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Some chick got preggo very young and now she gets upset por que la fgente la  mira feo...



Oh... okay.

 




Now Danny accepted how hard is for him to understand Dogo's sense of humor.

Ps. Just Keepin' ya on the loop...

 



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well i guess its my fault for always ignoring dAgos stupid sense of humour ...:(

sorry bro i dont find your jokes funny!:)

yawnyawwwwn haha

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Some chick got preggo very young and now she gets upset por que la fgente la  mira feo...



Oh... okay.

 



Plus Danny is having hard times understanding Dogo's Jokes....

 



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Don't worry. I knew you wouldn't get it



how bout u make a lil more sense first homie then maybe ill bother replying back
lol idea




ORrrr.... how about you get a little more clever so we don't have to post back and forth on a joke you should've gotten two posts ago. Si? thumbsup.gif



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Some chick got preggo very young and now she gets upset por que la fgente la  mira feo...



Oh... okay.



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Some chick got preggo very young and now she gets upset por que la gente la  mira feo...

 



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how bout u make a lil more sense first homie then maybe ill bother replying back
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I had my baby when I was 16 . He is the best that ever happaned to me. I consider myself to be a good young mom. I go to highschool and work part-time. At the same time I have all the time for my son, but why must us teenage moms be viewed as irresponsible ?cryEvery where I go I tell people about my little man. All I get are stupid comments and stupid expressions by people as if I'm not capable of being a good young parent . Other adults should rather understand us and at least help us in our situations . Not all of us planned to be pregnant at a young age. You have no idea how hard it us for us to go through our situations day by day. I wish adults, school teachers and the gorvernment can do much more for us single young moms.



Before i give i the heads up ....I may come off as a total a$$hole for saying this but its only the honest truth...

The fact the you had sex without taking care of yourself ...already shows how irresponsible you were to begin with, and at the same time it also shows your big time level of immaturity to even deal with the ****hole that you already put your head into....Dont even give me that BS that schools and the government dont do enough for you young retards (who think poping kids is just like poping cherrys)  Schools nowadays give proper sex education to help prevent you young chicken head teens from getting pregnant....I take it that you either gave two ****s about sex class or you were just cought up in the moment spreading your legs without knowing how much of a hell hole your life could be for many many years.....and the government?????if anything they do more then enough by acting like the baby dads for zillionssss of you teenage moms ..sending you $$$$ for mothers allowance on a monthly bases....and welfare on top of that...(which pisses me and countless others off cause alot of our taxes are thrown into the dirt to help the big mess you all put yourselves into) Like for f*ck sakes they even give out free condoms and even Freeee piils now at public health centers!! what more do you want??????? and tell me why should adults have to understand you and others in your situation? ....if you ask me its not fair for adults to have to play the double role now parent/grandparent  for teens with babies......You yourself are still considered a "baby" in our world of today.....at your age you should be doing what any normal teenage kid does.....highschool go out friends etc etc its the age where you are still growing up and trying to find yourself ...what im trying to say is that at your age the leasssssssssssssssst thing you need to worry about is having to raise another child cause like i said before you yourself are still a child......But whats done is done ..you bascially screwed yourself so deep that you must now have to learn everything the hard way....forget about parties all ages and going out with your friends....cause your baby is now your first priority.....now about your education? ....good luck on trying to juggle the responsibilites of highschool work and being a mom.....even worse going to college or university later..dunno how that will work out for you ....

No one else is to blame for your situation other then you ...therefore you must already do some major growing up and except and deal with the stuggles that are to come in your life down the road.....if you ask me you already have tons of help around you just look a little deeper .....theres nothing more anyone else can do....i hope your child will end up being raised in a good way ...im not even sure if your baby dad is still in the picture ?? if he has some decency and morals he will help and take on his responsibilities as a man ....

