@ 1800SLUT - If it ONLY was up to the parents to give consent for kids to have sex! The world would be so much better! (less unplanned pregnancies, STDs, no cheaters, etc, etc>) LMAO... and kids would be more into other things that are healthier for them
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quote: Originally posted by: Chilenita "No you don't and you shouldn't......"
I could have said that! LMAO - I am just not that honest errr, I mean, I don't know Chi THAT WELL! Heck, I was almost starting to believe her till her last comment!
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quote: Originally posted by: confundida " EXACTLY....... BUT HOLD UP MAYBE U MISUNDERSTOOD ME IF U TALK TO UR KIDS, OR THEY READ , OR WATCH TV THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES TO WHAT THERE GOING TO DO AND IF THERE GOING TO DO SOMETHING AT LEAST BE RESPONSIBLE ABOUT IT...."
Confu you are right about one thing......you should not turn a blind eye and assume that your children are making the right choices. Educate them on sex and YES at the age of 13 you should have already done that so that they understand the risks. Show them a movie like "KIDS" and that will make them think twice.
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones ""a 13 yrs old girl/boy RESPONSIBLE for her/his own actions"....DAMN!! con una madre asi, mejor vivo sola....sorry confundida, you have your own way of mind, and doesn't mean I don't respect it, i just see or feel things differently....and i don't agree with your thoughts, but hey,... cada uno vive su vida como quiere right??"
EXACTLY.......
BUT HOLD UP MAYBE U MISUNDERSTOOD ME
IF U TALK TO UR KIDS, OR THEY READ , OR WATCH TV THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES TO WHAT THERE GOING TO DO AND IF THERE GOING TO DO SOMETHING AT LEAST BE RESPONSIBLE ABOUT IT....
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quote: Originally posted by: confundida " @CONFESIONES NO I WOULDNT ENCOURAGE HER TO HAVE SEX AT ANY AGE.... BUT WHAT I WILL TELL HER IS BE RESPONSIBLE... I RATHER KNOW WHAT MY DAUGHTER IS DOING THEN NOT KNOW..... MAYBE IM SAYING THIS BECAUSE OF MY PAST HISTORY.....BUT THAT ANOTHER STORY ON ITS OWN............"
"a 13 yrs old girl/boy RESPONSIBLE for her/his own actions".... DAMN!! con una madre asi, mejor vivo sola.... sorry confundida, you have your own way of mind, and doesn't mean I don't respect it, i just see or feel things differently....and i don't agree with your thoughts, but hey,... cada uno vive su vida como quiere right??
quote: Originally posted by: God " No sweetie no matter if is girl or Boy ....I dont think they are mature enugh to have sex.... you are a big guy and you know how to hnadle it and even when we sleep with a person we get feelings, questions, doubts,.... now imagine a 13 yrs old...."
quote: Originally posted by: LGigolo "NO Boys or Girls should be having sex at 13 - But just in case they do, they should be thought about the consequences and risks of it all. But the point you seem to leading on to and there is truth to is that generally speaking, there TENDS to be a double standard - and very common among us latinos. If boys do it - son machos. Being "mujeriegos" can be even seen as a compliment from other men. While if a girl is doing it, she's automatically label as una "p__a"!"
EXACTLY, SO THEN WERE ARE THESE 13 BOYS SLEEPING WITH... A HOLE IN THE WALL, A BLOW UP DOLL, MASTERBUTATION... NOPE THERE SLEEPING WITH OUR LITTLE SISTERS..... COME ON BE REALISTIC.....
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quote: Originally posted by: confundida "@GOD SINCE WHEN DID I BECOME A GUY???? (LOL) ... SO WHO IS TO BLAME FOR A 13 YR OLD HAVING SEX, THE PARENTS SOCIETY, PEERS???"
Blame all of the above, and you may add: TV, magazines, meida in general... but the ultimate foundation starts at home. As a parent one can't stop kids from doing things that they shouldn't be doing; but at least we can try and educate them and hope that they will listen.
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quote: Originally posted by: confundida "LET ME ASK THIS IT IS OK FOR A BOY TO BE HAVING SEX AT 13??? WHY ARE WE GENERALIZING TOWARDS GIRLS....."
NO Boys or Girls should be having sex at 13 - But just in case they do, they should be thought about the consequences and risks of it all. But the point you seem to leading on to and there is truth to is that generally speaking, there TENDS to be a double standard - and very common among us latinos. If boys do it - son machos. Being "mujeriegos" can be even seen as a compliment from other men. While if a girl is doing it, she's automatically label as una "p__a"!
