have: 2 want: as many as i could (donde comen dos comen tres) ive been wantin kids since i was 18! BUT it is the woman who carries it and bein in that hospital room with mimujer , seein her suffer, seein her body change and this n that, i think ima get my thing snipped. boy first than girl i think is blessed :) PLUS we have the worldvision girl from indonesia n plannin on adoptin an animal, so that'll keep us full.
How many do you want? umm 2 sets of twins but I will settle with 1 or even adopt
@JOKER: CONGRATULATIONSSSSSSSSSSSSSS =)
Oh Thank u DG See U have miss so much LoL
@Colo: Yes I am a proud papa now LoL Thank u.... It was about time antes que me quede viejito LoL Like they say in my country antes que me deje el tren LoL
Boy, girl? Im still in shock. I guess cause we didnt even know you were attached????
Its a Boy LoL I have his pictures in my Facebook u can see them there... LoL Well I keep it very quiete cause u know foro PPL some times talk 2 mucho so I just keep it in the low...
JOKER...Is your baby using GLASS bottles? VERY IMPORTANT!!!
So anyway I want antoher baby!!! I really, really do. It's strange because I didn't think I even wanted one. I just want to wait a bit. Right now we still have a bit of a life because my parents like to take her once in a while and we can pretty much take her anywhere. I know with two...life will be all about kids.
Oh yeah We change the bottles we had as a gift some plastic ones they had toxic material so we change them... Thank you...
How many do you want? umm 2 sets of twins but I will settle with 1 or even adopt
@JOKER: CONGRATULATIONSSSSSSSSSSSSSS =)
Oh Thank u DG See U have miss so much LoL
@Colo: Yes I am a proud papa now LoL Thank u.... It was about time antes que me quede viejito LoL Like they say in my country antes que me deje el tren LoL
Boy, girl? Im still in shock. I guess cause we didnt even know you were attached????
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JOKER...Is your baby using GLASS bottles? VERY IMPORTANT!!!
So anyway I want antoher baby!!! I really, really do. It's strange because I didn't think I even wanted one. I just want to wait a bit. Right now we still have a bit of a life because my parents like to take her once in a while and we can pretty much take her anywhere. I know with two...life will be all about kids.
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How many do you want? umm 2 sets of twins but I will settle with 1 or even adopt
@JOKER: CONGRATULATIONSSSSSSSSSSSSSS =)
Oh Thank u DG See U have miss so much LoL
@Colo: Yes I am a proud papa now LoL Thank u.... It was about time antes que me quede viejito LoL Like they say in my country antes que me deje el tren LoL
antes que se te seque la leche!
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How many do you want? umm 2 sets of twins but I will settle with 1 or even adopt
@JOKER: CONGRATULATIONSSSSSSSSSSSSSS =)
Oh Thank u DG See U have miss so much LoL
@Colo: Yes I am a proud papa now LoL Thank u.... It was about time antes que me quede viejito LoL Like they say in my country antes que me deje el tren LoL
Dogo wrote: No, of course not, but I don't think any parent -as rewarding as it is to be one- wouldn't recognize that it's draining. Sleepless nights, stress, worries, etc. It also puts quite a bit of stress on the parents relationship. Specially in the early years It's hard enough to do it with one. At least that has been my experience (maybe because of my particular situation or personality. I dunno)
I don't think anybody is prepared, or knows how much WORK it is to be a parent, until you become one. I definitely don't regret being a parent, but I can't not recognize that it's a crap-load of work, at every level. (hope that answers your Q as well, Chuck)
Yes, it IS a sh itload of work - like realizing there is no formula at 3:00 am and going to buy it, taking baby to hospital 'cause of a high fever, etc... Thankfully, mine slept pretty well through the night and didn't give us too many sleepless nights or really gave us much stress in the early (baby) years... If I knew all my kids are gonna be like that, I'd have 20!
I think it's situation/personality, Pogo. Personally, I honestly think that's the only good thing I've ever done in my life... or maybe not the only good thing, but the one that's given me the most satisfaction (being a parent, I mean). But I guess it helps that I like my kids as people, not just as my kids. There aren't three people in the world I rather spend my time with than those three (again, big baby included). They're tons of fun to hang out with.
Totally agree, and feel the same way. That doesn't take away the fact that they are a lot of work and quite a bit of sacrifice. That is the only point I was trying to make
-- Edited by Dogo at 17:11, 2008-06-24
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Dogo wrote: No, of course not, but I don't think any parent -as rewarding as it is to be one- wouldn't recognize that it's draining. Sleepless nights, stress, worries, etc. It also puts quite a bit of stress on the parents relationship. Specially in the early years It's hard enough to do it with one. At least that has been my experience (maybe because of my particular situation or personality. I dunno)
I don't think anybody is prepared, or knows how much WORK it is to be a parent, until you become one. I definitely don't regret being a parent, but I can't not recognize that it's a crap-load of work, at every level. (hope that answers your Q as well, Chuck)
Yes, it IS a sh itload of work - like realizing there is no formula at 3:00 am and going to buy it, taking baby to hospital 'cause of a high fever, etc... Thankfully, mine slept pretty well through the night and didn't give us too many sleepless nights or really gave us much stress in the early (baby) years... If I knew all my kids are gonna be like that, I'd have 20!