honestly i may be a lil too straight up at times but hearing people like this upsets me like you have no idea......todavia en este pais diciendo que no hay la suficientemente ayuda para poder "comprender" sus situaciones que el gobierno no hace mucho por ellas.....ya quisiera verles en mi ecuador o en cualquiera de los paises de ustedes ..aver si el gobierno muestra un pequeno pedaso de interes en sus problems ......algunas tias mias fueron madres solteras y aun asi pudieron lograr criarlos a sus hijos de una buena forma sin casi pedir la ayuda de NADIE...

seriously we should have some sord of law that imposes all young teen girls in our society to get neutered ASAP!!!.....im telling you guys the amount of young b!tches nowadays having kids is ridiculous and tooooooo much ....the only thing it does is place a continuous burden on our already f!cked up society that we live in



-- Edited by DannyC at 11:50, 2008-09-11






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hahah well i sure dooooo ...sexy ones of course just for some non stop tapping thats it ......Ill never take a girl with a kid serious ever ever in my life...dont matter how hot or nice she is.....as soon as i hear the words "i have a baby" ....its a complete nose diving turn offffffffffffffffff for anything serious thumbsdown.gif


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If I had a teenage kid, I would definitely have wanted education first and kids much later in life for her.  There is plenty of time for having kids, and if you can't have kids there is always adoption or just get a pet for God sake!   

Whats the hurry with growing up and being a mom
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I never quite have understood the fascination with wanting to be a teenage mom.  In my teens I was enjoying my "teen" years with friends, dances, sports, school, travel, etc. 

However, if you've chosen to be a teenage mom, you need to step up to the plate and be responsible.  Take care of your kid, continue going to school and get a part time job.  If the guy is in the picture than he should be doing the same.  If he is not around then I guess your work will be double as hard!

Please don't go on welfare and use it as a crutch!

Kids today are growing up too fast! cry


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Ok, so im not totally gonna dog you because I became a mom at a young age (19) as well.  I do commend you for going to school and working part time, and taking care of your child as best you can.  Like someone said on here, some girls your age (and even older) just go on partying like nothing, but that's partly to blame on their moms for being alcaguetas and not instilling some responsibility in their daughters.

ANd the main reason im not gonna totally dog you is because i have two daughters, so i dont want to sit there and criticize cause i dont want to be eating my words someday.

However, for you to say that the government doesent have enough programs, education in schools, and a lot of parents being more open minded now.

I guess because my mother is from a somewhat different generation, sex was not something that was discussed openly and comfortably.  Or maybe the mentality was "if i dont touch the topic, then it wont happen".

I try to steer away from that mentality because of what i have gone through and try to keep the best open relationship with my daughters (mostly the older one).

And maybe ppl's comments get to you more because you know that you did not take "the proper route" according to society.

But others have told you and with this and i agree, as long as you know you're doing the best you can with what you have and u feel confident about it, then dont worry about those that look down on you.  Because trust me, el que para arriba escupe le cae en la cara, so these ppl may face the same situation one day.

All the best to  you and keep looking straight ahead for you and your child

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Dogo wrote:

DannyC wrote:

proudmami2nv wrote:

I had my baby when I was 16 . He is the best that ever happaned to me. I consider myself to be a good young mom. I go to highschool and work part-time. At the same time I have all the time for my son, but why must us teenage moms be viewed as irresponsible ?cryEvery where I go I tell people about my little man. All I get are stupid comments and stupid expressions by people as if I'm not capable of being a good young parent . Other adults should rather understand us and at least help us in our situations . Not all of us planned to be pregnant at a young age. You have no idea how hard it us for us to go through our situations day by day. I wish adults, school teachers and the gorvernment can do much more for us single young moms.



Before i give i the heads up ....I may come off as a total a$$hole for saying this but its only the honest truth...