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quote: Originally posted by: confundida "LET ME ASK THIS IT IS OK FOR A BOY TO BE HAVING SEX AT 13???
WHY ARE WE GENERALIZING TOWARDS GIRLS....."
No sweetie no matter if is girl or Boy ....I dont think they are mature enugh to have sex.... you are a big guy and you know how to hnadle it and even when we sleep with a person we get feelings, questions, doubts,.... now imagine a 13 yrs old....
quote: Originally posted by: confundida " SEX IS A CHOICE... SIMPLE NO MATTER WHAT UR AGE IS, IT DOESNT MATTER HOW U WERE RAISED OR WHAT UR BACKGROUND IS...... "
@ Confundida: Hummmm it MAY be a "choice" - but it just not the RIGHT choice for most, if not all 13 year olds!
@ Genie: Yes, that bracelet stuff is CRAZY! - - - Is your hand full already? LMAO
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones "i have question for you my dear confundida...Would you encourage your dauther to have "sex" at any age....?? even though she's is already properly and fully acknowledged about it??to me my dear foro users..."any age" is not okay -- Edited by Confesiones at 11:25, 2005-04-05"
@CONFESIONES
NO I WOULDNT ENCOURAGE HER TO HAVE SEX AT ANY AGE.... BUT WHAT I WILL TELL HER IS BE RESPONSIBLE... I RATHER KNOW WHAT MY DAUGHTER IS DOING THEN NOT KNOW.....
MAYBE IM SAYING THIS BECAUSE OF MY PAST HISTORY.....BUT THAT ANOTHER STORY ON ITS OWN............
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones "i have question for you my dear confundida...Would you encourage your dauther to have "sex" at any age....?? even though she's is already properly and fully acknowledged about it??to me my dear foro users..."any age" is not okay -- Edited by Confesiones at 11:25, 2005-04-05"
I totally agree with you Confessions como dice mi mama solo porque tenes unos cuantos pellos en la cuca no senifica que eres ni mujer ni madura para hacer cosas de adultos!!
And like i like to say if you cant even wipe your own ass properly why the hell you gonna be having sex!! Go play!!
quote: Originally posted by: confundida " SEX IS A CHOICE... SIMPLE NO MATTER WHAT UR AGE IS, IT DOESNT MATTER HOW U WERE RAISED OR WHAT UR BACKGROUND IS...... "
OK I AGREE TO DISAGREE!! It totally matters on how you were raised if you were brought up in a house where religion is very important chances are you will wait untill either marriage or your far more in to your teens! Background yes does matter for example muslim or indian or any country that values religion!! Thats what it all comes down to
quote: Originally posted by: confundida " SEX IS A CHOICE... SIMPLE NO MATTER WHAT UR AGE IS, IT DOESNT MATTER HOW U WERE RAISED OR WHAT UR BACKGROUND IS...... "
i have question for you my dear confundida... Would you encourage your dauther to have "sex" at any age....?? even though she's is already properly and fully acknowledged about it??
quote: Originally posted by: LGigolo " In addition, most kids nowadays are not brought up properly - sex is just an act of fun and pleasure and they figure if they are fulfilling all their other desires, why not also fulfill their sexual urges. It all starts at home and, for the most part immigrants to Canada - including our latino parents - tend to raise us the old, traditional way where sex is a little bit more sacred. But some of us don't listen or some of us just get influenced by the north american way of thinkin that sex is just sex - for fun and pleasure... not that it can't be for a responsible person - just not at 13!"
SEX IS A CHOICE... SIMPLE NO MATTER WHAT UR AGE IS, IT DOESNT MATTER HOW U WERE RAISED OR WHAT UR BACKGROUND IS......
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quote: Originally posted by: Chilenita "I was watching "The Passionate Eye" last night and there was a documentary on Sex and Teens. There was this one girl who was already VERY sexually active at 13 years old. She said stuff like she thought oral sex was no big deal and that she found kissing more intimate than intercourse.....things that you would expect to hear from a 25 year old...if that. Do you think 13 is too young? I am no angel but 13? "
THIRTEEN is definately too young to start having sex - never mind to be THAT experienced about sex. I just think kids nowadays are too used to fulfilling ALL their desires - whether it's a desire to have something like an XBox or PS2 to the desire of going out late and even sleeping over at friends' houses. In addition, most kidsnowadays are not brought up properly - sex is just an act of fun and pleasure and they figure if they are fulfilling all their other desires, why not also fulfill their sexual urges.
It all starts at home and, for the most part immigrants to Canada - including our latino parents - tend to raise us the old, traditional way where sex is a little bit more sacred. But some of us don't listen or some of us just get influenced by the north american way of thinkin that sex is just sex - for fun and pleasure... not that it can't be for a responsible person - just not at 13!
