quote: Originally posted by: buzzlightyear680 "Thanks Chale.................. Dulce Galletita when ever you are ready for a few classes just let me know and don't worry I'll be very gentle.......... as far as your gurls having your back.......no worries either "
quote: Originally posted by: DulceGalletita "True, but if you can avoid getting hurt why not ... I learn from others but they tell me that I haven't really lived and should have my own experiences ... So anyone interested but don't hurt me 'cause my girls got my back "
Buzz sounds so sweet!
Dulce: 4 SURE!!! You know we got ur back girl! If any guy tries to mess, he better think twice!
But yes, experience should be your teacher, but should also learn to take a few chances, u never know where it might lead.
quote: Originally posted by: buzzlightyear680 "isn't life all about regrets and what if's? and if you think about it LOVE is the same........I'm sure at least once you had a great love that you let go or was to shy to tell that person and now you kind awonder what would of happen of that...............so I say live your life to the max...........and getting hurt is kinda all part of growing up aint it?"
True, but if you can avoid getting hurt why not ... I learn from others but they tell me that I haven't really lived and should have my own experiences ... So anyone interested but don't hurt me 'cause my girls got my back
quote: Originally posted by: buzzlightyear680 "isn't life all about regrets and what if's? and if you think about it LOVE is the same........I'm sure at least once you had a great love that you let go or was to shy to tell that person and now you kind awonder what would of happen of that...............so I say live your life to the max...........and getting hurt is kinda all part of growing up aint it?"
Hey you sound like my kinda guy.
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"Ecuador my life, football my passion, the cup my goal"I'M NOT SPOILED, I'M A PRINCESSA !!
isn't life all about regrets and what if's? and if you think about it LOVE is the same........I'm sure at least once you had a great love that you let go or was to shy to tell that person and now you kind awonder what would of happen of that...............so I say live your life to the max...........and getting hurt is kinda all part of growing up aint it?
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Uno de los secretos de una vida feliz está
en darse constantemente pequeños gustos.
Originally posted by: DulceGalletita "I agree follow your heart and your instincts ... There should be no regrets in life at all I say, we just learn from situations or run from them ... Ummm, this is from a girl who doesn't want to get hurt "
Of course. Life is too short to live on regrets only.... We are only humans and mistakes happen.
I've been hurt a couple of times( ), but trust me I've learn from them. now I'm a better person and have no regrets...
quote: Originally posted by: Chale_Tanga "Its true that you have to follow your instincts and heart, but sometimes having rules helps. You dont want to run into the same relationship problems over and over again. Its always good to set some sort of rules for yourself, that way you dont get hurt again "
I agree follow your heart and your instincts ... There should be no regrets in life at all I say, we just learn from situations or run from them ... Ummm, this is from a girl who doesn't want to get hurt
Its true that you have to follow your instincts and heart, but sometimes having rules helps. You dont want to run into the same relationship problems over and over again. Its always good to set some sort of rules for yourself, that way you dont get hurt again
quote: Originally posted by: buzzlightyear680 "ahhhh Thats too BAD princessa that you started from the bottom.........but you can only become a good listerner and advisor when you have been trough all of it....and I guess that makes too of us. its really sad when you learn that you have been used. It also happens to men."
Well I guess that's true......it makes two of us. Not a nice way of learning to be a good listner. Now because of that I charge DOUBLE.......so Fea ya sabes. LOL, LOL.
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"Ecuador my life, football my passion, the cup my goal"I'M NOT SPOILED, I'M A PRINCESSA !!
ahhhh Thats too BAD princessa that you started from the bottom.........but you can only become a good listerner and advisor when you have been trough all of it....and I guess that makes too of us. its really sad when you learn that you have been used. It also happens to men.
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Uno de los secretos de una vida feliz está
en darse constantemente pequeños gustos.
I think many times we like someone & we don't see or wanna see that they are not that into you as you are & that already is a bad start. Trust me I know that by experience & it's not nice.
Sex........VERY Important, not cause of it being sex but becuase that aside with many other factors makes a great relationship. I think that you want to have a GREAT Sexual connection, wanna make love to that person....& Love it & enjoy it, otherwise sooner or later it will be an issue.
Common things........well important you share things in common like family values, beliefs, they way u both see life & have in common were you both stand & want out of the relationship. But I also Strongly belive that opposites attrack & to me it's cause it's intresting, so it can be both ways.
If your bored in your relationship or you start feeling it or seeing signs of it.......I think it may be time to re-evaluate your relationship.
Reglas......yes very important if you set your cards at first straight, then later on they should not be any surprises, but ALWAYS keep your last card, just in case.