The fact the you had sex without taking care of yourself ...already shows how irresponsible you were to begin with, and at the same time it also shows your big time level of immaturity to even deal with the ****hole that you already put your head into....Dont even give me that BS that schools and the government dont do enough for you young retards (who think poping kids is just like poping cherrys)  Schools nowadays give proper sex education to help prevent you young chicken head teens from getting pregnant....I take it that you either gave two ****s about sex class or you were just cought up in the moment spreading your legs without knowing how much of a hell hole your life could be for many many years.....and the government?????if anything they do more then enough by acting like the baby dads for zillionssss of you teenage moms ..sending you $$$$ for mothers allowance on a monthly bases....and welfare on top of that...(which pisses me and countless others off cause alot of our taxes are thrown into the dirt to help the big mess you all put yourselves into) Like for f*ck sakes they even give out free condoms and even Freeee piils now at public health centers!! what more do you want??????? and tell me why should adults have to understand you and others in your situation? ....if you ask me its not fair for adults to have to play the double role now parent/grandparent  for teens with babies......You yourself are still considered a "baby" in our world of today.....at your age you should be doing what any normal teenage kid does.....highschool go out friends etc etc its the age where you are still growing up and trying to find yourself ...what im trying to say is that at your age the leasssssssssssssssst thing you need to worry about is having to raise another child cause like i said before you yourself are still a child......But whats done is done ..you bascially screwed yourself so deep that you must now have to learn everything the hard way....forget about parties all ages and going out with your friends....cause your baby is now your first priority.....now about your education? ....good luck on trying to juggle the responsibilites of highschool work and being a mom.....even worse going to college or university later..dunno how that will work out for you ....

No one else is to blame for your situation other then you ...therefore you must already do some major growing up and except and deal with the stuggles that are to come in your life down the road.....if you ask me you already have tons of help around you just look a little deeper .....theres nothing more anyone else can do....i hope your child will end up being raised in a good way ...im not even sure if your baby dad is still in the picture ?? if he has some decency and morals he will help and take on his responsibilities as a man ....

honestly i may be a lil too straight up at times but hearing people like this upsets me like you have no idea......todavia en este pais diciendo que no hay la suficientemente ayuda para poder "comprender" sus situaciones que el gobierno no hace mucho por ellas.....ya quisiera verles en mi ecuador o en cualquiera de los paises de ustedes ..aver si el gobierno muestra un pequeno pedaso de interes en sus problems ......algunas tias mias fueron madres solteras y aun asi pudieron lograr criarlos a sus hijos de una buena forma sin casi pedir la ayuda de NADIE...

seriously we should have some sord of law that imposes all young teen girls in our society to get neutered ASAP!!!.....im telling you guys the amount of young b!tches nowadays having kids is ridiculous and tooooooo much ....the only thing it does is place a continuous burden on our already f!cked up society that we live in



-- Edited by DannyC at 11:50, 2008-09-11






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jawdrop.gif  I'm laughing so hard after reading Danny's post.

Well said Danny.  clap.gif

For once, I can't argue with you.  giggle.gif

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DannyC wrote:

proudmami2nv wrote:

I had my baby when I was 16 . He is the best that ever happaned to me. I consider myself to be a good young mom. I go to highschool and work part-time. At the same time I have all the time for my son, but why must us teenage moms be viewed as irresponsible ?cryEvery where I go I tell people about my little man. All I get are stupid comments and stupid expressions by people as if I'm not capable of being a good young parent . Other adults should rather understand us and at least help us in our situations . Not all of us planned to be pregnant at a young age. You have no idea how hard it us for us to go through our situations day by day. I wish adults, school teachers and the gorvernment can do much more for us single young moms.



Before i give i the heads up ....I may come off as a total a$$hole for saying this but its only the honest truth...

