mature enough to know that this is what they both want. And also when both are willing to give up 'single' life in order to be a real married couple. Really has no age, just whenever both are ready to settle down and commit.
para mí, la edad ideal para casarse son los 30, me parece que ya se ha disfrutado la vida lo necesario, ya has tenido diferentes experiencias amorosas y además ya deberías tener una estabilidad económica, no?.
i would ask someone to sign a prenup and i'd be prepared to sign one if someone asked me to.. when you start seeing divorces happen around you, you start to realize how worth it this is!!
quote: Originally posted by: God "Marriage....Personally I don't think I was made for being married...I'm not talking about the cheating part I have no problem with that I can be faithful to a person ....But to promess Love,Care and I don't know how many things more to a Person FOREVER ! People changes and at this point of my life I'm not able declarate everlasting love,care and all that things to any person...... I know is very selfish but I rather stay like this than dissapoint somebody else....... "
That was a very good and contientious analysis at least you are being straight forward as to the way you are and feel at this moment. Respect to that and a .
According to the science of anthropology, the ideal age to get married would be 35 for men and 25 for women... of course as people we can do whatever the hell we want and make up our own reasons for everything (rightly so!)
Al igual que todos ,.. yo creo que no hay una edad especifica para casarse,.. todo depende de la madurez en tomar ese paso y en amar, respetar y tolerar a esa persona por siempre si es posible,.. porque nunca uno termina de conocer a la persona elegida,..
I agree with all the postings on how you have to picture yourself with that person forever and love them and want to be with them.. But I think these days a large factor which determines when you get married is money... Both of the partners need to have a job and be financially stable.. You not only want to have money for the wedding but more importantly money to find a place to live, and support one another and if one day you decide to have a chid money to rasie your child.. If it werent for the money I would marry my boyfriend tomorrow.. We know we love eachother and want to be together we just need to wait to be financially stable..
Ya - igual que todos, tampoco pieso que hay una edad ideal para casarse - todo depende de cada persona - de su madurez, de su amor a su pareja, de sentirse listo y preparado para tomar ese paso a la vida de matrimonio. Muchas veces pensamos y nos concentramos demaciado en EL DIA de la boda, del vestido, los invitados, la fiesta y la luna de miel - cuando en realidad, mas bien debemos pensar en EL DESPUES - de como vamos a llevar la vida de matrimonio y las expectaciones y obligaciones hacia nuestra pareja - lo cual es mucho mas importante y mucho mas largo que el DIA de la boda... I think one needs to feel it in one's heart that one is in love, that one is ready and prepared for marriage - ready to settle down and live to enhance each other lives y estar juntos en las buenas y en las malas. I think many marriages don't make it "till death do up part" cause too many of us may go into it without really being ready for it.
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Yeah! I agree there is no age to marry ... If you know it's right, you feel it's right, and you can forsee yourself with this one person and see each other getting older together then yeap go for it ... But hey if one lives with someone for 6 months you are already common law??? Is that true??? Bueno in my case for now estoy vacunada contra el matrimonio, I'm in no rush but hay dios mio la familia si esta jajajaja ... They say that even when you marry you don't get to know the person completely but I think that is the magic of the situation .... You guys should watch la pelicula on satellite: 7 mujeres y un homosexual ... Supuestamente para cada hombre hay 7 mujeres y possiblemente un homosexual it's a good movie
quote: Originally posted by: God "Marriage....Personally I don't think I was made for being married...I'm not talking about the cheating part I have no problem with that I can be faithful to a person ....But to promess Love,Care and I don't know how many things more to a Person FOREVER ! People changes and at this point of my life I'm not able declarate everlasting love,care and all that things to any person...... I know is very selfish but I rather stay like this than dissapoint somebody else....... "
Better to be true, then to decieve and hurt. There is nothing wrong with what you think. To each his own.
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Marriage....Personally I don't think I was made for being married...I'm not talking about the cheating part I have no problem with that I can be faithful to a person ....But to promess Love,Care and I don't know how many things more to a Person FOREVER !
People changes and at this point of my life I'm not able declarate everlasting love,care and all that things to any person...... I know is very selfish but I rather stay like this than dissapoint somebody else.......
Well let me share with you guys my opinion. Deciding when to get married is a mutual thing.
I'm 25 now, but married when i was 24. I wasn't sure i wanted to take that step, i didn't know if i was ready with the new responsibilities or commitments it brought. I'm not refering to the fact that you have to now be loyal and faithful to one person, i never had a problem with that. But the fact that now everything is 50-50 in EVERYTHING. And lots of compromising.
In the end i let myself be excited and mystified at the fact that I was going to be a bride, and a wife. It's very beautiful to be married to the one you love. My husband was my first love, and we dated for 6 years. It's always a good idea to really get to know the person, you avoid what mey be unpleasant surprises later.
Of course after he surprisingly proposed, we both decided it was right since we were done school, worked and just wanted to settle down. We are now enjoying our time as a couple. We are in no rush to have kids, we want to have a very long 'honeymoon'.
In the end of it all, if you can imagine that significat other, sleeping by your side, waking up everyday with you, farting, snoring, and all the other goodies, and you come to the conclusion that you would love it, then you are ready.
That's my two cents. Gracias.
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You are so right, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a couple of years now, and everytime I go to his house or his family comes from Honduras, they always ask the same question, so cuando se casan, he and I just look at each other and say soon, very soon LOL.
the right age is when your Girlfreind starts asking you and their family "CUANDO SE CASAN" "PA CUANDO ES LA BODA" "TANTO TIEMPO JUNTOS CUANDO ES LA BODA" and then your gurls gets in your case..............................lmao
isn't this the case guys?
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I agree with everyone here, but do we ever get ready for marriage??? or Kids?? I don't think so, we just marries at a certain age becasue we loved the other person or becasue that is what everyone else does right?
quote: Originally posted by: DR J " it's not free....you gotta spend lots of cash for people to give you gifts....at the end, it evens out"
I Totally agree with you.....Nothing is free. At the end of ur wedding u end up spending more than what u get or like u said u just even out........unless of course you have a chessy, cheap wedding, then u might make money.
Marriage is not to do with age, it's better & should be when ur ready or have found a special person.
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... Supuestamente para cada hombre hay 7 mujeres y possiblemente un homosexual it's a good movie 