I think it's situation/personality, Pogo. Personally, I honestly think that's the only good thing I've ever done in my life... or maybe not the only good thing, but the one that's given me the most satisfaction (being a parent, I mean). But I guess it helps that I like my kids as people, not just as my kids. There aren't three people in the world I rather spend my time with than those three (again, big baby included). They're tons of fun to hang out with.
That is cuz your kids are FUNNY!!!
Buffster JR jr: Um Mrs Chilenita I am old enough to pour my own juice now...but thanks.....
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I think it's situation/personality, Pogo. Personally, I honestly think that's the only good thing I've ever done in my life... or maybe not the only good thing, but the one that's given me the most satisfaction (being a parent, I mean). But I guess it helps that I like my kids as people, not just as my kids. There aren't three people in the world I rather spend my time with than those three (again, big baby included). They're tons of fun to hang out with.
Too bad the feeling isn't mutual!!
YEAH, I'm with you... I feel it's the most rewarding/gratifying feeling to spend time with my lil cachorra... I (we?) just need to remember this when we're having an off day (i.e.: when they get on our nerves and are being the lil bratts that they can be!)
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Dogo wrote: No, of course not, but I don't think any parent -as rewarding as it is to be one- wouldn't recognize that it's draining. Sleepless nights, stress, worries, etc. It also puts quite a bit of stress on the parents relationship. Specially in the early years It's hard enough to do it with one. At least that has been my experience (maybe because of my particular situation or personality. I dunno)
I don't think anybody is prepared, or knows how much WORK it is to be a parent, until you become one. I definitely don't regret being a parent, but I can't not recognize that it's a crap-load of work, at every level. (hope that answers your Q as well, Chuck)
Yes, it IS a sh itload of work - like realizing there is no formula at 3:00 am and going to buy it, taking baby to hospital 'cause of a high fever, etc... Thankfully, mine slept pretty well through the night and didn't give us too many sleepless nights or really gave us much stress in the early (baby) years... If I knew all my kids are gonna be like that, I'd have 20!
I think it's situation/personality, Pogo. Personally, I honestly think that's the only good thing I've ever done in my life... or maybe not the only good thing, but the one that's given me the most satisfaction (being a parent, I mean). But I guess it helps that I like my kids as people, not just as my kids. There aren't three people in the world I rather spend my time with than those three (again, big baby included). They're tons of fun to hang out with.
Chuck wrote: financially . . . understood. but emotionally? what do you mean?
I think he mentioned not quite having a lot of patience con los chipmunks somewhere ... but I am sure he wouldn't trade being daddy for the world too.
No, of course not, but I don't think any parent -as rewarding as it is to be one- wouldn't recognize that it's draining. Sleepless nights, stress, worries, etc. It also puts quite a bit of stress on the parents relationship. Specially in the early years It's hard enough to do it with one. At least that has been my experience (maybe because of my particular situation or personality. I dunno)
I don't think anybody is prepared, or knows how much WORK it is to be a parent, until you become one. I definitely don't regret being a parent, but I can't not recognize that it's a crap-load of work, at every level. (hope that answers your Q as well, Chuck)
No, of course not, but I don't think any parent -as rewarding as it is to be one- wouldn't recognize that it's draining. Sleepless nights, stress, worries, etc. It also puts quite a bit of stress on the parents relationship. Specially in the early years It's hard enough to do it with one. At least that has been my experience (maybe because of my particular situation or personality. I dunno)
I don't think anybody is prepared, or knows how much WORK it is to be a parent, until you become one. I definitely don't regret being a parent, but I can't not recognize that it's a crap-load of work, at every level. (hope that answers your Q as well, Chuck)
Yes, it IS a sh itload of work - like realizing there is no formula at 3:00 am and going to buy it, taking baby to hospital 'cause of a high fever, etc... Thankfully, mine slept pretty well through the night and didn't give us too many sleepless nights or really gave us much stress in the early (baby) years... If I knew all my kids are gonna be like that, I'd have 20!
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@Joker: Enjoy all the little things now 'cause time flies and next thing you know he'll be off to highschool... I remember wishing she'd get bigger, start crawling, start walking, start talking, etc, etc... I sometimes now wish she was back to being a baby.
Yes I am enjoying it so much bro I really am I know time flys so fast n just the other day I was thinking wow 4 months ago I was so worry n thinking when is he going to come out...
@ Dogo: I gree with u bro no one is prepare for what comes, my son had 2 be in the hospital for 2 months cause of some complications n it was the hardes thing in my life, but hey now that he is ok n out of the hospital n doing his baby things is all good... even thought no sleep no more LoL but it changes your life 380 now he comes firts to what ever I do or think....
@Joker: Enjoy all the little things now 'cause time flies and next thing you know he'll be off to highschool... I remember wishing she'd get bigger, start crawling, start walking, start talking, etc, etc... I sometimes now wish she was back to being a baby.