The fact the you had sex without taking care of yourself ...already shows how irresponsible you were to begin with, and at the same time it also shows your big time level of immaturity to even deal with the ****hole that you already put your head into....Dont even give me that BS that schools and the government dont do enough for you young retards (who think poping kids is just like poping cherrys)  Schools nowadays give proper sex education to help prevent you young chicken head teens from getting pregnant....I take it that you either gave two ****s about sex class or you were just cought up in the moment spreading your legs without knowing how much of a hell hole your life could be for many many years.....and the government?????if anything they do more then enough by acting like the baby dads for zillionssss of you teenage moms ..sending you $$$$ for mothers allowance on a monthly bases....and welfare on top of that...(which pisses me and countless others off cause alot of our taxes are thrown into the dirt to help the big mess you all put yourselves into) Like for f*ck sakes they even give out free condoms and even Freeee piils now at public health centers!! what more do you want??????? and tell me why should adults have to understand you and others in your situation? ....if you ask me its not fair for adults to have to play the double role now parent/grandparent  for teens with babies......You yourself are still considered a "baby" in our world of today.....at your age you should be doing what any normal teenage kid does.....highschool go out friends etc etc its the age where you are still growing up and trying to find yourself ...what im trying to say is that at your age the leasssssssssssssssst thing you need to worry about is having to raise another child cause like i said before you yourself are still a child......But whats done is done ..you bascially screwed yourself so deep that you must now have to learn everything the hard way....forget about parties all ages and going out with your friends....cause your baby is now your first priority.....now about your education? ....good luck on trying to juggle the responsibilites of highschool work and being a mom.....even worse going to college or university later..dunno how that will work out for you ....

No one else is to blame for your situation other then you ...therefore you must already do some major growing up and except and deal with the stuggles that are to come in your life down the road.....if you ask me you already have tons of help around you just look a little deeper .....theres nothing more anyone else can do....i hope your child will end up being raised in a good way ...im not even sure if your baby dad is still in the picture ?? if he has some decency and morals he will help and take on his responsibilities as a man ....

honestly i may be a lil too straight up at times but hearing people like this upsets me like you have no idea......todavia en este pais diciendo que no hay la suficientemente ayuda para poder "comprender" sus situaciones que el gobierno no hace mucho por ellas.....ya quisiera verles en mi ecuador o en cualquiera de los paises de ustedes ..aver si el gobierno muestra un pequeno pedaso de interes en sus problems ......algunas tias mias fueron madres solteras y aun asi pudieron lograr criarlos a sus hijos de una buena forma sin casi pedir la ayuda de NADIE...

seriously we should have some sord of law that imposes all young teen girls in our society to get neutered ASAP!!!.....im telling you guys the amount of young b!tches nowadays having kids is ridiculous and tooooooo much ....the only thing it does is place a continuous burden on our already f!cked up society that we live in



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Well I'm gonna sound like a total B*tch to you, but I have no pity whatsoever for teen moms. Because they were old enough to spread their legs without protection but they are not old enough to suck it up and take care of their responsibility. Where's the baby daddy in all this? Stop your whinning about us adults frowing upon your situation and be a woman.



I totally agree with u RazorbladeKiss, also u say u did not planned 2 be pregnant well no one does but at the end of the day u got 2 do what u got 2 do, I know many young girls now woman back in the days n never work weekend come they were ready to party leave their kids with their mom or who ever just 2 go clubbing, one thing though if u are happy with your kid then u got nothing 2 be ashamed of but stop the crying at list u got a job n u can feed your child regardless of what PPL think of say u made the choice of having sex n giving it up at early age so just deal with it n thank god u live in Canada..



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I don't knor why you're so tucked off. The goverment has lots of porgram do young mothers now then 13 years ago when I was a dad. I went to school and work just like you and I don't complain what people say or said, they didn't pay for my bills and rent I was 17 when my son was born and como homber I took my responsablity I have never got help from the gov and never will cause as long as I have my hand and feet I don't need them....

Also not to be rude but you spred your legs you got to suffer the heat.

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I had my baby when I was 16 . He is the best that ever happaned to me. I consider myself to be a good young mom. I go to highschool and work part-time. At the same time I have all the time for my son, but why must us teenage moms be viewed as irresponsible ?cryEvery where I go I tell people about my little man. All I get are stupid comments and stupid expressions by people as if I'm not capable of being a good young parent . Other adults should rather understand us and at least help us in our situations . Not all of us planned to be pregnant at a young age. You have no idea how hard it us for us to go through our situations day by day. I wish adults, school teachers and the gorvernment can do much more for us single young moms.



Before i give i the heads up ....I may come off as a total a$$hole for saying this but its only the honest truth...

