quote: Originally posted by: QUE chula LINDA " You know this is true, women do not brag about multiple partners. I think cus there is no pride in sleeping with onother man, just a satisfaction . BUt when truth comes out girls are sluts. But when guys do the same thing, they are players. Kinda doesn;t seem fare. "
Youre right, its not fair.. its the whole double standard issue. As females, we're judged differently on this issue than a man would be judged. kinda silly and old fashioned if you think about it though
quote: Originally posted by: God "Women actually do this quite often; they just don't get caught for it as often as men do because they don't brag about it. They also don't have a need to tell their partners because while men make an emotional investment in their woman, women reserve their emotional investment for their children. If you study the statistics, you will notice that while men frequently commit suicide when their long-term relationship ends, women almost never do. Another study showed that the truth is actually likely to never come out; they did paternity tests to thousands of couples and their children, and it was revealed that a staggering number of the children weren't actually genetically related to their father t all. " What do you think ? "
You know this is true, women do not brag about multiple partners. I think cus there is no pride in sleeping with onother man, just a satisfaction .
BUt when truth comes out girls are sluts. But when guys do the same thing, they are players. Kinda doesn;t seem fare.
:quote: Originally posted by: Chale_Tanga " You ahve beautiful eyes girl... ojitos de gatita... But you know what? I heard that everything skips a generation.... or even a couple generations. Depends on whos genes are the dominant no?"
Aww, well I heard that about twinsss ... but maybe for genes also I dunno
quote: Originally posted by: DulceGalletita "Yeah, mi great great grandfather era rubio y de ojos azules ... but until now no one in the family have those features ... there's green eyes everywhere ... but none of us inherited them ... I was close with light brown eyes but that is it "
You ahve beautiful eyes girl... ojitos de gatita...
But you know what? I heard that everything skips a generation.... or even a couple generations. Depends on whos genes are the dominant no?
Yeah, mi great great grandfather era rubio y de ojos azules ... but until now no one in the family have those features ... there's green eyes everywhere ... but none of us inherited them ... I was close with light brown eyes but that is it
quote: Originally posted by: DulceGalletita "But things like this happen ... When I went to Ecuador 3 years ago I met this guy who had tanned skin, dark brown hair, and brown eyes he was really sweet and then met this other guy who was his twin and he was light skinned, blond hair, and green eyes ... I was like and your twins ... each one of them looks like a member of the family ... the father though because the one child came out blond hair and green eyes thought his wife cheated and for hearsay she got a beating pobresita until people told him that just because he doesn't have those features it doesn't mean it's not his kid ... I think the did tests and everything ... But wow, these twins are so opposite o sea they are the definition of GOOD and BAD lol ... "
Actually that is possible my half twin sisters are like that una es morenita chula y la otra es rubia con ojos azul y blanka lol but then again we are 1/4 portugese so it is possible mi abuelo era alto rubio ojos azul y bien elegante asi que todo es possible!! lol y mas que ellas eran twins so its hard but not impossible for this to happen in the case if they do have different fathers!!
quote: Originally posted by: TV Buff "That's true. Vin Diesel has a green-eyed, blond twin brother (not half as good looking as Vin). "
For real? Didn't know that ... but if you see a pair of twins like this it's amazing and like I say they are true opposite ... el morenito = good, y el guerito = bad LOL ...
quote: Originally posted by: DulceGalletita "But things like this happen ... When I went to Ecuador 3 years ago I met this guy who had tanned skin, dark brown hair, and brown eyes he was really sweet and then met this other guy who was his twin and he was light skinned, blond hair, and green eyes ... I was like and your twins ... each one of them looks like a member of the family ... the father though because the one child came out blond hair and green eyes thought his wife cheated and for hearsay she got a beating pobresita until people told him that just because he doesn't have those features it doesn't mean it's not his kid ... I think the did tests and everything ... But wow, these twins are so opposite o sea they are the definition of GOOD and BAD lol ... "
That's true. Vin Diesel has a green-eyed, blond twin brother (not half as good looking as Vin).