Abrirse.......also important yes you find LOVE or you think you did. It's a MUSt you give 100% of yourself into the relationship to make it work. Love comes either ONLY ONCE or very few times & if you play games you may just loose your chance. ALSO TRUST ME on THIS ONE.
Yes.....if you meet someone in a bad time or way. Always keep in mind that if he did it to her/him......what makes you any more diffrent or special. I will ALWAYS be VERY CAREFULL with this. I also know by experinece.
Well this is my view on this.
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"Ecuador my life, football my passion, the cup my goal"I'M NOT SPOILED, I'M A PRINCESSA !!
Síguelas y te sorprenderás de ver que las relaciones sentimentales no son tan complicadas y que sí es posible alcanzar el éxito absoluto con tu pareja.
Si alguien te dijera que tiene la receta para alcanzar la absoluta felicidad en pareja, ¿se la pedirías? Si tu respuesta es sí, enhorabuena. Sigue estos consejos y te sorprenderás de las enormes dificultades que has llegado a ver en las cosas que no son tan complicadas.
1. Enamórate de alguien que te corresponda
Si sigues esta no tan complicada regla, te habrás ahorrado el 95% de las preocupaciones que puedan surgir en tu relación. Trata de conseguir lo que deseas, siempre y cuando esté a tu alcance. Perseguir sin piedad a un hombre que no te hace caso tiene principalmente dos motivos: problemas no resueltos con tu padre, por lo tanto te hacen falta varios años de intensa terapia para acabar con este hábito; o la búsqueda de emociones fuertes, para lo cual mejor te recomendamos que cambies de trabajo, te avientes del bungee o veas una película de terror; te ahorrarás muchas aflicciones.
2. El sexo sí importa, y mucho
¿Qué es más importante, el amor o el sexo? Éste es el clásico debate sobre el cual nunca se llega a un acuerdo, pero nuestra respuesta es la siguiente: ambos. Puedes llegar a amar a un hombre con el que no tengas química sexual, pero ¿es esto lo que realmente deseas? Aunque compartan muchos asuntos importantes, las palabras no son suficientes, y una inmejorable forma de comunicarse es el sexo.
3. Cuanto más tengan en común, mejor
Sería ridículo romper con alguien por el simple hecho de que no le guste el mismo tipo de cine que a ti. Los opuestos se atraen, pero generalmente las posibilidades de estar juntos se agotan debido a la incompatibilidad intelectual o emocional, venir de ambientes familiares muy diferentes o tener aspiraciones distintas. Si sus diferencias son pequeñas, las probabilidades de tener conflictos en la relación serán mínimas.
4. El aburrimiento sí que es un problema
Hay quienes creen que siempre que estén a gusto con el trato que les da su pareja, podrán soportar vivir una vida de aburrimiento junto a ella. Sin embargo, también hay quienes se arriesgan y buscan una pareja más agradable y divertida ¡y el resultado es fantástico! Mira a tu alrededor, date cuenta de que hay muchas personas apasionadas y con ganas de pasarla bien, y que a la vez son tan responsables como tú.
5. Plantea las reglas antes de jugar
Si lo que tú quieres es compromiso, no te embarques en relaciones que sólo te ofrezcan sexo pasajero. Debes mostrar claramente y desde el principio tus expectativas. Si quieres un matrimonio en el que los dos cooperen con las labores domésticas, desde la primera cena en tu casa empieza a compartir las tareas.
6. Cuando encuentres el amor, ábrete
Encontrar una pareja en quien puedas confiar y que te apoye, te hará sentir aceptada y apreciada. Debes poder compartirle sin miedo detalles como tu deseo de tener bebés, tu miedo a fallar profesionalmente o cuánto dinero te gastas en ropa. Lograr una verdadera intimidad es arriesgado, pero también muy satisfactorio y emocionante. Ser capaz de conseguir confianza y apoyo mutuos con la otra persona es la promesa más clara de felicidad en una relación.
7. Si se lo hizo a ella, te lo puede hacer a ti
Alguien con antecedentes poco confesables respecto a sus parejas pasadas puede ser un serio problema para ti, tal vez no de la misma forma, ni en el primer momento. Pero lo mejor será que te fijes bien tanto en sus experiencias pasadas, como en su actual trato hacia las mujeres cercanas. De esta forma tendrás las referencias para reaccionar y actuar en cuanto no te guste alguna conducta del hombre que te interesa.
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Uno de los secretos de una vida feliz está
en darse constantemente pequeños gustos.
), but trust me I've learn from them. now I'm a better person and have no regrets...
Not a nice way of learning to be a good listner. Now because of that I charge DOUBLE.......so Fea ya sabes. LOL, LOL.