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Chuck wrote: financially . . . understood. but emotionally? what do you mean?
I think he mentioned not quite having a lot of patience con los chipmunks somewhere ... but I am sure he wouldn't trade being daddy for the world too.
No, of course not, but I don't think any parent -as rewarding as it is to be one- wouldn't recognize that it's draining. Sleepless nights, stress, worries, etc. It also puts quite a bit of stress on the parents relationship. Specially in the early years It's hard enough to do it with one. At least that has been my experience (maybe because of my particular situation or personality. I dunno)
I don't think anybody is prepared, or knows how much WORK it is to be a parent, until you become one. I definitely don't regret being a parent, but I can't not recognize that it's a crap-load of work, at every level. (hope that answers your Q as well, Chuck)
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Well I am a new dad n well is hard is really hard to be honest but u know what is all worth it man just a smile from that little man is all it takes 2 get me happy is like I cant describe it every new thing he does 2 me is a big deal even though it not LoL
No mas espera uno de estos dias que le vas a cambiar el pamper y te chisguetea en tu cara
Eso todabia no a pasado pero aunque pase sera algo para reirse despues...
Well I am a new dad n well is hard is really hard to be honest but u know what is all worth it man just a smile from that little man is all it takes 2 get me happy is like I cant describe it every new thing he does 2 me is a big deal even though it not LoL
No mas espera uno de estos dias que le vas a cambiar el pamper y te chisguetea en tu cara
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Well I am a new dad n well is hard is really hard to be honest but u know what is all worth it man just a smile from that little man is all it takes 2 get me happy is like I cant describe it every new thing he does 2 me is a big deal even though it not LoL
i guess another question is, how many can you afford nowadays? not only about money but also about time. with work, the house, marriage, and the number of priorites involved, the number of childen you wish to have becomes an issue.
Important question I think because there are tons of people who have kids without thinking of that.
Kids are so expensive but they are also time consumming so how many can you have while still focusing on them like you should...that's the question.
My baby girl has not started dance or soccer yet but once she does it will take up at least two days at a week at first. I only have so much time.
For the average person, I'd say: one. both emotionally and financially
I think it's always good to have more than one kiddo... someone close to the same age so they keep each other company and have someone else at home to play with, fight with, grow up together and team up on mom and dad!
If I had the finances, I'd have "as many as God would bless me with" - give me a full dozen, I'll take 'em. sure, raising them is not easy and as they grow older, the troubles they bring you get bigger as well. But playing dad is great and probably brings me the best joys in life.
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i guess another question is, how many can you afford nowadays? not only about money but also about time. with work, the house, marriage, and the number of priorites involved, the number of childen you wish to have becomes an issue.
Important question I think because there are tons of people who have kids without thinking of that.
Kids are so expensive but they are also time consumming so how many can you have while still focusing on them like you should...that's the question.
My baby girl has not started dance or soccer yet but once she does it will take up at least two days at a week at first. I only have so much time.
For the average person, I'd say: one. both emotionally and financially
financially . . . understood. but emotionally? what do you mean?
i guess another question is, how many can you afford nowadays? not only about money but also about time. with work, the house, marriage, and the number of priorites involved, the number of childen you wish to have becomes an issue.
Important question I think because there are tons of people who have kids without thinking of that.
Kids are so expensive but they are also time consumming so how many can you have while still focusing on them like you should...that's the question.
My baby girl has not started dance or soccer yet but once she does it will take up at least two days at a week at first. I only have so much time.
For the average person, I'd say: one. both emotionally and financially
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How many do you want? I would LUV 4, but will settle with 2 for sure.
would any of you considering adopting as an option? Would LUV too, if I can afford it.
You want 4 chimpayates, you better start now chica....got to motivate who ever your partner is.........hey I want four too, got to work on the next three....for one already runs around with my genes
i guess another question is, how many can you afford nowadays? not only about money but also about time. with work, the house, marriage, and the number of priorites involved, the number of childen you wish to have becomes an issue.
Important question I think because there are tons of people who have kids without thinking of that.
Kids are so expensive but they are also time consumming so how many can you have while still focusing on them like you should...that's the question.
My baby girl has not started dance or soccer yet but once she does it will take up at least two days at a week at first. I only have so much time.
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Raising kids is more than a F/T job... it's a 24/7 job... specially when they are younger. No evenings and weekends OFF... more like you're on duty or on call all the time. LOL
Raising kids is more than a F/T job... it's a 24/7 job... specially when they are younger. No evenings and weekends OFF... more like you're on duty or on call all the time. LOL
vive la liberte!
Hopefully the lil scare tought you la lesson!
can't wait to tight my tubes!
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Raising kids is more than a F/T job... it's a 24/7 job... specially when they are younger. No evenings and weekends OFF... more like you're on duty or on call all the time. LOL
vive la liberte!
Hopefully the lil scare tought you la lesson!
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Raising kids is more than a F/T job... it's a 24/7 job... specially when they are younger. No evenings and weekends OFF... more like you're on duty or on call all the time. LOL
vive la liberte!
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