The fact the you had sex without taking care of yourself ...already shows how irresponsible you were to begin with, and at the same time it also shows your big time level of immaturity to even deal with the ****hole that you already put your head into....Dont even give me that BS that schools and the government dont do enough for you young retards (who think poping kids is just like poping cherrys)  Schools nowadays give proper sex education to help prevent you young chicken head teens from getting pregnant....I take it that you either gave two ****s about sex class or you were just cought up in the moment spreading your legs without knowing how much of a hell hole your life could be for many many years.....and the government?????if anything they do more then enough by acting like the baby dads for zillionssss of you teenage moms ..sending you $$$$ for mothers allowance on a monthly bases....and welfare on top of that...(which pisses me and countless others off cause alot of our taxes are thrown into the dirt to help the big mess you all put yourselves into) Like for f*ck sakes they even give out free condoms and even Freeee piils now at public health centers!! what more do you want??????? and tell me why should adults have to understand you and others in your situation? ....if you ask me its not fair for adults to have to play the double role now parent/grandparent  for teens with babies......You yourself are still considered a "baby" in our world of today.....at your age you should be doing what any normal teenage kid does.....highschool go out friends etc etc its the age where you are still growing up and trying to find yourself ...what im trying to say is that at your age the leasssssssssssssssst thing you need to worry about is having to raise another child cause like i said before you yourself are still a child......But whats done is done ..you bascially screwed yourself so deep that you must now have to learn everything the hard way....forget about parties all ages and going out with your friends....cause your baby is now your first priority.....now about your education? ....good luck on trying to juggle the responsibilites of highschool work and being a mom.....even worse going to college or university later..dunno how that will work out for you ....

No one else is to blame for your situation other then you ...therefore you must already do some major growing up and except and deal with the stuggles that are to come in your life down the road.....if you ask me you already have tons of help around you just look a little deeper .....theres nothing more anyone else can do....i hope your child will end up being raised in a good way ...im not even sure if your baby dad is still in the picture ?? if he has some decency and morals he will help and take on his responsibilities as a man ....

honestly i may be a lil too straight up at times but hearing people like this upsets me like you have no idea......todavia en este pais diciendo que no hay la suficientemente ayuda para poder "comprender" sus situaciones que el gobierno no hace mucho por ellas.....ya quisiera verles en mi ecuador o en cualquiera de los paises de ustedes ..aver si el gobierno muestra un pequeno pedaso de interes en sus problems ......algunas tias mias fueron madres solteras y aun asi pudieron lograr criarlos a sus hijos de una buena forma sin casi pedir la ayuda de NADIE...

seriously we should have some sord of law that imposes all young teen girls in our society to get neutered ASAP!!!.....im telling you guys the amount of young b!tches nowadays having kids is ridiculous and tooooooo much ....the only thing it does is place a continuous burden on our already f!cked up society that we live in



-- Edited by DannyC at 11:50, 2008-09-11

dude for once I agree with you, me quitastes las palabras de la boca!biggrin



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proudmami2nv wrote:

I had my baby when I was 16 . He is the best that ever happaned to me. I consider myself to be a good young mom. I go to highschool and work part-time. At the same time I have all the time for my son, but why must us teenage moms be viewed as irresponsible ?cryEvery where I go I tell people about my little man. All I get are stupid comments and stupid expressions by people as if I'm not capable of being a good young parent . Other adults should rather understand us and at least help us in our situations . Not all of us planned to be pregnant at a young age. You have no idea how hard it us for us to go through our situations day by day. I wish adults, school teachers and the gorvernment can do much more for us single young moms.



Before i give i the heads up ....I may come off as a total a$$hole for saying this but its only the honest truth...

