Weather I can or not have my own babies, I will be Extreamly open to the possibility of Adoption. I think that if I personally had extra spare money & I already have my own kids I would most likely look into adopting one.
I think that's it's the most kindest thing any person can do & if we have a remote chance to do so, then we should.
I strongly believe it's a very rewarding & fullfiling feeling to give a kid a home & a family.
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " When I was a child, one of my best friend’s aunt found out she could not have kids…. then I did not see the importance of it...Once upon a time I met someone who was infertile too... now I realize how sad it is to find that out....adoption??? Is this a solution to such a problem?? Is this more difficult for a man or woman?me imagino es igual....would you adopt a child if you were to be an infertile person? Have you met anyone in this situation? -- Edited by Confesiones at 12:34, 2005-04-05"
My boss just adopted a little girl and I thought that was an amazing thing to do. She and hubby already have a son, but it would be dangerous for her to have anymore kids. She's a very loving, sweet woman and they will provide that little girl (who comes from a very bad situation) with the best foundation. I thought that was a grand gesture. Me? I could say yes, I would adopt, but again, that's a HUUUUUGE responsibility... so I'm not sure...
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " When I was a child, one of my best friend’s aunt found out she could not have kids…. then I did not see the importance of it...Once upon a time I met someone who was infertile too... now I realize how sad it is to find that out....adoption??? Is this a solution to such a problem?? Is this more difficult for a man or woman?me imagino es igual....would you adopt a child if you were to be an infertile person? Have you met anyone in this situation? -- Edited by Confesiones at 12:34, 2005-04-05"
Adoption is such a difficult topic! Especially for a woman!
I think that every woman dreams of carrying a baby for 9 months, but I agree that there are sooo many kids without shelter, food, or families and they need us! and yes I would adopt a baby and agree with this idea 100%.
quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " When I was a child, one of my best friend’s aunt found out she could not have kids…. then I did not see the importance of it...Once upon a time I met someone who was infertile too... now I realize how sad it is to find that out....adoption??? Is this a solution to such a problem?? Is this more difficult for a man or woman?me imagino es igual....would you adopt a child if you were to be an infertile person? Have you met anyone in this situation? -- Edited by Confesiones at 12:34, 2005-04-05"
Adoption 100%, there are sooo many kids who need a shelter and home (families)
quote: Originally posted by: DulceGalletita "A sperm donor well I think that is fine also ... 'cause there is no action ... but I meant sex with another man you may have agreed that there is no feelings just sex with the purpose of conceiving ..."
mmmm I dont think I can handle that .....Sperm donor No problem.
A sperm donor well I think that is fine also ... 'cause there is no action ... but I meant sex with another man you may have agreed that there is no feelings just sex with the purpose of conceiving ...
quote: Originally posted by: DulceGalletita "Well, I think if the man/woman want kids then yeah it's sad ... and yes I say adopt ... I would adopt ... Now, I throw a question to you all ... For the guys: If you were sterile, would you allow you wife to get pregnant from someone else just so your dream of having a child comes true. Or vice versa, if you wife was sterile would you be willing to sleep with another woman who has agreed to get pregnant and give you the child?? "
You need to be more specific ..... that thing of Getting Pregnant witn somebody else turns my stomach in a knot....Imagine the idea of knowing your wife having sex with another guy !
But if you mean an sperm donor...Yes....no problem with that.
Well, I think if the man/woman want kids then yeah it's sad ... and yes I say adopt ... I would adopt ... Now, I throw a question to you all ...
For the guys: If you were sterile, would you allow you wife to get pregnant from someone else just so your dream of having a child comes true. Or vice versa, if you wife was sterile would you be willing to sleep with another woman who has agreed to get pregnant and give you the child??
For the girls: Same thing. If you were sterile would you be ok with your husband sleep with another woman who is willing to have a baby for you two. Or vice versa, your hubby is sterile will you be willing to sleep with another man just to have that baby?
*** In my case, even though I would love to have a baby in both cases I would simply adopt ... ***
quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " When I was a child, one of my best friend’s aunt found out she could not have kids…. then I did not see the importance of it...Once upon a time I met someone who was infertile too... now I realize how sad it is to find that out....adoption??? Is this a solution to such a problem?? Is this more difficult for a man or woman?me imagino es igual....would you adopt a child if you were to be an infertile person? Have you met anyone in this situation? -- Edited by Confesiones at 12:34, 2005-04-05"
YES to adoption. If you can't have your own, you may even appreciate them more than those who can/are parents and take it forgranted!