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quote: Originally posted by: TV Buff "My best friend from back home was black. So were her parents and her brothers and sisters (and there were like 10 of them), except for one. She had dirty blond straight hair and was light skinned. Nobody ever said anything, but I guess everyone in the family and neighbourhood suspected. The dad was the nicest guy, and he loved them all equally. Well, surprise, surprise, the mom (who had been friends with my mom since they were little girls) eventually came out with the truth. There wasn't a big blow out, though, 'cause everyone kind of suspected it and things just went back to normal after everyone knew. I mean, what were they going to do, right? "
But things like this happen ... When I went to Ecuador 3 years ago I met this guy who had tanned skin, dark brown hair, and brown eyes he was really sweet and then met this other guy who was his twin and he was light skinned, blond hair, and green eyes ... I was like and your twins ... each one of them looks like a member of the family ... the father though because the one child came out blond hair and green eyes thought his wife cheated and for hearsay she got a beating pobresita until people told him that just because he doesn't have those features it doesn't mean it's not his kid ... I think the did tests and everything ... But wow, these twins are so opposite o sea they are the definition of GOOD and BAD lol ...
quote: Originally posted by: X4v13r " LOL!!!! thats not necessarily true....my parents are 100% latinos and i look nothing like them or any1 in the family from both sides. X@vier "
LOL!!!! Maybe you should look into that one then? lol!! who knows? maybe you have a whole 'new' family that didnt even know about.. JOKING!!!!!!
quote: Originally posted by: GENIE " THINGS THAT MAKE U GO HHHHHHHHMMMMMMMMM!!! Si no te pareses a nadie en tu familia dont you get curious????? I think that this is very very true!! I know for a fact that two of my primas are not from the same dad and the one they think is there dad is not!! My tia told me its like a family secret!! lol so they are half sisters and dont even know it how sad!! "
My best friend from back home was black. So were her parents and her brothers and sisters (and there were like 10 of them), except for one. She had dirty blond straight hair and was light skinned. Nobody ever said anything, but I guess everyone in the family and neighbourhood suspected. The dad was the nicest guy, and he loved them all equally. Well, surprise, surprise, the mom (who had been friends with my mom since they were little girls) eventually came out with the truth. There wasn't a big blow out, though, 'cause everyone kind of suspected it and things just went back to normal after everyone knew. I mean, what were they going to do, right?
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quote: Originally posted by: TV Buff " Ask your mom to show you a picture of el lechero en el neighbourhood where you were born (j/k). Also, remember that song cerullo capullo of La Sonora Dinamita? "Oye cerullo, el negrito es el unico tuyo?" I wonder how often this happens? "
LOL ... I haven't heard that song in awhile ... I would say it happens quite a bit ... or maybe not ...
quote: Originally posted by: X4v13r " LOL!!!! thats not necessarily true....my parents are 100% latinos and i look nothing like them or any1 in the family from both sides. X@vier "
THINGS THAT MAKE U GO HHHHHHHHMMMMMMMMM!!! Si no te pareses a nadie en tu familia dont you get curious?????
I think that this is very very true!! I know for a fact that two of my primas are not from the same dad and the one they think is there dad is not!! My tia told me its like a family secret!! lol so they are half sisters and dont even know it how sad!!
quote: Originally posted by: X4v13r " LOL!!!! thats not necessarily true....my parents are 100% latinos and i look nothing like them or any1 in the family from both sides. X@vier "
Ask your mom to show you a picture of el lechero en el neighbourhood where you were born (j/k).
Also, remember that song cerullo capullo of La Sonora Dinamita? "Oye cerullo, el negrito es el unico tuyo?" I wonder how often this happens?
