My mom and dad separated when I was 12 and I have been living with him since then. I never felt jelous and I really want him to get a partner for life. The feelings for my mom , well it was a different situation , now I can say I feel nada. She has done whatever she wants and will always do.
I went through this as a kid. Although i knew my mother had good reasons to not be with my dad, it still bothered me when she re-married. I actually did not start getting along with my stepfather till after i had my first daughter.
And now my oldest seems to be going through this. Although i have to say she likes the person I am with now. I made sure that I wasnt parading all types of ppl around in front of her. And i made sure that she met the person im with when SHE was good and ready. The younger one i dont think really realizes much of what is going on, but she likes him as well.
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when i was younger i would say yes but now as i get older i see that that would be selfish of me.... i know i wouldn't like it but at the same time i wouldn't say anything.... i don't want her to be alone the rest of her life.....