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " When I was a child, one of my best friend’s aunt found out she could not have kids…. then I did not see the importance of it...Once upon a time I met someone who was infertile too... now I realize how sad it is to find that out....adoption??? Is this a solution to such a problem?? Is this more difficult for a man or woman?me imagino es igual....would you adopt a child if you were to be an infertile person? Have you met anyone in this situation? -- Edited by Confesiones at 12:34, 2005-04-05"
Adoption is a definate option. If unfortunately, you are not able to have your own children, then why not bless a child and adopt them into your own family. There are so many orphaned children in this world, that it would be amazing if they could find people to love and care for them.
quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous " I am Adopted and I strongely beleive in it , I understand that it's wonderful to have your own kids , but for those people who can't have any God have giving them a special gift to have it there to take care of those children the sometime are left behind . I am very greatful people like my parent who know the a parents are not the one who genetic makes but the one who shapes you into your path in life ."
I agree and I am sure your parents are wonderful people.
If I ever got the urge to have children and I couldn't or my mate couldn't I would adopt a child for sure.
There are people out there that are able to have children but are terrible parents. I think as long as you can provide a decent home and values then you should have kids wether it means naturally or by adoption.
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quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous " I am Adopted and I strongely beleive in it , I understand that it's wonderful to have your own kids , but for those people who can't have any God have giving them a special gift to have it there to take care of those children the sometime are left behind . I am very greatful people like my parent who know the a parents are not the one who genetic makes but the one who shapes you into your path in life ."
I am Adopted and I strongely beleive in it , I understand that it's wonderful to have your own kids , but for those people who can't have any God have giving them a special gift to have it there to take care of those children the sometime are left behind . I am very greatful people like my parent who know the a parents are not the one who genetic makes but the one who shapes you into your path in life .
quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " When I was a child, one of my best friend’s aunt found out she could not have kids…. then I did not see the importance of it...Once upon a time I met someone who was unfertile too... now I realize how sad it is to find that out....adoption??? Is this a solution to such a problem?? Is this more difficult for a man or woman?me imagino es igual....would you adopt a child if you were to be an unfertile person? Have you met anyone in this situation?"
Ok heres my thing on all your questions
Adoption yes it believe it is a solution, The only sad thing about this is that most ppl who are infertile and do adopt tend to take BABIES not older children (apperentluy they have issues)
I believe coming from a MY BACKGROUND it would be hard on me most latinas are raised to be good moms and housewives (yes i know new century bla bla bla but still this is true i see it) so i think it would be harder on women who are not fertile my tia had her kids and tied her tubes then she remarried and well the Doctor did a horrible job so she was unable to have kids with her new hubby and well as u can imagine he wants a baby never had children and she cant give him that so its hard on women!! and they tried it all invitro and all now they want to adopt but it aint easy.
I would adopt for sure a baby and an older child!!
quote: Originally posted by: DR J "I'd adopt a kid too, or marry a single mom now....would mary someone if you knew they were infertile?-- Edited by DR J at 12:16, 2005-04-05"
good quest "dr j".... hmmm tough call though... can't answer that dude.
quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " When I was a child, one of my best friend’s aunt found out she could not have kids…. then I did not see the importance of it...Once upon a time I met someone who was unfertile too... now I realize how sad it is to find that out....adoption??? Is this a solution to such a problem?? Is this more difficult for a man or woman?me imagino es igual....would you adopt a child if you were to be an unfertile person?
Have you met anyone in this situation? "
Yes I would adopt a kid when I would find the right mate......
When I was a child, one of my best friend’s aunt found out she could not have kids…. then I did not see the importance of it... Once upon a time I met someone who was infertile too... now I realize how sad it is to find that out.... adoption??? Is this a solution to such a problem?? Is this more difficult for a man or woman? me imagino es igual.... would you adopt a child if you were to be an infertile person?
would you adopt a child if you were to be an infertile person? Have you met anyone in this situation?
-- Edited by Confesiones at 12:34, 2005-04-05"