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quote: Originally posted by: DulceGalletita "LOL DR J ... my grandmother would say the same to all her grandkids that came from her 2 daughters hay dios mio! .... But is this really genetically possible, I mean as a MAN will you not question the child if they do not look like you or your wife or even someone familiar in both families ... For example: if your child has blonde hair and no one in either your family or your wife's has blonde hair does this not trigger a ummm this is not my kid "
LOL!!!!
thats not necessarily true....my parents are 100% latinos and i look nothing like them or any1 in the family from both sides.
quote: Originally posted by: Chale_Tanga " Hey girl.. how are you? Im sooooo sleepy!! want to go home!!! I dont know if i want to know what this 'God's' thoughts are.... I might be scared... lol... "
Ummm, didn't get sleep ... I'm alright, just here at work ... LOL! God, should she be scared? jijiji
quote: Originally posted by: Chale_Tanga "I think that this could be true. some women are attracted to a certain type of men (ie. bad boys) during their younger years, b/c its the thrill and attraction of being with an 'alpha' male. However, as we get older we start looking for other characteristics (ie. the provider male). I dont really get the 'cancel each other out' though? So where does that leave the male? as an alpha or as a provider?"
now I know why my grandma (on my mom's side) used to say that she was sure I was her grandson (she had 1 daughter and 5 sons)....
But seriously, most of what you wrote is true, women commit more to the children than to their partner... if you're married live with the idea that your wife will be unfaithful to you at any moment."
I know it's very hard for any male to face the real reason why a Female approaches a Male....with the years you learn to identify those Motives....
Despite Males think We Pick Up the Females is the another way around....they Pick Us..... But We Love to think We are in CONTROL.......
quote: Originally posted by: DR J " now I know why my grandma (on my mom's side) used to say that she was sure I was her grandson (she had 1 daughter and 5 sons).... But seriously, most of what you wrote is true, women commit more to the children than to their partner... if you're married live with the idea that your wife will be unfaithful to you at any moment."
LOL DR J ... my grandmother would say the same to all her grandkids that came from her 2 daughters hay dios mio! .... But is this really genetically possible, I mean as a MAN will you not question the child if they do not look like you or your wife or even someone familiar in both families ... For example: if your child has blonde hair and no one in either your family or your wife's has blonde hair does this not trigger a ummm this is not my kid
I think that this could be true. some women are attracted to a certain type of men (ie. bad boys) during their younger years, b/c its the thrill and attraction of being with an 'alpha' male. However, as we get older we start looking for other characteristics (ie. the provider male).
I dont really get the 'cancel each other out' though? So where does that leave the male? as an alpha or as a provider?
quote: Originally posted by: God " Another study showed that the truth is actually likely to never come out; they did paternity tests to thousands of couples and their children, and it was revealed that a staggering number of the children weren't actually genetically related to their father t all. "
What do you think ? "
now I know why my grandma (on my mom's side) used to say that she was sure I was her grandson (she had 1 daughter and 5 sons)....
But seriously, most of what you wrote is true, women commit more to the children than to their partner... if you're married live with the idea that your wife will be unfaithful to you at any moment.
Since I was buried in snow Saturday Night I decided to help my friend (She is a Psychologist) with an Essay.... and "we" wrote this
"Evolutionary psychologists agree that women are actually looking for two mates, not one; a provider, and a genetic resource. They will hook up with providers and then have steaming sex with alphas behind the betas' backs. The best deal is of course an alpha who is also a provider, but those things kinda cancel each other out because an alpha stops being an alpha when he supplicates.
Women actually do this quite often; they just don't get caught for it as often as men do because they don't brag about it. They also don't have a need to tell their partners because while men make an emotional investment in their woman, women reserve their emotional investment for their children. If you study the statistics, you will notice that while men frequently commit suicide when their long-term relationship ends, women almost never do.
Another study showed that the truth is actually likely to never come out; they did paternity tests to thousands of couples and their children, and it was revealed that a staggering number of the children weren't actually genetically related to their father t all. "
. BUt when truth comes out girls are sluts. But when guys do the same thing, they are players
. Kinda doesn;t seem fare. 
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... I was close with light brown eyes but that is it 
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