The fact the you had sex without taking care of yourself ...already shows how irresponsible you were to begin with, and at the same time it also shows your big time level of immaturity to even deal with the ****hole that you already put your head into....Dont even give me that BS that schools and the government dont do enough for you young retards (who think poping kids is just like poping cherrys)  Schools nowadays give proper sex education to help prevent you young chicken head teens from getting pregnant....I take it that you either gave two ****s about sex class or you were just cought up in the moment spreading your legs without knowing how much of a hell hole your life could be for many many years.....and the government?????if anything they do more then enough by acting like the baby dads for zillionssss of you teenage moms ..sending you $$$$ for mothers allowance on a monthly bases....and welfare on top of that...(which pisses me and countless others off cause alot of our taxes are thrown into the dirt to help the big mess you all put yourselves into) Like for f*ck sakes they even give out free condoms and even Freeee piils now at public health centers!! what more do you want??????? and tell me why should adults have to understand you and others in your situation? ....if you ask me its not fair for adults to have to play the double role now parent/grandparent  for teens with babies......You yourself are still considered a "baby" in our world of today.....at your age you should be doing what any normal teenage kid does.....highschool go out friends etc etc its the age where you are still growing up and trying to find yourself ...what im trying to say is that at your age the leasssssssssssssssst thing you need to worry about is having to raise another child cause like i said before you yourself are still a child......But whats done is done ..you bascially screwed yourself so deep that you must now have to learn everything the hard way....forget about parties all ages and going out with your friends....cause your baby is now your first priority.....now about your education? ....good luck on trying to juggle the responsibilites of highschool work and being a mom.....even worse going to college or university later..dunno how that will work out for you ....

No one else is to blame for your situation other then you ...therefore you must already do some major growing up and except and deal with the stuggles that are to come in your life down the road.....if you ask me you already have tons of help around you just look a little deeper .....theres nothing more anyone else can do....i hope your child will end up being raised in a good way ...im not even sure if your baby dad is still in the picture ?? if he has some decency and morals he will help and take on his responsibilities as a man ....

honestly i may be a lil too straight up at times but hearing people like this upsets me like you have no idea......todavia en este pais diciendo que no hay la suficientemente ayuda para poder "comprender" sus situaciones que el gobierno no hace mucho por ellas.....ya quisiera verles en mi ecuador o en cualquiera de los paises de ustedes ..aver si el gobierno muestra un pequeno pedaso de interes en sus problems ......algunas tias mias fueron madres solteras y aun asi pudieron lograr criarlos a sus hijos de una buena forma sin casi pedir la ayuda de NADIE...

seriously we should have some sord of law that imposes all young teen girls in our society to get neutered ASAP!!!.....im telling you guys the amount of young b!tches nowadays having kids is ridiculous and tooooooo much ....the only thing it does is place a continuous burden on our already f!cked up society that we live in



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Depends on the condom.  shrug.gif





so my theories COULD hold. maybe it was one of those super thin japanese ones.





Or low quality seran wrap no.gif

shrug.gif





 hmm. i think she might have felt the seran wrap tho.  i get the feeling that a girl could tell if someone was doing her with seran wrap


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Depends on the condom.  shrug.gif





so my theories COULD hold. maybe it was one of those super thin japanese ones.





Or low quality seran wrap no.gif

shrug.gif

 




 hmm. i think she might have felt the seran wrap tho.  i get the feeling that a girl could tell if someone was doing her with seran wrap

 

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Depends on the condom.  shrug.gif





so my theories COULD hold. maybe it was one of those super thin japanese ones.





Or low quality seran wrap no.gif

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Depends on the condom.  shrug.gif





so my theories COULD hold. maybe it was one of those super thin japanese ones.





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so my theories COULD hold. maybe it was one of those super thin japanese ones.


 



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can girls tell when condoms are not worn though? i'm guessing so.



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can girls tell when condoms are not worn though? i'm guessing so.

 



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I had my baby when I was 16 . He is the best that ever happaned to me. I consider myself to be a good young mom. I go to highschool and work part-time. At the same time I have all the time for my son, but why must us teenage moms be viewed as irresponsible?cryEvery where I go I tell people about my little man. All I get are stupid comments and stupid expressions by people as if I'm not capable of being a good young parent . Other adults should rather understand us and at least help us in our situations . Not all of us planned to be pregnant at a young age. You have no idea how hard it us for us to go through our situations day by day. I wish adults, school teachers and the gorvernment can do much more for us single young moms.




