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A close friend of mine went through this not to long ago , she was two months pregnant. No one can relate to this unless you have been through the experience. She was devastated and so was her husband. She needs to get professional help , maybe right now whe can't talk about her feelings because it is very hard , but give her time and once she starts talking that will be a sign that she is starting to heal from inside. Look in the internet , there is some website that can help her go through this. Do not ask her anything about it , just be there for her.

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she's like a sister to me and it hurts  to watch her go through that. Her bf told me she doesn't want to eat and he forces her to eat a bit. She's an emotional wreck right now....




maybe she needs to talk to some1 get everything out of her system.

 

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she's like a sister to me and it hurts  to watch her go through that. Her bf told me she doesn't want to eat and he forces her to eat a bit. She's an emotional wreck right now....

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wow that's so sad...... i know people that have been trying for a long time and i know if something like this was to happen to them it would be the end of the world....... I hope ur friend is strong enough to move on from this.

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well i'm sorry for your friend... i was ones in a situation like the 8 years ago my girlfriend at the time was preg and she lost ithe baby, it was the worst feeling ever. what i did was i went out and played soccer to keep my mind active u got to find out what she like to do to keep her active

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I just went to check on her, she's very depressed, she's not moving from her bed. cry

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Thats the worst feeling ever! cry



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Her bf called her an hour ago and she has her cell phone off, he called me to check on her...cry



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5 years of trying? wow
If she want's it so bad, I think it might be time to take a look at a fertility clinic
Also, It's hard for me to relate, because I've never been in that situation, nor do i know anyone in that situation. (I mean I know people that have had miscarriages, but no one that fell into a deep depression because of it) but I can understand it, and I guess it would also be a bit different/more intense for a woman

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My gf was so happy because after 5 years of trying she finally got pregnant, but 2 nights ago she had severe cramps and she started to bleed, she miscarried. She's now extremely depressed and I tried everything to cheer her up...I'm afraid she might do something stupid. Her bf is scared too, she just lays in bed and cries. cry Do you or did you know anyone in this situation?

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