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Way too young. 13 years old are still ignorant about so any things in life. Sex is not a yoke, it's something really serious that should be practice with care and responsibility, sex is not kids play. 16?, may be 16 is ok among 16 years olds, since thay are a bit more mature and knowledgeable, I wish I had done it with my sweetheart, haha!, but I guess We were not ready and that's alrigth.
quote: Originally posted by: TV Buff "I do think that 13 is too young, but I really don't know what teenagers are like and think nowadays. Life is just so different from when I was 13, and I do know that we're living life at a faster pace in this day and age. If you look at history, though, there are so many cycles in what 13-year-olds were expected to do... for instance, in the past, by 13 you sometimes were expected to be a mother by then, so maybe that's just life, going back in circles throughout history. Yeah, I know, it's too early in the morning to start philosophizing. There are a couple of movies that are really good eye-openers on this subject; I highly recommend them: Kids (with Chloe Sevigny) and Thirteen (with Holly Hunter).-- Edited by TV Buff at 09:41, 2005-03-23"
I SAW THAT MOVIE THIRTEEN AND MADE MY COUSINS WATCH IT ITS UNBELIEVEABLE THAT STUFF I MEAN AT 13YRS OLD COMING FROM A SINGLE MOM I GREW UP FAST I HAD TO COME HOME AFTER SCHOOL DO SO MUCH CHORES AND STUFF AND TAKE CARE OF TWO YOUNGER BROTHERS SO I MEAN I HAD NO TIME TO GET MY SELF IN TO TROUBLE AND HONESTLY DID NOT WANT TO PUT MY MOM THROUGH THAT STUFF EITHER BUT HOLY AT 13 NOW A DAYS I SEE THE GIRLS AT ALL AGES AND STUFF AND ITS SO SAD TO SEE OUR FUTURE LOOKING ALL HOE LIKE AND GOING ON AS IF THERE MY AGE I MEAN **** I DONT WEAR HALF THE STUFF THEY DO AND CARRY ON LIKE THAT!! MAYBE LIKE U SAID BUFF WE ARE GOING IN A CYCLE BUT WITH SO MUCH KNOWLEDGE NOW WHY WOULD WE GO BACK IN TIME???
I do think that 13 is too young, but I really don't know what teenagers are like and think nowadays. Life is just so different from when I was 13, and I do know that we're living life at a faster pace in this day and age.
If you look at history, though, there are so many cycles in what 13-year-olds were expected to do... for instance, in the past, by 13 you sometimes were expected to be a mother by then, so maybe that's just life, going back in circles throughout history. Yeah, I know, it's too early in the morning to start philosophizing.
There are a couple of movies that are really good eye-openers on this subject; I highly recommend them: Kids (with Chloe Sevigny) and Thirteen (with Holly Hunter).
-- Edited by TV Buff at 09:41, 2005-03-23
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WOW yo tambien soy de los q pienses q 13 es una edad muy inmadura para tener relasiones sexuales..........but now days all kids are doing different things are a younger age not even sex...lots of kids are starting to smoke not only cigarrets but dop at the age of 9 or 10....I aint that old but what is world coming to?
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i've come here before to read some of the things that you guys and gals post thirteen is too young, definitely too young, in my opinion when they start this young the more the F*ck whatever tom dick or harry they forget the true intamacy that sex holds and devalue it to the point when its done for just doing rather than doing it for the please or the emotional satisfaction.
quote: Originally posted by: Chilenita " 13 is way too young. If I have a daughter she will be locked up until she is 18...LOL. Genie have not heard about bracelets????? Fill me in???"
WELL DO U REMEBER BACK IN THE 80'S THOSE COLORFULL BRACELTES U CAN GET THEM AT THE DOLLAR STORE NOW A DAYS THERE REALLY SKINNY AND THERE PLASTIC!!
WELL EACH COLOR HAS A MEANING SO IF U BREAK THAT COLOR OR BRACELET THEN U HAVE TO PERFORM THAT SEX ACT THATS WHY THERE BAND NOW
BUT EX: BLUE - KISS ON THE CHEEK
RED - KISS ON THE LIPS
PINK - HUG
ORANGE - ORAL SEX
GREEN - SEX
BLACK - RAPE (SO U WANT THE GUY TO RAPE U)
CLEAR - PLAYS WITH UR BREAST!!
STUFF LIKE THAT I MEAN ITS CRAZY I KNOW GIRLS AND BOYS THAT HAVE GOTTEN SUSPENED FOR DOING THIS STUFF I MEAN ITS CRAZY