 Look....If you are happy with what you are doing as mom/person/student/worker..

 

Who give a flying rat arse what ppl thinks...they only one is gonna reconigze that, is your kid...don't try to make people happy....they will never be...

 

 



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Maybe that's a new fake account; but still...

I think the government does help a lot and gives young moms a chance to go to school... I am not very familiar, but look/ask around.

Many single moms (not just young ones) go to school and work part time to make ends meet... like the rest, you will just have to do what you need to do in order to raise your child and make it in life... It's not easy, but you are not the first nor the last one in this predicament - Continue to work hard and think of your kid to inspire you and give you courage to go on and get ahead.

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maybe he told her "just the tip" and then went premature on her.




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maybe he blindfolded her and said he was wearing a condom but then didn't.




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maybe he was doing her from behind and then he took off the domer without her noticing. sneaky..

lol. i am reaching here.




Maybe they were both drunk



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I'm with Razorblade person, yes it' s sounds harsh but overall I think like u.

Plus why should she expect/demand any help from any1, she got into this herself, ahorra que se las arregle sola!!!!!

None the less life is a Biacth.

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maybe he was doing her from behind and then he took off the domer without her noticing. sneaky..

lol. i am reaching here.

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maybe the condom broke, or something....

but i guess, in that case, theres the after morning pill which you can get without a prescription now


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Well I'm gonna sound like a total B*tch to you, but I have no pity whatsoever for teen moms. Because they were old enough to spread their legs without protection but they are not old enough to suck it up and take care of their responsibility. Where's the baby daddy in all this? Stop your whinning about us adults frowing upon your situation and be a woman.



mas puuuuuut@!!!!

but u r right in a way hmm

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Well I'm gonna sound like a total B*tch to you, but I have no pity whatsoever for teen moms. Because they were old enough to spread their legs without protection but they are not old enough to suck it up and take care of their responsibility. Where's the baby daddy in all this? Stop your whinning about us adults frowing upon your situation and be a woman.



mas puuuuuut@!!!!

but u r right in a way hmm

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Que quieres que le diga "pobrecita tiene un bebe y se acaba de dar cuenta lo dificil que es.."  Pero no fue dificil para ella de estar abriendo las piernas al tipo que la preño!



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Well I'm gonna sound like a total B*tch to you, but I have no pity whatsoever for teen moms. Because they were old enough to spread their legs without protection but they are not old enough to suck it up and take care of their responsibility. Where's the baby daddy in all this? Stop your whinning about us adults frowing upon your situation and be a woman.



mas puuuuuut@!!!!

but u r right in a way hmm

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Well I'm gonna sound like a total B*tch to you, but I have no pity whatsoever for teen moms. Because they were old enough to spread their legs without protection but they are not old enough to suck it up and take care of their responsibility. Where's the baby daddy in all this? Stop your whinning about us adults frowing upon your situation and be a woman.


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hey single mom y so angry?

not to be mean or anything but if "life gives u lemons learn how to make lemonade"

life is hard no matter who u r and I'm sure it gets a lot harder with a kid, is just too bad u had to experience it so young, I'm not sure what kind of help u r looking for but i seen that schools and the government do a lot for people that r in situations just like urs.

just remember that u put urself in this predicament and now u are gonna have to work hard to get out of it..... y do u think older people are always giving advice about life? because they know how hard it is..... I'm sure u where told about having a kid early and to be careful and protect urself.... like i said before nothing u can do now but work hard like many other single moms had and are doing it at the moment.

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I had my baby when I was 16 . He is the best that ever happaned to me. I consider myself to be a good young mom. I go to highschool and work part-time. At the same time I have all the time for my son, but why must us teenage moms be viewed as irresponsible?cryEvery where I go I tell people about my little man. All I get are stupid comments and stupid expressions by people as if I'm not capable of being a good young parent . Other adults should rather understand us and at least help us in our situations . Not all of us planned to be pregnant at a young age. You have no idea how hard it us for us to go through our situations day by day. I wish adults, school teachers and the gorvernment can do much more for us single young moms.


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